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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you ever just send a message because you are blown away by their photos? Just to tell them how gorgeous / stunning / sexy they are? Without the requirement for a response but just to maybe make someone smile?

Or do you only message with the need for a response ?

It’s good to spread just a smile too right?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Yes, I've messaged a few people purely to say I like their photos/lingerie etc.

I did it a bit ago after seeing a particular set of photos that I really loved (because it featured something I would love but rarely mention) and used the word ilk. Couldn't tell what made him happier; the word or the message. :D

I didn't even need him to respond really, it was like saying nice dress or hair.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve done this a few times

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes, I've messaged a few people purely to say I like their photos/lingerie etc.

I did it a bit ago after seeing a particular set of photos that I really loved (because it featured something I would love but rarely mention) and used the word ilk. Couldn't tell what made him happier; the word or the message. :D

I didn't even need him to respond really, it was like saying nice dress or hair."

Sometimes that’s all that is needed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve done this a few times "

I bet you have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A few times. I sometimes got a reply, which was nice.

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon


"Do you ever just send a message because you are blown away by their photos? Just to tell them how gorgeous / stunning / sexy they are? Without the requirement for a response but just to maybe make someone smile?

Or do you only message with the need for a response ?

It’s good to spread just a smile too right? "

Yes I have, or something they've said in a forum post or status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have. Its nice to get a reply but I don't do it with the expectation of a reply

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By *asilyled1Man
over a year ago

ogmore valley

I do it yes. Nothing expected in return.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I've done it a couple of times, I do like a good artistic photo.

Mrs

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I've come across many a profile where I've felt compelled to send a compliment. But I very rarely do.

Why? I fear the recipient will interpret it as 'faux flattery', 'chancing my luck' and being disingenuous.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've done it a couple of times, I do like a good artistic photo.

Mrs "

Blimey… you have plenty of those

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've come across many a profile where I've felt compelled to send a compliment. But I very rarely do.

Why? I fear the recipient will interpret it as 'faux flattery', 'chancing my luck' and being disingenuous."

And if they do? No harm done… you’ve done what you wanted to do … give a compliment …

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I do sometimes message compliments, but it's rarely about photos (if I like a photo I tend to fab it). It's usually a compliment about someone's profile, something they've said which has made me laugh or has resonated with me.

I don't look for a reply but often get a thank you message back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have sent respectful comments to others when you can see they have really given the image they are sharing some thought, We really should treat our ladies and couples with more respect as without them this place just wouldn’t work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I have. it's usually "Wow, just Wow".

There may be half a dozen reasons why we would not ever get together (Distance is usually the first one) but If some has made the effort then I always thinks its worth recognising that.

In ever case the message is deleted without even a 'thank you' (yes I know you get 1000s of messages). no evidence that they have even looked at my profile. and in most cases I also get blocked (their choice).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've done it loads of times, I even put in the message I dont need a response.

I just appreciate a good set of photos, just wish i was better at taking them myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do sometimes message compliments, but it's rarely about photos (if I like a photo I tend to fab it). It's usually a compliment about someone's profile, something they've said which has made me laugh or has resonated with me.

I don't look for a reply but often get a thank you message back."

I have also done this a few times

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have done that a few times even when they are hundreds of miles away. I think it is good to let people know they are valued and admired. There are enough trolls on the Interweb already.

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By *ocopops1962Man
over a year ago

Glasgow / Lindon


"Yes, I've messaged a few people purely to say I like their photos/lingerie etc.

I did it a bit ago after seeing a particular set of photos that I really loved (because it featured something I would love but rarely mention) and used the word ilk. Couldn't tell what made him happier; the word or the message. :D

I didn't even need him to respond really, it was like saying nice dress or hair."

Nice hair btw ! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do occasionally message with no other intent than sending a compliment. 95% of the time they’re well received.

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