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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Afternoon ladies and gents

Hope you’re all well

I just wanted a bit of advice ….

I’m on holiday and met some really nice people in the resort been out for a couple of drinks a couple of nights

So there’s 2 couples one of the ladies of the couples is quite the flirt with everyone

The other is friendly but a little more reserved

The gents are just genuinely nice fella’s

Not sure wether either are into this lifestyle or not but I’d like to find out …. What is the best way of bringing it up in a conversation without coming across as the creepy single guy

Thank you in advance

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Personally I’d just enjoy their company and if they brought it up go along with it.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'd leave well alone but then again only you can decide OP

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley

Oh ok well thank you for the advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe you could say something like it would make a good swingers party if I had a partner? but then again in your own head be it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're on holiday, you're never going to see them again, go for it.

Tell them that story about when you were on holiday last year and you'd made friends with these two couples that turned into a whole lot more than friendship...

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Just ask them if they are swingers. Can go one of 2 ways I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn on ‘who’s near’ instead

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By *nliveneTV/TS
over a year ago

Selby

Ask them if they heard about the pineapple if they say what you mean you can always answer, is one of the most requested drinks in the resort they say

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

It's probably best to assume they're not swingers and simply just folks enjoying themselves on holiday

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"Maybe you could say something like it would make a good swingers party if I had a partner? but then again in your own head be it "

Thank you

Yeah maybe not a god idea

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By *ememberTheName OP   Man
over a year ago

barnsley


"Turn on ‘who’s near’ instead"

Who’s near is on but I’m getting people from wales ?? not sure it’s accurate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tend to think that we don’t need to take swinging and Fab everywhere with us. Enjoy your holiday, enjoy their company. IF they moved things along from ‘flirting) (if it is indeed flirting), then I dare say you’ll have a blast.

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By *ohohoWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Imagine if they liked the thought when you brought it up and just did a straight swap. That would be gutting.

I have mentioned swinging in conversations before just to see peoples reactions. You are only testing the water.

You are there and know how the conversations are going. Good luck whatever you decide.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

If it were going to happen it would happen organically. Don’t force it.

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By *oom Bang a BangMan
over a year ago

Watford

Tell a mildly anecdotal tale about something like pineapples or car keys in a bowl, everybody will know that one, and wait for a reaction?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

If they are swingers and interested in you they will make it abundantly clear, possibly on their last evening. Otherwise it's just people relaxing on holiday being a bit flirty.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Just don't

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Calculate the odds Vs what you primary desire. Maybe they are or are open to it (people sometimes do things they wouldnt do on holiday). But chances are they are not and chances are if you approach the subject (in any fashion) they'll want to distance them selves from you as a result of your unwanted advance. Or a slight possibility they will not shun you for your advance and it still continue being freinds.

So chance it if your happy to lose what you have at the moment. But if your main focus is enjoying it as things are leave it.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

What was the outcome OP?

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