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Is it normal for my wife to just want sex with another and doesn't care about how they look?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When we was chatting last night she said it just makes her feel sexy if we was to take this to reality for me to watch her with another guy but she says she doesn't really care about looks she's more interested in there cock as that's what's we are there for sex . Surley she has to have some kind of attraction to someone though I'm confused to be honest . I wouldn't sleep with a women who I'm not attracted to for her there would have to be some attraction . Otherwise I wouldn't get aroused

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Sounds like she has low self esteem. I can sympathise with her

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sounds like she has low self esteem. I can sympathise with her"

In what way though ?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Sounds like she just wants to be plowed senselessly by something huge. No matter who it’s connected too

It’s totally fine, everything fine between consenting adults. If you like the sound of it, go for it

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some woman can, some can't, some will, some won't.

Personally I need some attraction for things to progress to sex.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Maybe it's the situation that arouses her rather than the person. There are plenty of men on fab who state on their profile 'looks and age unimportant '

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

A performance-orientated approach to a casual encounter focused on PIV sex. Isn't this the equivalent of people joking about paper bags and going doggie?

It's basically an extreme objectification where she doesn't want to think of or consider the man (person) but has reduced them to a stunt cock

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By *oelDorianMan
over a year ago

vanaheim


"Some woman can, some can't, some will, some won't.

Personally I need some attraction for things to progress to sex."

I’m kind of the same I need some level of attraction

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Some woman can, some can't, some will, some won't.

Personally I need some attraction for things to progress to sex."

Bummer…. Just when I thought I had a chance!!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"

A performance-orientated approach to a casual encounter focused on PIV sex. Isn't this the equivalent of people joking about paper bags and going doggie?

It's basically an extreme objectification where she doesn't want to think of or consider the man (person) but has reduced them to a stunt cock "

Mine can jump over 10 buses and through a burning hoop of fire…..no pun intended!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Also dark rooms in clubs, fantasies of being blindfolded and never seeing the guy. In both those situations you're not going to know what the other person looks like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe it's the situation that arouses her rather than the person. There are plenty of men on fab who state on their profile 'looks and age unimportant '"

Yes she said it is the situation that arouses her. She said she loves me and isn't interested in any guy romanticly . Which obviously alot of people are the same . I do think when we come on here and look she will be picky then she thinks on looks . She said the whole situation makes her feel sexy because I find it sexy to watch her to.

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere


"Also dark rooms in clubs, fantasies of being blindfolded and never seeing the guy. In both those situations you're not going to know what the other person looks like "

And I’m back in the game!!!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"Maybe it's the situation that arouses her rather than the person. There are plenty of men on fab who state on their profile 'looks and age unimportant '

Yes she said it is the situation that arouses her. She said she loves me and isn't interested in any guy romanticly . Which obviously alot of people are the same . I do think when we come on here and look she will be picky then she thinks on looks . She said the whole situation makes her feel sexy because I find it sexy to watch her to. "

So it's normal for her. That's surely all you need to be concerned about

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Support her choices if that what you both decided to try.

I suppose it’s like a ‘toy’ to her. Just be careful if the guy knows that. Personaly, I’d rather someone fancied me, I’d be bothered if all they wanted was my dick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe it's the situation that arouses her rather than the person. There are plenty of men on fab who state on their profile 'looks and age unimportant '

Yes she said it is the situation that arouses her. She said she loves me and isn't interested in any guy romanticly . Which obviously alot of people are the same . I do think when we come on here and look she will be picky then she thinks on looks . She said the whole situation makes her feel sexy because I find it sexy to watch her to.

So it's normal for her. That's surely all you need to be concerned about"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When we was chatting last night she said it just makes her feel sexy if we was to take this to reality for me to watch her with another guy but she says she doesn't really care about looks she's more interested in there cock as that's what's we are there for sex . Surley she has to have some kind of attraction to someone though I'm confused to be honest . I wouldn't sleep with a women who I'm not attracted to for her there would have to be some attraction . Otherwise I wouldn't get aroused "

It's not about her attraction to them, it's about their attraction to her.

That she still feels desired, wanted, attractive, womanly, powerful, in control and is a beautiful woman.

Winston

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Support her choices if that what you both decided to try.

I suppose it’s like a ‘toy’ to her. Just be careful if the guy knows that. Personaly, I’d rather someone fancied me, I’d be bothered if all they wanted was my dick. "

Harsh to say but yeah pretty much a toy. Sure alot of men wouldn't care though if they got to fuck an attractive women . Some would care though of corse

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When we was chatting last night she said it just makes her feel sexy if we was to take this to reality for me to watch her with another guy but she says she doesn't really care about looks she's more interested in there cock as that's what's we are there for sex . Surley she has to have some kind of attraction to someone though I'm confused to be honest . I wouldn't sleep with a women who I'm not attracted to for her there would have to be some attraction . Otherwise I wouldn't get aroused

It's not about her attraction to them, it's about their attraction to her.

That she still feels desired, wanted, attractive, womanly, powerful, in control and is a beautiful woman.

Winston

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Think your spot on there

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Some need attraction some don't we all different x

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