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By *ixiePoison OP   Woman
over a year ago

Darlington

What's the meaning of winks?

If you like someone, why not just message them?

I just tend to delete all of them, am I the only one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose one reason is it’s a gauge to see if you are mutually attracted before you message…

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By *ilberto42Man
over a year ago

north wales

I wink first to see if i get a response x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose one reason is it’s a gauge to see if you are mutually attracted before you message… "

And I think it is a good thing, as I have put effort into a message many a time to get it deleted or not even read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

What's the meaning of winks?

If you like someone, why not just message them?

I just tend to delete all of them, am I the only one? "

No you're not the only one. It's almost as though it's a 'I can't be bothered to put the effort into sending a message ' signal!

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

I see the winks as a little initial flirt, if they wink back then it shows they’re interested and breaks the ice for messaging.

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I see the winks as a little initial flirt, if they wink back then it shows they’re interested and breaks the ice for messaging.

C x"

100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I suppose one reason is it’s a gauge to see if you are mutually attracted before you message… "

Don't use them myself, which could explain some things...

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds


"

What's the meaning of winks?

If you like someone, why not just message them?

I just tend to delete all of them, am I the only one? "

I never look and don't send. Much prefer the direct approach x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are a bit shy in making the first move so I feel winks are good in that respect

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

If you don't want winks from the same people don't delete them. That prevents them from sending another.

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By *iss MaverickWoman
over a year ago

Porthcawl

I never look at winks I forget they even exist

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

I like winks giving and receiving, shows an initial interest

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By *ixiePoison OP   Woman
over a year ago

Darlington


"Some people are a bit shy in making the first move so I feel winks are good in that respect "

Never thought of that reason, but they can't be that shy, to post a pic of their cock!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand the reticence and aversion to be honest.

It's a simple tool that allows for a mild shot across the bow, and perhaps start things from there.

I prefer it to be honest, brings you to their attention, balls in their court, they can peruse your profile and maybe wink back or message, or what is most likely...

delete it and never think of you again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people are a bit shy in making the first move so I feel winks are good in that respect

Never thought of that reason, but they can't be that shy, to post a pic of their cock! "

Hence I don't have any pics of that nature

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
over a year ago

here and there

We like winks ,it helps to see if you have a mutual attraction before writing a message

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By *ixiePoison OP   Woman
over a year ago

Darlington

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By *ixiePoison OP   Woman
over a year ago

Darlington

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the ones that wink that are miles away from you I don't get like what's the point

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By *ixiePoison OP   Woman
over a year ago

Darlington

I'm going to pay more attention to them on from now on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like winks to test the water out, though looking here it seems a lot of people don't look

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By *ixiePoison OP   Woman
over a year ago

Darlington

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By *imply DeeWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

Honestly, I think they are a way of saying “I’m too lazy to send an interesting message so I’ll better wink instead.”

Never send them, never look at them, bulk delete them at the end of the day.

But that’s only me and I understand why people would disagree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like the winks sending or receiving it shows someone's interested or they liked what they seen instead of giving them a message to either just ignore or click that lovely block button

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

A wink is the same as a like in my book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The first ever meet was because I winked him, we still see each other over 2 1/2 years on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send wink before sending copy and paste message with dog filter image attached

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's like a secret fab handshake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We like winks and have met a few over the years that have began as a wink.

It's simple in my mind.

Profile one winks profile two checks out the profile one, if they like, they wink back.

Profile one then takes that as a sign to take things to the next stage and send a message, hopefully a good one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like a secret fab handshake "

That's one way to look at it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't look at who's winked at, or friend requested me....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its like a marrage proposal

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I like winks, I like to see if there's mutual attraction,if they wink back I'd message, I'm useless at 1st messages, it's much easier knowing they like your profile.

Mrs

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"I like winks, I like to see if there's mutual attraction,if they wink back I'd message, I'm useless at 1st messages, it's much easier knowing they like your profile.

Mrs"
Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good wink. It shows interest, it's how good conversations start

Claire

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

We've had several meets that have started with a wink. We've also returned many (100+) then they don't follow with a message, some wink again after a couple of months!

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

They're lazy, just send me a msg.

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