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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I currently have a married FWB who has mentioned an old ex once or twice. She just disclosed that he messaged her again in the last few days. I would love to encourage her to fuck him again but I don’t want to push the situation. Any suggestions welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand the dilemma. What situation are you pushing?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Her to fuck him again but with my knowledge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you encourage her to sleep with him again? Surely he's an ex for a reason?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She mentioned last year before he came back in contact that she quite liked him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Her to fuck him again but with my knowledge "

How do you mean your knowledge? Is she your sub? If you're purely FWB what does it matter? At end of the day your a side piece yourself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She mentioned last year before he came back in contact that she quite liked him"

Well yes I guess she would of liked him other wise she wouldn't have been in a relationship with him?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Good point well made

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good point well made "

So she's married and has a FWB whilst also in contact with an EX. I'm not understanding why you feel that you're the one pushing a situation of them meeting. Why not chance your luck n go for the spit roast with you and the EX?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That would be the dream scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"That would be the dream scenario "

So do you have a dom sub relationship going on? Just wondering where you get the impression of you giving her permission to fuck him "with your knowledge" as you say

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s just something we joke about together from time to time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s just something we joke about together from time to time."

Joke. Why do u think u need to give her permission then? Or push her with your knowledge as u say?

I'm calling Bill shit buddy. This is a total fantasy for you is it not?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She mentioned previously that she kinda liked him and if they still worked together they could easily end up fucking again. We then started to see each other and he messaged her out of the blue a few weeks back. That’s it. No permission required I just think it would be hot if they fucked again but with me knowing it was going to happen. That’s all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She mentioned previously that she kinda liked him and if they still worked together they could easily end up fucking again. We then started to see each other and he messaged her out of the blue a few weeks back. That’s it. No permission required I just think it would be hot if they fucked again but with me knowing it was going to happen. That’s all "

This could be a week of night shift talking. But you seem determined to have her fuck her EX. Why don't you see if you can watch in a cuckold scenario. I get impression that you may like that

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think I might be leaning that way too

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"It’s just something we joke about together from time to time.

Joke. Why do u think u need to give her permission then? Or push her with your knowledge as u say?

I'm calling Bill shit buddy. This is a total fantasy for you is it not?"

Knowledge isn't permission. It just means he knows when she's going to fuck him as apposed to her just doing it and not telling him. Presumably her husband is in the latter camp for both fucks

I don't understand why you're so stuck on them being in s D/s dynamic Judy because he said with his knowledge.

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln


"Her to fuck him again but with my knowledge "

I think her husband would like to have a knowledge about you fucking her. You can start there and see if it turns you on just as much

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask.

Hey girl, you wanna fuck that dude?

Her : yes!

You: I bet he wouldn’t……

And watch and see what she does

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This post just annoys the shit out of me for so many reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This post just annoys the shit out of me for so many reasons. "

Come on give us a couple at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This post just annoys the shit out of me for so many reasons. "

A lot of things annoy me on fab. I just don’t voice it.

#thinkpositive

I pretend your all Ai, and your testing my patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This post just annoys the shit out of me for so many reasons.

A lot of things annoy me on fab. I just don’t voice it.

#thinkpositive

I pretend your all Ai, and your testing my patience "

Apart from voicing it this time.

#contradiction.

Thanks for making me special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This post just annoys the shit out of me for so many reasons.

A lot of things annoy me on fab. I just don’t voice it.

#thinkpositive

I pretend your all Ai, and your testing my patience

Apart from voicing it this time.

#contradiction.

Thanks for making me special. "

Reading that back, sound aweful. It sounded amusing in my head.

***I pretend your all Ai, and your ALL testing my patience ****

Like a social experiment. Context helps I suppose. Sorry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I currently have a married FWB who has mentioned an old ex once or twice. She just disclosed that he messaged her again in the last few days. I would love to encourage her to fuck him again but I don’t want to push the situation. Any suggestions welcome "

Leave her do her thing and stop trying to 'engineer' the scenario

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