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By *ingleguyforfunsw OP   Man
over a year ago

Cornwall

Met a lady the other day that adored having guys that are attached, got a real kick from tasting the forbidden fruit. Not thought too much about this in the past but must it admit it has turned me on loads and find it quite kinky. Many females on here the same or is it a minority?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I know this does turn some women on. As you say it's the forbidden fruit aspect.

Not me, I hold to the sister code

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Oldest kink in the book isn't it.

Coveting thy neighbor's wife/husband

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I find it more of a turn on when their partner is 100% in the know (and takes part in the action sometimes) x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Although if their partner is present and enjoying spending time with my partner it's a different story

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

We have found that for many the thrill is in the chase,once mission accomplished they move onto the next target.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people are rather very covetous in their ways.

The desire to have what others do can be strong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to not care too much when I had my girl in a candy shop phase

As I always thought, it’s his decision and that’s his issue to deal with… not mine

But I’ve decided to not go there anymore as I’ve been longing for something more meaningful, so somebody who can’t stick around or only message me when she’s not around.. is just not what I’m looking for!

Feeling wanted only in certain moments can feel completely shit!!

Also there would be no ground to build with people like that, because if he done it to her, he could it to me…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can sort of see why some people find it a turn on. I'm assuming, and I'm ready to be corrected, that it's about being found so desirable that an attached person would risk their relationship for you?

Personally I'm not into it. I've been cheated on and it felt shite, and I wouldn't want to facilitate anyone's cheating. Plus the potential for being dragged into another's drama is always there.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"I can sort of see why some people find it a turn on. I'm assuming, and I'm ready to be corrected, that it's about being found so desirable that an attached person would risk their relationship for you?

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I think there might be an element of that, being thought of as more attractive than the partner and also the power trip.

I worked with a woman once who had an affair with a married guy and would call his wife to tell her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I suppose there are two sides to this coin. I like men who are attached mainly because they have less time on their hands to annoy me, single men tend to have too much time on their hand to push boundaries and make themselves a nuisance. I am not saying that attached men can't or don't do the same but I've found single men moreso. I would never seek out an attached man to cheat but if they've already made the decision to do so thats on them not me. As for it being a turn on re: forbidden fruit ...does nothing for me ..a cock is a cock .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally it comes down the the thrill of the chase.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can sort of see why some people find it a turn on. I'm assuming, and I'm ready to be corrected, that it's about being found so desirable that an attached person would risk their relationship for you?

I think there might be an element of that, being thought of as more attractive than the partner and also the power trip.

I worked with a woman once who had an affair with a married guy and would call his wife to tell her.

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Yes, I think especially for individuals with lower self esteem… being wanted and desired so much by somebody who is supposed to be faithful

Can feel like a boost and power trip. In all the wrong ways

And as you have big highs, you also might have the big lows of… but he’s disappeared for a bit cos he’s with her. Or whatever

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can sort of see why some people find it a turn on. I'm assuming, and I'm ready to be corrected, that it's about being found so desirable that an attached person would risk their relationship for you?

I think there might be an element of that, being thought of as more attractive than the partner and also the power trip.

I worked with a woman once who had an affair with a married guy and would call his wife to tell her.

"

Wow, that's spiteful!

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I can sort of see why some people find it a turn on. I'm assuming, and I'm ready to be corrected, that it's about being found so desirable that an attached person would risk their relationship for you?

I think there might be an element of that, being thought of as more attractive than the partner and also the power trip.

I worked with a woman once who had an affair with a married guy and would call his wife to tell her.

Wow, that's spiteful! "

Power. It makes people do horrible things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Forgot to add if you've seen me as a couple for play and the agreement is that you play together ..if the hub ever contacts me without wife's knowledge for play one on one I'm snitching...directly and without hesitation

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Minority... We don't need the drama it can cause

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Dirk was chatting to this one girl once, they agreed to meet up for a coffee, he said he'll run it by me first and she got offended!

She was okay with meeting a guy who is attached but categorically not okay with that guys partner knowing about it.

Safe to say they never met.

Now this kind of shit I do not condone nor respect.

Missus

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Its not for me ,only be interested if his wife knew .

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

I have had quite the few disgruntled gents who are on here as part of a couple when I have said I wont meet them solo, because I refuse to play solo with anyone attached unless I am convinced BY the partner that they are ok with it.

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