FabSwingers.com forum: Why....just why

By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Sorry gents but this is for the ladies...

Do you like receiving messages from randoms telling you what they want to do to you sexually?

Do you find it a turn on or turn off?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eeeew, no. All I think while I'm reading is "do I get a say in this?".

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Eeeew, no. All I think while I'm reading is "do I get a say in this?"."

Thank god its not just me that thinks that

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By *ueenpersephoneWoman
over a year ago

yorkshire

Nope I always feel like they’re just writing their fantasies to get off. It’s worse when you delete and they keep going with another message

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Definitely a turn off. I prefer a normal or funny message

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because no reaction is still a reaction and it makes those great orgasms that much sweeter

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Massive turn off instant delete

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By *avecouple1Couple
over a year ago

I really do. I am not necessarily likely to respond but I really enjoy reading the messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

massive turn off so much so that its a block every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Eeeew, no. All I think while I'm reading is "do I get a say in this?"."

No, you don't. Now turn around, bend over and hoike up that dress so I can see your knickers...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really do. I am not necessarily likely to respond but I really enjoy reading the messages."

Bookmarked.

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

No its a massive turn off, first msg from a man and he's just telling me what he is going to do to me, like I don't get a say, instant delete.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I quite like it, as long as it's well written it can be quite sexy knowing how turned on I'm making complete strangers feel.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

It depends at certain point from who the msg comes from, as i'm not really in to sex chat mostly i found them turn off , don't do nothing to me.

Even out from fabs, on daily life , i found then a put off even if the person/s are atractive. Even eye contact doesn't do nothing to me!

May i'm just a weirdo!!

I prefer a normal or captivating conversation where can lead to attractiveness, imagination and to the trill of mystery , the sound of the words , the octaves of the voice, the shy almost unnoticeable smile . I don't like the what is obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry gents but this is for the ladies...

Do you like receiving messages from randoms telling you what they want to do to you sexually?

Do you find it a turn on or turn off?"

Absolutely a complete turn off.

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"It depends at certain point from who the msg comes from, as i'm not really in to sex chat mostly i found them turn off , don't do nothing to me.

Even out from fabs, on daily life , i found then a put off even if the person/s are atractive. Even eye contact doesn't do nothing to me!

May i'm just a weirdo!!

From a total random whom no contact has been made previously x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it's like being read a full menu, to a restaurant you've never heard of, who's food you're pretty sure you don't like, and whilst they may list every dish under the sun, you'd be lucky to get something basic like toast.

What's worse, you can't even be sure the cutlery and tableware is clean, and you have zero appetite to begin with.

Also RIP to the inboxes of those who said you liked it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a total random that I've never had any contact with? Total turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massive turn off

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

From a random? Total turn off. It's all about them and their fantasy. I have no emotional investment in them so it leaves me cold.

Someone I know? Totally different matter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Complete turn off

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like it but at least you know from the off it’s a non starter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like it when we can talk about tying tits in a bow and seeing how far i can pull your anus hairs before you say ouch i find women then want to shine my helmet with a sandblaster

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"It depends at certain point from who the msg comes from, as i'm not really in to sex chat mostly i found them turn off , don't do nothing to me.

Even out from fabs, on daily life , i found then a put off even if the person/s are atractive. Even eye contact doesn't do nothing to me!

May i'm just a weirdo!!

From a total random whom no contact has been made previously x"

I can say i have meetings that have started with a random conversation from a profiles we never have contacted before , the random conversation didn't toke long as they realised i was shit on it but we ended up in bed where great things happened. Sometimes i think the random aproach to me comes from who i am if it makes sense to you . But to be true, here , i always have been well treated and approached with same respect out from here

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I like it when we can talk about tying tits in a bow and seeing how far i can pull your anus hairs before you say ouch i find women then want to shine my helmet with a sandblaster

That's a whole other conversation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK I will stop sending them

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"OK I will stop sending them

On behalf of the women who don't like them, I appreciate it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Nope I always feel like they’re just writing their fantasies to get off. It’s worse when you delete and they keep going with another message "

This lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like it when we can talk about tying tits in a bow and seeing how far i can pull your anus hairs before you say ouch i find women then want to shine my helmet with a sandblaster

That's a whole other conversation

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the best kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off. I just reply that I didn't read any of the scenario they sent because it's bollocks.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Yes quite like it tbh x

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By *parkle1974 OP Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Turn off. I just reply that I didn't read any of the scenario they sent because it's bollocks. "

I usually reply with:

Thanks for that useless bit of information

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By *implynaughty1Couple
over a year ago

stockport

A very big turn of full stop # mrs m

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Accompanied by an unwanted series of dick pics, it’s a great filter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry gents but this is for the ladies...

Do you like receiving messages from randoms telling you what they want to do to you sexually?

Do you find it a turn on or turn off?"

Complete turn off!

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By *antastic BeastMan
over a year ago

WINCHESTER

Need a hand reading the room there, mate?

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I really dislike it.

It proves that they haven't bothered to read my profile & I find it disrespectful & icky.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Can't fucking stand it. Gives me insta-rage. Think it's so disrespectful.

I often wonder, if someone spoke to their mother, their daughter, their sister like that would they go batshit and want the geezer arrested for being a creepy pervo or beaten black n blue as a warning not to behave that way? I think most would.

We're someone's mother, someone's daughter, someone's sister.

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

"Can't fucking stand it. Gives me insta-rage. Think it's so disrespectful.

We're someone's mother, someone's daughter, someone's sister."

You should be at my work place , you would be chocked with some of the conversations and from who they come

I never engage on them as they put me off the conversations and the person/s as to me are obvious and vulgar. I stay away

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I don't think we get many messages like that.

If it's badly written it won't do anything for me. But I do remember one last year that was so well written, and included details of things that I'm interested in trying, so was a massive turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a "Dom" on here that sends a copy and paste message listing his skills and toy box contents. He even is kind enough to tell me how i will feel during our "scene". Now he has loads of veris and goes to a lot of the bdsm "be seen at" places. It's the cring factor and audacity of his initial messages that make me think "you have no clue baby boy".

I'm not even a sub, not in the slightest. My fetish profile is one of a sadist with lots of medical play and extreme CBT.

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By *dventurous biMan
over a year ago

tesside

"I don't think we get many messages like that.

If it's badly written it won't do anything for me. But I do remember one last year that was so well written, and included details of things that I'm interested in trying, so was a massive turn on."

Is that a challenge being issued?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK I will stop sending them

On behalf of the women who don't like them, I appreciate it

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I don’t have the attention span for that kind of message.

And it’s usually written by someone who just talks the talk.

Not for me.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

"I don’t have the attention span for that kind of message.

And it’s usually written by someone who just talks the talk.

Not for me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry gents but this is for the ladies...

Do you like receiving messages from randoms telling you what they want to do to you sexually?

Do you find it a turn on or turn off?"

I know this is for the ladies, but I'm gobsmacked this actually happens!

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By *nto the LouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Definite turn off

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Don't you just find after a long description of I'll do this, that ..yada yada..its just a quick spaff and back on with the trousers and away

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I would never write anything like that unless I know it's OK (and it's certainly not right for an opener).

I have flirted with women on here and told them they are beautiful and look great in their photos. I'd even say I'd like to meet them. But saying I'd want to do anything intimate with them is just not me.

I have had positive results from that approach and never anything negative. I think that if the lady likes us, it can even be part of the tease holding at that level and enhance the mood. The "will they won't they" situation can be part of the build-up of mystery and/or desire. Luke

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Another saying turn off - and an excellent filter

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By *intybadgerWoman
over a year ago

Bedfordshire

Massive turn off especially when you know its been copied and pasted!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it kind of hot, honestly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instantly! It's an eye roll for me guys just don't do it

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By *aint_or_SinnerWoman
over a year ago

South County Dublin

"Sorry gents but this is for the ladies...

Do you like receiving messages from randoms telling you what they want to do to you sexually?

Do you find it a turn on or turn off?"

Fodder for thought

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

I got a message earlier off the back of a comment I'd put a few weeks ago on another thread - namely mother caught me at it with my ex fiance. They wanted to know what she said (like I can remember, I was 19 or 20 at the time) and then, bizarrely, if she stayed to watch!!!! A definite eurgh and block moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn off and leads straight to a block, it's

Pxx

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Nope I find them a complete turn off and boring as hell to read as well.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Erotic essays? No thanks. Massive turn off.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Turn off as the imagination is clearly not flowing my way

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