FabSwingers.com forum: What do men expect from sex?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Like, physically.

Seen a lot of comments along the lines of not wanting a pillow princess or someone who "just lies there". For clarification I'm not saying I do that...

but now I'm paranoid that I don't do "enough".

For example what would you expect a woman to do from a position where she's on the bottom? Do you take foreplay into consideration or is it just the bits where you're actually smushing that matter?

TIA

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Participation

Mutual satisfaction for a start.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Fighting back

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I expect nothing, as I will probably recieve it in abundance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never understood the people complaining about someone just lying there, what else are you supposed to do in missionary

Just kiss when I lean in

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

If I thought about what to expect ahead of time, I feel like I'd be resigning myself to some boring and unstimulating sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Participation

Mutual satisfaction for a start."

Yeah but what does that look like?

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Like, physically.

Seen a lot of comments along the lines of not wanting a pillow princess or someone who "just lies there". For clarification I'm not saying I do that...

but now I'm paranoid that I don't do "enough".

For example what would you expect a woman to do from a position where she's on the bottom? Do you take foreplay into consideration or is it just the bits where you're actually smushing that matter?

TIA

For me sex begins the moment you meet to the moment you part. Getting into each others minds, flirtation, working out each others bodies and rhythms. I want to know you are trying to make it as good as you can, while I do the same for you..

I'm honestly not expecting porn star gymnastics, just show me you are really into it. Enthusiasm and passion please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like, physically.

Seen a lot of comments along the lines of not wanting a pillow princess or someone who "just lies there". For clarification I'm not saying I do that...

but now I'm paranoid that I don't do "enough".

For example what would you expect a woman to do from a position where she's on the bottom? Do you take foreplay into consideration or is it just the bits where you're actually smushing that matter?

TIA

I expect nothing. I would hope she enjoys herself.

For me, what I do down there with foreplay or penetration is based on reading her and what she is responding to. If she isn't responding I'm not going to be at my best. I am absolutely all about making sure she is happy, enjoying and cumming before I consider my own needs and if I'm not getting anything back I won't know how best to proceed. You know when a guy hits that sweet spot and you tell him "yes. right there"? if you dont tell me, or at least physically react, I'm gonna move away from it.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Just be involved. I've been with a pillow princess before and it's very very easy to tell the difference between that and somebody who is enthusiastic. Don't over-think it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Like, physically.

Seen a lot of comments along the lines of not wanting a pillow princess or someone who "just lies there". For clarification I'm not saying I do that...

but now I'm paranoid that I don't do "enough".

For example what would you expect a woman to do from a position where she's on the bottom? Do you take foreplay into consideration or is it just the bits where you're actually smushing that matter?

TIA

I'm honestly not expecting porn star gymnastics, just show me you are really into it. Enthusiasm and passion please

So like, pulling him in deeper even though you're already gagging?

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

Connection- if you properly connect - then theres no awkwardness or performance anxiety- you are in tune and it just feels right x I have a meeting with no expectations and we find our way together from there

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Never understood the people complaining about someone just lying there, what else are you supposed to do in missionary

Just kiss when I lean in

We have arms and legs you know

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By *achelnMarkCouple
over a year ago

Mid Wiltshire

Stay awake

Don't talk about next weeks Tesco shop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe run yours nails down the guys back to there ar*e it's very limited when the woman is underneath

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Never understood the people complaining about someone just lying there, what else are you supposed to do in missionary

Just kiss when I lean in

We have arms and legs you know

And are capable of moving our bodies. Even my fat body moves during missionary

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"Like, physically.

Seen a lot of comments along the lines of not wanting a pillow princess or someone who "just lies there". For clarification I'm not saying I do that...

but now I'm paranoid that I don't do "enough".

For example what would you expect a woman to do from a position where she's on the bottom? Do you take foreplay into consideration or is it just the bits where you're actually smushing that matter?

TIA

I'm honestly not expecting porn star gymnastics, just show me you are really into it. Enthusiasm and passion please

So like, pulling him in deeper even though you're already gagging?

That... works *goes for a lie down*

Wrap your arms and legs around him, get vocal.. tell him what you want.

Not every position allows both parties to get athletic and energetic. Work around it. Switch it up.

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

"Maybe run yours nails down the guys back to there ar*e it's very limited when the woman is underneath "

Back, ribs, chest all are available for a set of nails

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

If you're talking about when you're on the bottom, you don't have to do much - make sounds, make eye contact, give feedback (harder, softer, slower, just like that, etc), touch me, kiss me, smile - just look like you're alive and a willing participant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never understood the people complaining about someone just lying there, what else are you supposed to do in missionary

Just kiss when I lean in

Don't other women move their hips in missionary too, or have I been doing it wrong for 20 years?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Participation

Mutual satisfaction for a start.

Yeah but what does that look like? "

If we are talking plain missionary, wrap you legs around his waist or over his legs, meet his thrusts, hands on his shoulders or chest, grab his arse. Hands in his hair, eye contact, kissing, a little vocal response to your taste, wriggle underneath him. To be honest, if these things aren't coming naturally, it's pointless faking them and you need another hobby!

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

Simply a bit of feedback, is it working for the other person. Words or actions are fine!

Personally the more feedback I get, the more enthused I become and put more into the encounter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never understood the people complaining about someone just lying there, what else are you supposed to do in missionary

Just kiss when I lean in

Don't other women move their hips in missionary too, or have I been doing it wrong for 20 years? "

No, definitely keep moving.....

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Stay awake

Don't talk about next weeks Tesco shop.

Dammit! I knew that's where I'd been going wrong

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I find pillow princess sex so boring I literally lose my hard on !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to feel she's into the moment, not simply putting out.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

I have to feel she's into it. Some women do just lie there like a starfish and don't make a sound. Which is very strange.

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By *agertha73Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

"For example what would you expect a woman to do from a position where she's on the bottom?"

When I'm on the bottom, I run my nails down his chest and over his back... He seems to enjoy it!

Her x

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By *moking GunCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

lol i think those terms derive from gentleman that fail to make an impression.

Never had issues with people not wanting to 'perform' so to speak...

I could be wrong but i do know if you dont get me into the right headspace i would want to just lay there too xD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't other women move their hips in missionary too, or have I been doing it wrong for 20 years? "

Yes, you have. Puts me right off my rythym! Lie back, relax and enjoy the ride...

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

I would prefer she enjoys herself in whatever plays out, unless of course it is about me (used cumslut scenario for example).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have to feel she's into it. Some women do just lie there like a starfish and don't make a sound. Which is very strange. "

Just the shluup shluup shluup noises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't other women move their hips in missionary too, or have I been doing it wrong for 20 years?

Yes, you have. Puts me right off my rythym! Lie back, relax and enjoy the ride...

Really?? I can't orgasm without moving at least a little bit.

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

"Don't other women move their hips in missionary too, or have I been doing it wrong for 20 years?

Yes, you have. Puts me right off my rythym! Lie back, relax and enjoy the ride...

Really?? I can't orgasm without moving at least a little bit.

Don't listen to him he's a starfish maker

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So from the responses so far it looks like I can relax

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

Interaction on all levels makes the best sex, from eye contact to talking, encouraging egging each other on to pushing back, wrapping legs around a torso, grabbing his arse, body, arms…..Vocalness always turns a guy on more

It’s the same for a women, physically and vocally intense sex only heightens the emotions and moment leading to a much bigger bang for all concerned in my experience

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By *KG12Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Hands in my hair ( or round my throat if it's preferred), nails down my spine, grabbing my chest and arms. Legs wrapped around my waist or over my shoulder, eye contact and kissing. Any one or all of them improves the experience for me.

I'm lucky, my OH does all of the above (not at same time though)

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By *infullyNaughtyMan
over a year ago

Staines

A lot of people are saying there's not much a woman can do in missionary which I disagree with, you just gotta get creative

For example, what a woman in missionary can do is rub their hands across the man's body, pull them in and kiss their neck, even join in the humping, like move your torso with the man, or what me and my ex used to do is switch sometimes. Like she'd be in missionary and we'd take it in turns to hump, where I'd stop humping and she'd move her torso up and down whilst my cock is inside her, it was so erotic especially when she does it slowly and looking me in the eyes with a naughty look of enjoyment. She didn't like staying still. The best is when you both move together and get the rhythm right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like, physically.

Seen a lot of comments along the lines of not wanting a pillow princess or someone who "just lies there". For clarification I'm not saying I do that...

but now I'm paranoid that I don't do "enough".

For example what would you expect a woman to do from a position where she's on the bottom? Do you take foreplay into consideration or is it just the bits where you're actually smushing that matter?

TIA

Realistically - an orgasm, speaking for myself. It's easy for me to cum but I do take the time to make sure my partner has at least as good a time as I do.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Providing what goes on before the bedroom works out (connection mentally and verbal) then in the bedroom should also work out.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I've had similar worries OP because especially when it comes to things like doggy, I'm not going to be pushing back against them because my cervix would get a right bashing and that shit hurts.

My participation unless I'm on top is mostly things like kissing, touching them, gripping them with my hands or legs, angling my hips to get different angles, etc. Sometimes moving their hands on me

. If it's not enough for them I guess we're not compatible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if im not jumping around and having fun going from position to other position then back to oral and then fucking again then sorry its not me ..its you failing to light my fire...

on the subject of those women that dont move why do you think they are like that some have been brought up with the sex is dirty years ... other have just had boring boyfriends and husbands who climb on climb of when done ... me ive always seeked and enjoyed and found men and women who made sex real fun but the real eye opener was meeting my husband he really opened my mind to sex..

so back to question ..guys if the woman your fucking is not showing much in return then i suggest rather than blame her maybe just look at yourself and what you are doing just maybe your not as magic as you think you are....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe run yours nails down the guys back to there ar*e it's very limited when the woman is underneath

Back, ribs, chest all are available for a set of nails

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never understood the people complaining about someone just lying there, what else are you supposed to do in missionary

Just kiss when I lean in

Don't other women move their hips in missionary too, or have I been doing it wrong for 20 years? "

You definitely haven't been doing anything wrong.

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

"so back to question ..guys if the woman your fucking is not showing much in return then i suggest rather than blame her maybe just look at yourself and what you are doing just maybe your not as magic as you think you are...."

Normally we do blame ourselves at the time, this is why it's awkward for us. We get no response to begin with, so we try something different, and nothing, and we try something else, and still nothing. Then after some time of doing different things with no response, you give up, and to add further confusion, she turns to you and softly says "Hey, why'd you stop?"

It's not just women either. A few of my female friends have told me about guys they been with who were the same when they were on top, or giving them oral, and the experience is the same; they can't figure out what he likes or doesn't like, because there's no feedback to work from, and so you end up just going through the motions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if im with a guy and hes doing nothing for me then the meet ends right there and then ... if your with a woman and this is the same and shes doing nothing for you then you should stop ..and leave ..

its very rare for me to do this with a guy but im not going to continue if its doing nothing for me ... im here for playful fun the more you turn me on the more you get the more ill allow to be pushed further but then i like it naughty almost seedy i cannot stand this climb on cum climb of type sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never understood the people complaining about someone just lying there, what else are you supposed to do in missionary

Just kiss when I lean in

Don't other women move their hips in missionary too, or have I been doing it wrong for 20 years?

You definitely haven't been doing anything wrong.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

No idea what a pillow princess is, but in missionary i move my hips a bit, im not afraid to roll them over and get ontop tho.

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By *orneytwoCouple
over a year ago

Not far from lichfield

For most men on this site they have no idea. Some have not had see for many years.some think that they see on porn is what a girl is looking for. We DO NOT waste our time now having meets to be fucked around NO IDEA NO MEET.

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By *moking GunCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia

This might be a tin hat thought its a bit wild now i come to think of it... but how about when you get into these situations... you try using communication?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never understood the people complaining about someone just lying there, what else are you supposed to do in missionary

Just kiss when I lean in

Exactly

like especially in missionary…

Do I admit I love grabbing his thighs and push him deeper .. and during doggy .. pushing back

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"So from the responses so far it looks like I can relax

Can you? Only one way to find out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was fucking a girl a few years ago and she started talking about the gym she went to and how much she could squat. I tried to keep going but couldn’t

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

To take my 3 inches in every hole…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea what a pillow princess is, but in missionary i move my hips a bit, im not afraid to roll them over and get ontop tho. "

Now you're talking. I love it when a woman feels confident enough to take the lead occasionally and show what she wants..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No idea what a pillow princess is, but in missionary i move my hips a bit, im not afraid to roll them over and get ontop tho. "

Spoke facts, only facts and nothing but facts

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over a year ago

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

Oh there are definitely things to do in missionary, whispering in his ear how much you love feeling him inside you (or any other sort of talk that you feel comfortable with), scratching his head, chest, arms, back, grinding/moving your hips against his, wrapping your legs around them, kissing.

Missionary is a fucking great position!

MJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lie on my back and hold my legs wide open while watching his cock slide slowly into me....

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"Participation

Mutual satisfaction for a start.

Yeah but what does that look like? "

Like any vague question, it probably depends on the individual and who they are with at the time

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh there are definitely things to do in missionary, whispering in his ear how much you love feeling him inside you (or any other sort of talk that you feel comfortable with), scratching his head, chest, arms, back, grinding/moving your hips against his, wrapping your legs around them, kissing.

Missionary is a fucking great position!

MJ x"

^she whispers theres cake in the fridge for afters but leave the steak for tomorrow as it's steak and BJ day

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"To take my 3 inches in every hole…"

I'd take it in my nostril.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you look like you're enjoying yourself by what he's doing, that's enough for him , trust me

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By *rlandoMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

One word " ENTHUSIASM " ..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is harder to answer than i thought its not so much an expectation phisically in any position as a need genuine excitement enthusiasm and a willingness to just let go of all sense of anything other than what shes feeling in that moment allowing it to wash over her in waves of pleasure be it smushing of hips a gob full of gooch a fabulous fingering including the chocolate kind or an up to the elbow full on puppet show and for me to feel comfortable enough to truly relax my mind and let the music play

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By *HENAKEDPAINTERMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Personally, I do enjoy when the woman takes the lead, shows me what she enjoys and I can go from there. Usually it's me doing all the work and after a while it gets abit dull and I feel like we are not having as much fun as we could.

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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago

Nr Leicester

Mr of us.. Personally I expect nothing, but rarely disappointed! If a partner is going through the motions, it's downright fucking obvious! (Been there!!) There's one word 'enthusiasm' regardless of any ticklist it can't be faked..

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Missionary is a fucking great position!

MJ x

^she whispers theres cake in the fridge for afters but leave the steak for tomorrow as it's steak and BJ day "

You joke but I used to say that any food is made better by putting the words "post sex" in front of it. I also once did a post sex fajitas dance on my way to the kitchen

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By *omoxfordMan
over a year ago

leeds

If she's underneath

Match my rhythm don't lay there like a statue

Rub my back / shoulders grab me neck,ear ,hair

If she's on top wear some big heels grab my neck while I pull your hips into me much prefer this

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

A good sign of enjoyment and wanting more

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

Its been said lots of times already- Enthusiasm mainly!

You don't have to be some hot porn goddess, but as others have said, a little effort and wanting to be there goes a whole way to a better experience all round.

If you don't want to do a particular thing, be up front about it, if you really want to try something but feel scared or embarrassed its too kinky - talk about it....they might be feeling the same thing.

Don't be afraid to try something different and either not like it, not like it first time or not quite get it right...as long as you both (or all) approach the whole meet as an adventure, where you're free to satiate your individual horn and hopefully have a giggle or two, most people will leave the meet with a big smile.

I've been round this scene approaching two decades now

and the significant difference now is its all too fucking serious! We used to chat and flirt in the forum, bit more in PM (or the much missed MSN messenger), decide if you wanted to meet up, get together and bump the uglies then go home and get on with life...maybe repeating a meet if it all went tickity-boo. Now its like the bloody Brexit negotiations with some people on here- just relax and enjoy it, it is 'casual' sex after all

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

Missionary is a fucking great position!

MJ x

^she whispers theres cake in the fridge for afters but leave the steak for tomorrow as it's steak and BJ day "

Damn, don't go giving all my secrets away!!

MJ x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missionary is a fucking great position!

MJ x

^she whispers theres cake in the fridge for afters but leave the steak for tomorrow as it's steak and BJ day

You joke but I used to say that any food is made better by putting the words "post sex" in front of it. I also once did a post sex fajitas dance on my way to the kitchen

Add Reese's peanut butter milkshake to the list and you can pop by anytime

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like, physically.

Seen a lot of comments along the lines of not wanting a pillow princess or someone who "just lies there". For clarification I'm not saying I do that...

but now I'm paranoid that I don't do "enough".

For example what would you expect a woman to do from a position where she's on the bottom? Do you take foreplay into consideration or is it just the bits where you're actually smushing that matter?

TIA

A cigar in his mouth, while his cigar is in your mouth

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Missionary is a fucking great position!

MJ x

^she whispers theres cake in the fridge for afters but leave the steak for tomorrow as it's steak and BJ day

You joke but I used to say that any food is made better by putting the words "post sex" in front of it. I also once did a post sex fajitas dance on my way to the kitchen

Add Reese's peanut butter milkshake to the list and you can pop by anytime "

That sounds good but the best I've ever had was peanut butter, chocolate, salted caramel and oreo pieces *drools*

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

As long as the woman I'm doing it to can maintain consciousness, it's all aces

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

Passion, enthusiasm, presence, sexually experimental . Experienced.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missionary is a fucking great position!

MJ x

^she whispers theres cake in the fridge for afters but leave the steak for tomorrow as it's steak and BJ day

You joke but I used to say that any food is made better by putting the words "post sex" in front of it. I also once did a post sex fajitas dance on my way to the kitchen

Add Reese's peanut butter milkshake to the list and you can pop by anytime

That sounds good but the best I've ever had was peanut butter, chocolate, salted caramel and oreo pieces *drools*"

Bow chicka wow wow. Don't be selfish and DM the ingredients

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would expect mutual enjoyment and participation.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

"Never understood the people complaining about someone just lying there, what else are you supposed to do in missionary

Just kiss when I lean in

Oooft...OK then

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"No idea what a pillow princess is, but in missionary i move my hips a bit, im not afraid to roll them over and get ontop tho.

Now you're talking. I love it when a woman feels confident enough to take the lead occasionally and show what she wants..

I like it at times when he just lays there doing nothing while I enjoy him

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over a year ago

"No idea what a pillow princess is, but in missionary i move my hips a bit, im not afraid to roll them over and get ontop tho.

Now you're talking. I love it when a woman feels confident enough to take the lead occasionally and show what she wants..

I like it at times when he just lays there doing nothing while I enjoy him

That can work, it's all about communication.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"No idea what a pillow princess is, but in missionary i move my hips a bit, im not afraid to roll them over and get ontop tho.

Spoke facts, only facts and nothing but facts "

And thats a fact

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

"Never understood the people complaining about someone just lying there, what else are you supposed to do in missionary

Just kiss when I lean in

Don't other women move their hips in missionary too, or have I been doing it wrong for 20 years? "

I do, I use my feet and legs as leverage, I didn't really know til I came on here how common it was for some women not to move much during sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eternal gratitude mainly.

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By *iceHungWakefieldMan
over a year ago

there is a clue somewhere

Nobody expects the spanish inquisition.

I had one woman who let

Loose a massive fart everytime i lifted

Her legs back. I managed to get a tune out of her but im going off on a tangent here.

No rules… but reading a magazine is a no no!

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By *niquefunsouthMan
over a year ago

Hampshire

My hand to get cramp

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Nowhere

When im on top all i hope for is that they keep breathing!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missionary isn’t all about just lying there….

A ‘pillow princess’ is someone I would imagine to expect me to come up with all the ideas and all the moves. Little involvement of instigating any pleasure my way and just interested in receiving lots of orgasms.

But maybe I’m wrong. I dunno.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Never understood the people complaining about someone just lying there, what else are you supposed to do in missionary

Just kiss when I lean in

Don't other women move their hips in missionary too, or have I been doing it wrong for 20 years? "

I do, can't help but move with them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never understood the people complaining about someone just lying there, what else are you supposed to do in missionary

Just kiss when I lean in

Don't other women move their hips in missionary too, or have I been doing it wrong for 20 years?

I do, can't help but move with them."

I hope so, I remember practicing on my pillow when I was younger, I didn’t expect it to actually be like that!!!

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

Wait a minute…I’m supposed to actually take part and not just do my dead worm impression??

I apologise to those few who have been subjected to participating in activities of a sexual nature with me…I’ll try harder next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Wait a minute…I’m supposed to actually take part and not just do my dead worm impression??

I apologise to those few who have been subjected to participating in activities of a sexual nature with me…I’ll try harder next time

"
men in black twister

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By *aptainhornpipeMan
over a year ago

manchester

It’s difficult to pinpoint what makes one person better at sex than another.

What might be good to know person may not be to another.

I think someone that clearly enjoys sex and is getting very aroused by what is going on is exciting to have sex with.

Then there is technique, how good are they and giving a blowjob or basically just handling the goods. Again enthusiasm helps things here too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Like, physically.

Seen a lot of comments along the lines of not wanting a pillow princess or someone who "just lies there". For clarification I'm not saying I do that...

but now I'm paranoid that I don't do "enough".

For example what would you expect a woman to do from a position where she's on the bottom? Do you take foreplay into consideration or is it just the bits where you're actually smushing that matter?

TIA

I definitely prefer her breathing, preferably heavily!

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Never understood the people complaining about someone just lying there, what else are you supposed to do in missionary

Just kiss when I lean in

Don't other women move their hips in missionary too, or have I been doing it wrong for 20 years? "

I'm with you, I like to move my hips and push back in missionary too.

Mrs

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By *ooBulMan
over a year ago

Missin’ Yo’ Kissin’

You mean like a high tariff manoeuvre dive off the closet or a WWF smack down jump in the air (that's wrestling not wildlife foundation as it is now!) I want judges an all with a score card!

A naked cook book Kamasutra? Now that's a thought...... Fuck me, hold on whilst I write that down in my "whacky shits thoughts book - I'm shitting golden nuggets here today!

Lots of lube, buzzing toys and naked twister or mouse trap or naked kerplunk. Mind you you'd have to be careful with the little pointy sticks. You don't want them in yer ball sack. That's a note to me b.t.w.

To be serious & honest I'd settle more for her turning up!

She can be as noisy or as quiet as she wants!

I wonder if guy's are more influenced by porn films....?

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

A good sleep afterwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A good sleep afterwards.

Pussy so good it's put you to sleep

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