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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Winks….

Is that an indication that they want you to message?

Are they just teasing?

Do you wink back? Do you message?

Why didn’t they just message ?

Wink etiquette ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're interested they'll message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s a lady winking it’s your que to message her if you’re interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea, I just ignore them. Social etiquette is complicated enough without throwing a wink into the mix

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it’s a lady winking it’s your que to message her if you’re interested

But why didn’t she just message

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have no idea, I just ignore them. Social etiquette is complicated enough without throwing a wink into the mix

Cheesy line inbound but …. With eyes like yours you should be winking left right & ….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it’s a lady winking it’s your que to message her if you’re interested

But why didn’t she just message

Too shy? Afraid of rejection? Not sure if she’s your type? Likes a man to make the moves?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think ladies use winks as an okay for guys to message. Then we have to put the work in to think of a message lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it’s a lady winking it’s your que to message her if you’re interested

But why didn’t she just message

Too shy? Afraid of rejection? Not sure if she’s your type? Likes a man to make the moves?

Venus…. Mars….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it’s a lady winking it’s your que to message her if you’re interested

But why didn’t she just message

Too shy? Afraid of rejection? Not sure if she’s your type? Likes a man to make the moves?

Venus…. Mars….

Something like that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no idea, I just ignore them. Social etiquette is complicated enough without throwing a wink into the mix

Cheesy line inbound but …. With eyes like yours you should be winking left right & …."

The 'dust under my contact lens' ploy is my favoured move.

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth…

Explore…

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If it’s a lady winking it’s your que to message her if you’re interested

But why didn’t she just message

Too shy? Afraid of rejection? Not sure if she’s your type? Likes a man to make the moves?

Venus…. Mars….

Something like that

Worth it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have no idea, I just ignore them. Social etiquette is complicated enough without throwing a wink into the mix

Cheesy line inbound but …. With eyes like yours you should be winking left right & ….

The 'dust under my contact lens' ploy is my favoured move."

With a little mouth movement too to really add affect?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don’t look a gift horse in the mouth…

Explore…"

Always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have no idea, I just ignore them. Social etiquette is complicated enough without throwing a wink into the mix

Cheesy line inbound but …. With eyes like yours you should be winking left right & ….

The 'dust under my contact lens' ploy is my favoured move.

With a little mouth movement too to really add affect? "

Mostly I go for a slight grimace while tears stream down my cheeks. Gets them every time.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

A wink is a like for me, if I like him back then I'll wink and message him

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I send winks when their profile interests me but not enough to commit to messaging

. Or when I'm feeling lazy.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I have no idea, I just ignore them. Social etiquette is complicated enough without throwing a wink into the mix

Cheesy line inbound but …. With eyes like yours you should be winking left right & ….

The 'dust under my contact lens' ploy is my favoured move.

With a little mouth movement too to really add affect?

Mostly I go for a slight grimace while tears stream down my cheeks. Gets them every time."

We are weak ha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I send winks when their profile interests me but not enough to commit to messaging

. Or when I'm feeling lazy. "

Noted… it’s a lazy message ha

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Sending out a signal and testing the ground perhaps? Saying erm I’m shy but Ello. Maybe a non subscriber that wants you to be aware they are interested who knows

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally ignore them, sorry but if you can send a wink, then you can send a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I look but mostly ignore

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sending out a signal and testing the ground perhaps? Saying erm I’m shy but Ello. Maybe a non subscriber that wants you to be aware they are interested who knows

So many unknowns

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I normally ignore them, sorry but if you can send a wink, then you can send a message

You don’t use it then?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I look but mostly ignore "

Messages preferred?

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By *ingdongandBelleCouple
over a year ago

Bishops Strortford

We send them if we are interested in someone's profile, but don't really know what to message.

We have on our profile, that if you are interested then a send a wink and then we know.

Belle sent me a wink when we were both single on here, and we are getting married in a couple of months, so I do love a wink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I normally ignore them, sorry but if you can send a wink, then you can send a message

You don’t use it then?"

I check them now and again but I prefer a guy sending a message x

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Kettering

Nudge nudge wink wink, see what I meen say no more

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I don't bother with winks or friend requests, if you want my attention message me

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By *oeBeansMan
over a year ago

Derby

I usually message them thanking them for the wink etc etc but I've found a lot of times they don't even message back

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We send them if we are interested in someone's profile, but don't really know what to message.

We have on our profile, that if you are interested then a send a wink and then we know.

Belle sent me a wink when we were both single on here, and we are getting married in a couple of months, so I do love a wink.

Congrats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means they messaged every man woman tv ts couple in a 500 mile radius and got no replies so are now winking every man woman tv ts couple in a 500 mile radius.

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By *ingdongandBelleCouple
over a year ago

Bishops Strortford

"We send them if we are interested in someone's profile, but don't really know what to message.

We have on our profile, that if you are interested then a send a wink and then we know.

Belle sent me a wink when we were both single on here, and we are getting married in a couple of months, so I do love a wink.

Congrats

Thank you X

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It means they messaged every man woman tv ts couple in a 500 mile radius and got no replies so are now winking every man woman tv ts couple in a 500 mile radius. "

So negative haha

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

We will send a wink to a profile we like or look at who's sent us one to gauge interest...if we like the look of the winkers we tent to send a message

Got to love a bit of mutual winking

Sweet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Delete all of them with out looking. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Winks….

Is that an indication that they want you to message?

Are they just teasing?

Do you wink back? Do you message?

Why didn’t they just message ?

Wink etiquette ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'll wink, if you wink back we'll message, simples! And vice versa..

Saw a profile where their status declared "if you wink you will be BLOCKED!! WINK BLOCK WINK BLOCK WINK BLOCK" some people need to calm their tits..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I now ignore them. Or I give a nod back with appreciation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually only send if their profile states they like to receive them; or if I just want to throw some appreciation their way without expecting anything in return.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

I never look at them.

And I only normally send one to someone I’m friendly with already.

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Sometimes we are busy so we wink and then if they wink back we have a reminder of who to message when we have more time.

We’ve had a couple of women wink us today…we see it as they are liking our profile. We just messaged back and conversations have started. So winks work

Though If we get a wink and we don’t find the profile any good we’ll just ignore as they can’t wink you again for a month or so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dora winked at me on another site and I messaged her.

Fast forward three years and we’re getting married on Friday.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Winks….

Is that an indication that they want you to message?

Are they just teasing?

Do you wink back? Do you message?

Why didn’t they just message ?

Wink etiquette ??

Innocent eyes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink back then they assume we are married now so dont have sex

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Polite way of saying hello or they like something they see

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

"Dora winked at me on another site and I messaged her.

Fast forward three years and we’re getting married on Friday. "

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Wink back. That’s the international sign for ‘you can now message me’

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By *jorkishMan
over a year ago

Seaforth

When I get a wink I nearly always thank them unless their profile is very off putting. See far too much criticism around people winking, people can be be shy or lack self confidence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It means they’re interested too … well it does with me

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London

"If it’s a lady winking it’s your que to message her if you’re interested

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It means they’re interested too … well it does with me"

Must be why you’ve never winked me

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

".... with the d*unken sailor"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a sign of interest, message back and go from there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Dora winked at me on another site and I messaged her.

Fast forward three years and we’re getting married on Friday. "

Aw, congrats!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree I think it’s more so some appreciation without the messaging interaction. Admiring from a distance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it’s a lady winking it’s your que to message her if you’re interested

But why didn’t she just message

Too shy? Afraid of rejection? Not sure if she’s your type? Likes a man to make the moves?

I’d be interested to know, when on here has a lady ever been rejected?

It’s like shooting fish in a barrel for women of fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the wink, it lets someone know your interested, and if they wink back then conversation can start. If someone winks me I at least look at their profile. And will wink back or message. (Usually a wink return so they can start messaging)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They mean nothing as I never get any

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