FabSwingers.com forum: Compliments

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Is it just me that finds compliments here, a bit difficult to deal with?

If i say thanks, the guy assumes i want to chat and/or meet

If i ignore them, i get abuse for being ignorant (aparantly i should be grateful)

Ive even tried saying thanks, good luck here, bye. Even thats met with abuse

So tell me....

Ladies, how do you tackle it

Gents, what are you expecting/hoping for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when people tell me what a pretty spam purse I have.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I love it when people tell me what a pretty spam purse I have. "

I spat my tea

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By *ravelling TogMan
over a year ago

sleaford

Personally if I got a "thanks good luck on here" reply I'd wish you well too and move on.

But that's me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it when people tell me what a pretty spam purse I have. "
peck for a pecker

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them but i think many are exagerated until iv met them until then its just a thanks

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I say thank you thank let them know I'm not interested in chatting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just say thanks. If they continue to message and I'm not interested I delete. If they respond with abuse I curse their families with perpetual acne for 7 generations.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I just say thank you. Anyone who's a nuisance gets blocked

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By *orny DeucesCouple
over a year ago

Mansfield

"Is it just me that finds compliments here, a bit difficult to deal with?

If i say thanks, the guy assumes i want to chat and/or meet

If i ignore them, i get abuse for being ignorant (aparantly i should be grateful)

Ive even tried saying thanks, good luck here, bye. Even thats met with abuse

So tell me....

Ladies, how do you tackle it

Gents, what are you expecting/hoping for "

Oh so, with words like that it's a yes then is it

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

I just say ty x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say thank you. And I don't believe a word

If someone has met me in person, and pays me a compliment, thats totally different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What kinda compliments are we talking?

You’re gorgeous?

Nice tits?

I like the circumference of your areola?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ignore them unless they are from someone I find attractive. Then I will give them my flirty game

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you should block straight away on reading a message from someone not to your liking.

Say thanks, give your reasons, block, move on. No comebacks and state this on your profile. Simples

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Compliments are always nice and I say thanks even if not what I'm looking for.

If I compliment someone and get just 'thanks' back then I take it as not interested or they would've replied with more than that, no offence taken from me it's just different people like different things!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'll still never understand why people get abusive when they get knocked back. Do they really think it will change the mind of the person thats not interested in them.

To many keyboard warriors with no manners

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it when people tell me what a pretty spam purse I have.

I spat my tea"

Thought you'd be more of a swallower

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

I just say thanks and avoid getting into any further dialogue x

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I’m a bit awkward about it. Especially when it’s based on just a few reasonably lucky photos!

Should send a pic back from first thing in the morning - that’d make them wince

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I’m a bit awkward about it. Especially when it’s based on just a few reasonably lucky photos!

Should send a pic back from first thing in the morning - that’d make them wince

Give it a go.....welcome it

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

"I love it when people tell me what a pretty spam purse I have.

I spat my tea"

So did I.

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

North West

"I think you should block straight away on reading a message from someone not to your liking.

Say thanks, give your reasons, block, move on. No comebacks and state this on your profile. Simples"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I say thank you. And I don't believe a word

If someone has met me in person, and pays me a compliment, thats totally different. "
bollox you dont believe it then either

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By *atty CoramWoman
over a year ago

Wimbledon

The male gaze is so over-rated.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"I’m a bit awkward about it. Especially when it’s based on just a few reasonably lucky photos!

Should send a pic back from first thing in the morning - that’d make them wince

Give it a go.....welcome it

Haha like a melted welly with a beehive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me that finds compliments here, a bit difficult to deal with?

If i say thanks, the guy assumes i want to chat and/or meet

If i ignore them, i get abuse for being ignorant (aparantly i should be grateful)

Ive even tried saying thanks, good luck here, bye. Even thats met with abuse

So tell me....

Ladies, how do you tackle it

Gents, what are you expecting/hoping for "

This

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

No reply = not interested

I don’t think it’s unfair for a guy to assume if you reply, your somewhat interested, unless you outright tell him

So either don’t reply

Reply, say thanks, but make it clear, no thanks

Just block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it when people tell me what a pretty spam purse I have.

I spat my tea"

Choked on my popcorn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m a bit awkward about it. Especially when it’s based on just a few reasonably lucky photos!

Should send a pic back from first thing in the morning - that’d make them wince

No need to send a picture, I'll just roll over in the bed in the morning and see for myself

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By *KloganMan
over a year ago

Ramsbottom

Compliments and criticism are all ultimately based on some form of projection.

If you see someone’s profile and they strike you as beautiful in any way, why not just let them know?

Especially if the spam purse or the morning beehive is equally lovely..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just say ty x"

You get compliments

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"I’m a bit awkward about it. Especially when it’s based on just a few reasonably lucky photos!

Should send a pic back from first thing in the morning - that’d make them wince

No need to send a picture, I'll just roll over in the bed in the morning and see for myself

you’d have to move the dog & the cat out of the way first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Words of affirmation closely followed by hand on cock conversations - I mean physical touch work for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I give a compliment then I gauge the reply.

No reply - no harm done. I'm an adult. Petulance has no place in my life. The intent was to simply compliment. What you do with it is your business.

Simple reply e.g. 'Thanks x' - I use my brain, take the hint and don't continue conversation. I've delivered what I wanted to say, it's been noted. I'll move on because not everyone feels comfortable recieving compliments but also not everyone has to have a conversation with me. I chose to compliment you, I can't force you into conversing with me and nor would I spit my dummy out if you didn't.

A happy, positive reply - If I see a conversation opener or something that I can reply to then I may do so. Again, that doesn't mean I expect someone to fall in love with me and meet. I've had a few 2 or 3 message chats on here and then we both go our separate ways. No harm, no foul.

I'm not here to shag everything but I am happy to talk to anyone. Politeness costs nothing, it's a shame there's a contingent of Fab who don't uphold that philosophy.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Thank you and have a nice day.

That is my default response

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I give a compliment then I gauge the reply.

No reply - no harm done. I'm an adult. Petulance has no place in my life. The intent was to simply compliment. What you do with it is your business.

I'm not here to shag everything but I am happy to talk to anyone. Politeness costs nothing, it's a shame there's a contingent of Fab who don't uphold that

philosophy."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it's up to you if you want to reply to compliments. I usually do. But after you say thank you - you have to be VERY clear. Crystal. Even if they don't ask for anything, be clear if you reply. "No, I don't want to chat" "No, I don't want to meet you in a hotel" "No, I don't want you to rim my arse, fuck off".

And then block if you never want to hear from them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just use the thumb emoji.

I personally think its a clear was of letting the person know. You're thanking them but making it clear that you're not getting into a conversation.

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"I’m a bit awkward about it. Especially when it’s based on just a few reasonably lucky photos!

Should send a pic back from first thing in the morning - that’d make them wince

Give it a go.....welcome it

Haha like a melted welly with a beehive

Lovely

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"What kinda compliments are we talking?

You’re gorgeous?

Nice tits?

I like the circumference of your areola?"

I'm stealing that last one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What kinda compliments are we talking?

You’re gorgeous?

Nice tits?

I like the circumference of your areola?

I'm stealing that last one

Only say it once you’ve seen the tits. If you say it before she’ll know you’ve been peering through her windows… I learned that the hard way

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I usually assume that if I receive a 1 or 2 word response then they're not interested and move on, but it doesn't make the compliment void as I genuinely would mean it and not see it as an in

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"What kinda compliments are we talking?

You’re gorgeous?

Nice tits?

I like the circumference of your areola?

I'm stealing that last one

Only say it once you’ve seen the tits. If you say it before she’ll know you’ve been peering through her windows… I learned that the hard way

Noted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just say thank you. Anyone who's a nuisance gets blocked

This

But i do get you OP it's a nuisance sometimes.

And I hate to be rude as it's just not me, unless they're rude to me of course.

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1st reply to a compliment:

"Thanks".

2nd reply to a compliment:

"Read the fucking profile ya fud".

Usually does the trick.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

So, umm, I've held off for two hours...what exactly is a "pretty spam purse"?

[I'm sorry, I haven't lived]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol first world problems …. Only on FAB

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Lol first world problems …. Only on FAB"

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What's the "first world problems" you refer to?

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

So, umm, I've held off for two hours...what exactly is a "pretty spam purse"?

[I'm sorry, I haven't lived]"

What do you think, stud?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol first world problems …. Only on FAB

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What's the "first world problems" you refer to?

Getting so many compliments it fuzzies your brain on how to deal with them

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

"Lol first world problems …. Only on FAB

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What's the "first world problems" you refer to?

Getting so many compliments it fuzzies your brain on how to deal with them "

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I like your underpants.

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

So, umm, I've held off for two hours...what exactly is a "pretty spam purse"?

[I'm sorry, I haven't lived]

What do you think, stud?!

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KC², stop turning me on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Lol first world problems …. Only on FAB

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What's the "first world problems" you refer to?

Getting so many compliments it fuzzies your brain on how to deal with them

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I like your underpants.

Thanks very much x

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I tend to delete unread as I would the majority of messages I get... I rarely get abuse but just block if I do... I only talk to the people I want to and only when I want to... I feel most compliments from randoms are just blowing smoke up my arse in the hope of some sort of interaction anyway and rarely believe what was said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually assume that if I receive a 1 or 2 word response then they're not interested and move on, but it doesn't make the compliment void as I genuinely would mean it and not see it as an in"

But some guys sadly don't mean them and just use them as an in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually assume that if I receive a 1 or 2 word response then they're not interested and move on, but it doesn't make the compliment void as I genuinely would mean it and not see it as an in

But some guys sadly don't mean them and just use them as an in. "

This isn't a dating site. Try Screwfix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I usually assume that if I receive a 1 or 2 word response then they're not interested and move on, but it doesn't make the compliment void as I genuinely would mean it and not see it as an in

But some guys sadly don't mean them and just use them as an in.

This isn't a dating site. Try Screwfix "

I don't follow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me that finds compliments here, a bit difficult to deal with?

If i say thanks, the guy assumes i want to chat and/or meet

If i ignore them, i get abuse for being ignorant (aparantly i should be grateful)

Ive even tried saying thanks, good luck here, bye. Even thats met with abuse

So tell me....

Ladies, how do you tackle it

Gents, what are you expecting/hoping for "

You are right to be wary of compliments. Some guys think compliments will get you to drop your knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is it just me that finds compliments here, a bit difficult to deal with?

If i say thanks, the guy assumes i want to chat and/or meet

If i ignore them, i get abuse for being ignorant (aparantly i should be grateful)

Ive even tried saying thanks, good luck here, bye. Even thats met with abuse

So tell me....

Ladies, how do you tackle it

Gents, what are you expecting/hoping for

You are right to be wary of compliments. Some guys think compliments will get you to drop your knickers. "
shhhhh dont tell em ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

I’ve gone from “one of the sexiest and most intelligent women on Fab” to “what a Moron” within 3 unanswered/deleted messages just now

tofl

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"Is it just me that finds compliments here, a bit difficult to deal with?

If i say thanks, the guy assumes i want to chat and/or meet

If i ignore them, i get abuse for being ignorant (aparantly i should be grateful)

Ive even tried saying thanks, good luck here, bye. Even thats met with abuse

So tell me....

Ladies, how do you tackle it

Gents, what are you expecting/hoping for "

A ride, obviously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just ignore it. Some guys would compliment a sock if they thought it would let them stick they're dick in it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont tend to hunt like i used to so if i do give one i probly mean it accept it or dont iv simply said what i saw

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By *ananaman41Man
over a year ago

Dublin

"I just ignore it. Some guys would compliment a sock if they thought it would let them stick they're dick in it. "

We need to ask a sock for consent now as well?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just ignore it. Some guys would compliment a sock if they thought it would let them stick they're dick in it. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love it when people tell me what a pretty spam purse I have. "

Laughing My Ass Off

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I just ignore them If it’s not got any other purpose to message

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

"I’ve gone from “one of the sexiest and most intelligent women on Fab” to “what a Moron” within 3 unanswered/deleted messages just now

tofl "

I can raise that. Went from “beautiful looking , unique with wonderful clear profile “ to “stupid gay ugly freak man that spreads diseases and should be grateful for any messages “ within 2 messages over a time span of 7 minutes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, if it's a bother delete on sight. Repeat offender, block.

I don't nor wouldn't even bother sending a compliment knowing the sheer weight of messages women receive here, and even if it had no ulterior motives, it would still feel that way due to the nature of the masses.

The fab button works fine though for a little shake and a shimmy of approval.

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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest

When I've given compliments in the past, it's been off the back of a post on a forum thread with no expectation.

This was normally well accepted, then leading to further exchange of messages. It helped that it was tied to something we could both relate to (a forum post) as opposed to sending some random compliment out of the blue that would likely be interpreted as insincere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"….

Gents, what are you expecting/hoping for "

I can compliment someone without expecting anything in return…. But a blowjob would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. and that beholder is their cock.

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By *ornyczechwifeCouple
over a year ago

Close To You

My mrs loves compliments but some people some people need to know that not all women want to hear ‘I’d love to spunk on them gorgeous tits then face fuck you’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just say thanks( as it goes in one ear and out the other) and tell them I hope they find what they are looking for soon and bye

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.. and that beholder is their cock."
behold my cock between your bum cheeks and all is good then

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