FabSwingers.com forum: In or out?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So let’s say your bestie pops round or calls you up to ask you to play out?

What type of mood are you in? Would you try to persuade them to have a night in? Film night, a few drinks listening to music type deal.

Or would you be up for going out-out?

Has anyone else got that friend that will always get you up for a night on the town even if you didn’t fancy it?

Sadly, I don’t.

Have a fab Saturday night everyone.

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Dinner, drinks and head to the local pub

That's the mood I'm in

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By *ussle SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

I’m normally that friend that gets people out

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

I'm an in in guy.

I don't mind dinner and drinks on occasion but much prefer a night in.

And nope, I don't have someone to drag me out or to be dragged in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wild horses couldn't drag me out these days. My friends pop over because they know I am up for a takeaway the movie cuddle up on the sofa.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

Do you think the friend could find someone to look after kid. Then I'm ready to go out out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to go out but my bank balance won’t allow it so it would have to be a night in.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I made an agreement with myself a few years ago that if I don’t want to do it I’m not agreeing to it! I was always making arrangements I really didn’t want to do. If I want to go I’ll go but I won’t allow myself to be persuaded anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Friends that knock on the door? What are those? I think I was still a teenager the last time that happened.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

"I made an agreement with myself a few years ago that if I don’t want to do it I’m not agreeing to it! I was always making arrangements I really didn’t want to do. If I want to go I’ll go but I won’t allow myself to be persuaded anymore. "

I did the opposite and started saying yes more

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

I'm an out out person anyway

Spend all week in in so the weekend balances it out

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

Depends on the company, though I’m often the one getting friends out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm that friend

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I did the opposite and started saying yes more "

I checked your age thinking you’re probably much younger than me

. I still say yes a lot but not months in advance. I need to see how I feel

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

They'd find nobody home coz I've been waiting for the bus to work for the last 45 mins.

Yep, I'm gonna be late.

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Far far away

"Friends that knock on the door? What are those? I think I was still a teenager the last time that happened. "

I'm never moving to Guatemala

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Firstly i just be glad to know shes alive hell id just be happy with a message saying hello asking how i am

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I used to be an out kind of person but these days I much prefer a takeaway, a bottle of wine and a good film in really good company x

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke

I live bloody miles away from any of my friends so the chance of them popping round is lower than me winning the lottery (and those are low odds given I rarely buy a ticket!)

I'd love to be that friend that gets you up and out on a Saturday night OP

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Prefer a night in unless it's a live gig. They are few and far between now...done too many over the years!

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Something to eat then head out to a karaoke for drinks, singing & dancing.

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By *aughtyandhandsomeMan
over a year ago

button moon

I only go out if I want to and won’t be persuaded into going out if I don’t feel like it. And I never now will persuade anyone to go out if they don’t feel like it. Last time I did that it ended disastrously and I’ve learned a lot from that

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I only go out if I want to and won’t be persuaded into going out if I don’t feel like it. And I never now will persuade anyone to go out if they don’t feel like it. Last time I did that it ended disastrously and I’ve learned a lot from that "

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I dont have any friends that live close enough to ask me if I want to go out

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

Spent most of my day with my two children 8 & 12. Plus the drive to Liverpool and back. The only thing I’m in the mood for, is food a bit of telly and then bed.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Ohh yes I b out on the town x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not having friends solves that

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

The way I've been feeling recently, events like that should be planned ahead. Anyone turning up at my door to try to get me to go out will receive a polite "fuck off".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer to cook a meal for us

And yes I can cook

Snuggle up couch watching crap tv together

Then bed where I promptly fall asleep

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really wanted to go out for a few pints after getting a wicked score on an assignment, but it hasn't worked out. Beer and steak night it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I really wanted to go out for a few pints after getting a wicked score on an assignment, but it hasn't worked out. Beer and steak night it is. "

Saying that I had a quick meet earlier and she may pop around for round two when she's had her night out with her friends. If not I've got my doggo for company.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Don't do nights out on the town anymore, would have a shandy in the pub garden though of an afternoon.

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