FabSwingers.com forum: Silly question but face pics before meets?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What do you actually do if you don't want to share a pic of your face before a meet or what's the safest way ? My wife says she doesn't want to send a pic and he goes around saying to his pals I'm fucking her this weekend? Like my point is how do you keep it as discreet as possible .obviously nobody's gonna meet a blind date but what ways have you gone about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The closest I got to a meet was with a couple.

They wanted a face pic which I supplied

They refused to send one in return then got pissy with me when I said I wouldn't meet without seeing them first. I got accused of being a time waster and all sorts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could video call?

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

100%

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Quick vid chat for few minutes is what I do. Anyone not wanting to do this well simply I just say bye and delete them

There has to be a reality and discretion can only go so far.

Sounds like would be better suited for club meets if not wanting to show face in message. Clubs are discreet usually reasonable nice locations and well you can see the person if you want to play or not.

Also she can wear a sexy mask / dress up to distort identity easy enough if so inclined

There used to be an Arab woman that only wore a mask in her pics / meets on here many years ago. I recall she had over 100 veris easily of meets. Maybe that could be option

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

Video chat? No photo no meet I’m afraid

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

We would never meet anybody without seeing a face pic of them and would be wary of anybody who didn't want to see us first. It's the most normal thing in the world to want to know what somebody looks like.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

It depends if having a face pic beforehand is a deal breaker for any of you. And maybe you could just meet for a social and see how it goes before launching straight into sex.

I find people are pretty discreet generally and don't go flashing face pics about.

You could attach a face pic to a message and choose the option to delete that pic after its been read thereby reducing the ability to brag to their mates showing the pic.

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By *otmyrealname99Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Video chat or social first

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

The golden rule of face pics.

Use one that could easily have been taken from vanilla social media. Obviously not an actual one from any social media that you have as it would be easily traceable via a reverse search facility, but one that's just a headshot.

Never a full body. Never, ever anything naked. Never in a million years a play photo showing your face. Never in several billion years use once with your face looking like a plasterers radio.

That way should someone decide to be a dick and show it to others they could easily be accused of just finding a random photo online and chatting shit.

Or, as others have said, just do a video call if a face to face social for coffee is out of the question.

Or just go to a club. Everyone's face tends to be on show there unless it's a masked ball night.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It depends if having a face pic beforehand is a deal breaker for any of you. And maybe you could just meet for a social and see how it goes before launching straight into sex.

I find people are pretty discreet generally and don't go flashing face pics about.

You could attach a face pic to a message and choose the option to delete that pic after its been read thereby reducing the ability to brag to their mates showing the pic."

Oh you can do this? Same time they could save the pic! I thought maybe Snapchat would be good as the pic disappears after 3 seconds and tells you if it's been screenshotted ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"The golden rule of face pics.

Never a full body. Never, ever anything naked. Never in a million years a play photo showing your face. Never in several billion years use once with your face looking like a plasterers radio.

That way should someone decide to be a dick and show it to others they could easily be accused of just finding a random photo online and chatting shit.

Or, as others have said, just do a video call if a face to face social for coffee is out of the question.

Or just go to a club. Everyone's face tends to be on show there unless it's a masked ball night.

That's a good idea actually

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By *idnight RamblerMan
over a year ago

Pershore

Best avoid face pics online. We are on the cusp of facial recognition AI which will link your image to all your personal details forever. At a click you will be recognisable and identified.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nooo dont be daft if shes a minger i just bag her alls good

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

A lot of the men we've met have never asked for face pictures

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Face pic as a minimum, video chat to be 1000% certain. There’s a lot of ‘filtration’ going about these days and video calling removes all doubt.

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