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My partner likes the idea of same room swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So iv been on fab my partner doesn’t know about it but last night we were watching porn ffm porn and she said she would be interested in same room swinging not full swaps. And also in to ffm threesomes too. I don’t know the best aproch to take as I don’t want to put her off and I won’t to get her involved with swinging life any advice would be brilliant. Couples mail me on the best way to go for a newby couple

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

How about clubs?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yer we did think clubs may be the best way to go as I’m up for anything but she is a little more held bk if you know what I mean but she wants to try with just another couple in the same room together to start with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just show her your profile. I’m sure she’ll be up for it after that.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

She started the conversation, just continue it. Ask her how she'd like to go about it. You're in an enviable position in that your partner asked you about it...talk back.

Good luck

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss


"Yer we did think clubs may be the best way to go as I’m up for anything but she is a little more held bk if you know what I mean but she wants to try with just another couple in the same room together to start with "

You can do that in a club, takes the pressure off everyone as same room swapping can be a little daunting to some, it can go really well and horribly wrong. Even with clear communication the jealous green eyes can halt things quite rapidly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just show her your profile. I’m sure she’ll be up for it after that."

Judge much? The chap asked for advice to something that might help him include his wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just show her your profile. I’m sure she’ll be up for it after that.

Judge much? The chap asked for advice to something that might help him include his wife."

Yes I judge people cheating on their wives. Cheating is a horrible thing to do to the person you supposedly love.

Swinging without trust is a recipe for disaster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just show her your profile. I’m sure she’ll be up for it after that.

Judge much? The chap asked for advice to something that might help him include his wife.

Yes I judge people cheating on their wives. Cheating is a horrible thing to do to the person you supposedly love.

Swinging without trust is a recipe for disaster."

I don't see a post asking for your judgment on his marital status nor inviting an opinion on what your thoughts are on that subject in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just show her your profile. I’m sure she’ll be up for it after that.

Judge much? The chap asked for advice to something that might help him include his wife.

Yes I judge people cheating on their wives. Cheating is a horrible thing to do to the person you supposedly love.

Swinging without trust is a recipe for disaster.

I don't see a post asking for your judgment on his marital status nor inviting an opinion on what your thoughts are on that subject in general."

I don’t see a post asking for your opinion on my opinion either yet here we are.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Let's stick to the topic in hand

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just show her your profile. I’m sure she’ll be up for it after that.

Judge much? The chap asked for advice to something that might help him include his wife.

Yes I judge people cheating on their wives. Cheating is a horrible thing to do to the person you supposedly love.

Swinging without trust is a recipe for disaster.

I don't see a post asking for your judgment on his marital status nor inviting an opinion on what your thoughts are on that subject in general.

I don’t see a post asking for your opinion on my opinion either yet here we are."

That doesn't address what I've said about the original post, does it? It simply deflects to an even weaker and meaningless point and there, I shall disengage. Good day to you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That esculated

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Just show her your profile. I’m sure she’ll be up for it after that.

Judge much? The chap asked for advice to something that might help him include his wife.

Yes I judge people cheating on their wives. Cheating is a horrible thing to do to the person you supposedly love.

Swinging without trust is a recipe for disaster."

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"So iv been on fab my partner doesn’t know about it but last night we were watching porn ffm porn and she said she would be interested in same room swinging not full swaps. And also in to ffm threesomes too. I don’t know the best aproch to take as I don’t want to put her off and I won’t to get her involved with swinging life any advice would be brilliant. Couples mail me on the best way to go for a newby couple "

Going to a club is a great way to start, especially if you plan on just going for a look & chat.

Cal

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Just show her your profile. I’m sure she’ll be up for it after that.

Judge much? The chap asked for advice to something that might help him include his wife.

Yes I judge people cheating on their wives. Cheating is a horrible thing to do to the person you supposedly love.

Swinging without trust is a recipe for disaster.

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And a relationship where the trust has been compromised is a recipe for heartache and destruction.

Honestly, if you believe you want to make the relationship work and take it seriously, and this is a route you want to head down for BOTH of you, not just to be self serving and blasé about the relationship, if you genuinely care, I'd lose this profile, think about your actions up until this point and only when you believe she can trust you not to lie or cheat, when you can trust yourself not to lie and cheat, only then is it worth considering.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Just show her your profile. I’m sure she’ll be up for it after that.

Judge much? The chap asked for advice to something that might help him include his wife.

Yes I judge people cheating on their wives. Cheating is a horrible thing to do to the person you supposedly love.

Swinging without trust is a recipe for disaster.

And a relationship where the trust has been compromised is a recipe for heartache and destruction.

Honestly, if you believe you want to make the relationship work and take it seriously, and this is a route you want to head down for BOTH of you, not just to be self serving and blasé about the relationship, if you genuinely care, I'd lose this profile, think about your actions up until this point and only when you believe she can trust you not to lie or cheat, when you can trust yourself not to lie and cheat, only then is it worth considering."

Great advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Step carefully, what she said in the heat of the moment might not necessarily be what she actually wants. Us females are funny things

You will know when the time is right, suggest it without to much excitement, suppose it was her idea ha

Mrs

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By *ecret_Passion777Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Talk to her about making a couple’s account on here, and get chatting to local couples near to you and take things from there. Simple.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

As others have said a club is actually the less pressured way of going about it as apposed to arranging anything with specific people. Go visit, has a look round, have a chat to some folk and talk openly what sort of things you saw you liked and/or like to try.

And don't pressurise her, take her lead and her speed.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Clubs, the couples only rooms can be quiet and you can put yourself over in a corner or next to a wall so as to limit too many close by..

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