FabSwingers.com forum: One night stands

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How does everyone feel after

Used

Happy

Ashamed

Or all three lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose it depends how the night went

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After we've played at a club I always feel used but very happy

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

Don’t feel anything. Once I have cum / left its on with business as usual for me Out of sight of mind is how I function

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Content. The day I feel ashamed or used I will leave.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Frustrated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never ashamed there’s nothing to be ashamed off

Little bit happy

For a beef moment a little used but that’s ok I like that as long as I know going in what it is

Then on with things don’t really put much thought in to it

Was what it was the only time I look back on them

If if they were exceptsholy good other wise

On to the next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why one night stands? Use me to normalise day rooms. Swim, shave, shower,shag then go for cake

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

Never ashamed

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Never had one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Poorer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does everyone feel after

Used

Happy

Ashamed

Or all three lol"

Used and very happy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For me it depends on the night.

When I was single it felt good to be used and happy it happened.

When I was married and doing it on the side (she was aware) it was better as she wanted to know what happened.

She never wanted to have an open relationship her side but happy for me to get my fill.

Shame it ended lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Poorer "

Why poorer?

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"Why one night stands? Use me to normalise day rooms. Swim, shave, shower,shag then go for cake

Lots of fun

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Never had 1

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Depends if it was any good.

If it was shit then I’d feel like I wasted my time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like one night's at clubs if they good

but do have a friend or two if they go wrong

but at the end of the day love my single life no hassle now

so never feel used.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve never actually had a one night stand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always felt good after mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never had any one night stands but have had some rubbish one off encounters...not ashamed just a bit more picky now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cost of a hotel and drinks i assume unless you split bill...not to mention a club visit which doesn't count as a one night stand.

That would be an all night standing!

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Never had a one night stand...

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Happy x

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By *lder funCouple
over a year ago

tottenham

Job done

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By *un couple 2Couple
over a year ago

Tynemouth.

Ikciv great photos on your profile

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Used but that's the point if a one night stand for me, I like that feeling it makes me happy

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I’ve never actually had a one night stand."

But you are the stud of the fab forums!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never actually had a one night stand.

But you are the stud of the fab forums!"

That’s why I haven’t had a one night stand. They always come back for seconds

In reality I’m a needy little bitch and always ended up in relationships.

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Nostalgic.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I’ve never actually had a one night stand.

But you are the stud of the fab forums!

That’s why I haven’t had a one night stand. They always come back for seconds

In reality I’m a needy little bitch and always ended up in relationships."

Fair enough, I'm just an old bastard in a youngish persons body and thus doesnt go out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’ve never actually had a one night stand.

But you are the stud of the fab forums!

That’s why I haven’t had a one night stand. They always come back for seconds

In reality I’m a needy little bitch and always ended up in relationships.

Fair enough, I'm just an old bastard in a youngish persons body and thus doesnt go out

I go out about 3 times a year and spend the full night wishing I hadn’t gone out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer a 45 minute stand maybe an hour. I’m busy.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Never had one and it’s not something I seek

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer a 45 minute stand maybe an hour. I’m busy. "

45 minutes. I’m lucky if I last 45 seconds

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

Most of my sex end up being one night stands, perhaps I'm just not very good at it

But I love them and am very happy after.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Typically, fantastic. It's about selecting the right partner. And getting rid of them, if there's any hints of inappropriate behaviour

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

None of the afore mentioned

I don’t do ‘shag and go’ my integrity is worth more to me

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

Not my bag.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"None of the afore mentioned

I don’t do ‘shag and go’ my integrity is worth more to me"

I don't shag and go either and did not take that to be what this thread meant. I meet for a social and if we get on we will arrange a hotel meet. A hotel meet to me is check in at 3 and stay overnight and enjoy lots of sex and lots of laughs. This probably wont be repeated but I never have regrets and never feel used.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"None of the afore mentioned

I don’t do ‘shag and go’ my integrity is worth more to me"

Love a shag and go! And my integrity is intact x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None of the afore mentioned

I don’t do ‘shag and go’ my integrity is worth more to me"

What does integrity mean?

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I prefer two Night Stands. It gives my bed an equilibrium.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It was fun but I move onto the next person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had a few. A couple were great but mostly they were uninspiring. I much prefer to know someone a bit before I bed them

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I do not see what a one night stand has to do with integrity - to me that sounds a little bit judgmental.

I would not seek one night stands because I like to build up a bit of a connection with people but if I did have a one nighter... it would not affect my integrity.

As for a sense of shame, I think that is a concept that belongs into the dark middle ages - in my world, nobody should be ashamed of their sexual needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do not see what a one night stand has to do with integrity - to me that sounds a little bit judgmental.

I would not seek one night stands because I like to build up a bit of a connection with people but if I did have a one nighter... it would not affect my integrity.

As for a sense of shame, I think that is a concept that belongs into the dark middle ages - in my world, nobody should be ashamed of their sexual needs."

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Kind of like it was pointless (other than a good cardio session) and would have preferred to do something meaningful like read a good book or watch a movie with a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've had a few. A couple were great but mostly they were uninspiring. I much prefer to know someone a bit before I bed them "

I agree, like I think unless you get great chemistry from the get go, it can feel like that..

Not necessarily bad… just Uninspiring

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

Personally I have to like someone before I put my penis in them. Without a connection a one night stand is just a couple of hours of cardio and some pleasant friction.

I prefer getting to know my partners body. On a one night stand it's common to be thinking about your own performance and not concentrating on your partner.

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By *irthandgirthMan
over a year ago

Camberley occasionally doncaster

"I've had a few. A couple were great but mostly they were uninspiring. I much prefer to know someone a bit before I bed them

I agree, like I think unless you get great chemistry from the get go, it can feel like that..

Not necessarily bad… just Uninspiring"

Chemistry is the thing. Without it it becomes meh..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why one night stands? Use me to normalise day rooms. Swim, shave, shower,shag then go for cake

I’m in!

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

"I do not see what a one night stand has to do with integrity - to me that sounds a little bit judgmental.

I would not seek one night stands because I like to build up a bit of a connection with people but if I did have a one nighter... it would not affect my integrity.

As for a sense of shame, I think that is a concept that belongs into the dark middle ages - in my world, nobody should be ashamed of their sexual needs."

Absolutely well said! X

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"Personally I have to like someone before I put my penis in them. Without a connection a one night stand is just a couple of hours of cardio and some pleasant friction.

I prefer getting to know my partners body. On a one night stand it's common to be thinking about your own performance and not concentrating on your partner. "

Personally I'd always concentrate on my 'partner' regardless of it being a ONS or something more regular. Who knows when a ONS might lead to regular meetings.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally I have to like someone before I put my penis in them. Without a connection a one night stand is just a couple of hours of cardio and some pleasant friction.

I prefer getting to know my partners body. On a one night stand it's common to be thinking about your own performance and not concentrating on your partner.

Personally I'd always concentrate on my 'partner' regardless of it being a ONS or something more regular. Who knows when a ONS might lead to regular meetings."

Exactly!

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

Hungover normally.

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"How does everyone feel after

Used

Happy

Ashamed

Or all three lol"

Generally, I'll be happy if I've "been used"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last time i had one i was 18 so i cant remember

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By *yantico86Man
over a year ago

drumchapel

How do I feel after a one night stand worn out drained but so fucking happy.

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By *orthwhile27Man
over a year ago

dark side of the moon

You'd have to ask her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How does everyone feel after

Used

Happy

Ashamed

Or all three lol"
lucky

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

It’s happened once, I felt ashamed but I guess society said I should feel ashamed and dirty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy and sad that i may not see her again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why one night stands? Use me to normalise day rooms. Swim, shave, shower,shag then go for cake

I’m in!

Hello there

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By *ld StrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Telford

Personally I felt independent, like it was my choice to do this based on the connection at the time.. only regrets was in morning (if it was shit maybe on both our parts) other than that my body my choice an itch may or may not have been satisfied but k went with the experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My last one night stand is still going!! I moved in with him the next day and we are still together 22 years later x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My last one night stand is still going!! I moved in with him the next day and we are still together 22 years later x "

I refer to the Mrs as the one night stand that wouldn't leave.

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Back in my drinking days had many a one night stand that ranged from where the fuck am I to wow she’s gorgeous and this house is amazing.

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

I’ve had so many it gets boring.

all the effort it takes to pull, all the embarrassing failed attempts, for what? A shitty fumble around, a hangover and not enough sleep

Not for me anymore

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By *BWandhusbandCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

"How does everyone feel after

Used

Happy

Ashamed

Or all three lol"

I think I've had a mixture of all those feelings.

It's a phase of my life I look back on and regret occasionally but I can also laugh about it too.

Katie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s been a long time I did anything like they, I’ve forgotten. It’s not what I want now.

But seems to be what others want …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy.

Disappointed it won’t happen again after a few days (when the sex is good). He says having only had two.

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

Amazed, tired, elated and grateful! (in the goodcases!) Followed by, Damn, did I get her number?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nights of lust and experimenting.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I feel happily used and wanting to get back to hubby

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if it was hot or not. If it was "not", then I only feel disappointed for wasting my precious time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Used

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By *utlongjohnMan
over a year ago

Had a fwb who was meant to be just a one night stand but she was a good fuck and used to random text me to go round and service her a few times a week. I called it iff in the end which didnt go down well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me anymore.....

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By *mooth Operator 07Man
over a year ago

in the deep mist of the valleys

I can't say I feel used, I'm adult , single and make my own decisions to say yes or no.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I usually wish they’d sod off so I can roll over and star fish in the bed, and get some decent sleep

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"How does everyone feel after

Used

Happy

Ashamed

Or all three lol"

Happy... many of our meets are one night stands in clubs.

We're adults, sex is fun not shameful.

Nita

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By *enuine MikeMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I dont think I've ever had a one night stand

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