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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We used to be on here as Stronghotcouple

Very well known in the cuckold / hotwife /bbc

My wife was known as a QOS

Well shes had enough for now but i still crave the cuckold lifestyle

Any advice

Ive explored chatting to all the bulls shes has had etc

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

What's the most important to you ...I'd honour her feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would recommend being supportive of her decision

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Would she be happy for you to continue without her?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes she is but in a cuckold format

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Or any advise in getting her back in the game

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By *umalotagainMan
over a year ago

a town called malice


"Or any advise in getting her back in the game "

Surely only she can decide that and no amount of pressure will make it happen, it’s time to chat to her about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or any advise in getting her back in the game "

She said she doesn't want to?

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"Yes she is but in a cuckold format "

How can that even happen if she is no longer involved?

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis


"Or any advise in getting her back in the game "

Oh dear

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

When we started out we both agreed that if either of us want to stop we would both stop.

Communication is key.

Personally if this was me (Mr) I would sit down and talk with her.

Ask if she is ok if I carry on ( assuming that I wanted to) if she said no I would 100% respect that decision. If she was ok me proceeding I would but would ensure that she is kept in the loop with all ongoing proceedings.

You never know keeping her informed and asking her opinion might re light the spark.

But ultimately you have to respect her choice same as I would expect her to respect your choice if you wanted to stop and she didn't.

However I doubt that you would get the same sympathy on here if the situation was reversed.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

She has agreed that its ok for me to continue

And still keeps in touch with a couple of her long-standing bulls

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

When your wife quits, quit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to be on here as Stronghotcouple

Very well known in the cuckold / hotwife /bbc

My wife was known as a QOS

Well shes had enough for now but i still crave the cuckold lifestyle

Any advice

Ive explored chatting to all the bulls shes has had etc "

Has she quit or just taking some time out? If she has quit, you have to ask her if it’s ok for you to carry on. She might say yes, might like the idea of you being desirable while she pursues other interests for a bit. But if she has quit to focus on your personal sex life then it would be best to do that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Id say time out

Like i say she has ongoing text relationships with 2bulls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"She has agreed that its ok for me to continue

And still keeps in touch with a couple of her long-standing bulls "

What do you want her to do that she's not doing?

Why not roleplay and pretend she's fucking the men. She can go out shopping and you stay home imagining she's up to no good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ha we do this all the time

She always pretends that she might be up to no good lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We started out in a strange way

I found out she was having a very salicous affair

I got to know every detail but instead of being mad i was incredibly turned on

That was the start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The start is irrelevant really. She’s said she’s had enough. That should be enough for you to leave it at that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe my title is a little off

Shes more semi retired having a break

The post was about ideas to get her interested in meeting again

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Respect her wishes and be more supportive. As you have said, it's a time out...not a full stop

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

To be fair, we take breaks from here if either one of us isn't feeling it for whatever reason.

Recently it was me (Mr) not feeling it. Difficult to explain why, but it was something within me that let my esteem drop significantly. We did talk about it, which helped and we're starting to make plans again now.

However, we stop instantly if we need to.

Maybe allow your wife sone time to work through whatever is on her mind, and just be there for her

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Maybe my title is a little off

Shes more semi retired having a break

The post was about ideas to get her interested in meeting again "

If someone applies any sort of pressure for me to do something I'm not really interested in it strengthens my resolve not to do it.

Talk to her, tell her you're happy to wait but you'd like to keep the lines of communication about this open *with no pressure on her*. Emphasise that you are happy with her regardless (if it's true).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We used to be on here as Stronghotcouple

Very well known in the cuckold / hotwife /bbc

My wife was known as a QOS

Well shes had enough for now but i still crave the cuckold lifestyle

Any advice

Ive explored chatting to all the bulls shes has had etc "

If you were a stag and vixen couple then you could with her blessings still potentially meet folk solo. I'm not sure that's an option for a cuck is it?

KJ

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


"Maybe my title is a little off

Shes more semi retired having a break

The post was about ideas to get her interested in meeting again "

Tbh you know her much better than anyone, communication without pressure or you making her feel she should start again (if indeed she does want to) before she's ready isn't healthy or respectful which I'm sure isn't the case..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes she is but in a cuckold format "

Don't pressure her we all come back eventually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I understand, coming to a stop when you're not ready is like having what feeds an addiction snatched away.

When in two different places to one another, after being on a similar level can really take its toll.

All I can suggest is talk, don't push, try to understand the changes your partner is experiencing and adapt to the best of your abilities.

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