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"No I don’t mind when I’m called that " Haha me neither | |||
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"Is anyone an exceptional, gym fit professional here? " Moi | |||
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"Is anyone an exceptional, gym fit professional here? " You'll know, because they will tell you | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people." Nope. I think if there ever came a time when Fab got me “really annoyed” I’d just leave, it really wouldn’t be worth the agro. | |||
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"Nah, exceptional is subjective Most people that message us aren’t exceptional Our faces aren’t amazing to a lot of people either One of them innit Live and let live" Don't sell yourselves short, if anyones pictures around here are exceptional then people just need to look at you guys. PS this isn't a fishing reply, just credit where credit is due | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people." I've met many people on Fab I'd describe as exceptional. It's just a word and one that fits some people very well. Do some people use it to describe themselves? Sure. Do some people use it to describe the kind of people they're looking to meet? Yep. Does that bother me at all? Nope. It's far less offensive a term that calling people 'grossly overweight' in my opinion. A | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people." Grossly overweight people ARE exceptional. 'Unusual not typical'. I find the people most offended by terms on profiles (exceptional, professional, no drug users, no bareback etc) are the people who are sad because they have been excluded. The more annoyed they are, the more sad they are that they can't fuck that person. | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people." You sound angry. *pats head* C | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people." Nope | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people. How do the fatties use it?" Well, my interpretation of exceptional will be a man with a devil-may-care attitude to life. He'll walk with his chin tipped up and smile through the rain. His face will be open and cheerful and he'll make me laugh with his saucy, dry wit. His clothes will be casual of course, and his hair bedraggled. He's not bothered about watches or Creed aftershave and couldn't care less what he drives as long as it doesn't break down too often. He'll be happy accompanying me to a ballet, even though he's not interested, and he'll bag the cosy spot in the pub afterwards. When we get home he'll help me make tea and cheese on toast to eat before we go to bed and spend an hour making love, before drifting off into a deep sleep. | |||
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"Nah, exceptional is subjective Most people that message us aren’t exceptional Our faces aren’t amazing to a lot of people either One of them innit Live and let live Don't sell yourselves short, if anyones pictures around here are exceptional then people just need to look at you guys. PS this isn't a fishing reply, just credit where credit is due" Too kind, thank you. I just see myself as a normal human being. We all have our flaws, and it just helps that we know how to take a good photo Sasha | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people. How do the fatties use it? Well, my interpretation of exceptional will be a man with a devil-may-care attitude to life. He'll walk with his chin tipped up and smile through the rain. His face will be open and cheerful and he'll make me laugh with his saucy, dry wit. His clothes will be casual of course, and his hair bedraggled. He's not bothered about watches or Creed aftershave and couldn't care less what he drives as long as it doesn't break down too often. He'll be happy accompanying me to a ballet, even though he's not interested, and he'll bag the cosy spot in the pub afterwards. When we get home he'll help me make tea and cheese on toast to eat before we go to bed and spend an hour making love, before drifting off into a deep sleep. " | |||
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"Nah, exceptional is subjective Most people that message us aren’t exceptional Our faces aren’t amazing to a lot of people either One of them innit Live and let live Don't sell yourselves short, if anyones pictures around here are exceptional then people just need to look at you guys. PS this isn't a fishing reply, just credit where credit is due Too kind, thank you. I just see myself as a normal human being. We all have our flaws, and it just helps that we know how to take a good photo Sasha " You are definitely exceptional ; ) | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people. How do the fatties use it? Well, my interpretation of exceptional will be a man with a devil-may-care attitude to life. He'll walk with his chin tipped up and smile through the rain. His face will be open and cheerful and he'll make me laugh with his saucy, dry wit. His clothes will be casual of course, and his hair bedraggled. He's not bothered about watches or Creed aftershave and couldn't care less what he drives as long as it doesn't break down too often. He'll be happy accompanying me to a ballet, even though he's not interested, and he'll bag the cosy spot in the pub afterwards. When we get home he'll help me make tea and cheese on toast to eat before we go to bed and spend an hour making love, before drifting off into a deep sleep. " Does he have a twin brother? | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people. How do the fatties use it? Well, my interpretation of exceptional will be a man with a devil-may-care attitude to life. He'll walk with his chin tipped up and smile through the rain. His face will be open and cheerful and he'll make me laugh with his saucy, dry wit. His clothes will be casual of course, and his hair bedraggled. He's not bothered about watches or Creed aftershave and couldn't care less what he drives as long as it doesn't break down too often. He'll be happy accompanying me to a ballet, even though he's not interested, and he'll bag the cosy spot in the pub afterwards. When we get home he'll help me make tea and cheese on toast to eat before we go to bed and spend an hour making love, before drifting off into a deep sleep. Does he have a twin brother? " Yes, but he'll be the Maverick who picks up and drops women like the bad boy he is | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people." What does a person's weight have to do with it? | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people. How do the fatties use it? Well, my interpretation of exceptional will be a man with a devil-may-care attitude to life. He'll walk with his chin tipped up and smile through the rain. His face will be open and cheerful and he'll make me laugh with his saucy, dry wit. His clothes will be casual of course, and his hair bedraggled. He's not bothered about watches or Creed aftershave and couldn't care less what he drives as long as it doesn't break down too often. He'll be happy accompanying me to a ballet, even though he's not interested, and he'll bag the cosy spot in the pub afterwards. When we get home he'll help me make tea and cheese on toast to eat before we go to bed and spend an hour making love, before drifting off into a deep sleep. Does he have a twin brother? Yes, but he'll be the Maverick who picks up and drops women like the bad boy he is " He'd need to be a crane operator to pick me up. | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people. What does a person's weight have to do with it? " Fat people should be grateful for any fucks they get offered. They certainly shouldn't be making requests or demands. | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people. What does a person's weight have to do with it? Fat people should be grateful for any fucks they get offered. They certainly shouldn't be making requests or demands. " Oh yeah, forgot that bit! Not allowed to have standards either then aye | |||
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" I find it massively arrogant " Don't you find it exeptionally arrogant ? | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people." I am most likely what would be considered grossly overweight and I wouldn't even know how to spell that let alone use it correctly on my profile | |||
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"When I see people say they are looking for exceptional meets I usually think it just means they're fussy and I don't see anything wrong with that. Personally I'm looking for weirdos " I'm here | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people." What has the posters weight got to do with anything? | |||
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"No I don’t mind when I’m called that " ExceptionalDesirableEncounters ...do it do it! | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people. What does a person's weight have to do with it? Fat people should be grateful for any fucks they get offered. They certainly shouldn't be making requests or demands. Oh yeah, forgot that bit! Not allowed to have standards either then aye" That too. | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people." I’m exceptionally grossly overweight. But it doesn’t annoy me no | |||
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"What about if I described myself as 'exceptionally overweight'? " That would be the exception to the exceptional rule | |||
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"Does anyone else get really annoyed by this term? I find it massively arrogant and is usually posted by grossly overweight people." Well, I'm exceptionally overweight. | |||
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"i hate being labeled skinny because im slim just as i would not call a larger lady fat come on ladies lets not turn on each other .." I don't mind being called fat, and it didn't bother me being called skinny. I try to not let words get to me. | |||
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"i think the op is just pissed that someone has said no thanks" Incorrect | |||
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"i think the op is just pissed that someone has said no thanks" Nah, he doesn't consider himself exceptional and doesn't like that he might be turned down by someone he deems less attractive than himself, due to their weight. | |||
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"I guess this site is what it is & people are free to be as picky as they like & if using terms like “exceptional” in their profile helps to manage expectations then so be it .. I do smirk though when I see it used and they aren’t exactly “exceptional themselves” :/" But you don't know what they deem exceptional! Nor if they are also exceptional... Just because you don't see them as such, only means they aren't, to you | |||
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"i think the op is just pissed that someone has said no thanks Nah, he doesn't consider himself exceptional and doesn't like that he might be turned down by someone he deems less attractive than himself, due to their weight. " Incorrect again. My point was probably not articulated well enough. Fab is not the real world. Men vastly outnumber women, this has led to people becoming arrogant based on the number of interested people. In the real world people wouldn't be as interested. I just think people should be more realistic and not use the term exceptional unless they are that themselves. I've not seem many model types of either gender tbh. I've not been rejected or declined. I just don't think it's the best terminology. I also have nothing against people of any weight. Unless they are arrogant, that's slim, average and grossly overweight. | |||
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"I might change my extensive and wordy profile, and just put 'exceptional' " You’re the prime example of ‘exceptional’. Stunning lady | |||
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"Sure seems like you’re butt hurt at not getting meets. And yep you were weight bashing. What you deem exceptional isn’t the same as what someone else sees as exceptional. Body size doesn’t matter, anybody any size can have their own standards. " Ok, I'm an exceptionally bad person. Have a nice day. | |||
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"Looking for Exceptional only. I hate this wording on a profile. If that’s the case and you think that way? Why are you on here in the first place?. It reminds me of the school playground and picking football teams oh don’t pick him or her they are exceptionally shite. You should treat everyone the same with respect, manners and fairness at all times. There’s not enough love in this big bad world we live in sadly it’s all gone now. That person you ignored, knocked back or even blocked for not being “Exceptional” could have been the best fun you may ever have and the “Exceptional” person could turn out to be a feckin nightmare. Never judge a book by its cover. " | |||
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"Looking for Exceptional only. I hate this wording on a profile. If that’s the case and you think that way? Why are you on here in the first place?. It reminds me of the school playground and picking football teams oh don’t pick him or her they are exceptionally shite. You should treat everyone the same with respect, manners and fairness at all times. There’s not enough love in this big bad world we live in sadly it’s all gone now. That person you ignored, knocked back or even blocked for not being “Exceptional” could have been the best fun you may ever have and the “Exceptional” person could turn out to be a feckin nightmare. Never judge a book by its cover. " Because people are allowed to have preferences, decide who they're interested in and who they're not, and who they are attracted to and want to meet. It's nothing to do with 'respect'. And where the fuck does 'fairness' come into it? Nobody is entitled to a meet just because they're 'nice'. You don't get insist that people meet just because you're here. Its not a place where just by creating a profile someone has to meet you because it's 'only fair' that they do. Some people will be very specific and choosy about who they want to meet and quite rightly so. If that means they choose to use a word like 'exceptional' or maybe 'good looking', 'fit', 'attractive' or 'toned' and that means they don't pick you.....it's not unfair! Jeez. The use of that word (fair) reeks of entitlement. A | |||
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"It's not massively arrogant at all. It just means most people on Fab don't interest them, so the ones they are interested in are the exception. Are you suggesting people should have sex with people they don't want to so people like you can get their end away, OP? " I would politely suggest your question is a bit of a reach. I have no issues with anyone declining me and stopped the thought process of 'getting my end away' in my teens. We all have a choice and free will. I just simply don't like the terminology. | |||
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"Exceptional is in the eye of the beholder. One person's Exceptional is another person's mediocre " | |||
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"You have miss interpreted what I have said some people on here think they are the bees knees and above and beyond everyone else that’s the point I am making. If that is the case why are you on here in the first place?." So you think only desperate people swing? Weird take! | |||
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"You have miss interpreted what I have said some people on here think they are the bees knees and above and beyond everyone else that’s the point I am making. If that is the case why are you on here in the first place?. So you think only desperate people swing? Weird take! " That is not what he has written | |||
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"I guess this site is what it is & people are free to be as picky as they like & if using terms like “exceptional” in their profile helps to manage expectations then so be it .. I do smirk though when I see it used and they aren’t exactly “exceptional themselves” :/ But you don't know what they deem exceptional! Nor if they are also exceptional... Just because you don't see them as such, only means they aren't, to you" Exactly - we all have our own versions of the term Exceptional , I don’t disagree | |||
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