FabSwingers.com forum: Don’t call me baby

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Being called “baby” by a stranger is always grim but what’s worse is when it’s from guys 15-20 years younger than myself.

Eugh.

Thanks for listening.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I never once called my ex "baby", or any variation on the word. Personally I find it a bit creepy

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Anything like that in a first message gives me the heebijeebies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its okay baby girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I call the Mrs 'Mummy' when I want to make her shudder lol. She hates it.

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By *mp411Man
over a year ago

chester

Baby is cringe worthy.... aphrodite perhaps, gorgeous definitely....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate being call baby or babes. Really hate baby girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im okay with Babe but it depends who's saying it. Baby is

Pxx

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I have that Madison Avenue song stuck in my head now. Cheers OP

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By *orthwhile27Man
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

"Being called “baby” by a stranger is always grim but what’s worse is when it’s from guys 15-20 years younger than myself.

Eugh.

Thanks for listening."

I always called the ladies judy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hate babe, hun, trouble, cheeky, but the worst is young lady, urgh, especially from someone younger than me, but hate, hate, hate it

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"Hate babe, hun, trouble, cheeky, but the worst is young lady, urgh, especially from someone younger than me, but hate, hate, hate it "

But "young woman" is fine, right?

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

What about ‘Treacle’…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Possibly the only one I'd accept is Harley Quinn calling me puddin'

-Mr

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You know what else I hate?

“How are you trouble?”

Eeeeeeee let me just uncurl my toes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know what else I hate?

“How are you trouble?”

Eeeeeeee let me just uncurl my toes "

What if it was a person you found really attractive? Would it be a deal breaker or could you overlook it though?

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I had a work colleague who referred to her new fella as “the boy” when talking to her friends on Facebook.

I laughed my head off when he dumped her. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"You know what else I hate?

“How are you trouble?”

Eeeeeeee let me just uncurl my toes

What if it was a person you found really attractive? Would it be a deal breaker or could you overlook it though?"

No, still hate it. I could probably overlook it for all of ten seconds before I was repeatedly sick in my mouth

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I have that Madison Avenue song stuck in my head now. Cheers OP

Saaaame

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Hate babe, hun, trouble, cheeky, but the worst is young lady, urgh, especially from someone younger than me, but hate, hate, hate it

But "young woman" is fine, right?"

Young lady or young woman feels like I've been called to the principal's office. I'm too old for that shit

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By *_Love_CandyWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

Sexy bum.... really lol

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Wench is an endearing one….

….if I brace myself in time for the inevitable slap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexy bum.... really lol"

If you insist

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By *_Love_CandyWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

"Sexy bum.... really lol

If you insist

well....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wench is an endearing one….

….if I brace myself in time for the inevitable slap

Preceded by "fetch me another flagon of mead...."?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sexy bum.... really lol"

Yeah, that makes my teeth itch also.

I cringe easily these days, must be my age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You know what else I hate?

“How are you trouble?”

Eeeeeeee let me just uncurl my toes

What if it was a person you found really attractive? Would it be a deal breaker or could you overlook it though?

No, still hate it. I could probably overlook it for all of ten seconds before I was repeatedly sick in my mouth"

That's a pretty good way of repelling unwanted attention I guess! All I can imagine is a cat when it has hairballs now

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Or "young lady" when they're the young one

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By *_Love_CandyWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

"Sexy bum.... really lol

Yeah, that makes my teeth itch also.

I cringe easily these days, must be my age "

Is it age that make out teeth itch on that one. Damn! Lol

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"You know what else I hate?

“How are you trouble?”

Eeeeeeee let me just uncurl my toes "

Hello trouble

instant delete

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Yeah I was getting called babes by someone I matched with last week and that amongst other things put me off

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Simply, as with any pet name's, affectionate nicknames or anything other than your chosen name. No one has the right unless you give it...

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Baby is incredibly cringe. I remember using it by accident once, I wanted to pull all my teeth out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Simply, as with any pet name's, affectionate nicknames or anything other than your chosen name. No one has the right unless you give it..."

Not sure it would stand up as a legal defense as to why you karate chopped the man running the fruit and veg stall in the windpipe though

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

Sure thing sugar tits

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I don't mind babel or baby. Hate hun, hon or even worse dear!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Being called “baby” by a stranger is always grim but what’s worse is when it’s from guys 15-20 years younger than myself.

Eugh.

Thanks for listening."

Something I find a complete turn off. Also don't like been called

Babe

Hun

Chick

Darling

Particularly by people we've never even spoken to never mind met lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't mind babel or baby. Hate hun, hon or even worse dear!"

Babel?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pet names when you present yourself is kind of annoying. introduce without the pet names because sometimes especially a couple that name is reserved.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

In my neck of the woods, ‘Duck’ is a traditional term of endearment.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Hate babe, hun, trouble, cheeky, but the worst is young lady, urgh, especially from someone younger than me, but hate, hate, hate it "

I've been called "chica" most of the time this week. Apart from "hombre" earlier

Both better than Señora (reminds me of old ladies sitting in the street with fans

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"Wench is an endearing one….

….if I brace myself in time for the inevitable slap

Preceded by "fetch me another flagon of mead...."?"

I grew up watching too many Hammer horror films featuring those busty serving wenches

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Yes being called babe or young lady when I’m old enough to be their mother makes me cringe too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my neck of the woods, ‘Duck’ is a traditional term of endearment.

Really I learned something today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my neck of the woods, ‘Duck’ is a traditional term of endearment.

Really I learned something today.

Lol I can't say much my husband calls me bear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being a bloke and getting called ‘babe’ by another bloke

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"Being called “baby” by a stranger is always grim but what’s worse is when it’s from guys 15-20 years younger than myself.

Eugh.

Thanks for listening."

Okay, I won't and I won't put you in the corner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my neck of the woods, ‘Duck’ is a traditional term of endearment.

Really I learned something today.

Lol I can't say much my husband calls me bear."

Isn't that the name for a hairy gay guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my neck of the woods, ‘Duck’ is a traditional term of endearment.

Really I learned something today.

Lol I can't say much my husband calls me bear.

Isn't that the name for a hairy gay guy?"

Momma bears are incredibly protective.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my neck of the woods, ‘Duck’ is a traditional term of endearment.

I've come across that in the North Staffs area?

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

"In my neck of the woods, ‘Duck’ is a traditional term of endearment.

My Nan used to call us kids that. "Ello, me duck." Loved it!

I'm sure someone else near her used to say "Hen" as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my neck of the woods, ‘Duck’ is a traditional term of endearment.

Really I learned something today.

Lol I can't say much my husband calls me bear.

Isn't that the name for a hairy gay guy?

Momma bears are incredibly protective. "
. Different misnomers like he said "duck". It depends on geographical areas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my neck of the woods, ‘Duck’ is a traditional term of endearment.

My Nan used to call us kids that. "Ello, me duck." Loved it!

I'm sure someone else near her used to say "Hen" as well. "

Think Hen is Scottish, Glaswegian maybe. My knowledge on this is mainly from Rab C Nesbitt so could be wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my neck of the woods, ‘Duck’ is a traditional term of endearment.

Really I learned something today.

Lol I can't say much my husband calls me bear.

Isn't that the name for a hairy gay guy?"
. Name here is sasquatch lol.

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"In my neck of the woods, ‘Duck’ is a traditional term of endearment.

Really I learned something today.

Another traditional one from here in Buckinghamshire: ‘ow do me old ‘ansom?’

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"In my neck of the woods, ‘Duck’ is a traditional term of endearment.

I've come across that in the North Staffs area?"

I think the Cornish traditionally employ similar to

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"In my neck of the woods, ‘Duck’ is a traditional term of endearment.

My Nan used to call us kids that. "Ello, me duck." Loved it!

I'm sure someone else near her used to say "Hen" as well. "

I’ve heard that used here to. ‘Elli me old ‘en’ (note that the Bucks dialect is notably lazy and ‘H’s’ are seldom sounded i.e ‘I fink’ etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In my neck of the woods, ‘Duck’ is a traditional term of endearment.

Really I learned something today.

Another traditional one from here in Buckinghamshire: ‘ow do me old ‘ansom?’ "
I have no clue lol

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

"In my neck of the woods, ‘Duck’ is a traditional term of endearment.

Really I learned something today.

Another traditional one from here in Buckinghamshire: ‘ow do me old ‘ansom?’ I have no clue lol"

Translation: ‘How are you my old handsome?’

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s creepy, but these young ones thinks it makes them sound mature….deluded little fuck wits

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

Doesn't bother me I hate food terms don't call me muffin cookie sweetie pie etc and especially not the typical of cocoa or chocolate drop etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Try being a bloke and getting called ‘babe’ by another bloke

"
haha that’s hilarious

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By *enelope2UWoman
over a year ago

Fife

"In my neck of the woods, ‘Duck’ is a traditional term of endearment.

My Nan used to call us kids that. "Ello, me duck." Loved it!

I'm sure someone else near her used to say "Hen" as well. "

Hen And pet both said often in Scotland

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

Theres a song there somewhere

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

My house mate has a list of about 30 terms she rants over. I just call her maggot now mostly.

She gets proper bent at times with it when i not seen her for a few days

Though I call lots of people maggot now when greeting them .

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I’ve heard that used here to. ‘Elli me old ‘en’ (note that the Bucks dialect is notably lazy and ‘H’s’ are seldom sounded i.e ‘I fink’ etc"

Yeah, this was near Luton, so that'd make sense.

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Being called she, or "the wife" like I am not looking at these messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends who says it.

I hate “babes” but I don’t mind “babe”

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

Everyone’s so angry these days. Chill

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry about that babycakes.

*runs*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sorry about that babycakes.

*runs*"

You just don't know, know

How I, I

I like it down low, low

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What about ‘Treacle’…

Fully acceptable is treacle.

An old boss when I was waitresses would call me treacle, then give me a wink. I liked it.

If its someone I like he I don't mind what he calls me, as long as its not derogatory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got called babe by a woman on here the other day.

Instant block

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Hun makes my toenails curl

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Hun makes my toenails curl

U alrite hun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hun makes my toenails curl

Hi hun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t like babe or anything like that, I’m not a babe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t like babe or anything like that, I’m not a babe

Hi gorgeous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t like babe or anything like that, I’m not a babe

Hi gorgeous "

Hey Babe!

Oh no! Am I blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t like babe or anything like that, I’m not a babe

Hi gorgeous

Hey Babe!

Oh no! Am I blocked

Ok done

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I was called baby for quite a while....I was a few weeks old and in a pram at the time though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind that, I hate being called a slut by a total stranger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fixing something

Ok then I will just call you princess hunnie bunny from now on

Oooo god sorry was just jokeing around I am cringe at my self even type this ha ha

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

I just use sweetie or wench with my fab friends ..

Nobody seems to mind that so I'll stick with those

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"Wench is an endearing one….

….if I brace myself in time for the inevitable slap

I don't mind wench too much, usually it's in reference to coffee though not booze

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

In Devon they call you lover.

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

"Being called “baby” by a stranger is always grim but what’s worse is when it’s from guys 15-20 years younger than myself.

Eugh.

Thanks for listening."

I think your right. If memory serves me well it never worked too well for Jonny Bravo as an opening line.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Totally agree ,hate any pet names in a first message anyway ie Hun/babe .

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Women just like being called whores, sluts and fuck bags

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"Women just like being called whores, sluts and fuck bags

Fuck bags is a new one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Women just like being called whores, sluts and fuck bags

Right time and place yip I do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The strong silent type that utters the occasional FAF is the way

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"What about ‘Treacle’…

Treacle is fine, they’re my favourite toffee

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

I don’t like to be called Babes, Baby or princess, they all make me do this

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By *andR2019Couple
over a year ago

Nunya

"I don’t like to be called Babes, Baby or princess, they all make me do this

Just the pet names in general

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

King's Crustacean

I don't mind as much as I used to cos i'm going deaf.

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

Don’t call me baby.... Isn't that a Voice Of The Beehive track?

Nobody ever calls me nice things like that (boo-hoo & blow into hanky with snot oozing out cos of hayfever which reminds me I need to get some anti- wotsits), can't think why? LOL!

I hate "ok babes." It seems like something that Mick Jagger would say as he struts by, not a love interest.

I'd prefer she call me "honey bunny" or "Mr Squirrel Nutkins!" Then I can reciprocate with " alright Mrs Tiggy Winkle!"

Honestly, I don't know where I'm going with the Beatrix Potter bit....

Think I need to get a life or me coat!

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

"Don’t call me baby.... Isn't that a Voice Of The Beehive track?

Nobody ever calls me nice things like that (boo-hoo & blow into hanky with snot oozing out cos of hayfever which reminds me I need to get some anti- wotsits), can't think why? LOL!

I hate "ok babes." It seems like something that Mick Jagger would say as he struts by, not a love interest.

I'd prefer she call me "honey bunny" or "Mr Squirrel Nutkins!" Then I can reciprocate with " alright Mrs Tiggy Winkle!"

Honestly, I don't know where I'm going with the Beatrix Potter bit....

Think I need to get a life or me coat!

...Or both!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In Devon they call you lover."

We Devonians really don’t, that’s a misguided stereotype

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By *agicM53XMan
over a year ago

Orpington

"Baby, baby, baby, oh"

Like, "Baby, baby, baby, no"

Like, "Baby, baby, baby, oh"

I thought you'd always be mine, mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me duck is loads better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

""Baby, baby, baby, oh"

Like, "Baby, baby, baby, no"

Like, "Baby, baby, baby, oh"

I thought you'd always be mine, mine"

Usher secured the bag on that once

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

The damage these things are doing to the nation's teeth

. Gritting teeth, vomit inducing, etc.

Should be a no win, no fee damages claim factory

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume sir mix alot baby got back isn't in op playlist

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