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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm looking for advice. I've been offered money for sex in the past but it seems to be a very regular thing at the moment. Mainly from single men. I am not looking for those meets on here.

Is there any advice as to how to limit these kind of messages on here as its getting a but annoying atm.

Open to advice as I don't really want to block single men but it seems like it may be the only option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not shour op as the only option you have all ready sed

Only thing you can do is report and block

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Not really. Block and report.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *oe8logsMan
over a year ago

reading

I hate the flip side of this , you chart to a woman for a while then arrange to meet then last minute she’s like ‘oh that will be £xx if you meet me tho’ had it happen a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Report them. Should remove the problem.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I was offered sex for money and had to turn it down. They didn’t have change for a tenner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate the flip side of this , you chart to a woman for a while then arrange to meet then last minute she’s like ‘oh that will be £xx if you meet me tho’ had it happen a few times "

Really??

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Only real option to stop it is to block single guys unfortunately and choose yourself who you'd like to talk to ..idiots like that seem to ruin it for genuine guys on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I hate the flip side of this , you chart to a woman for a while then arrange to meet then last minute she’s like ‘oh that will be £xx if you meet me tho’ had it happen a few times "

Report as it’s against site rules

And before people think I am against it

I am not

In fact I am for it more power to them

Just not on this site it’s not what here is for

In fact I have escort my self in that past wasn’t for me

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

I've only got thruppence ha'penny if that's any good

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"I hate the flip side of this , you chart to a woman for a while then arrange to meet then last minute she’s like ‘oh that will be £xx if you meet me tho’ had it happen a few times "

Really !!! I have genuinely been here since the start of fab and not once has that happened to me

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"I hate the flip side of this , you chart to a woman for a while then arrange to meet then last minute she’s like ‘oh that will be £xx if you meet me tho’ had it happen a few times

Really !!! I have genuinely been here since the start of fab and not once has that happened to me "

Ps maybe rethink your selection process to cut that down

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By *oe8logsMan
over a year ago

reading


"I hate the flip side of this , you chart to a woman for a while then arrange to meet then last minute she’s like ‘oh that will be £xx if you meet me tho’ had it happen a few times

Really !!! I have genuinely been here since the start of fab and not once has that happened to me

Yes actually had it happen I reckon 3-4 times over the years so not often but does happen

Ps maybe rethink your selection process to cut that down "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I've only got thruppence ha'penny if that's any good "
rich bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can filter your age range to 98-99 and contact the guys that interest you. Although this is similar to blocking all guys from messaging so safest option is to block and report those guys who message you that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Goody goody 2 shoes everyone…… I know what I would do….. win win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Goody goody 2 shoes everyone…… I know what I would do….. win win "

Mmmm I thought that to

Till I found it was just a bunch off people who I had turned down on her booking me over there so stopped

Wasn’t a win win

Was a lose hollow win

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I've only got thruppence ha'penny if that's any good rich bastard"

My name might be Richard, but I do know who ma father was

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

You shouldn't need to think about it simply report and block helps the site and anyone else facing the same issue

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hi. Thanks for the quick responses. I wasn't fully sure reporting is the right way as I tried the first time but the options are for escort/ hooker but not the other side.

I wasn't sure if anything would come from it.

But thanks for the responses.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Goody goody 2 shoes everyone…… I know what I would do….. win win

Mmmm I thought that to

Till I found it was just a bunch off people who I had turned down on her booking me over there so stopped

Wasn’t a win win

Was a lose hollow win "

A win is a win Nat

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've only got thruppence ha'penny if that's any good "
offers like that I couldn't reject joking lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Goody goody 2 shoes everyone…… I know what I would do….. win win

Mmmm I thought that to

Till I found it was just a bunch off people who I had turned down on her booking me over there so stopped

Wasn’t a win win

Was a lose hollow win

A win is a win Nat"

Just wasn’t for me but respect the people that do

Just this place isn’t the place for it

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"I've only got thruppence ha'penny if that's any good offers like that I couldn't reject joking lol."

I could maybe manage a fab ice lolly if thats anygood for you

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I've only got thruppence ha'penny if that's any good offers like that I couldn't reject joking lol."

Cool, I'll see you behind the bins at Lidl in 10 mins, no questions asked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Goody goody 2 shoes everyone…… I know what I would do….. win win

Mmmm I thought that to

Till I found it was just a bunch off people who I had turned down on her booking me over there so stopped

Wasn’t a win win

Was a lose hollow win

A win is a win Nat

Just wasn’t for me but respect the people that do

Just this place isn’t the place for it "

Totally agree….. which brings it back to a win win and then it’s your own conscience to deal with no need to share it with us all … which brings me back to what I would do… win win

Your still 1st class Nat x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Goody goody 2 shoes everyone…… I know what I would do….. win win

Mmmm I thought that to

Till I found it was just a bunch off people who I had turned down on her booking me over there so stopped

Wasn’t a win win

Was a lose hollow win

A win is a win Nat

Just wasn’t for me but respect the people that do

Just this place isn’t the place for it

Totally agree….. which brings it back to a win win and then it’s your own conscience to deal with no need to share it with us all … which brings me back to what I would do… win win

Your still 1st class Nat x"

Awww thank you x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've only got thruppence ha'penny if that's any good offers like that I couldn't reject joking lol.

I could maybe manage a fab ice lolly if thats anygood for you "

Haha. I think with this heat that is probably the best offer ever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've only got thruppence ha'penny if that's any good offers like that I couldn't reject joking lol.

Cool, I'll see you behind the bins at Lidl in 10 mins, no questions asked "

I'm ready and waiting

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By *ikeafud248Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Wow would bring a whole box of ice lollies, but am sure you would melt them all, with your hot figure....stunner

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east


"I've only got thruppence ha'penny if that's any good offers like that I couldn't reject joking lol.

I could maybe manage a fab ice lolly if thats anygood for you

Haha. I think with this heat that is probably the best offer ever. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block single guys and try one of the many NW clubs. One visit is enough to get banned from the dinner table

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've only got thruppence ha'penny if that's any good "

Was it the seven dwarves?

I once got offered 50 quid....

To leave

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

You can use filters.

Not just block single men, but block newbies, those without veris, those without profile photos.

It might not be perfect, and will only help if the people messaging fall into those categories

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say put, not for sale ,in the subject bar/Looking for bar but this will probably just encourage the masses...

Report and block

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