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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester

The Government are insisting that single sex toilets are installed in all new government buildings according to reports as women need their own space. Only flaw in the plan is that they have no money to build any more new buildings.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

The benefit being everyone gets their own space since they will be toilets for everyone right?

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By *yron69Man
over a year ago

Fareham

These loos would only have been bog standard anyway..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 2, Downing Street

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hate to think that anyone would be inconvenienced by this. Or even worse discommoded.

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

No doubt someone woo poo poo the idea..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

A none story all over the loos?

More like another busted flush..

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Will

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t want single sex toilets.

I’d feel desperately sorry for the woman that followed me after I’ve laid a cable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Government are insisting that single sex toilets are installed in all new government buildings according to reports as women need their own space. Only flaw in the plan is that they have no money to build any more new buildings. "

The question is what sign should be on the door?

So as not to offend trans, non binary etc?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t want single sex toilets.

I’d feel desperately sorry for the woman that followed me after I’ve laid a cable "

Her fault for being in the gents then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The Government are insisting that single sex toilets are installed in all new government buildings according to reports as women need their own space. Only flaw in the plan is that they have no money to build any more new buildings.

The question is what sign should be on the door?

So as not to offend trans, non binary etc?"

If I’m at all unsure I ask which one would they prefer I use? It’s not complicated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single sex toilets to me are the binary "ladies" and "gents" - is this thread about gender neutral facilities? In which case, we have them where I work. So far, cleaner and better than the gendered set up!

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-62034932

I feel my new forum job should be to go behind tom and post the news story for people to actually read.

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

I’ve noticed in few new buildings mostly garage workshops, the picture depicting male or female on the entrance door has a shared signage of male/female. It never works because no woman will go in there.. the women always find another toilet to use that’s not used by men..

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"I’ve noticed in few new buildings mostly garage workshops, the picture depicting male or female on the entrance door has a shared signage of male/female. It never works because no woman will go in there.. the women always find another toilet to use that’s not used by men.. "

Depends on the state of the toilet and the urgency of my need. I quite often use the men's when at large public events but then I'm often too d*unk to notice how grim it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single sex toilets to me are the binary "ladies" and "gents" - is this thread about gender neutral facilities? In which case, we have them where I work. So far, cleaner and better than the gendered set up! "

Ok, just read the article (thank you for the link!)

I'm not sure why anyone would feel unsafe in gender neutral toilets. What am I missing?

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"Single sex toilets to me are the binary "ladies" and "gents" - is this thread about gender neutral facilities? In which case, we have them where I work. So far, cleaner and better than the gendered set up!

Ok, just read the article (thank you for the link!)

I'm not sure why anyone would feel unsafe in gender neutral toilets. What am I missing?

"

It's not about individual universal use toilets. It's about toilets where there is a communal waiting/hand washing area. There are some who find that intimidating for various reasons.

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham


"I’ve noticed in few new buildings mostly garage workshops, the picture depicting male or female on the entrance door has a shared signage of male/female. It never works because no woman will go in there.. the women always find another toilet to use that’s not used by men..

Depends on the state of the toilet and the urgency of my need. I quite often use the men's when at large public events but then I'm often too d*unk to notice how grim it is. "

Ahh yes that reminded me of my youthful years and d*unken nights out, the lasses would often use the gents the reasons given on guys protesting was “theirs a big queue at the women’s”

A bit disconcerting at first when having a pee at the urinal while a woman fix’s her makeup using the mirror next to you.. eye front lady’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single sex toilets to me are the binary "ladies" and "gents" - is this thread about gender neutral facilities? In which case, we have them where I work. So far, cleaner and better than the gendered set up!

Ok, just read the article (thank you for the link!)

I'm not sure why anyone would feel unsafe in gender neutral toilets. What am I missing?

It's not about individual universal use toilets. It's about toilets where there is a communal waiting/hand washing area. There are some who find that intimidating for various reasons. "

That, I understand.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

I think lots of people are missing something here.

Ok we are all enlightened woke swinger's,open minded but not everyone in society is this way particularly the elderly.

Imagine a scenario

An old lady goes to use a public toilet and as she's walking in standing there is a bearded non binary person dressed in ladies clothing.

Whilst some may not see an issue it could be pretty scary for an older person or someone who doesn't understand.

We all deserve the right to feel safe doing what is a very natural act.

But I wouldn't feel comfortable taking a poo in a mixed toilet with a lady in the next stall to me whilst I unburden myself of a particularly large smelly load.

Noone deserves that horrific experience being next to me.

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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago

Chippenham Malmesbury area

What a load of ballcocks!

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden


"I think lots of people are missing something here.

Ok we are all enlightened woke swinger's,open minded but not everyone in society is this way particularly the elderly.

Imagine a scenario

An old lady goes to use a public toilet and as she's walking in standing there is a bearded non binary person dressed in ladies clothing.

Whilst some may not see an issue it could be pretty scary for an older person or someone who doesn't understand.

We all deserve the right to feel safe doing what is a very natural act.

But I wouldn't feel comfortable taking a poo in a mixed toilet with a lady in the next stall to me whilst I unburden myself of a particularly large smelly load.

Noone deserves that horrific experience being next to me.

"

Would you be uncomfortable because it's a lady in the next stall or because of the "particularly large smelly load"?

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By *dam and slutCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Where's the problem, Aeroplanes have non gender toilets, National express, Mega Bus have non gender toilets, disability toilets are non gender specific, Trains have non gender toilets...I guess some want to feel special, entitled.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t want single sex toilets.

I’d feel desperately sorry for the woman that followed me after I’ve laid a cable "

But you don't feel sorry for a man following you? Sexiest....joking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-62034932

I feel my new forum job should be to go behind tom and post the news story for people to actually read. "

Maybe the solution is to have a male, female, gender neutral and a disabled. No one can complain then. I am not showing preference to any side though.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Where's the problem, Aeroplanes have non gender toilets, National express, Mega Bus have non gender toilets, disability toilets are non gender specific, Trains have non gender toilets...I guess some want to feel special, entitled."

But they are all single occupancy.

Communal areas are open to abuse by the less savoury members of society.

Particularly these days with camera phone cameras.

Jeeze you only have to read some of the bizarre and damn right odd replies and threads on this forum to understand some bloke's just don't understand what boundaries are.

Taking the non binary stuff out of the discussion,I wouldn't want my daughter of wife sharing a toilet with strange men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where's the problem, Aeroplanes have non gender toilets, National express, Mega Bus have non gender toilets, disability toilets are non gender specific, Trains have non gender toilets...I guess some want to feel special, entitled.

But they are all single occupancy.

Communal areas are open to abuse by the less savoury members of society.

Particularly these days with camera phone cameras.

Jeeze you only have to read some of the bizarre and damn right odd replies and threads on this forum to understand some bloke's just don't understand what boundaries are.

Taking the non binary stuff out of the discussion,I wouldn't want my daughter of wife sharing a toilet with strange men."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Single sex toilets to me are the binary "ladies" and "gents" - is this thread about gender neutral facilities? In which case, we have them where I work. So far, cleaner and better than the gendered set up!

Ok, just read the article (thank you for the link!)

I'm not sure why anyone would feel unsafe in gender neutral toilets. What am I missing?

It's not about individual universal use toilets. It's about toilets where there is a communal waiting/hand washing area. There are some who find that intimidating for various reasons. "

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester

Are they getting rid of urinals. That would be a big inconvenience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Are they getting rid of urinals. That would be a big inconvenience "

They’ll still have the sinks

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Where's the problem, Aeroplanes have non gender toilets, National express, Mega Bus have non gender toilets, disability toilets are non gender specific, Trains have non gender toilets...I guess some want to feel special, entitled.

But they are all single occupancy.

Communal areas are open to abuse by the less savoury members of society.

Particularly these days with camera phone cameras.

Jeeze you only have to read some of the bizarre and damn right odd replies and threads on this forum to understand some bloke's just don't understand what boundaries are.

Taking the non binary stuff out of the discussion,I wouldn't want my daughter of wife sharing a toilet with strange men."

I wouldn't want myself sharing any confined space with unknown men. I've seen too many she looked at me I know she wants it comments. Imagine the 'well she had her knickers down right next to me what was I supposed to do?'types. Having said that a young woman was very obviously trying to film me in the pool changing rooms so #notjustmen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading another article, gender neutral toilets will be allowed along side single sex toilets, but interestingly the female single sex toilets must contain the wash basin and drying facilities (- exactly how gender neutral toilets are designed).

People can choose which facilities they are most comfortable with.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

I was at a delivery the other day that had them I shit myself thinking I was in the wrong loo till she said no it’s multi sex toilet it’s ok

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"An old lady goes to use a public toilet and as she's walking in standing there is a bearded non binary person dressed in ladies clothing.

Whilst some may not see an issue it could be pretty scary for an older person or someone who doesn't understand."

Singles sex toilet make this More likely not less. Because Trans Men, and this transphobic policy would force them to use the ladies.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Where's the problem, Aeroplanes have non gender toilets, National express, Mega Bus have non gender toilets, disability toilets are non gender specific, Trains have non gender toilets...I guess some want to feel special, entitled.

But they are all single occupancy.

Communal areas are open to abuse by the less savoury members of society.

Particularly these days with camera phone cameras.

Jeeze you only have to read some of the bizarre and damn right odd replies and threads on this forum to understand some bloke's just don't understand what boundaries are.

Taking the non binary stuff out of the discussion,I wouldn't want my daughter of wife sharing a toilet with strange men.

I wouldn't want myself sharing any confined space with unknown men. I've seen too many she looked at me I know she wants it comments. Imagine the 'well she had her knickers down right next to me what was I supposed to do?'types. Having said that a young woman was very obviously trying to film me in the pool changing rooms so #notjustmen"

Oh gawd can you imagine the dude who reckons he's been told that "if your neighbour wears a bikini in their garden it means they're giving you signals they want to fuck you" had a woman dropping their drawers in the cubicle next to him?

There's already far too much upskirting going on so I'd hope beyond all hope that the cubicles would be floor to ceiling walls with no gap underneath or above for peeping/filming.

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"Where's the problem, Aeroplanes have non gender toilets, National express, Mega Bus have non gender toilets, disability toilets are non gender specific, Trains have non gender toilets...I guess some want to feel special, entitled.

But they are all single occupancy.

Communal areas are open to abuse by the less savoury members of society.

Particularly these days with camera phone cameras.

Jeeze you only have to read some of the bizarre and damn right odd replies and threads on this forum to understand some bloke's just don't understand what boundaries are.

Taking the non binary stuff out of the discussion,I wouldn't want my daughter of wife sharing a toilet with strange men.

I wouldn't want myself sharing any confined space with unknown men. I've seen too many she looked at me I know she wants it comments. Imagine the 'well she had her knickers down right next to me what was I supposed to do?'types. Having said that a young woman was very obviously trying to film me in the pool changing rooms so #notjustmen

Oh gawd can you imagine the dude who reckons he's been told that "if your neighbour wears a bikini in their garden it means they're giving you signals they want to fuck you" had a woman dropping their drawers in the cubicle next to him?

There's already far too much upskirting going on so I'd hope beyond all hope that the cubicles would be floor to ceiling walls with no gap underneath or above for peeping/filming."

With floor to ceiling doors the stench would be unbearable

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By *an hjCouple
over a year ago

Stowmarket

How do you sex a toilet?

Does someone go around doing it, like they do chickens.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Single sex toilets to me are the binary "ladies" and "gents" - is this thread about gender neutral facilities? In which case, we have them where I work. So far, cleaner and better than the gendered set up!

Ok, just read the article (thank you for the link!)

I'm not sure why anyone would feel unsafe in gender neutral toilets. What am I missing?

It's not about individual universal use toilets. It's about toilets where there is a communal waiting/hand washing area. There are some who find that intimidating for various reasons. "

Yea, imagine coming out of a cubicle to find someone washing blood off their knickers with blood stained hands,drying them under the dryer, listening to her moan about *fucking fibroids* under her breath. Then getting a "What!!" and a death stare when you stand there open-mouthed wondering why you had to be privy to this.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I'm assuming they'd be closed units with basins in, which would be costly and maybe take up more room.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Where's the problem, Aeroplanes have non gender toilets, National express, Mega Bus have non gender toilets, disability toilets are non gender specific, Trains have non gender toilets...I guess some want to feel special, entitled."

By and large, there is only one toilet rather than a room with several cubicles in these scenarios.

I am very happy for gender neutral toilets in addition to male/ female/disabled anytime but I am not in favour of all in one solutions, having seen them on a number of occasions. They were filthy without fail.

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By *ustintime69Man
over a year ago

firest hill

Yes it’s not the single toilets, it’s the dirty basted who don’t clean up after themselves or wash their hands after….and on that note my one word of advice is to never share that bowl of nuts on the hotel bar!

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester

As long as they keep the men's urinals I am sorted.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Unisex toilets work fine in renowned areas of Manchester. They should expand that or just let businesses do as they please.

C

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"Unisex toilets work fine in renowned areas of Manchester. They should expand that or just let businesses do as they please.

C"

This is a dictat from central government for government buildings and possibly including Local Authority Buildings.

Businesses can probably do as they like and motorway services etc but not sure that would work well when a lady is trying to use the facilities and wash her hands when a rabble of d*unken Scottish football fans or any fans for that matter get off a coach and descend on mass into the toilets ...

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"Unisex toilets work fine in renowned areas of Manchester. They should expand that or just let businesses do as they please.

C

This is a dictat from central government for government buildings and possibly including Local Authority Buildings.

Businesses can probably do as they like and motorway services etc but not sure that would work well when a lady is trying to use the facilities and wash her hands when a rabble of d*unken Scottish football fans or any fans for that matter get off a coach and descend on mass into the toilets ..."

You'll find private business and government are tightly wound. There is a huge grey area.

C

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unisex toilets are perfect for quick pub/bar fuck and go's. I'm I the only one classy enough to see the plus side here ;-p

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"Unisex toilets work fine in renowned areas of Manchester. They should expand that or just let businesses do as they please.

C

This is a dictat from central government for government buildings and possibly including Local Authority Buildings.

Businesses can probably do as they like and motorway services etc but not sure that would work well when a lady is trying to use the facilities and wash her hands when a rabble of d*unken Scottish football fans or any fans for that matter get off a coach and descend on mass into the toilets ..."

Still, as long as it makes someone happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toilet sex is a must

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester

People are missing the point here... It's not about which toilets you can use it's about councils closing many public toilets

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"People are missing the point here... It's not about which toilets you can use it's about councils closing many public toilets "

Citation please the BBC article doesn't mention anything about that

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"People are missing the point here... It's not about which toilets you can use it's about councils closing many public toilets "

How are changes to building regulations in government buildings anything whatsoever to do with the availability of toilets in public spaces?

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By *ssex_tom OP   Man
over a year ago

Colchester


"People are missing the point here... It's not about which toilets you can use it's about councils closing many public toilets

How are changes to building regulations in government buildings anything whatsoever to do with the availability of toilets in public spaces? "

Not you again

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"People are missing the point here... It's not about which toilets you can use it's about councils closing many public toilets

How are changes to building regulations in government buildings anything whatsoever to do with the availability of toilets in public spaces? "

Thankfully the eco agenda and all those carbon neutral policies are providing more trees and bushes to avail of. Just remember to shout "in need"

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