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Blocking people so they don't appear in searches

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By *ad boy maverick OP   Man
over a year ago

basildon

If people you message aren't interested in you , does blocking them stop them coming up in your searches or is there a better way ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes it stops them appearing in your searches.

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By *icketysplitsWoman
over a year ago

Way over Yonder, that's where I'm bound

Yes, but it doesn't stop them appearing on the fora. You just have to ignore them here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but you can see them in the forums only their comments they can't contact you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On a side note to this I received an incredible message from a fella here when I was only on a few weeks. I was kinda in the middle of doing something so put the phone down with full intention of re-reading and responding shortly. He on the other hand obviously thought my lack of an immediate response meant I wasn't interested. When I eventually sat down to read the message again and respond he had blocked me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a side note to this I received an incredible message from a fella here when I was only on a few weeks. I was kinda in the middle of doing something so put the phone down with full intention of re-reading and responding shortly. He on the other hand obviously thought my lack of an immediate response meant I wasn't interested. When I eventually sat down to read the message again and respond he had blocked me. "

That's normal or thrones that block on the middle of a conversation.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"On a side note to this I received an incredible message from a fella here when I was only on a few weeks. I was kinda in the middle of doing something so put the phone down with full intention of re-reading and responding shortly. He on the other hand obviously thought my lack of an immediate response meant I wasn't interested. When I eventually sat down to read the message again and respond he had blocked me. "

Damn that really sucks, I can't imagine being so impatient. It was his loss anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Damn that really sucks, I can't imagine being so impatient. It was his loss anyway."

thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block me block me

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham


"On a side note to this I received an incredible message from a fella here when I was only on a few weeks. I was kinda in the middle of doing something so put the phone down with full intention of re-reading and responding shortly. He on the other hand obviously thought my lack of an immediate response meant I wasn't interested. When I eventually sat down to read the message again and respond he had blocked me.

Damn that really sucks, I can't imagine being so impatient. It was his loss anyway."

Why is it his loss? Surely it’s both their losses as they were both interested?

He just followed fab etiquette. No reply = not interested. So he blocked to not to bother her anymore.

Sounds like a loss all around to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Block them or they block you but they still can wink

I thought blocking meant everything apart from seeing the forum messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block them or they block you but they still can wink

I thought blocking meant everything apart from seeing the forum messages?"

I never new they could wink you I thought if you blocked the only thing you can see is their forum comments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Block them or they block you but they still can wink

I thought blocking meant everything apart from seeing the forum messages?

I never new they could wink you I thought if you blocked the only thing you can see is their forum comments "

I was winked by someone but when I clicked to look at profile i got the blocked message come up

I must have blocked as why would someone block me but then wink? But then I do attract the crazies lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait so just because someone doesn’t reply to you quickly you’re supposed to block them? I don’t see the point because at a later date say they come across your profile and wish to connect. Why close a door when there’s been no harm? I’d only close it if things were abusive or inappropriate. Just my thoughts though

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton


"Damn that really sucks, I can't imagine being so impatient. It was his loss anyway.

thank you"

What a fool to block you

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Yes but you can see them in the forums only their comments they can't contact you."

They CAN contact you via the forum BUT they are not supposed to .......

Weird cos most of the time I don't think people know they are blocked as no one tells them .

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I do this to save d*unk me messaging those not interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had someone we meet in a club block us after being fab friends. We didn't immediately reply to a message he sent so blocked us. He denied it to a mutual friend.

There are some really impatient people on fab.

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By *ad boy maverick OP   Man
over a year ago

basildon

Just to be clear . I was wondering if there was a way to stop people appearing in your searches when they have messaged to say they are not interested . Is blocking the only way ?

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By *ad boy maverick OP   Man
over a year ago

basildon

By the way I'm not impatient but if your message has been read and their not interested then just delete it. That's pretty clear your not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On a side note to this I received an incredible message from a fella here when I was only on a few weeks. I was kinda in the middle of doing something so put the phone down with full intention of re-reading and responding shortly. He on the other hand obviously thought my lack of an immediate response meant I wasn't interested. When I eventually sat down to read the message again and respond he had blocked me. "

Sado's.

Short temper. And demanders in flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait so just because someone doesn’t reply to you quickly you’re supposed to block them? I don’t see the point because at a later date say they come across your profile and wish to connect. Why close a door when there’s been no harm? I’d only close it if things were abusive or inappropriate. Just my thoughts though "

For us, private notes work far better than a block.

Things can change, what we seek, what they seek etc etc.

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