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What turns you on the most?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can have a sexual attraction to lots of people, their physical characteristics or even what they wear and even their personality could turn me on with different levels of hornyness.

But after answering the ‘what turns you on or off questions so many times I just post any one of the answers I would have.

What is your absolute number 1 turn on? Is it just one or a combination?

*let us know, fab might be able to help

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

The "I want YOU right now" look in his eyes.

That will focus my sexual attention on him every single time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When a woman is playing with her self after she gets wet and cums slowly sucking her fingers

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By *assy69Man
over a year ago

West Sussex and Wales

The eyes….. they’re always able to turn me on. Eyes can be so expressive and sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be intense eye contact I find it just electric

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Always much easier to list what turns me off but as strange as it may seem I find trust a major turn on.

To have someone who trusts you implicitly with their body as well as their mind is my number one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a mental connection. If we're in sync and on a level then looks etc don't matter.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The "I want YOU right now" look in his eyes.

That will focus my sexual attention on him every single time "

Similar. When I don’t need the words ‘I want you’, I simply can feel that they want me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slow sensual kissing and neck kissing...

Miss S x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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It's not one thing that turns me on more than anything. And it really does depend on the person.

I like feeling/being desired, not in a 'you're a woman and I'm wanking as I type this' kind of way, the sort of desire that makes me feel like my body comes alive when I read their words. Or see that look when you know they really, really want you. It's this intoxicating headspace that I'd happily inhabit time and time again - knowing I have an effect on someone makes me want them more and then you get this positive feedback loop of desire. Very hot.

I find how someone's mind works can be incredibly arousing, you know if you get an unfiltered stream of consciousness and you can see how they've reached the points they have. I find wordplay quite sexy as well, not juvenile stuff but more the lighthearted touch of someone who is confident in what they say and who they are.

In a similar vein, I find passion arousing. Even if it's about 1970s stamps. It's having something that lights them up, thinking about it directed at me.

Oh and someone who can put up with my waffle. That has me dripping with ill concealed lust. :D

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By *eddy004Man
over a year ago

Toy Town

Boobies

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

That moment when invited to join a couple, especially new oners to the lifestyle, when the woman lies back, I line my cock up the tip at her wet pussy and then nudge inside looking from that to the faces of both.

Then that thrilling fuck starts but by then my thoughts are all for her......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite a few things do. One of the biggest things that turn myself on would be, knowing I’m turning someone else on and that they are enjoying themselves with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite a few things do. One of the biggest things that turn myself on would be, knowing I’m turning someone else on and that they are enjoying themselves with me. "

I like that.

This is Mr J's biggest turn on too

Miss S x

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By *ingo00Man
over a year ago

Cowley

A thong pulled aside

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite a few things do. One of the biggest things that turn myself on would be, knowing I’m turning someone else on and that they are enjoying themselves with me.

I like that.

This is Mr J's biggest turn on too

Miss S x"

Funnily enough I was going to mention, slow sensual kissing and neck kissing x

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"It's not one thing that turns me on more than anything. And it really does depend on the person.

I like feeling/being desired, not in a 'you're a woman and I'm wanking as I type this' kind of way, the sort of desire that makes me feel like my body comes alive when I read their words. Or see that look when you know they really, really want you. It's this intoxicating headspace that I'd happily inhabit time and time again - knowing I have an effect on someone makes me want them more and then you get this positive feedback loop of desire. Very hot.

I find how someone's mind works can be incredibly arousing, you know if you get an unfiltered stream of consciousness and you can see how they've reached the points they have. I find wordplay quite sexy as well, not juvenile stuff but more the lighthearted touch of someone who is confident in what they say and who they are.

In a similar vein, I find passion arousing. Even if it's about 1970s stamps. It's having something that lights them up, thinking about it directed at me.

Oh and someone who can put up with my waffle. That has me dripping with ill concealed lust. :D "

This is me too but no way I could’ve written it so articulately!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's not one thing that turns me on more than anything. And it really does depend on the person.

I like feeling/being desired, not in a 'you're a woman and I'm wanking as I type this' kind of way, the sort of desire that makes me feel like my body comes alive when I read their words. Or see that look when you know they really, really want you. It's this intoxicating headspace that I'd happily inhabit time and time again - knowing I have an effect on someone makes me want them more and then you get this positive feedback loop of desire. Very hot.

I find how someone's mind works can be incredibly arousing, you know if you get an unfiltered stream of consciousness and you can see how they've reached the points they have. I find wordplay quite sexy as well, not juvenile stuff but more the lighthearted touch of someone who is confident in what they say and who they are.

In a similar vein, I find passion arousing. Even if it's about 1970s stamps. It's having something that lights them up, thinking about it directed at me.

Oh and someone who can put up with my waffle. That has me dripping with ill concealed lust. :D

This is me too but no way I could’ve written it so articulately! "

I know, but it’s a bit long winded though….

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

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"It's not one thing that turns me on more than anything. And it really does depend on the person.

I like feeling/being desired, not in a 'you're a woman and I'm wanking as I type this' kind of way, the sort of desire that makes me feel like my body comes alive when I read their words. Or see that look when you know they really, really want you. It's this intoxicating headspace that I'd happily inhabit time and time again - knowing I have an effect on someone makes me want them more and then you get this positive feedback loop of desire. Very hot.

I find how someone's mind works can be incredibly arousing, you know if you get an unfiltered stream of consciousness and you can see how they've reached the points they have. I find wordplay quite sexy as well, not juvenile stuff but more the lighthearted touch of someone who is confident in what they say and who they are.

In a similar vein, I find passion arousing. Even if it's about 1970s stamps. It's having something that lights them up, thinking about it directed at me.

Oh and someone who can put up with my waffle. That has me dripping with ill concealed lust. :D

This is me too but no way I could’ve written it so articulately!

I know, but it’s a bit long winded though…. "

No just joyously descriptive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quite a few things do. One of the biggest things that turn myself on would be, knowing I’m turning someone else on and that they are enjoying themselves with me.

I like that.

This is Mr J's biggest turn on too

Miss S x

Funnily enough I was going to mention, slow sensual kissing and neck kissing x"

Definitely something about turning someone else on that's so hot too, all three and your in for a good night right

Miss S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A passionate kiss…. And it’s the good kisses I’ve had that I remember more than the sex

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A passionate kiss…. And it’s the good kisses I’ve had that I remember more than the sex "

Oh yes.

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By *aka12345Couple
over a year ago

close by

Telling hubby what I got up to when I was younger and hearing his stories xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i feel the other person has a connection/similar spark to me.

Bodywise, nice eyes and nice legs!

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Kissing!!

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Physically, there are some things I’m more drawn to but they’re not vital! I love hairy, tall men who look like they can overpower me.

A caveman

The kissing though, someone who is confident and makes my bits tingle when they just get hold of me and swooooooooon

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By *KloganMan
over a year ago

Ramsbottom


"It's not one thing that turns me on more than anything. And it really does depend on the person.

I like feeling/being desired, not in a 'you're a woman and I'm wanking as I type this' kind of way, the sort of desire that makes me feel like my body comes alive when I read their words. Or see that look when you know they really, really want you. It's this intoxicating headspace that I'd happily inhabit time and time again - knowing I have an effect on someone makes me want them more and then you get this positive feedback loop of desire. Very hot.

I find how someone's mind works can be incredibly arousing, you know if you get an unfiltered stream of consciousness and you can see how they've reached the points they have. I find wordplay quite sexy as well, not juvenile stuff but more the lighthearted touch of someone who is confident in what they say and who they are.

In a similar vein, I find passion arousing. Even if it's about 1970s stamps. It's having something that lights them up, thinking about it directed at me.

Oh and someone who can put up with my waffle. That has me dripping with ill concealed lust. :D

This is me too but no way I could’ve written it so articulately! "

100% agree with this… it’s a perfect summarisation of holding the key to the passion of someone which can be locked behind the eyes. It can be incredibly attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personality

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

A sexy confident woman, with a great smile & an easy going personality

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"The "I want YOU right now" look in his eyes.

That will focus my sexual attention on him every single time "

This, along with the smile...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing probably for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A curvy confident woman.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"The "I want YOU right now" look in his eyes.

That will focus my sexual attention on him every single time

Similar. When I don’t need the words ‘I want you’, I simply can feel that they want me. "

That electricity is immense

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Someone as Grumpy as me

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By *ancer36Woman
over a year ago

Stirling

When someone you are attracted to talks passionately about a subject, the way there eyes light up, the curve of the smile that comes across there face, the excitement in there voice, the recalling of memories that has them giddy - just that euphoria you can feel from them!

That and neck kissing when they almost savour your skin and every hair on your body responds, that tingle down your spine gets me every time! Xx

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World


"Someone as Grumpy as me "

Impossible to find

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

That "look"

That two people can give to each other when you know what is about to follow next........

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity


"Someone as Grumpy as me

Impossible to find "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Savage elixir , nice looking, awesome kisses and dirty in bed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A curvy confident woman."

Here i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A sexy confident woman, with a great smile & an easy going personality "

Here I am x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

A willingness to turn their body over to me to do with as I desire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies in uniform . Secretary look . Ladies in heels/stockings

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By *orkshire JohnMan
over a year ago

keighley/Bradford

At the moment, nothing....I think my cock is broken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It can’t be written or listed.

It’s something about the person that can’t be described.

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By *ryingitout19Man
over a year ago

Wales

Eye contact

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By *ornboy1990Man
over a year ago

Paisley

Creampie eating gets me instant hard again ready for round 2

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

It's not a look but a feeling.

Doesn't matter if you've met once or 100 times. The fluttering of the butterflies in your stomach as the time and distance grows less till you see them...the feeling of the first mouth watering, heart pounding, pulse raising kiss that sets your body on fire...that for me is the turn on x

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By *andering Welsh GuyMan
over a year ago

All over the place

Eating pussy

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

A meeting of minds! Believe me you each know when the feelings are intense as the eyes say it all, the eyes being the window to the soul and cannot lie, and that it's not just faked, or a quick fix, or taking one for the team

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

Its definitley in the eyes ...that look that twinkle ,gets me everytime

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff


"Eating pussy "

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

Dirty talk (especially with accents)

Public sex

Group sex

Seeing a woman take multiple cocks.

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

A woman actually telling me she's horny and wants to have sex with me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't say, she might read this!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing, deep kissing gets me hard every time without fail

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By *_elia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

Latex and shiny bums...

Shallow yes.. but love it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find adventure a turn on. People that are excited by life. People that are happy so their eyes shine. People who say yes to my crazy ideas. And who make me laugh.

Physically, I find touching skin a real turn on. I love putting my hands under a t-shirt and getting a bit of skin to skin. I'm not really a fan of wearing lingerie and stockings because of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Slow sensual kissing and neck kissing...

Miss S x"

This

Missy x

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

The look of lust shared between me and the other person….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As mentioned has to be combination of eye contact and passionate wanton kiss.

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire


"The "I want YOU right now" look in his eyes.

That will focus my sexual attention on him every single time "

Absolutely. That look of you're mine and I'm taking you

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

The touch.... the feeling of passion through their fingers on your body. Hot breath on you. Kisses exploring your body.

Feeling him becoming excited, shortening of breath, little noises, and that growing erection

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