FabSwingers.com forum: Things you don’t like during sex

By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

What are the things you don’t like during sex ? And if you are with someone and they are doing the thing you don’t like do you tell them or just grin and bear it ?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I tell them, it's supposed to be fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having my cock nipples or belly bitten its not im a celeb its a shag ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mushrooms. I mean, I don't like them at any time - but during sex is really inappropriate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see any gain from grinning and bearing it. Good sex comes from communicating with the other person.

I don’t like to be stroked in certain places, it tickles. I tell them that beforehand so they can avoid it. I like partners to let me know of anything they’d like me to refrain from doing.

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By *he love catsCouple
over a year ago

South Wales

Adverts I bloody hate them.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Adverts I bloody hate them.

Always getting in the way !!

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

Anybody going anywhere near my feet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Adverts I bloody hate them.

Pounding away and all of a sudden Mrs Clit starts to sing the UmBongo tune?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Trying to watch match of the day

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

A lack of participation

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

Leaving the TV on....

People that talk too much (and not naughty stuff, actual conversations)

People that start walking towards or park next to my car when it's parked somewhere deliberately quiet, like come on give me a break for some secret naughties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting interrupted

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Leaving the TV on....

People that talk too much (and not naughty stuff, actual conversations)

People that start walking towards or park next to my car when it's parked somewhere deliberately quiet, like come on give me a break for some secret naughties"

Let me know next time you are parked up !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having my cock nipples or belly bitten its not im a celeb its a shag ffs"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Socks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When she lays on her back like a kitten playing with cotton

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When she lays on her back like a kitten playing with cotton "

But but…..

Isn’t that what a pussy does

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

The really fake pornstar like moaning, I love genuine moaning but the fake variety is a major turn off

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By *weetiepie99Woman
over a year ago

cardiff

My inside ear being drenched by someone's tongue...eewww

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"My inside ear being drenched by someone's tongue...eewww"

Sorry I can’t hear someone’s tongue is in my ear

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Rimming. Hard nipple sucking, guys who cum before they even get inside me (I'm good at oral, what can I say?), guys who cum as soon as they get inside me, guys who don't reciprocate oral sex, guys who promise everything but deliver nothing, guys who say they're oral experts yet it feels like they're chewing corn on the cob, guys who just lay there and want me to do all the work, guys who let me lead ALL the time instead of taking the lead themselves.

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By *rofessor ElementalMan
over a year ago

Durham

I hate falling asleep zzzzz

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Rimming. Hard nipple sucking, guys who cum before they even get inside me (I'm good at oral, what can I say?), guys who cum as soon as they get inside me, guys who don't reciprocate oral sex, guys who promise everything but deliver nothing, guys who say they're oral experts yet it feels like they're chewing corn on the cob, guys who just lay there and want me to do all the work, guys who let me lead ALL the time instead of taking the lead themselves. "

That’s a lot of dislikes !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Suddenly stopping and wanting to change positions while having sex.ffs just get on with it.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

That’s a lot of dislikes !! "

Yes, but all based upon meets I've had off Fab. Beginning to get very disillusioned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When she lays on her back like a kitten playing with cotton

But but…..

Isn’t that what a pussy does

But but…..

theres over 400 positions to choose from

Source: Kamasutra

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

That’s a lot of dislikes !!

Yes, but all based upon meets I've had off Fab. Beginning to get very disillusioned. "

That’s a shame x need to restore your faith

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

A police man knocking on the car window

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"A police man knocking on the car window

That would be a problem! Has it happened to you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol there doing it wrong then

Aim for sugar puff you can’t go wrong

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've never told anyone to stop what they were doing and I've never been asked to stop either.

Sex for me is very instinctive and I've never had a bad TripAdvisor review.

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

"A police man knocking on the car window

That would be a problem! Has it happened to you?"
not for many years

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

[Removed by poster at 04/07/22 15:49:15]

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

When she wipes her chuff on my curtains

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

Stourbridge (West-Mids)

Hard nipple biting, spitting and any kind of ass play before its well lubricated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Having my cock nipples or belly bitten its not im a celeb its a shag ffs

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By *inx.x3Woman
over a year ago

Bath

Hate my ears being nibbled but I’d normally just roll my eyes and pull away after a few seconds I’d I forgot to tell them before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are the things you don’t like during sex ? And if you are with someone and they are doing the thing you don’t like do you tell them or just grin and bear it ?"

Talking

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

Shouting...

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Probably being rimmed. I tend to move away quite quickly. But maybe that's a situational thing?

I enjoy most sexual things (that I've tried). Oh! When someone wants to touch me or grab a part of me and they're a bit hesitant or gentle. They shouldn't be, I like to feel like I'm being touched/held/fucked and don't want people to feel uncomfortable or hold back. But I don't hate that, can understand why people do.

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

"A police man knocking on the car window

That would be a problem! Has it happened to you? not for many years"

I once had a police car pull up directly in front of me in a lay by whilst I had a delightful young playmate riding me in the driver's seat.

We both absolutely shat ourselves and dived for our clothes.

He walked in completely the other direction to a car he had pulled over that we had completely missed.

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By *onb21Woman
over a year ago

Cardiff

I really don't like being on top

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That really fast finger blasting thing. I'm assuming some men do it because some women like it, but I don't.

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London

Sounds like you need a real man....ah fuck I’ve just cum !

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By *undance_KidMan
over a year ago

London

Having any pet in the same room is just wrong.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

police man tapping on the window and your both fully naked,,

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

Fanny farts

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

"I really don't like being on top"

I don't like ladies on top of me I always seem to get cramp when that happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Adverts I bloody hate them.

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I'm happy to join you as an ad bloc xxx

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

Rimming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The wife catching me lol

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"The wife catching me lol "

It’s a constant fear !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I tell them and ask them to tell me for a much more rounded pleasurable experience however I hate excessive moaning/noise

like over the top if that makes sense

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"What are the things you don’t like during sex ? And if you are with someone and they are doing the thing you don’t like do you tell them or just grin and bear it ?"

You should really have that conversation before you get started.

For me... Anything rough, so finger blasting, spanking, hair pulling, hands round my throat, face fucking. To me, I find that all quite degrading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you had a discussion about liking it rough and hard and they go all gentle and what to stop for a chat half way through to make sure you are ok.

Honestly I have put up with it sometimes, but make a note not to meet them again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they wake up

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