FabSwingers.com forum: Wait, you have a type?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So, I know that more or less I do seem to have a type when it comes to men (ahem)

But it wasn’t until I started to do a collage that actually, I do. Its literally like the slight variation of the same guy, which is kinda funny but also not really… cos it’s like why I’ve been probably stuck in a permanent loop

Anyway, do you have a type? Do you realise that maybe u kept going for a copycat of the same person without even consciously knowing?

This could be in general even personality wise . What I mean personality wise, more like… a type of person like see examples below:

“The head strong person”

“The fuck boy or fuck girl”

“The toxic one”

“The nurse/mother”

Hope you get what I mean

Im not even gonna describe what my type of man is physically cos I think it is in the known

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Breathing and with a pulse for me

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

Top tip, have a 2-3 different types to mix it up so the patterns are not eminently recognisable. Then you can fool yourself & others about not falling for the same again and again

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I have a type, I'm just nowhere near attractive or popular enough to only go for said type

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Breathing and with a pulse for me

I mean, I should hope so

Necrophilia isn’t widely accepted

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Chubby mum that hadn’t had kids yet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chubby mum that hadn’t had kids yet "

Sounds like an oxymoron

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

That collage and saying they look a bit alike.

Erm I guess my type for men is generally older? I'm not sure why, I find I get on better with them and find them more physically desirable, silver foxes are my kryptonite. Personality wise, they tend to be quite passionate but I can't think of a snazzy name for that though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brunettes. This has only come to light recently.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

The only thing they have all had in common was an outgoing funny personality. Looks, hair colour, height etc have all been different.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That collage and saying they look a bit alike.

I mean some have green eyes some have blue

that’s a major difference

And and and.. some are 6’5” and others are 6’2”-6’3”

clearly totally different types slute!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Brunettes. This has only come to light recently.

Really? Brunettes are fun

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

I normally go for the good guys.

Most men I have dated have always been normal, decent men who are good dads to their kids (if they have them).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They must know the names of at least three of the members of Aqua otherwise I'm simply not interested.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Chubby mum that hadn’t had kids yet

Sounds like an oxymoron

They’re hard to find. Mum thighs/hips/bum/tummy but without the associated crotch goblin

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"Chubby mum that hadn’t had kids yet

Sounds like an oxymoron

They’re hard to find. Mum thighs/hips/bum/tummy but without the associated crotch goblin "

So just chubby women then…

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

"Breathing and with a pulse for me

Seriously tho.

As a couple it's a bit different as we are not looking for a relationship.

But we definitely have a type of person that suits us/Mrs.

However as Mrs is a hotwife I do try to encourage her to occasionally meet guy's who are completely away from what she already has (me)

Her type is rugged guy's, strong and well built, hairy chest...

Me basically.

So like I said I try to get her to see pretty guy's or suited types.

Just for the variety.

She enjoys herself.

I'm very particular, for me it's personality over look's.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chubby mum that hadn’t had kids yet

Sounds like an oxymoron

They’re hard to find. Mum thighs/hips/bum/tummy but without the associated crotch goblin "

Aaah gotchaaaa!

thought your type was Ariana Grande

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Brunettes. This has only come to light recently.

Really? Brunettes are fun

I know.

I thought only last week about the same as you and realised it’s all mostly brunette’s that I’ve been with. And I fancy others with different hair colour. Maybe brunettes give off different signals to me? I dunno.

My fantasy of a redhead, brunette and a blonde girl in a hot tub is going to remain a dream after all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality wise, they tend to be quite passionate but I can't think of a snazzy name for that though.

Libidinous swines.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Physically I like

Full head of hair

Tall(ish)

Not skinny.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typically older women for me. I get along better with them, I just don't relate to most of the younger ladies.

Perhaps its because I come off as being responsible.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Chubby mum that hadn’t had kids yet

Sounds like an oxymoron

They’re hard to find. Mum thighs/hips/bum/tummy but without the associated crotch goblin

Aaah gotchaaaa!

thought your type was Ariana Grande

Definitely not. Stunning face, but that skinny type ain’t for me. I like wobbly women

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Personality wise, they tend to be quite passionate but I can't think of a snazzy name for that though.

Libidinous swines."

C-.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

"Chubby mum that hadn’t had kids yet

Sounds like an oxymoron

They’re hard to find. Mum thighs/hips/bum/tummy but without the associated crotch goblin

So just chubby women then… "

Nah there’s a difference. I know what I like

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I didn't think I did, but it was pointed out to me that most people I meet are at least a little alternative looking. So maybe dyed hair, peircings, tattoos, rocky / punky clothing or just a certain attitude that seems to come with it.

For me though, it's all about the eyes and smile.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"Chubby mum that hadn’t had kids yet

Sounds like an oxymoron

They’re hard to find. Mum thighs/hips/bum/tummy but without the associated crotch goblin

So just chubby women then…

Nah there’s a difference. I know what I like "

I’m sure you do

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Chubby mum that hadn’t had kids yet

Sounds like an oxymoron

They’re hard to find. Mum thighs/hips/bum/tummy but without the associated crotch goblin

Aaah gotchaaaa!

thought your type was Ariana Grande

Definitely not. Stunning face, but that skinny type ain’t for me. I like wobbly women "

She’s my type

and I ain’t even into women

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Until recently my type was narcissist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last 3 relationships they've all been total opposites, but then I wonder if that's because when the previous one didn't work I've sub consciously gone for someone completely different.

For purely sexual, I don't really have a type, but they have to have that certain naughty spark about about them

Mrs

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

It used to be shorties, like 5'2 and under. It still is generally.

But I'm noticing a trend with facial features too. Big smiles, wide eyes. (No, not a frog)

Personality has to be quite strong. Clever and opinionated.

Hair colour and style isn't really an issue as long as it suits them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personality wise, they tend to be quite passionate but I can't think of a snazzy name for that though.

Libidinous swines.

C-."

Still a pass.

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

I tend to go more for darker haired guys with beards but that’s not set in stone and fab has shown me that actually I like a lot more than I thought I did.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I mean some have green eyes some have blue

that’s a major difference

And and and.. some are 6’5” and others are 6’2”-6’3”

clearly totally different types slute! "

You are truly ridiculous in the best way

- never have I seen more identikit men.

Actually, I know something they have in common but will WA it soon to you - got to keep my image up.

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

"Breathing and with a pulse for me

I mean, I should hope so

Necrophilia isn’t widely accepted

No kink shaming now

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I have a type, I'm just nowhere near attractive or popular enough to only go for said type"

I see u often here putting yourself down! U really shouldn't x

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

"Until recently my type was narcissist

I did a phase of those

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Looks wise bald and bearded but mostly a nice personality is far more attractive x

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Chubby mum that hadn’t had kids yet

Sounds like an oxymoron

They’re hard to find. Mum thighs/hips/bum/tummy but without the associated crotch goblin

So just chubby women then…

Nah there’s a difference. I know what I like "

Sorry to have to ask (genuine question) but what is a "crotch goblin" ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Chubby mum that hadn’t had kids yet

Sounds like an oxymoron

They’re hard to find. Mum thighs/hips/bum/tummy but without the associated crotch goblin

So just chubby women then…

Nah there’s a difference. I know what I like

Sorry to have to ask (genuine question) but what is a "crotch goblin" ? "

A child

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

I have two generally types as far as looks go, either beardy geeky gamer or muscly tattooed rugby player.

MJ x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I mean some have green eyes some have blue

that’s a major difference

And and and.. some are 6’5” and others are 6’2”-6’3”

clearly totally different types slute!

You are truly ridiculous in the best way

- never have I seen more identikit men.

Actually, I know something they have in common but will WA it soon to you - got to keep my image up.

Well I know what they all have in common…. Clear good taste in women

*hair flicks*

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By *ornucopiaMan
over a year ago

Bexley

Aaah gotchaaaa!

thought your type was Ariana Grande

Definitely not. Stunning face, but that skinny type ain’t for me. I like wobbly women

She’s my type

and I ain’t even into women

Had to look her up and was disappointed.

Bit hard faced and not dark enough for me. I prefer Africa to South America!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Aaah gotchaaaa!

thought your type was Ariana Grande

Definitely not. Stunning face, but that skinny type ain’t for me. I like wobbly women

She’s my type

and I ain’t even into women

Had to look her up and was disappointed.

Bit hard faced and not dark enough for me. I prefer Africa to South America!"

I mean Ariana is of Italian origins I think

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

A clone of Kelly Brook or else Ai Shinozaki for me.

I’m not fussy like….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not tories

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I'm most commonly attracted to curvy with long dark hair.

I have to like her boobs. If I don't like her boobs then it's not going to happen for me. Pretty much everything else is fine.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

Type?....the none crazy type

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Type?....the none crazy type

Good luck with that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6ft and under

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t have a type. I find all sorts attractive.

I just have a list of things that are preferential, things I find hot, so if they have one or more of those then bonus

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"The only thing they have all had in common was an outgoing funny personality. Looks, hair colour, height etc have all been different."

Same here. My partners have all been different heights, builds, ethnicities, backgrounds.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

"Type?....the none crazy type

Good luck with that

Hmmm...you might be right, I might be pushing it with that one. How about the none psycho type? Someone who doesn't punch me in the face in the shopping centre because she can't find the "right " shoes...someone that doesn't shit in my bed...someone that wouldn't stab me in my sleep...

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Women have a type...men don't.

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

"Type?....the none crazy type

Good luck with that

Wtf

Is this stuff that’s actually happened to you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Type?....the none crazy type

Good luck with that

I mean okay I think that sounds more feasible

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

"Women have a type...men don't."

Not all...

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Women have a type...men don't."

Apart from those women that don't and those men that do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seem to

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I’m a sucker for a witch, that’s really the only type I could pick out but generally someone I get along with and I have an attraction to is my type.

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington

"Type?....the none crazy type

Good luck with that

Wtf

Is this stuff that’s actually happened to you?"

One of them happened...

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

Nerdy types

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

"Type?....the none crazy type

Good luck with that

Wtf

Is this stuff that’s actually happened to you?

One of them happened..."

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By *osephSamuel90Man
over a year ago

Warfield

That collage and saying they look a bit alike.

I mean some have green eyes some have blue

that’s a major difference

And and and.. some are 6’5” and others are 6’2”-6’3”

clearly totally different types slute! "

Jack Grealish is only 5ft9 though

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That collage and saying they look a bit alike.

I mean some have green eyes some have blue

that’s a major difference

And and and.. some are 6’5” and others are 6’2”-6’3”

clearly totally different types slute!

Jack Grealish is only 5ft9 though "

Very true, he’s the exception

(tho face wise he’s very much my type)

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m a sucker for a witch, that’s really the only type I could pick out but generally someone I get along with and I have an attraction to is my type. "

Damn it...thought you said bitch

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"I’m a sucker for a witch, that’s really the only type I could pick out but generally someone I get along with and I have an attraction to is my type.

Damn it...thought you said bitch

That’s comes with the territory right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good toned chest. Not muscles, body builder etc just a good chest. Hairy or otherwise

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

My type is don't be a knob.

My physical taste has no bounds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A man collage! Love it!

Having thought really really hard about it, looks-wise, I don't have a type, other than not too clean cut.

Personality-wise, they have to make me laugh, be sharp witted without being cruel, be curious about the world, have nothing to prove.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they like to have a laugh and they properly 'get me' then it works. I don't have a type as such, its just a physical attraction to personality.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Fiesty, intelligent and easy on my eye. A major rarity nowadays.

Curly hair as well but not a deal breaker...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally like to go for people who have something quirky about them. Not the prettiest girls in the room. Normally someone with curves. Love a yummy mummy. Normally brunette, but I have a thing for blondes too (although I’ve only ever been with a couple)

But, they have to be nice to talk to and have at least a bit of personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A man collage! Love it!

Having thought really really hard about it, looks-wise, I don't have a type, other than not too clean cut.

Personality-wise, they have to make me laugh, be sharp witted without being cruel, be curious about the world, have nothing to prove."

It's a good job I'm hilarious. Xx

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Silly, sarcastic geeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Silly, sarcastic geeks

Is that your type or did you just mock us all?

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Silly, sarcastic geeks

Is that your type or did you just mock us all? "

Bit of both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Silly, sarcastic geeks

Is that your type or did you just mock us all?

Bit of both

2 birds with one stone. Clever.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"A man collage! Love it!

Having thought really really hard about it, looks-wise, I don't have a type, other than not too clean cut.

Personality-wise, they have to make me laugh, be sharp witted without being cruel, be curious about the world, have nothing to prove."

I had to

I swear it’s hilarious I’ve been told that was FUCK BOY IDENTIKIT 101

…Kinda harsh

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"Silly, sarcastic geeks

Is that your type or did you just mock us all?

Bit of both

2 birds with one stone. Clever.

I'm not sure I could handle two birds

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By *umbiyaMan
over a year ago

Halifax

I think most people like the same type of person deep down. Women want that tall, muscular guy with “a good smile” and men are generally fine with anything so long as she’s not fat and looks reaaally ugly.

Not trying to act better myself. I’m buttfucking ugly and short.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I seem to go for the wild high maintenance bipolar type and probably always will we just seem to attract each other in vanilla life. X

When it gets tough it’s really mentally draining and hard work but when it’s good it’s amazing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Y’all yes muscular no, some women get freaked out by fit/gym guys. I think confidence is key at the end of the day and how you carry yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Silly, sarcastic geeks

Is that your type or did you just mock us all?

Bit of both

2 birds with one stone. Clever.

I'm not sure I could handle two birds"

I’d like to try and find out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tall 6ft+, bulky ...not a gym buff...have a semblance of common sense and self awareness ...those the basics.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Chubby mum that hadn’t had kids yet

Sounds like an oxymoron

They’re hard to find. Mum thighs/hips/bum/tummy but without the associated crotch goblin

So just chubby women then…

Nah there’s a difference. I know what I like

Sorry to have to ask (genuine question) but what is a "crotch goblin" ?

A child "

Thanks - I genuinely had not heard that one before - it's actually not a very pleasant term but I take it in the spirit of Fabs

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"I swear it’s hilarious I’ve been told that was FUCK BOY IDENTIKIT 101

…Kinda harsh

So true though. I've had to bump this thread because it's still making me laugh every time i see a message from you, you ridiculous, beautiful woman.

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By *our HeroMan
over a year ago

south Oxfordshire

"So, I know that more or less I do seem to have a type when it comes to men (ahem)

Anyway, do you have a type? Do you realise that maybe u kept going for a copycat of the same person without even consciously knowing?

This could be in general even personality wise . What I mean personality wise, more like… a type of person like see examples below:

“The head strong person”

“The fuck boy or fuck girl”

“The toxic one”

“The nurse/mother”

Hope you get what I mean

Im not even gonna describe what my type of man is physically cos I think it is in the known

Yep my type tend to be:

32 years old, Straight, Slim, 5'6", Non smoking, Social drinker, Some tattoos, 1 or 2 piercings, who live in London….

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