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"Six times, same guy? Isn't this on you at this point." What do you mean? He's always begging to meet but when it comes to it, he bails. Quite a few guys do this. Maybe it's me. But I never stress to meet...they do. | |||
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"Six times, same guy? Isn't this on you at this point. What do you mean? He's always begging to meet but when it comes to it, he bails. Quite a few guys do this. Maybe it's me. But I never stress to meet...they do." I mean its entirely your fault at that point. | |||
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"Six times, same guy? Isn't this on you at this point. What do you mean? He's always begging to meet but when it comes to it, he bails. Quite a few guys do this. Maybe it's me. But I never stress to meet...they do. I mean its entirely your fault at that point. " I didn't do anything but ok. | |||
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"6 chances? Well that doesnt seem like the normal behaviour for a woman on here. Methinks something is amiss here and were not getting the full picture. Either that or the cynic in me would think this this is a post for a reasonably attractive woman to have smoke blown up her arse. But surely thats not the case, is it...? " Exactly this. It’s juvenile in its simplicity. “Oh but babe you’re so gorgeous. Anyone would be mad to stand you up” | |||
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"We met a few times but seems like he can get better elsewhere so I'll just leave it at that." Well, you seem lovely, so it's his loss. | |||
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"Six times, same guy? Isn't this on you at this point. What do you mean? He's always begging to meet but when it comes to it, he bails. Quite a few guys do this. Maybe it's me. But I never stress to meet...they do. I mean its entirely your fault at that point. I didn't do anything but ok." He means it’s your fault for giving an imbecile 6 chances in a row. 1 is bad enough 2 should be the block limit . 3/4 it’s obvious guy is playing you | |||
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" On your point, I would never give someone the opportunity to let me down more than once. First time is understandable but more than that they are taking the piss. Cut it and move on " I take a hint very fast. | |||
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"Really have had my fair share of guys just after the chase then cause a lot of them prefer the banter that actually physically meeting." You're allowing that behaviour though. Put some boundaries in place and maybe you will find guys don't treat you like that. | |||
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"Really have had my fair share of guys just after the chase then cause a lot of them prefer the banter that actually physically meeting. You're allowing that behaviour though. Put some boundaries in place and maybe you will find guys don't treat you like that. " I'm just going to block all men that stand be up from now on, it's a lot easier lol | |||
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"Six times, same guy? Isn't this on you at this point. What do you mean? He's always begging to meet but when it comes to it, he bails. Quite a few guys do this. Maybe it's me. But I never stress to meet...they do. I mean its entirely your fault at that point. I didn't do anything but ok." You didn't but you're letting him do it to you which I'd the point this guy is making. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. At some point you need to stop enabling the behaviour of the guy that keeps standing you up. | |||
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"Six times, same guy? Isn't this on you at this point. What do you mean? He's always begging to meet but when it comes to it, he bails. Quite a few guys do this. Maybe it's me. But I never stress to meet...they do. I mean its entirely your fault at that point. I didn't do anything but ok. You didn't but you're letting him do it to you which I'd the point this guy is making. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. At some point you need to stop enabling the behaviour of the guy that keeps standing you up. " Well he is a weirdo apparently. So I blocked him. | |||
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"Really have had my fair share of guys just after the chase then cause a lot of them prefer the banter that actually physically meeting. You're allowing that behaviour though. Put some boundaries in place and maybe you will find guys don't treat you like that. I'm just going to block all men that stand be up from now on, it's a lot easier lol " Sounds good. | |||
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"Really have had my fair share of guys just after the chase then cause a lot of them prefer the banter that actually physically meeting." Lots and lots of us have this same story. I’ve come to realise the forum and the actual sex catalogue where people meet is two different things. | |||
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"Been stood up 6 times in a row by a guy. Keeps making excuses that he has the kids or something important cane up. They might as well have no balls. Why do they demand a meet constantly then when it come to meeting they bail?? Guys...you do know women can easily get other men right away right??" Are you serious Six times …. More fool you Once … yeah give home a second chance twice never again more than this I’m sorry but you’re a mug | |||
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"Really have had my fair share of guys just after the chase then cause a lot of them prefer the banter that actually physically meeting. Lots and lots of us have this same story. I’ve come to realise the forum and the actual sex catalogue where people meet is two different things. " There's a sex catalogue? | |||
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"It's not a gender issue, it's a shitty people issue. I don't understand as why as 'adults' we can't just communicate. If they aren't feeling it anymore the cool but ghosting or letting people down isn't the way to handle yourself on here. Most of the reasons why I don't meet anymore is because of this. On your point, I would never give someone the opportunity to let me down more than once. First time is understandable but more than that they are taking the piss. Cut it and move on " | |||
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"Why are you giving him 6 chances to mess you about? " I'm thinking the same! 2 strikes and they'd be out for me.... | |||
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"Been stood up 6 times in a row by a guy. Keeps making excuses that he has the kids or something important cane up. They might as well have no balls. Why do they demand a meet constantly then when it come to meeting they bail?? Guys...you do know women can easily get other men right away right?? Are you serious Six times …. More fool you Once … yeah give home a second chance twice never again more than this I’m sorry but you’re a mug " Name calling isn't very nice but thank you x | |||
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"Been stood up 6 times in a row by a guy. Keeps making excuses that he has the kids or something important cane up. They might as well have no balls. Why do they demand a meet constantly then when it come to meeting they bail?? Guys...you do know women can easily get other men right away right?? Are you serious Six times …. More fool you Once … yeah give home a second chance twice never again more than this I’m sorry but you’re a mug Name calling isn't very nice but thank you x" He's called you a mug and you've still said thank you with an x? I'm getting the sense that you don't have enough confidence to push back when others don't treat you with respect. | |||
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"We met a few times but seems like he can get better elsewhere so I'll just leave it at that." So you've met him several times, then he stands you up repeatedly and are still willing to make plans to meet again? He may feel he can get better elsewhere. There may be valid reasons why he has to cancel last minute - which we'll never know. He may feel that as he's been able to ditch a meet before and still make future plans with you that there's not actually an issue and that he isn't aware you're frustrated because you still keep agreeing to meet. Some people have no issue with loose arrangements and last minute changes of plans. There may of course be a reason he keeps bailing that he hasn't told you about. He may well not want to meet again but doesn't want to tell you outright and hopes you'll take the hint and ditch him he he stands you up enough. Some people find that easier to do than be honest. If you keep enabling this behaviour by making future plans with someone who continually lets you down then you have to take some responsibility for what's happening. Cut contact and move on. A | |||
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"Been stood up 6 times in a row by a guy. Keeps making excuses that he has the kids or something important cane up. They might as well have no balls. Why do they demand a meet constantly then when it come to meeting they bail?? Guys...you do know women can easily get other men right away right??" You must really like him to have given 6 chances, you need to be a little more brutal on that...Xx | |||
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"Here’s the thing your missing The guys your picking are the best guys. All the other women are picking them too They didn’t stand you up and sit at home They went with the better option The top guys have plenty of options " "Top guys" don't treat women with this level of disrespect | |||
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"Here’s the thing your missing The guys your picking are the best guys. All the other women are picking them too They didn’t stand you up and sit at home They went with the better option The top guys have plenty of options "Top guys" don't treat women with this level of disrespect " Your wrong there. The top guys get picked for their attractiveness. Not their morals If you find a top guy with morals, marry him But can you blame them? 10% of guys probably get 90% of the meets. They don’t need to have morals | |||
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" "Top guys" don't treat women with this level of disrespect " | |||
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"Here’s the thing your missing The guys your picking are the best guys. All the other women are picking them too They didn’t stand you up and sit at home They went with the better option The top guys have plenty of options "Top guys" don't treat women with this level of disrespect Your wrong there. The top guys get picked for their attractiveness. Not their morals If you find a top guy with morals, marry him But can you blame them? 10% of guys probably get 90% of the meets. They don’t need to have morals " You have a poor opinion of women. I don't know any who will put up with being treated like crap because a guy is attractive. The women I know who have put up with being treated like crap is because they love him. And I've seen that story on here too more than once. | |||
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"Six times, same guy? Isn't this on you at this point. What do you mean? He's always begging to meet but when it comes to it, he bails. Quite a few guys do this. Maybe it's me. But I never stress to meet...they do." I've had this before. Although I do tend to attract men with ASD, depression, anxiety and personality disorders. Hence the multiple chances. Now I'm strictly the world's worst bartender, one shot is all you get. I still get messages from people that have messed me about and even though we had nice chats during the stringalongs I won't meet them. If they are serious I'm at clubs every week. They can turn up there if they have changed and are legit. OP, not everyone is the same as us. I hate wasting time and being led on. For many this is just a "sexy on line game" to wank to. However there are a fair few awesome people on here. Hope you find a few x | |||
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"Here’s the thing your missing The guys your picking are the best guys. All the other women are picking them too They didn’t stand you up and sit at home They went with the better option The top guys have plenty of options " Women will always have more options, it's a fact women get more mail then men. Most of the time women will find hotter guys then the ones that stand them up. | |||
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"Here’s the thing your missing The guys your picking are the best guys. All the other women are picking them too They didn’t stand you up and sit at home They went with the better option The top guys have plenty of options "Top guys" don't treat women with this level of disrespect Your wrong there. The top guys get picked for their attractiveness. Not their morals If you find a top guy with morals, marry him But can you blame them? 10% of guys probably get 90% of the meets. They don’t need to have morals You have a poor opinion of women. I don't know any who will put up with being treated like crap because a guy is attractive. The women I know who have put up with being treated like crap is because they love him. And I've seen that story on here too more than once. " Being treated like crap falls more into the longer term stuff. I’m talking short term stuff like first meets on here. Don’t twist it And my comment says nothing about my opinion of women either, so don’t twist that. The most attractive guys get picked the most. So why can you expect them to value their meets when they get so many offers. People seem to think that a guy stands you up because he’s sat at home doing nothing. It’s more likely that other women said yes to him for the same reason you did, and he just didn’t pick you that night | |||
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"Here’s the thing your missing The guys your picking are the best guys. All the other women are picking them too They didn’t stand you up and sit at home They went with the better option The top guys have plenty of options "Top guys" don't treat women with this level of disrespect Your wrong there. The top guys get picked for their attractiveness. Not their morals If you find a top guy with morals, marry him But can you blame them? 10% of guys probably get 90% of the meets. They don’t need to have morals You have a poor opinion of women. I don't know any who will put up with being treated like crap because a guy is attractive. The women I know who have put up with being treated like crap is because they love him. And I've seen that story on here too more than once. Being treated like crap falls more into the longer term stuff. I’m talking short term stuff like first meets on here. Don’t twist it And my comment says nothing about my opinion of women either, so don’t twist that. The most attractive guys get picked the most. So why can you expect them to value their meets when they get so many offers. People seem to think that a guy stands you up because he’s sat at home doing nothing. It’s more likely that other women said yes to him for the same reason you did, and he just didn’t pick you that night " I judged your opinion on women from your statement that they judge a top guy on attractiveness only. Which is shallow. "The most attractive guys get picked the most. So why can you expect them to value their meets when they get so many offers. " Because it's basic respect for others. | |||
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"Here’s the thing your missing The guys your picking are the best guys. All the other women are picking them too They didn’t stand you up and sit at home They went with the better option The top guys have plenty of options "Top guys" don't treat women with this level of disrespect Your wrong there. The top guys get picked for their attractiveness. Not their morals If you find a top guy with morals, marry him But can you blame them? 10% of guys probably get 90% of the meets. They don’t need to have morals You have a poor opinion of women. I don't know any who will put up with being treated like crap because a guy is attractive. The women I know who have put up with being treated like crap is because they love him. And I've seen that story on here too more than once. Being treated like crap falls more into the longer term stuff. I’m talking short term stuff like first meets on here. Don’t twist it And my comment says nothing about my opinion of women either, so don’t twist that. The most attractive guys get picked the most. So why can you expect them to value their meets when they get so many offers. People seem to think that a guy stands you up because he’s sat at home doing nothing. It’s more likely that other women said yes to him for the same reason you did, and he just didn’t pick you that night I judged your opinion on women from your statement that they judge a top guy on attractiveness only. Which is shallow. "The most attractive guys get picked the most. So why can you expect them to value their meets when they get so many offers. " Because it's basic respect for others. " I think your shallow for assuming when I say top guy I mean only looks Top guys have it all. Looks, charm, body, humour, charism etc | |||
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"I'll always find hot guys so he's not really top guy. No such thing on fab. It's just funny how he keeps coming back and trying it on. As if I'm out of options haha x " Isn’t it even funnier though that with all these options, you keep saying yes? Why is that? | |||
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"I'll always find hot guys so he's not really top guy. No such thing on fab. It's just funny how he keeps coming back and trying it on. As if I'm out of options haha x Isn’t it even funnier though that with all these options, you keep saying yes? Why is that? " Because the excuses are so clever lol but it's nice to know he keeps asking x but I blocked him cause now it's annoying x | |||
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"I'll always find hot guys so he's not really top guy. No such thing on fab. It's just funny how he keeps coming back and trying it on. As if I'm out of options haha x Isn’t it even funnier though that with all these options, you keep saying yes? Why is that? Because the excuses are so clever lol but it's nice to know he keeps asking x but I blocked him cause now it's annoying x" Well good for you. 2 strike rule if you ask me. No one is worth being messed around like that I always tell myself, actions over words. If they wanted to, they would | |||
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"I'll always find hot guys so he's not really top guy. No such thing on fab. It's just funny how he keeps coming back and trying it on. As if I'm out of options haha x " But are you not encouraging his behaviour? | |||
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"Here’s the thing your missing The guys your picking are the best guys. All the other women are picking them too They didn’t stand you up and sit at home They went with the better option The top guys have plenty of options "Top guys" don't treat women with this level of disrespect Your wrong there. The top guys get picked for their attractiveness. Not their morals If you find a top guy with morals, marry him But can you blame them? 10% of guys probably get 90% of the meets. They don’t need to have morals You have a poor opinion of women. I don't know any who will put up with being treated like crap because a guy is attractive. The women I know who have put up with being treated like crap is because they love him. And I've seen that story on here too more than once. Being treated like crap falls more into the longer term stuff. I’m talking short term stuff like first meets on here. Don’t twist it And my comment says nothing about my opinion of women either, so don’t twist that. The most attractive guys get picked the most. So why can you expect them to value their meets when they get so many offers. People seem to think that a guy stands you up because he’s sat at home doing nothing. It’s more likely that other women said yes to him for the same reason you did, and he just didn’t pick you that night I judged your opinion on women from your statement that they judge a top guy on attractiveness only. Which is shallow. "The most attractive guys get picked the most. So why can you expect them to value their meets when they get so many offers. " Because it's basic respect for others. I think your shallow for assuming when I say top guy I mean only looks Top guys have it all. Looks, charm, body, humour, charism etc " Charm, humour, charisma but stands women up for a better offer? Not a top guy. I did interpret attractiveness as looks not because I am shallow but because this site is. We just see the world differently. And men and women differently. | |||
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"I'll always find hot guys so he's not really top guy. No such thing on fab. It's just funny how he keeps coming back and trying it on. As if I'm out of options haha x But are you not encouraging his behaviour? " Yeah I encourage to see what was the next excuse. But now it bored me so I blocked him cause he deserved it. | |||
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"I'll always find hot guys so he's not really top guy. No such thing on fab. It's just funny how he keeps coming back and trying it on. As if I'm out of options haha x Isn’t it even funnier though that with all these options, you keep saying yes? Why is that? Because the excuses are so clever lol but it's nice to know he keeps asking x but I blocked him cause now it's annoying x Well good for you. 2 strike rule if you ask me. No one is worth being messed around like that I always tell myself, actions over words. If they wanted to, they would " Your a character lol | |||
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"In your own words OP. I mainly unintentionally end up with fuckabout fuckboys that fuck around with you by making excuses not to meet, " Literally taken from the OP’s profile. I know it’s a long read but it’s right there | |||
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"Here’s the thing your missing The guys your picking are the best guys. All the other women are picking them too They didn’t stand you up and sit at home They went with the better option The top guys have plenty of options "Top guys" don't treat women with this level of disrespect Your wrong there. The top guys get picked for their attractiveness. Not their morals If you find a top guy with morals, marry him But can you blame them? 10% of guys probably get 90% of the meets. They don’t need to have morals You have a poor opinion of women. I don't know any who will put up with being treated like crap because a guy is attractive. The women I know who have put up with being treated like crap is because they love him. And I've seen that story on here too more than once. Being treated like crap falls more into the longer term stuff. I’m talking short term stuff like first meets on here. Don’t twist it And my comment says nothing about my opinion of women either, so don’t twist that. The most attractive guys get picked the most. So why can you expect them to value their meets when they get so many offers. People seem to think that a guy stands you up because he’s sat at home doing nothing. It’s more likely that other women said yes to him for the same reason you did, and he just didn’t pick you that night I judged your opinion on women from your statement that they judge a top guy on attractiveness only. Which is shallow. "The most attractive guys get picked the most. So why can you expect them to value their meets when they get so many offers. " Because it's basic respect for others. I think your shallow for assuming when I say top guy I mean only looks Top guys have it all. Looks, charm, body, humour, charism etc Charm, humour, charisma but stands women up for a better offer? Not a top guy. I did interpret attractiveness as looks not because I am shallow but because this site is. We just see the world differently. And men and women differently. " We can agree there I think a lot of the top guys get a lot of options. So they stand people up a lot for a better option. Their kids in a candy store. Statistics and data from the dating apps support this. About 10% of the guys get 90% of the matches. I’m not saying it’s a nice thing to do, but when a guy gets a lion share of the meets in his pocket, is anyone surprised when he isn’t exactly moral about who/how he meets | |||
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"I'll always find hot guys so he's not really top guy. No such thing on fab. It's just funny how he keeps coming back and trying it on. As if I'm out of options haha x But are you not encouraging his behaviour? Yeah I encourage to see what was the next excuse. But now it bored me so I blocked him cause he deserved it." Maybe unblock him, sounds like your made for each other.. | |||
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"In your own words OP. I mainly unintentionally end up with fuckabout fuckboys that fuck around with you by making excuses not to meet, Literally taken from the OP’s profile. I know it’s a long read but it’s right there" Maybe he knows he's a closet fuckboy? | |||
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"They must be mad to stand you up or any woman it’s hard enough to get a meet never mind not bother going after" I'm assuming this is tongue in cheek or is that really how you approach fab? Are men supposed to feel grateful that women even look at them? Do people really look at a few pics on a profile and that's enough to say they are amazing and it's mad that anyone could consider standing them up? | |||
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"In your own words OP. I mainly unintentionally end up with fuckabout fuckboys that fuck around with you by making excuses not to meet, Literally taken from the OP’s profile. I know it’s a long read but it’s right there" I got 17 pages down and gave up on the rest.. who needs a profile that long? | |||
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"In your own words OP. I mainly unintentionally end up with fuckabout fuckboys that fuck around with you by making excuses not to meet, Literally taken from the OP’s profile. I know it’s a long read but it’s right thereI got 17 pages down and gave up on the rest.. who needs a profile that long? " Maybe the guy who stood her up 6 times is still reading it | |||
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"I'll always find hot guys so he's not really top guy. No such thing on fab. It's just funny how he keeps coming back and trying it on. As if I'm out of options haha x Isn’t it even funnier though that with all these options, you keep saying yes? Why is that? Because the excuses are so clever lol but it's nice to know he keeps asking x but I blocked him cause now it's annoying x Well good for you. 2 strike rule if you ask me. No one is worth being messed around like that I always tell myself, actions over words. If they wanted to, they would Your a character lol " Quite, but I definitely wouldn’t let myself be stood up 6 times by the same person. I’ve got a little dignity | |||
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"In your own words OP. I mainly unintentionally end up with fuckabout fuckboys that fuck around with you by making excuses not to meet, Literally taken from the OP’s profile. I know it’s a long read but it’s right thereI got 17 pages down and gave up on the rest.. who needs a profile that long? " I get a lot of messages everyday. Covers the basics. Plus reading is important to me. X | |||
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"I'll always find hot guys so he's not really top guy. No such thing on fab. It's just funny how he keeps coming back and trying it on. As if I'm out of options haha x Isn’t it even funnier though that with all these options, you keep saying yes? Why is that? Because the excuses are so clever lol but it's nice to know he keeps asking x but I blocked him cause now it's annoying x Well good for you. 2 strike rule if you ask me. No one is worth being messed around like that I always tell myself, actions over words. If they wanted to, they would Your a character lol Quite, but I definitely wouldn’t let myself be stood up 6 times by the same person. I’ve got a little dignity " You need people skills but definitely have little tiny dignity. | |||
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"Whataboutery is frowned upon here but there is a domino effect on fab. If you are being stood up constantly regardless of whether it's by one person or more it's time to change your approach and look at the common denominator. It doesn't matter if you are male or female but if you constantly complain publicly about your negative experiences that will just make more people ignore you because they don't need that negativity. Men get tarred with this brush all the time but we are allowed to change our minds just as women are and we aren't obliged to give a reason. Some women are serial ghosters and stand guys up all the time because of backup plans etc so it's often a knock-on effect of their own words or actions." Totally agree with this May I also point out my dislike of the OP's last sentence, the attitude that sentence carries is rather unfortunate and is not an attitude I share. NBVN x | |||
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"Really have had my fair share of guys just after the chase then cause a lot of them prefer the banter that actually physically meeting. Lots and lots of us have this same story. I’ve come to realise the forum and the actual sex catalogue where people meet is two different things. " I love thumbing through the sex catalogue. | |||
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"I'll always find hot guys so he's not really top guy. No such thing on fab. It's just funny how he keeps coming back and trying it on. As if I'm out of options haha x But are you not encouraging his behaviour? Yeah I encourage to see what was the next excuse. But now it bored me so I blocked him cause he deserved it." If your only contact is via Fab I'd block him. If he's contacting you via off site I'd keep arranging meets but never show up. An ego boost is nice. Let him beg. (But don't meet him.) | |||
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"Six times, same guy? Isn't this on you at this point. What do you mean? He's always begging to meet but when it comes to it, he bails. Quite a few guys do this. Maybe it's me. But I never stress to meet...they do. I mean its entirely your fault at that point. I didn't do anything but ok. You didn't but you're letting him do it to you which I'd the point this guy is making. Fool me once, shame on you. Fool me twice, shame on me. At some point you need to stop enabling the behaviour of the guy that keeps standing you up. Well he is a weirdo apparently. So I blocked him. " From your phone contacts too I hope. You'll have more time for those who are actually interested. | |||
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"If i had opertunity to meet a lady from fab i wouldn't be standing her up its hard to even get a lady to talk to you on here never mind get a date xx " Then the minority ruin it for the rest of you doing just this. I met far too many timewasters on fab. All talk and no action like it's just a game they play to stroke their ego | |||
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"If this thread was written by a man etc etc.. If this thread was written by a man it would read: You wouldn't believe it, I travelled 40 miles to a meet last night after chatting to this woman for days. We got on great, exchanged pics and had bants from the off that you just don't get from any other chats. I just don't know what happened, I got to the car park, I contacted her on fab, she was on at the time, and she immediately went off-line. I stayed for 20mins and contacted her again - nothing. Contacted her again 20 mins later, after an hour I got something to eat and still had no reply, waited another 15 mins and got a reply that she had to cancel but could meet next week as something came up she couldn't get out of but thought she could rearrange it. She hasn't given me her number yet, but still looking forward to meeting her. Still trying to get her address as I don't understand why I arrived at a car park.. anyone else experienced this? r/OddlySpecific " Gadzumps! | |||
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"Delete, block and move on. 2nd chance, if you think they're genuine, but after that... Gone! " And good luck Op | |||
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"If this thread was written by a man etc etc.. If this thread was written by a man it would read: You wouldn't believe it, I travelled 40 miles to a meet last night after chatting to this woman for days. We got on great, exchanged pics and had bants from the off that you just don't get from any other chats. I just don't know what happened, I got to the car park, I contacted her on fab, she was on at the time, and she immediately went off-line. I stayed for 20mins and contacted her again - nothing. Contacted her again 20 mins later, after an hour I got something to eat and still had no reply, waited another 15 mins and got a reply that she had to cancel but could meet next week as something came up she couldn't get out of but thought she could rearrange it. She hasn't given me her number yet, but still looking forward to meeting her. Still trying to get her address as I don't understand why I arrived at a car park.. anyone else experienced this? If a guy complains about scenarios like this a lot of people will quickly tell him he wasn't chatting to a woman at all Here's a little twist on that and I wonder how many have even considered it? There is a sizeable percentage of women here who have multiple accounts including single male accounts. They have all sorts of excuses for having them including safety reasons but they often use them to befriend and chat to other women that they may view as direct competition. Based on that I wouldn't be too surprised if some of those guys standing women up weren't actually guys at all. " Interesting theory. I could see that. Having dealt with a few crazies in my time, I can confirm that many women will go to some extreme lengths of psycho to accomplish stuff. I could absolutely see women doing this | |||
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"Crumpet, the lack of fucks. Oh my, I think I've got competition " No, you really don't. Crumpet is truly something else in the best way. | |||
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"Crumpet, the lack of fucks. Oh my, I think I've got competition No, you really don't. Crumpet is truly something else in the best way. " We all love a bit of crumpet | |||
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"Dang this has gone waaay overboard. " Are you THE A.W. who's been in before ? | |||
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"Seems like we all could use a shag. Happy fabbing haha xx " This sounds more like you. | |||
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"I always let the 7’s and below down if an 8 or above pops up " I would comment but so not worth it lol | |||
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"I always let the 7’s and below down if an 8 or above pops up " I don’t even waste my time with anything below a nine | |||
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"I always let the 7’s and below down if an 8 or above pops up I don’t even waste my time with anything below a nine " Hurry up with the 10s then and using all the hitty things. Stop typing on here. Geez. | |||
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"Here's a little twist on that and I wonder how many have even considered it? There is a sizeable percentage of women here who have multiple accounts including single male accounts. They have all sorts of excuses for having them including safety reasons but they often use them to befriend and chat to other women that they may view as direct competition. Based on that I wouldn't be too surprised if some of those guys standing women up weren't actually guys at all. " Tin foil hat at the ready | |||
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"Here's a little twist on that and I wonder how many have even considered it? There is a sizeable percentage of women here who have multiple accounts including single male accounts. They have all sorts of excuses for having them including safety reasons but they often use them to befriend and chat to other women that they may view as direct competition. Based on that I wouldn't be too surprised if some of those guys standing women up weren't actually guys at all. Tin foil hat at the ready " " I'll ruin her!" was a comment by one woman that I know for a fact did this so stand down on the tinfoil hat | |||
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"Seems like we all could use a shag. Happy fabbing haha xx " Yep...but your get stood up again lol x | |||
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"I always let the 7’s and below down if an 8 or above pops up I don’t even waste my time with anything below a nine Hurry up with the 10s then and using all the hitty things. Stop typing on here. Geez." Easy there tiger, there’s always time in my schedule for people into hitty things | |||
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"”I'll ruin her!" was a comment by one woman that I know for a fact did this so stand down on the tinfoil hat " Thats my line! Who the fuck is stealing my lines…. Tell me…… I’ll ruin her!! | |||
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"Six times, same guy? Isn't this on you at this point. What do you mean? He's always begging to meet but when it comes to it, he bails. Quite a few guys do this. Maybe it's me. But I never stress to meet...they do. I mean its entirely your fault at that point. " Entirely her fault? Jesus. lol. No, it’s clearly silly on her part allowing it but it’s still him fucking her around. Jesus, that was actually pretty rude of you lol | |||
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"If I guy stands me up once that's it. Blocked and moved on. There's no excuse not to drop a quick message in my opinion. " Got no credit, tend to wife and kids, approached by FF couple, found out he's your long distance cousin etc etc | |||
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"It really is the best thing about being an old woman. You can say whatever you want and people somehow don't get offended. Got to admit that although I don't always agree with her I do have a soft spot for Granny Mr 1. Don't call me old. 2. What would you know about being an old woman ? 3. Is it a swamp somewhere? 4. I'm very careful about what I say. 5. I didn't say anything I wanted to. 6. I don't know what you are on about." 1. I didn't, I used it to describe an age bracket that I consider you (or at least your online persona) fit into. It's a loose term, young - middle aged - old. I can't remember if I've seen your age but for some reason I have this mental image of a person in their 60's. For me the boundary between 'middle aged' and 'old' is pretty vague, I'm starting to feel old at 43, I'm sure I will consider myself old if only in numbers by my mid 50's. I did not mean offense and apologise if I caused it. 2. Depends what you're asking. If it is what experience do I have of being an old woman? The answer is none. If it is what have you been told about being, noticed about those who are or experienced from old women? I'd say roughly about the same as any other person my age. 3. No 4. I never suggested you weren't. In fact I'm absolutely certain you are. 5. I apologise, you can say also anything you don't want to ... if you want. Or something like that. 6. That's ok, I don't either. Mr | |||
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"Here’s the thing your missing The guys your picking are the best guys. All the other women are picking them too They didn’t stand you up and sit at home They went with the better option The top guys have plenty of options "Top guys" don't treat women with this level of disrespect Your wrong there. The top guys get picked for their attractiveness. Not their morals If you find a top guy with morals, marry him But can you blame them? 10% of guys probably get 90% of the meets. They don’t need to have morals You have a poor opinion of women. I don't know any who will put up with being treated like crap because a guy is attractive. The women I know who have put up with being treated like crap is because they love him. And I've seen that story on here too more than once. Being treated like crap falls more into the longer term stuff. I’m talking short term stuff like first meets on here. Don’t twist it And my comment says nothing about my opinion of women either, so don’t twist that. The most attractive guys get picked the most. So why can you expect them to value their meets when they get so many offers. People seem to think that a guy stands you up because he’s sat at home doing nothing. It’s more likely that other women said yes to him for the same reason you did, and he just didn’t pick you that night " By this logic, no woman would value any of their meets. | |||
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"I have a 2 strike rule.. life happens so sometimes there can be a valid excuse. I know I have had to cancel a meet due to a child ending up in hospital but I did let them know as soon as I could. However wrt another posters reference to if someone is a top guy ie a popular member of fab coveted by many ladies therefore they have lots of choice so don’t hang around etc….I’m sorry but that doesn’t wash as a valid excuse. Many women on here are popular & coveted and could have meets morning noon & night with attractive men. But I would hazard a guess that for most of these ‘top’ women if they arrange a meet they won’t ditch it for a last minute better offer. It’s just a display of arrogance & disrespect & entitlement end of. But it also suggests that women shouldn’t look for top/(perceived) attractive guys and instead settle for someone less attractive to them because they may be more reliable & grateful. It almost feels like your saying ‘hey women know your place in the pecking order…" Underrated comment | |||
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