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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you feel that you are not really wanted there.

I mean, at a wedding reception in the evening time.

Because, you was not actually personally invited to their wedding.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Not in general, no. I understand the dynamics and difficulties of weddings, costs and guest list. So I never take offence. But depending on the context of where you see your relationship to one or both of the couple then maybe.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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No.

Weddings are expensive.

People know a lot of people.

They still want you there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont go to parties either way

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Are you a plus one?

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Sometimes I don’t even feel invited to my own life, let alone a wedding.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District

As in you’ve been officially invited m, but not in person by the couple? Or are you a gatecrasher?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I was only invited to their actual wedding reception this evening.

But, I am not going to go now.

Because all (last night) and this morning aswell.

I have thought long and hard about it.

So, I have taken humbrage and I have 'spat-the-dummy-out' lol.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Do you feel that you are not really wanted there.

I mean, at a wedding reception in the evening time.

Because, you was not actually personally invited to their wedding."

You're asking if somebody who isn't invited isn't wanted there? That seems like a fairly obvious answer to me.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I was only invited to their actual wedding reception this evening.

But, I am not going to go now.

Because all (last night) and this morning aswell.

I have thought long and hard about it.

So, I have taken humbrage and I have 'spat-the-dummy-out' lol. "

Because you weren't invited to the ceremony? We had this at our daughter's wedding. The venue was limited and we couldn't afford to invite everyone we would have liked to. Some understood, some didn't. If it's been catered and you've accepted their invitation they will have spent money they could have saved but ultimately it's your choice.

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

No. The evening party is the better part anyway.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If people invite me, I've accepted and I'm catered for, I'd expect to go. Relationship s can change over time and none of us are pushed to do anything against our will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a strict "no weddings no funerals" policy so people know not to even ask.

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By *heaspieswingerMan
over a year ago

Peak District


"Do you feel that you are not really wanted there.

I mean, at a wedding reception in the evening time.

Because, you was not actually personally invited to their wedding.

You're asking if somebody who isn't invited isn't wanted there? That seems like a fairly obvious answer to me. "

Not that obvious. Mr drove some of his friends to a wedding. Mr himself hadn’t been invited, and didn’t know the couple or anyone else there other than his friends he have a lift to.

One friend invited him in, and Mr eventually relented after repeatedly saying no. Mr ended up being introduced to the newlyweds and was one of the last to leave. The bride and groom ended up spending an hour chatting to him and having a drink with him after most of the guests had left.

Sometimes it’s true that strangers are friends you just haven’t met yet x

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