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"Now i can understand certain things but this 1 I'am totally confused on and need some help with people explaining as maybe its over my head . Let me explain, i have a friend who dabble when younger and had a girlfriend at the time with men ( Bi- curious), then same person and his girlfriend got Married ( he explained he had dabbled with men and she was happy to share him ( Bi-Sexual) they then went onto have a Child and later divorced and friend then decided he perferred men to woman so he now is Gay . Good on him for sorting his life out and still has my full support in whatever he does and can always count on me as a friend . What i can't get my head aroun is when does a Woman stop being Bi-curious and becomes Bi-Sexual . Would it be after the 3rd time or longer or does it just mean never ending that females can use Bi- Curious " Whenever she wants to if in fact she does want to identify as bi sexual. | |||
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"Now i can understand certain things but this 1 I'am totally confused on and need some help with people explaining as maybe its over my head . Let me explain, i have a friend who dabble when younger and had a girlfriend at the time with men ( Bi- curious), then same person and his girlfriend got Married ( he explained he had dabbled with men and she was happy to share him ( Bi-Sexual) they then went onto have a Child and later divorced and friend then decided he perferred men to woman so he now is Gay . Good on him for sorting his life out and still has my full support in whatever he does and can always count on me as a friend . What i can't get my head aroun is when does a Woman stop being Bi-curious and becomes Bi-Sexual . Would it be after the 3rd time or longer or does it just mean never ending that females can use Bi- Curious " There isn't a sign post you go past to delineate one from the other. It's self determined. Don't get so hung up on labels OP, unless you're ketchup. | |||
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"Why does it matter and what is the relevance of the story? " The relevance off the story was to show people the transition off someone who now idenifies themselve as Gay , where woman usually hide behind the Bi- curious heading rather than class themself as Bisexual | |||
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"Why does it matter and what is the relevance of the story? The relevance off the story was to show people the transition off someone who now idenifies themselve as Gay , where woman usually hide behind the Bi- curious heading rather than class themself as Bisexual " I wouldn’t say we ‘hide’ behind a bi-curious label. For me it’s similar to what someone above said, I wouldn’t class myself as fully bi-sexual as I probably wouldn’t enter into a relationship with a woman. I like to play with women sexually and bi-curious for me feels right. It’s a very personal thing. | |||
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"I don't class myself as bisexual even though I have been playing with women for years. This is because I would not meet a woman one on one, only as part of fmf or foursome and I don't think I could be romantically involved with a woman. I like playing with girls, but i need a guy for me to feel fulfilled " I feel exactly the same, I am attracted to women and enjoy playing with them but can't see myself in a relationship with one. | |||
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"Why does it matter and what is the relevance of the story? The relevance off the story was to show people the transition off someone who now idenifies themselve as Gay , where woman usually hide behind the Bi- curious heading rather than class themself as Bisexual I wouldn’t say we ‘hide’ behind a bi-curious label. For me it’s similar to what someone above said, I wouldn’t class myself as fully bi-sexual as I probably wouldn’t enter into a relationship with a woman. I like to play with women sexually and bi-curious for me feels right. It’s a very personal thing. " The Bi-curious name in my opinion would be used for some1 who has dabbled a litte with the same sex maybe once , twice , then they either stop or if they continue meeting thr same sex either on there own or as a cpl they are changing and now becoming Bisexual, . If a man kept using Bi - curious but had meet males more than twice people would label him as bisexual , | |||
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"Now i can understand certain things but this 1 I'am totally confused on and need some help with people explaining as maybe its over my head . Let me explain, i have a friend who dabble when younger and had a girlfriend at the time with men ( Bi- curious), then same person and his girlfriend got Married ( he explained he had dabbled with men and she was happy to share him ( Bi-Sexual) they then went onto have a Child and later divorced and friend then decided he perferred men to woman so he now is Gay . Good on him for sorting his life out and still has my full support in whatever he does and can always count on me as a friend . What i can't get my head aroun is when does a Woman stop being Bi-curious and becomes Bi-Sexual . Would it be after the 3rd time or longer or does it just mean never ending that females can use Bi- Curious " Your friend could call himself straight even though he only fucks men. Women calling themselves bi-curious are usually just playing with women to get their man horny, they don't enjoy it. Bisexual women don't exist. Even if a woman plays sexually with another woman many times, she's still straight because she hasn't married a woman. | |||
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"Now i can understand certain things but this 1 I'am totally confused on and need some help with people explaining as maybe its over my head . Let me explain, i have a friend who dabble when younger and had a girlfriend at the time with men ( Bi- curious), then same person and his girlfriend got Married ( he explained he had dabbled with men and she was happy to share him ( Bi-Sexual) they then went onto have a Child and later divorced and friend then decided he perferred men to woman so he now is Gay . Good on him for sorting his life out and still has my full support in whatever he does and can always count on me as a friend . What i can't get my head aroun is when does a Woman stop being Bi-curious and becomes Bi-Sexual . Would it be after the 3rd time or longer or does it just mean never ending that females can use Bi- Curious Your friend could call himself straight even though he only fucks men. Women calling themselves bi-curious are usually just playing with women to get their man horny, they don't enjoy it. Bisexual women don't exist. Even if a woman plays sexually with another woman many times, she's still straight because she hasn't married a woman. " Wouldn't a woman who marry's another woman have an a identity off being gay or is this only associated with men | |||
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