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Name your only one deal breaker?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Not looking like your pic is the obvs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fancying the person.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Unfortunately I have more than one which is why I have preferences but the one rule I won't break under any circumstances is my lower age rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skiddies on their undies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skiddies on their undies."

Bugger I’m out

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours


"Not fancying the person."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shorter IRL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few but the main would be having chemistry with someone. If there is no chemistry nothing will happen

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Fussy wench

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Shorter IRL "
that would be a biggy fir me too tbf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skiddies on their undies.

Bugger I’m out "

If you bring some Lidl lager we could be back on

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Drinks too much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skiddies on their undies.

Bugger I’m out

If you bring some Lidl lager we could be back on "

No deal it’s mine it’s mine I tell ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skiddies on their undies.

Bugger I’m out

If you bring some Lidl lager we could be back on

No deal it’s mine it’s mine I tell ya "

Fine I’ll bring some kestrel. I’m posh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lack of desire and hunger in her eyes

Treating me like im a factory penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skiddies on their undies.

Bugger I’m out

If you bring some Lidl lager we could be back on

No deal it’s mine it’s mine I tell ya

Fine I’ll bring some kestrel. I’m posh "

Go the whole hog and bring some Skol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lack of desire and hunger in her eyes

Treating me like im a factory penis "

a factory penis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skiddies on their undies.

Bugger I’m out

If you bring some Lidl lager we could be back on

No deal it’s mine it’s mine I tell ya

Fine I’ll bring some kestrel. I’m posh

Go the whole hog and bring some Skol "

I said I’m posh not royalty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Drugs

Bad hygiene

No personality

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Bad language.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a profile point of view, lots of dick pics.

From a person point of view,chemistry and not being stuck up their own arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lack of desire and hunger in her eyes

Treating me like im a factory penis a factory penis "

its not a good feeling to be seen as nothing more than a world class vibrator

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is bunnyboileryness a word?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lack of desire and hunger in her eyes

Treating me like im a factory penis a factory penis its not a good feeling to be seen as nothing more than a world class vibrator "

cross we gotta bear sometimes

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By *rettyflamingoCouple
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

I have a few but the main ones are no chemistry and refusing to wear a condom.

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Condoms for oral

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Condoms for oral "
do ppl do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone trying to control me dominate me or belittle me it puts me in compete mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spurs supporters.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North/Blackpool

Good kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condoms for oral "

Even mint choc chip flavoured one?!!

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

If they watch Reality TV / Soap Operas.

Unless it's part of a thesis they are writing, then I'd be interested and want to know more.

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"Condoms for oral do ppl do that "

Yep, I had somebody only mention it on the day of a meet and I ended up cancelling. I love giving oral, it’s a big part of a meet for me so it was definitely a deal breaker

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"Condoms for oral

Even mint choc chip flavoured one?!!

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I’m fussy about what I’ll put in my mouth!

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire

Feet. Yuk

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Shorter than me. But theres more!

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By *ob.42Man
over a year ago

Near Yarmouth

I went down on a woman a couple of years ago only to find she'd wet farted prior to our meeting. Definite deal breaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bad smells

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"I went down on a woman a couple of years ago only to find she'd wet farted prior to our meeting. Definite deal breaker."

Sharted? Omg

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

If she chews tobacco or smokes a pipe, I’m out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smoking and drugs. Both are equal deal breakers to me.

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Safe sex

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

If their house is like a tip, they are history before they even became news.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Halitosis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Shorter IRL "

Speaks immediately to dishonesty....

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hygiene no hygiene no class

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By *mwirralMan
over a year ago

wirral


"I went down on a woman a couple of years ago only to find she'd wet farted prior to our meeting. Definite deal breaker."

Do you break off or at least make her cum?

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

• Poor personal hygiene / bad teeth

• Height - anything less than 5ft10 is a no

• White socks

• One of those haircuts where it looks like their fringe has been cut using a ruler

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women with beards and moustaches.

I won't meet one who hasn't got one or the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Photo tattoos of family members. A bit niche I know but there was once a really hot, hung young man on here who would message me. He had huge tattoos across his chest of infant children photos. I couldn't see past it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No profile picture,

Want's to fuck the wife proper!

Lack off reading skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not willing to prove a profile is really them by sending a photo of them at that moment, sometimes I'll ask to not even show their face , but to hold a hand up infront doing a peace sign, but the fakes never do .

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I have a problem with people who lie. Not giving all the information is fine, but I don't like being lied to. I am honest and I expect others to be the same .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are a dick, they don’t get my dick.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Golfers.

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Teeth

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Impossible to list just one, but age and body type preferences are definitely not deal breakers. Everything else is !

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Smoking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Smoking "

This was mine. I've now met a smoker which I absolutely hate but I've fallen into the dicksand.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Shorter than me

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By *idliverpoolMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Lady must have some hair on bush

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Golfers."

Haha. I laugh at this every time.

I’d rather see this as a search preference than anything else. just for the fun value.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Drawn on eyebrows.

Too much makeup.

The mr.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester


"Golfers.

Haha. I laugh at this every time.

I’d rather see this as a search preference than anything else. just for the fun value. "

Actually they should have a tick box in preferences for this.

Mind you, as we all know, they would just lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fussy wench"

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral


"Not fancying the person."

Our one golden rule is that we will insist on a no contact social meet before anything else. There HAS to be a connection and all parties should get a chance to walk away before doing something that they know they are gonna regret.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

poor hygiene

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By *ob.42Man
over a year ago

Near Yarmouth


"I went down on a woman a couple of years ago only to find she'd wet farted prior to our meeting. Definite deal breaker.

Do you break off or at least make her cum?"

I'd already made her cum twice, it was as much as I could do to carry on at all when I saw it though. Never went back and she never knew why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Condoms for oral "

But you can get curry flavoured now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we kiss, its like kissing my brother!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we kiss, its like kissing my brother! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we kiss, its like kissing my brother! "

You'll have to clarify that, for everyone who has never kissed a sibling. Or just everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we kiss, its like kissing my brother!

You'll have to clarify that, for everyone who has never kissed a sibling. Or just everyone. "

Most people have kissed a sibling, just not their own.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

The cut of their jib

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

If I have to narrow it down to one, I'm going to cheat by being vague.

Being repulsive.

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

Not going to the bar to buy me a drink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roy Castle.

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple
over a year ago

letchworth

No chemistry/can’t make me laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poor hygiene

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roy Castle."

What about Cheryl Baker?

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By *wingamajigsCouple
over a year ago

Folkestone

Non smoking.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roy Castle.

What about Cheryl Baker?"

She's got to slow it down.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Hygiene….but attitude is also a mood killer not only got one deal breaker but hygiene is the top…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we kiss, its like kissing my brother!

You'll have to clarify that, for everyone who has never kissed a sibling. Or just everyone. "

It's a film quote.... Lorraine McFly said it to her son, Marty McFly.

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By *heron212Man
over a year ago

London

There are definitely more, but let's start with the obvious: Racism.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Kissing/snogging during sex

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

If they're Tasmanian then it's a polite "no thank you".

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By *0shadesOfFilthMan
over a year ago

nearby

no tories

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham

In no particular order:

The no safe sex brigade, play with fire if you like but won’t be with us.

Smokers / vapers

Arrogance

Bad hygiene

Pretending to be something your not / putting on a show for partner.

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Bare back

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By *aughtynottsCouple
over a year ago

Outside Nottingham


"Kissing/snogging during sex "

Ironic that your called _r sensual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not matching up with anyone on here. Without that, there is no deal to break!

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London


"Kissing/snogging during sex

Ironic that your called _r sensual. "

Sensual by name, sensual by nature

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