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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As the title states ... what is the best way in your opinion to end a relationship ?0

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By *tagandvixen200Couple
over a year ago

Edinburgh

Give them closure - why it wouldn’t work for you…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quick text, no kisses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isnt one in the end there will be tears blood feathers or all 3 of em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There must be....

50 ways to leave your lover

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Be honest with yourself and them.

Don't prolonged it be clear about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text it's over then block all forms of communication with that person & also be strong in yourself to carry it out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Quick text, no kisses. "

Hahaha Noooooo (Yr def joking)

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

With honesty and compassion.

People owe each other that much, unless of course one party has crossed a red line within the relationship or one party is escaping an abusive partner.

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset


"With honesty and compassion.

People owe each other that much, unless of course one party has crossed a red line within the relationship or one party is escaping an abusive partner."

This

Sometimes it's necessary to just cut and run.

A

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Unambiguously and with respect.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"With honesty and compassion.

People owe each other that much, unless of course one party has crossed a red line within the relationship or one party is escaping an abusive partner."

Very true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't do it via fax, it could dampen your solo career.

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim

Being truthful and telling them in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With honesty and compassion.

People owe each other that much, unless of course one party has crossed a red line within the relationship or one party is escaping an abusive partner."

This hands down.

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By *he Wrangler and BelleCouple
over a year ago

Bishops Strortford


"With honesty and compassion.

People owe each other that much, unless of course one party has crossed a red line within the relationship or one party is escaping an abusive partner."

Wholeheartedly agree.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

It depends on how long you’ve been together and the reason for ending it…

If it was quite a short or casual relationship, I would just be quite to the point but compassionate, and then cut ties & block if needed

If it was a longer relationship or more potential heartache involved, be considerate of their feelings but be honest and don’t give false hope. Face to face I think is best

If they’ve cheated, screwed you over, been abusive etc, break up with them however you prefer and whichever causes you the least upset (phone, text, face to face), then block them, get some things planned in with your friends and go out and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honest and respect. Remember you loved that person once.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not via WhatsApp my last two relationships were ended this way, one of them being a 5 year relationship

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

Short sweet text, can’t be doing with discussing the reasons, if it’s not working it’s not working

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

With respect and empathy for them

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By *ady GoodwitchWoman
over a year ago

Witchery wish lane

To be honest, and up front, so you both know where you stand, its the easiest and cleanest way, in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With honesty and compassion.

People owe each other that much, unless of course one party has crossed a red line within the relationship or one party is escaping an abusive partner."

Agree

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol


"There must be....

50 ways to leave your lover"

You just slip out the back jack

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By *aeganaWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"Being truthful and telling them in person "
agree with you here. Kinda hate that we are in the age off let's just dump them over a quick text and fuck off at least show you gave a shit at some point x

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds


"With honesty and compassion.

People owe each other that much, unless of course one party has crossed a red line within the relationship or one party is escaping an abusive partner."

Absolutely this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try and be as honest as you can about why it's not working, then a clean break.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try and be as honest as you can about why it's not working, then a clean break."

Stunning legs btw

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Discuss and come to an amicable agreement where hopefully you leave on friendly terms. Good luck

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Oh that's true, depends for the reasons for seperating, how long you been together and how good communicating with eachother. If they been seriously cruel to you, a letter explaining will suffice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In a timely, respectful and amicable manner.

I can't stress this enough! Lol

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There isn’t a best way. There is sometimes the only way. And sadly it’s sometimes filled with sadness, spite, revenge and point scoring.

Again there is no best way, but I would suggest at a wise old age where I can say I’m not in school anymore, being mature and honest about it should work out best no matter how you do it… But didn’t use text, a text is a shitty idea.

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"As the title states ... what is the best way in your opinion to end a relationship ?0"

...............................

If the OP relates to you, there's a chance your partner already knows!

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Ideally, before resentment and anger sets in, face to face, in an environment where you both feel safe, comfortable and able to express yourselves without accusations or aggression, and in such a way that you can have casual social interactions in future.

If you can’t do that, and most of us can’t, just do the best you can.

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By *idKnightMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"There must be....

50 ways to leave your lover

You just slip out the back jack "

Make a new plan, Stan

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By *ood time Chris BMan
over a year ago

TAUNTON AREA


"There must be....

50 ways to leave your lover

You just slip out the back jack "

Make a new plan Stan

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

Hop on the bus Gus...

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Dig a big hole in the back garden

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change your name and move to another country. Start an Emu farm.

That should give them the hint.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fake your own death.

Fake someone else’s death then vanish.

Organise a funeral, then say oops that’s meant to be me! Bloody phone didn’t remind me. Jump into coffin lie very still.

Convince them you are imaginary.

Convince them you ARE them, but from the future, and it’s just wrong (and technically wanking)

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By *entlemanFoxMan
over a year ago

North East / London


"It depends on how long you’ve been together and the reason for ending it…

If it was quite a short or casual relationship, I would just be quite to the point but compassionate, and then cut ties & block if needed

If it was a longer relationship or more potential heartache involved, be considerate of their feelings but be honest and don’t give false hope. Face to face I think is best

If they’ve cheated, screwed you over, been abusive etc, break up with them however you prefer and whichever causes you the least upset (phone, text, face to face), then block them, get some things planned in with your friends and go out and have fun. "

I think this covers it well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fake your own death.

Fake someone else’s death then vanish.

Organise a funeral, then say oops that’s meant to be me! Bloody phone didn’t remind me. Jump into coffin lie very still.

Convince them you are imaginary.

Convince them you ARE them, but from the future, and it’s just wrong (and technically wanking)

"

Working my way through these...

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

What about good old ghosting? (Sarcasm smile).

Happened to me once (I was ghosted) - the worst scenario for break up ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With honesty and compassion.

People owe each other that much, unless of course one party has crossed a red line within the relationship or one party is escaping an abusive partner."

^ this.

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Merton

Email...jk

Talk it out and let the other person down gentle be kind.

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