FabSwingers.com forum: How many messages do you get out here?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

A day?

A week?

A year?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A day?

A week?

A year?

*on

Ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thread fail. Spelling mistakes.

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Had a direct reply from a thread this evening. Before that, not a single message in over 2 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that many…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 12 a day. Maybe off 7 or 8 ppl. Sometimes it's not just to say no either

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"A day?

A week?

A year?"

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PM me and I will tell you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Had a direct reply from a thread this evening. Before that, not a single message in over 2 months

I messaged you three weeks ago

Fair enough it was a response to you, but surely that still counts?

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

What’s a message?

Haha just kidding

Too many to count

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a lot ,just get blocked for asking for a chat..

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

"Had a direct reply from a thread this evening. Before that, not a single message in over 2 months

I messaged you three weeks ago

Fair enough it was a response to you, but surely that still counts?

Very true, it counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A day? 0

A week? 0

A year? 0

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

none,,

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By *onkeynutWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

At the moment, around 5 a day. Never know it so quiet (definitely not complaining).

Most I’ve had was over 800 in a day

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

Typical day would be between none and none but I live in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 10 a day, I've got full filters on

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I’ve got a message that said I need to renew my fab pass

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By *onBurgundy99Man
over a year ago

Cheshire

Naff all! Been on here a while and only messaged off people I met at a club the one time I went. You guys are doing far better than me! So you're at least on the right track!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anywhere between 2 and 20 a day

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"About 10 a day, I've got full filters on"

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You're such a blag-artist! I've already sent you 45½ messages today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"About 10 a day, I've got full filters on

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You're such a blag-artist! I've already sent you 45½ messages today.

I wondered why the last one seemed small

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
over a year ago

here and there

Can vary, some days can be 1 others can be 100s

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By *wistedsoul35Man
over a year ago

cumbria

It's not often I get one I must admit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve currently got almost 300 unread

. I seem to get through a load and then end up back at Square one again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not often I get one I must admit "

Your pics are very sexy! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I include the 5 messages a day I send myself then I get 5 a day

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Well today I've had 10 and I usually get about 6 or 7 daily. It's worth noting that I have no messaging filters activated.

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By *picknspanMan
over a year ago

North West Leeds

I get a glut of messages and then none for a while

Cannot work out why

Nothing seems to be different

Guess it's just how this shit works!

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

A stupid amount.....

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Maybe one or two a month or so if I'm very lucky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 10 to 15 messages a day...not replies I should add

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I’ve had a lovely out of the blue message this week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends, if I have posted a picture,or am active on the forum, it can be a lot.

If I've had a day where I've not been online much or at all, its below 50

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get quite a lot of men asking about my welfare.

I must just scare the ladies off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably about 300 a week but a fair few about social events or messages from friends.

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By *ldbutrandyMan
over a year ago

West Midlands

I don't have time to answer questions like this. I'm too busy reading my messages.

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By *ig_eric_tionMan
over a year ago

IPSWICH

I've had quite a few in the last few days. All replies. No one making initial contact.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Covent Garden

"I get quite a lot of men asking about my welfare.

I must just scare the ladies off "

Are you ok, Hun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100’s

I wish they’d stop doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can jump up and down depending on what I am doing

If I am on the forums it can be quite high due to showing online

If it’s new pics or videos it can be high

If I fly the meet now flag oooo god it’s thought the roof

If I not on much I don’t get much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"100’s

I wish they’d stop doing it

I apologise and promise to message less

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

A day? Most days none or 1

A week? 2-5

A year? No idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get quite a lot of men asking about my welfare.

I must just scare the ladies off

Are you ok, Hun?

HAHAHAHAHAHA

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By *an de LyonMan
over a year ago

welling

People get messages?!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

40-50 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lately zero. Even replies to messages I have sent to forum users…. My box is empty everyday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alot.

How many with substance that have potential? Very few.

I get guys who I have already said no to, too far away, asking for bizarre things, asking for a quick fuck etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average around 80 a day, more if I upload something. The weeks and year just times the above because I'm too lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that many these days, maybe 10-15 but the first line of our profile states we aren’t meeting so at least it shows some people read profiles

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

About 5 a week sometimes a few more if I upload a pic or something. I've tight filters on tho or it could be I've a meh profile either way it suits me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two maybe three messages a week. Unless, I have posted a picture or something then it can be slightly higher

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asides from general chit chat with our lovely fab friends, we get very few messages, winks, fabs etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off new people about 3 per week off current friends much more often

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think my message function is broken, I don't get any and being as amazing as I am Its the only logical explaination

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By *utlongjohnMan
over a year ago

Not many tbh, anyone for a chat?

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By *merican WomanWoman
over a year ago

live by the Pool xx

Filtered but yeah....way too many. Mostly older men wanting a quick fuck in their van...

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

From people on my friends list maybe one or two a week but often weeks without any.

New messages I average 1 a month but again often go for 2 or 3 months with none at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Filtered but yeah....way too many. Mostly older men wanting a quick fuck in their van...

I can do better than a van. My wowcher experience is delivered in a soft top campervan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Filtered but yeah....way too many. Mostly older men wanting a quick fuck in their van...

What’s wrong with an older man?……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dunno, not that many.

Doesn't generally take too long to either call time or move onto better means of communication.

This is like the foot in the door, after I'm through I don't hang around in the doorway lol.

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By *andy_tomMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I may get the occasional 1

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

It depends on how active I am, if I've posted something slightly suggestive at the fact I might have sex and how hot a day it is.

I do have filters up but even then it varies from about twenty to... well a lot. Heat makes men sl*ves to their cocks, I have a vagina. Nothing more.

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By *amie7474Man
over a year ago

stockport

"At the moment, around 5 a day. Never know it so quiet (definitely not complaining).

Most I’ve had was over 800 in a day"

800 - wow!! Does your inbox hold that many or do they drop off your feed?

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By *orthwhile27Man
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

I very rarely get any "off the cuff" messages. I would say to any men that struggle to connect is to get involved in forum banter, it's the easiest way to communicate (unless you attend clubs).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 today.

Not all women get 1000s or 100s of messages. I get less when I have face pics too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two a week , pretty much always men asking me if I want to go on Kik to look at their imaginary wife

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By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

"At the moment, around 5 a day. Never know it so quiet (definitely not complaining).

Most I’ve had was over 800 in a day"

I agree - the site seems super quiet to me too at the moment.

Some days I can have 20+ messages and other times days nothing.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

If I had all filters off and my boobs showing, plus a flirty status, I'd get a few messages a minute.

If I have filters on, a dull photo and status, I might get one or two a minute.

I use filters so I'm not inundated, as I'm not getting anywhere when I search myself.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"It depends on how active I am, if I've posted something slightly suggestive at the fact I might have sex and how hot a day it is.

I do have filters up but even then it varies from about twenty to... well a lot. Heat makes men sl*ves to their cocks, I have a vagina. Nothing more."

Heat has the same effect on women, during the heatwave I was getting more messages and requests to meet - on all platforms - than ever before !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One a week if im lucky hahaha

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"At the moment, around 5 a day. Never know it so quiet (definitely not complaining).

Most I’ve had was over 800 in a day

800 - wow!! Does your inbox hold that many or do they drop off your feed? "

You'd be surprised how quickly they mount up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a reply yesterday, but that was to join a group which I applied for. I've had about a dozen to date. But I only since I joined in at the beginning of the year..

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I had a conversation of maybe 6/7 messages once. Then they stopped talking. Now maybe I get 1 a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find if you don't throw cock pics in ppls faces and have a decent amount of info in your profile that tells the other party you're normal then ppl are more than happy to chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get occasional replies to messages I send ladies with whom I have chatted for a long time.

I never get first/spontaneous messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have on going general chit chat with some members so it varies. New messages from new people I haven't spoken to, maybe 2/3 a week. Usually guys asking to suck my dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 or 3 I'd say. Mostly just chatting really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"2 or 3 I'd say. Mostly just chatting really

A day, I should add

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By *orny DeucesCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield

Depends on a few factors.

How active we are

Have we posted anything new

Have single men actually read our profile.

How much perving we have done

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple
over a year ago

nearby

10 to 20 a day, more if some new pics go up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Basically zero. I have filters up to block men.

Only time I get unprompted messages is when I post something (usually controversial!) in the forum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Average about 50 a day but can go up depending on posts I am on or new pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

average 50 a day half get blocked has been more

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

Bedford (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)

"I find if you don't throw cock pics in ppls faces and have a decent amount of info in your profile that tells the other party you're normal then ppl are more than happy to chat"

^^^ good plan

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By *ames5169Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

I had 4 unread yesterday!! Nearly had a heart attack All from women as well! Lol

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Lots

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Mathematics wasn’t a great subject for some posters on here I feel

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By *orny DeucesCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield

"I find if you don't throw cock pics in ppls faces and have a decent amount of info in your profile that tells the other party you're normal then ppl are more than happy to chat"

That will never catch on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find if you don't throw cock pics in ppls faces and have a decent amount of info in your profile that tells the other party you're normal then ppl are more than happy to chat

That will never catch on

You know what they say...you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink

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By *orny DeucesCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield

You know what they say...you can lead a horse to water but you can't make it drink

Nor can you teach pork

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

When I'm online at peak times about 24 an hour, I counted. Average about 50-70 a day I would say. Have 622 unread.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Not that many as i use a few filters to keep it lower.

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

None as a rule

Tho on the odd day i get a few then it goes quiet again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would think a lot lady’s get a lot more than men probably

In hindsight think this will never change fab is what it is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My box is empty everyday. "

Same.

*big sigh*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, hardly any - which is just fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not much recently….

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"None as a rule

Tho on the odd day i get a few then it goes quiet again

Today has been 1 of they good days

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None from women, but if I was to unblock males I seem to get loads,

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By *inja 636Man
over a year ago

Grays

Not many but that's due to only contacting people I feel id like to meet even when I get a no thank you I appreciate the effort made in replying

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Fair few x

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By *4DY-FWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Only 4 since I updated my profile this afternoon

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By *aughty_Smooth_OperatorMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Maybe 1 a week if I'm lucky

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

"A day?

A week?

A year?

For research purposes, the 4 people in my inbox says 3, 4, 7 and 9 months ago.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

"I get quite a lot of men asking about my welfare.

I must just scare the ladies off

Are you ok, Hun?

HAHAHAHAHAHA"

Lol

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Quite a few but a present mainly unsolicited dick pics!

It comes with a prison sentence now you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None as I blocked all messages

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Today I've had about 20 so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably I get around 2 or less every other day. What I’m looking for is very specific so I understand the lack of messages.

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By *hrough the looking gla55Couple
over a year ago

Epsom

"Had a direct reply from a thread this evening. Before that, not a single message in over 2 months

Um we spoke a week ago

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

I have 10, 9 from yesterday.

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

"I had a conversation of maybe 6/7 messages once. Then they stopped talking. Now maybe I get 1 a month

But that’s because you stopped talking to me first

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By *y gameMan
over a year ago

open wide

"At the moment, around 5 a day. Never know it so quiet (definitely not complaining).

Most I’ve had was over 800 in a day"

My five day, it's good for me, perhaps you could answer one you might enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 when my membership is coming to a end

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Today I've had 3.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 in 9 weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 today

. *true story

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By *y gameMan
over a year ago

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"At the moment, around 5 a day. Never know it so quiet (definitely not complaining).

Most I’ve had was over 800 in a day"

I would like to send you one but over your age block, you look hot dressed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fuckin none hahaha

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"About 10 to 15 messages a day...not replies I should add"
that's good amount.

I get 1 or 2 a day that aren't replies

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

From locals 0

It really depends how active I am on the forums

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"A day?

A week?

A year?

I’ll be honest, and say not very many at all. The irony is, many of the messages I do receive will include “I bet you’re getting lefty of attention….” which is slightly frustrating, because I’m really not.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

* plenty not lefty…..

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