FabSwingers.com forum: if it wasnt for meets on fab i would have no sex life.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

are any of you the same as me? Only have a sex life by meeting people on fab? Otherwise no sex at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry - I can get a meet in Tesco

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

There's no shame for that. If it wasn't for fab I wouldn't have my fiancé/perma dildo at home.

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By *otmyrealname99Man
over a year ago

Manchester

I imagine the Pringle and rice cake aisle is a hotbed of flirtation and saucy innuendo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use this site to look for what I can't find in Tesco. Their "gingernut" selection is rather limited.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab has actually helped my social confidence and helped with my sex life. So having read your op and wanting to answer, and this is just my personal opinion. Yes, I also wouldn’t have a sex life if it wasn’t for fab, but that’s not a bid thing.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Yes in finding people for my kinky side, happily not for vanilla sex as I can pull Irl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No

Sorry - I can get a meet in Tesco "

I can get meat in Tesco ….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry you're feeling sad about it, OP. For the last 7 years I've only had sex with people from fab. I met my partner here too. I don't meet anyone in day to day life that are available, attractive, or who would find me attractive. I'm happy with knowing fab is there as and when I require. It might take a bit of searching before finding someone, bit it's there.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

"No

Sorry - I can get a meet in Tesco "

But is it with a man you actually find attractive and is also decent and respectful at the same time?

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

Even with fab, I don't have a sex life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no sex at all regardless but im good at pullin

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By *ampshire_guy40Man
over a year ago

hampshire

I been on here 2years now and still no sex at all it's over 2 decades since I had sex now

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Nope, don’t need fab for a sex life.

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By *ippy68Man
over a year ago

Weymouth

"Even with fab, I don't have a sex life

Same here mate, none whatsoever.

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By *hatChattyGuyMan
over a year ago

folkestone

"I been on here 2years now and still no sex at all it's over 2 decades since I had sex now"

Ouch! I sympathise.

If it helps at all your comment did make me feel slightly less crap about my zero sex life

Ladies of fab, someone please please go and rescue this poor chap!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No

Sorry - I can get a meet in Tesco "

Which aisle are meets in? Do you get clubcard points?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No

Sorry - I can get a meet in Tesco

Which aisle are meets in? Do you get clubcard points?"

I was absolutely kidding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’re not alone OP

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

"are any of you the same as me? Only have a sex life by meeting people on fab? Otherwise no sex at all.

Is that a problem? Do you not get what you need here?

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

"Even with fab, I don't have a sex life

Same here mate, none whatsoever.

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Same here too

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Every one of my sexual encounters has come from some form of site/app... So you're not alone and I wouldn't feel bad about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No

Sorry - I can get a meet in Tesco

Which aisle are meets in? Do you get clubcard points?

I was absolutely kidding "

So was I.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and no. I can attract attention outside of fab but it's not likely to be what I'm looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was single Fab suited me. I had plenty of meets, some being one offs and some being regular partners.

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By *lickingFingersMan
over a year ago

Wilts

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"are any of you the same as me? Only have a sex life by meeting people on fab? Otherwise no sex at all.

Same here op - but that’s absolutely by choice. On fab I can be totally honest about what I’m looking for - and what I offer in return. There’s no game playing and I’ve had by far the best sex of my life on here and met some amazing men and women that I’d never have met if it wasn’t for fab.

I expect to be here for another decade at least.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement. I very much doubt I would get that without fab as firstly I don’t think most people outside of fab would be that interested in sharing and secondly I don’t believe that most people would give me a second look outside of fab. That said I’m content with what fab offers me, it serves a purpose.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

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By *urvySub87Woman
over a year ago

Near Wellingborough

I'm just too shy to meet people the good ol fashion way so fab is the only way that I get a sex life (when I'm looking). Also, because I'm a bit kinky it is quite helpful for that too. Hell, if it wasn't for the Internet I'd probably still be a virgin. God bless modern technology lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm too honest for my own good, and that puts people off in public or on this site. plus having (AS) not attractive I have found out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No

Sorry - I can get a meet in Tesco "

You can...every store has a meat section

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"are any of you the same as me? Only have a sex life by meeting people on fab? Otherwise no sex at all.

I’m not exclusive to Fab, there are other sites I use to meet likeminded fun seekers, and I can actually pull in the vanilla world too (though my forum fan club would find that difficult to believe I imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I have no problem attracting guys. More likely to meet people not from here.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

No, at one point yes but fab has given me confidence and I’m finding people in real life starting to notice my confidence and act up on it

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

I meet more people away from Fab, but here less frequently as i choose not to so much

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I have always pursued multiple options for sex, to keep things varied and to increase resilience. Clubs, here, via friends, walking down the streets.

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By *izzy.Woman
over a year ago

Stoke area

Don't think I've had sex with anyone in the last 10 years other than people I've met on Fab. But I'm cool with that.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

Tapered away to nothing some time ago other than a bit of flirting that only happens with folk I know through fab. Not unhappy though, and never know what might happen in the future.

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By *KTim61Man
over a year ago

Tipton

"are any of you the same as me? Only have a sex life by meeting people on fab? Otherwise no sex at all.

I've not met anyone off here yet do still on a very Dry spell . . . . . . . . .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No meets and no sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No sex life no meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last 3 times I had sex 2 were through Fab and 1 wasn't.

2023 is the 1 that wasn't through Fab and was a just a wild and exciting, unplanned (drink fuelled) night with a friend. We decided it was a one off, the 19yr age gap between us put her off anything more serious.

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By *eardedman7Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Only sex I get is from here

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By *TG3Man
over a year ago

Dorchester

If you can’t meet a woman in life what chance do you have here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope that's not the case for me

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

With kinky men hell yes

This is why I came off the dating sites, lots of nilla not hitting the spot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you can’t meet a woman in life what chance do you have here

I can't meet a man in real life, on here I get all the pretty penises.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

"If you can’t meet a woman in life what chance do you have here

I can't meet a man in real life, on here I get all the pretty penises. "

You don't need to limit yourself. There's plenty of ugly penises here as well

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By *omtom7Man
over a year ago

Tralee

"If you can’t meet a woman in life what chance do you have here

I can't meet a man in real life, on here I get all the pretty penises. "

How is that possible. You look stunning

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Find it easier to get sex in real life tbh

Fab is like a dirty addiction you build up over the years

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

Fab has given me as much sex as orange juice I've had this morning.

None.

Had a tango though, cheeky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you can’t meet a woman in life what chance do you have here

I can't meet a man in real life, on here I get all the pretty penises.

How is that possible. You look stunning

Unfortunately they don't have filters for real life.

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By *ruceyyMan
over a year ago

London

"If you can’t meet a woman in life what chance do you have here

I can't meet a man in real life, on here I get all the pretty penises.

How is that possible. You look stunning

Unfortunately they don't have filters for real life. "

So you wanna meet because you want me to be savagely disappointed?! That's very cold, but also very you and I respect it enough to fuck you anyway

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"If you can’t meet a woman in life what chance do you have here

I can't meet a man in real life, on here I get all the pretty penises.

How is that possible. You look stunning

Unfortunately they don't have filters for real life. "

It’s a shame I’m too young for you….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If you can’t meet a woman in life what chance do you have here

I can't meet a man in real life, on here I get all the pretty penises.

How is that possible. You look stunning

Unfortunately they don't have filters for real life.

So you wanna meet because you want me to be savagely disappointed?! That's very cold, but also very you and I respect it enough to fuck you anyway

It'd be like kicking a puppy.

Not that I want to actually kick a puppy, just to clarify I love dogs.

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By *avinaTVTV/TS
over a year ago

Transsexual Transylvania

I have no sex life from either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"are any of you the same as me? Only have a sex life by meeting people on fab? Otherwise no sex at all.

B/S!!

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm a penis magnet, on her and anywhere else.

I think my face says "I love sucking penis".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab has actually helped my social confidence and helped with my sex life. So having read your op and wanting to answer, and this is just my personal opinion. Yes, I also wouldn’t have a sex life if it wasn’t for fab, but that’s not a bid thing. "

How has it helped? Social confidence? Woody!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Na I actually think fab can be a trap giving you a smaller pool of people

Without fab you'd likely make more of an effort elsewhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I barely meet anyone on fab as there isnt that many females on here that im personally atracted too, tinder or pof are where i get most of my dates from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for me, even on fab as hard getting fems and cpls i know meet willing mouth guys.

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

I hardly meet anyone from Fab either... so have no sex life at all these days

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement. I very much doubt I would get that without fab as firstly I don’t think most people outside of fab would be that interested in sharing and secondly I don’t believe that most people would give me a second look outside of fab. That said I’m content with what fab offers me, it serves a purpose.

Kx"

This lady hits the nail on the head perfectly.

"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement."

We're conditioned to believe the lie that the "perfect" partner should fulfil all our needs in life, and that is a plaintively untrue expectation. It's delusional and unrealistic.

And it's further emphasised by articles (mostly in women's magazines, I hasten to add), entitled "Find Your Perfect Partner" or "Is he the One?" and other such nonsense.

All that does is create immense expectations and impossible requirements on the people in the relationship, because it holds them up to unrealistic ideals, and essentially sets people up to fail.

The parties involved then develop mental traumas, thinking there is something wrong with them for not achieving these "lofty ideals" and then everyone's hurting and upset.

It would be far kinder if such articles said, "Find the partner that resonates with most of the things you are looking for. And if there are few gaps, work together on ways to fulfil them."

True happiness is not found looking for perfection in your partner. It's found in working our compromises for the things you both want, on the acceptance that neither of you are able to give the other everything they may desire or need.

Thank you MrMrsBrightside for posting your valuable contribution.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Apologies, not sure if it was Mr or Mrs Brightside that posted, but either way, it's relevant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This lady hits the nail on the head perfectly.

"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement."

We're conditioned to believe the lie that the "perfect" partner should fulfil all our needs in life, and that is a plaintively untrue expectation. It's delusional and unrealistic.

And it's further emphasised by articles (mostly in women's magazines, I hasten to add), entitled "Find Your Perfect Partner" or "Is he the One?" and other such nonsense.

All that does is create immense expectations and impossible requirements on the people in the relationship, because it holds them up to unrealistic ideals, and essentially sets people up to fail.

The parties involved then develop mental traumas, thinking there is something wrong with them for not achieving these "lofty ideals" and then everyone's hurting and upset.

It would be far kinder if such articles said, "Find the partner that resonates with most of the things you are looking for. And if there are few gaps, work together on ways to fulfil them."

Thank you MrMrsBrightside for posting your valuable contribution."

Food for thought,of most of us applied some of this and being realistic on here and the wider world what really could be possible and really tangible!

Yet the power struggle and silly game's shall continue in here and elsewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This lady hits the nail on the head perfectly.

"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement."

We're conditioned to believe the lie that the "perfect" partner should fulfil all our needs in life, and that is a plaintively untrue expectation. It's delusional and unrealistic.

And it's further emphasised by articles (mostly in women's magazines, I hasten to add), entitled "Find Your Perfect Partner" or "Is he the One?" and other such nonsense.

All that does is create immense expectations and impossible requirements on the people in the relationship, because it holds them up to unrealistic ideals, and essentially sets people up to fail.

The parties involved then develop mental traumas, thinking there is something wrong with them for not achieving these "lofty ideals" and then everyone's hurting and upset.

It would be far kinder if such articles said, "Find the partner that resonates with most of the things you are looking for. And if there are few gaps, work together on ways to fulfil them."

Thank you MrMrsBrightside for posting your valuable contribution."

So what you're saying is be less picky?

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

I actually have less sex since I’ve joined fab.

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By *oubleswing2019Man
over a year ago

Colchester

This lady hits the nail on the head perfectly.

"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement."

We're conditioned to believe the lie that the "perfect" partner should fulfil all our needs in life, and that is a plaintively untrue expectation. It's delusional and unrealistic.

And it's further emphasised by articles (mostly in women's magazines, I hasten to add), entitled "Find Your Perfect Partner" or "Is he the One?" and other such nonsense.

All that does is create immense expectations and impossible requirements on the people in the relationship, because it holds them up to unrealistic ideals, and essentially sets people up to fail.

The parties involved then develop mental traumas, thinking there is something wrong with them for not achieving these "lofty ideals" and then everyone's hurting and upset.

It would be far kinder if such articles said, "Find the partner that resonates with most of the things you are looking for. And if there are few gaps, work together on ways to fulfil them."

Thank you MrMrsBrightside for posting your valuable contribution.

So what you're saying is be less picky? "

Set reasonable expectations and be prepared to re-evaluate and move the goalposts. And don't be swayed by magazine articles that have a motive.

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By *reeneggsandsamMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

"I actually have less sex since I’ve joined fab. "

Me too but it's ethical. When I was promiscuous I'd say "it's just for the sex" some girls didn't believe me and there'd be trouble.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

That's good enough for me! As and when and if I want a meet! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This lady hits the nail on the head perfectly.

"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement."

We're conditioned to believe the lie that the "perfect" partner should fulfil all our needs in life, and that is a plaintively untrue expectation. It's delusional and unrealistic.

And it's further emphasised by articles (mostly in women's magazines, I hasten to add), entitled "Find Your Perfect Partner" or "Is he the One?" and other such nonsense.

All that does is create immense expectations and impossible requirements on the people in the relationship, because it holds them up to unrealistic ideals, and essentially sets people up to fail.

The parties involved then develop mental traumas, thinking there is something wrong with them for not achieving these "lofty ideals" and then everyone's hurting and upset.

It would be far kinder if such articles said, "Find the partner that resonates with most of the things you are looking for. And if there are few gaps, work together on ways to fulfil them."

Thank you MrMrsBrightside for posting your valuable contribution.

So what you're saying is be less picky?

Set reasonable expectations and be prepared to re-evaluate and move the goalposts. And don't be swayed by magazine articles that have a motive."

I don't read magazines and I know what I want.

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By *layful HarlequinMan
over a year ago

iver heath

This lady hits the nail on the head perfectly.

"Well I’m married so we get plenty of sex but I get from fab that extra bit of excitement."

We're conditioned to believe the lie that the "perfect" partner should fulfil all our needs in life, and that is a plaintively untrue expectation. It's delusional and unrealistic.

And it's further emphasised by articles (mostly in women's magazines, I hasten to add), entitled "Find Your Perfect Partner" or "Is he the One?" and other such nonsense.

All that does is create immense expectations and impossible requirements on the people in the relationship, because it holds them up to unrealistic ideals, and essentially sets people up to fail.

The parties involved then develop mental traumas, thinking there is something wrong with them for not achieving these "lofty ideals" and then everyone's hurting and upset.

It would be far kinder if such articles said, "Find the partner that resonates with most of the things you are looking for. And if there are few gaps, work together on ways to fulfil them."

Thank you MrMrsBrightside for posting your valuable contribution.

So what you're saying is be less picky?

Set reasonable expectations and be prepared to re-evaluate and move the goalposts. And don't be swayed by magazine articles that have a motive.

I don't read magazines and I know what I want. "

Really really want

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