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"I need help getting out this funk I’m in, can’t seem to shift it, I’ve started exercising and doing yoga to make me feel more positive about my weight (as I’m the heaviest I’ve been in a while), going for walks to get out but it’s just not enough. I’ve had a lot of time wasters and liars on here lately which isn’t helping and I’m missing being out and social but can’t do that alone. Any suggestions are welcome…. I’m annoying myself now with this mood " Just looked at your public pictures and you look amazing... | |||
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"I need help getting out this funk I’m in, can’t seem to shift it, I’ve started exercising and doing yoga to make me feel more positive about my weight (as I’m the heaviest I’ve been in a while), going for walks to get out but it’s just not enough. I’ve had a lot of time wasters and liars on here lately which isn’t helping and I’m missing being out and social but can’t do that alone. Any suggestions are welcome…. I’m annoying myself now with this mood " I totally get this. Sounds like you're on the right path. Have you tried meditation? Or a chat with doctor? The fact that you are aware of this if half the battle Wishing you all the best Missy x | |||
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"I need help getting out this funk I’m in, can’t seem to shift it, I’ve started exercising and doing yoga to make me feel more positive about my weight (as I’m the heaviest I’ve been in a while), going for walks to get out but it’s just not enough. I’ve had a lot of time wasters and liars on here lately which isn’t helping and I’m missing being out and social but can’t do that alone. Any suggestions are welcome…. I’m annoying myself now with this mood " Just took a look at your profile pictures and to be honest, you look stunning. I understand that weight is a big thing for a female so just eat healthy and excersize regularly and dont snack in-between meals and you will lose weight, it take time. | |||
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"I need help getting out this funk I’m in, can’t seem to shift it, I’ve started exercising and doing yoga to make me feel more positive about my weight (as I’m the heaviest I’ve been in a while), going for walks to get out but it’s just not enough. I’ve had a lot of time wasters and liars on here lately which isn’t helping and I’m missing being out and social but can’t do that alone. Any suggestions are welcome…. I’m annoying myself now with this mood " I know the feeling and sympathise. I always feel a bit better for getting outdoors and a bit of activity... But if your mood is that low, maybe a visit to your gp... I'm sure there will be lots of offers of support on here.... Its a horrible feeling and if swapping a few kind messages with someone on shared interests might put a smile on your face... Pm me or probably anyone on the thread. If not... Just be kind to yourself and the best of wishes you get your chin up soon. Go out and spot 50 red things on a walk or listen to the trees in the breeze, write a bit of poetry, take some photos... Listening to music is a great mood changer. | |||
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"I need help getting out this funk I’m in, can’t seem to shift it, I’ve started exercising and doing yoga to make me feel more positive about my weight (as I’m the heaviest I’ve been in a while), going for walks to get out but it’s just not enough. I’ve had a lot of time wasters and liars on here lately which isn’t helping and I’m missing being out and social but can’t do that alone. Any suggestions are welcome…. I’m annoying myself now with this mood " I’m sorry to hear this OP. I too am happy to hold space for you if you need to talk | |||
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"I need help getting out this funk I’m in, can’t seem to shift it, I’ve started exercising and doing yoga to make me feel more positive about my weight (as I’m the heaviest I’ve been in a while), going for walks to get out but it’s just not enough. I’ve had a lot of time wasters and liars on here lately which isn’t helping and I’m missing being out and social but can’t do that alone. Well from your pics you look fantastic already! As some others have said… music! Go a stroll with your favorite band on the headphones C Any suggestions are welcome…. I’m annoying myself now with this mood " | |||
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"I need help getting out this funk I’m in, can’t seem to shift it, I’ve started exercising and doing yoga to make me feel more positive about my weight (as I’m the heaviest I’ve been in a while), going for walks to get out but it’s just not enough. I’ve had a lot of time wasters and liars on here lately which isn’t helping and I’m missing being out and social but can’t do that alone. Well from your pics you look fantastic already! As some others have said… music! Go a stroll with your favorite band on the headphones C Any suggestions are welcome…. I’m annoying myself now with this mood " | |||
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"You look stunning, you have nothing to feel self conscious about, I know it's easier said than done. Just remember its natural to have anxieties and the majority of people feel the same way. But believe in yourself, you sound a lovely woman and with your sexy body I can imagine that you get inundated with offers of friendship and more. Maybe look at who you reply to, filter your messages more. Be choosy. Our advice would be to only look to get to know people who live reasonably close to you, who won't use distance and time as excuses to meet / cancel on you. Only chat with photo verified people or those with real verifications but not too many Also get them to message you a live pic with them doing a gesture of somekind, like doing a fist bump or holding so many fingers up etc. Helps discover who is real. Also if they can't be arsed with that then they certainly won't be arsed in meeting. Keep your chin up sexy x " Thank you. I am really particular with who I meet and I only meet people who Are local and I don’t just meet anyone because I’m after specific things sexually. It just seems lately there are a lot of time wasters out there . | |||
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"I need help getting out this funk I’m in, can’t seem to shift it, I’ve started exercising and doing yoga to make me feel more positive about my weight (as I’m the heaviest I’ve been in a while), going for walks to get out but it’s just not enough. I’ve had a lot of time wasters and liars on here lately which isn’t helping and I’m missing being out and social but can’t do that alone. Any suggestions are welcome…. I’m annoying myself now with this mood " Try meetup .com it's a vanilla site. Lots of different groups on there, just join up. Walking groups, cinema clubs, cycling, movie lovers, active (inserr age here) loads of different things. It is worth checking out. Through that I played badminton with a group for a year or so. Went on a few walks, met some random people in a pub (these events tend to have a contact you can meet at the bar and they will introduce you etc). It is pretty good. It caters for all age ranges and interests. And gets you out and about. Hope you check it out and give it a go. | |||
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"Pineapple boosts your mood but is high in sugar, so have some of that in moderation as it's good. And asparagus for the horn. Try something new like indoor rock climbing, that'll get you fit and laughing." I don’t have an issue with lack of horn that’s very much still there | |||
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"Have you thought about going to a club instead OP? Perhaps a night that is more focused around the ladies. Even if it's just to flirt and meet people to possibly meet up with at a later date. It saves a lot of the risk of being let down by people who are just here to wank from behind a computer. " Yes I have but distance is an issue for me as I don’t drive. | |||
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"Have you thought about going to a club instead OP? Perhaps a night that is more focused around the ladies. Even if it's just to flirt and meet people to possibly meet up with at a later date. It saves a lot of the risk of being let down by people who are just here to wank from behind a computer. Yes I have but distance is an issue for me as I don’t drive." Sorry to hear that. Hope you can make it one day. | |||
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"I need help getting out this funk I’m in, can’t seem to shift it, I’ve started exercising and doing yoga to make me feel more positive about my weight (as I’m the heaviest I’ve been in a while), going for walks to get out but it’s just not enough. I’ve had a lot of time wasters and liars on here lately which isn’t helping and I’m missing being out and social but can’t do that alone. Any suggestions are welcome…. I’m annoying myself now with this mood " This mood, it will pass. You say you've put on weight and are doing things to shift it. My advice, try not too. You're focusing on a negative and giving it oxygen. That which you resist about you, becomes about you. Do things that you want to do, things you've never done before. Venture out. New experiences will help mould a new you. It's not easy. It is possible. You've got this!!!!!! Winston | |||
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