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"I've always been too old or too young. Sometimes both simultaneously. " This is apparently the way fella | |||
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"I don't think it changes that much for men. But I think some, not all men, forget that women in the same age bracket as them, may start experiencing peri menopause and menopause when they hit their 40's. So they may or may not meet less etc. So their normal pool shrinks a little making it more difficult to meet. " So men are justified in trying to expand their pool of potential mates by going 20 years younger? | |||
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"I don't think it changes that much for men. But I think some, not all men, forget that women in the same age bracket as them, may start experiencing peri menopause and menopause when they hit their 40's. So they may or may not meet less etc. So their normal pool shrinks a little making it more difficult to meet. So men are justified in trying to expand their pool of potential mates by going 20 years younger? " Lol there's no harm trying is there | |||
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""Age is just a number" ... " When it happens to be 69 it is also a good conversation starter! | |||
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""Age is just a number" ... When it happens to be 69 it is also a good conversation starter!" 69 is a good number | |||
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"I've heard a lot of people say we (men) age out at 50. I hope not, however am fast approaching that milestone so I'll report back in a year or so! " I know a few men on fab who've admitted to knocking a few years off their age to stay below the 50 mark. Sad really. | |||
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"I don't think it changes that much for men. But I think some, not all men, forget that women in the same age bracket as them, may start experiencing peri menopause and menopause when they hit their 40's. So they may or may not meet less etc. So their normal pool shrinks a little making it more difficult to meet. " My experience of menopausal women is that most go off sex, maybe just for a few years, but then it becomes difficult for them, and their partners, to restart. A few women get their libido turbo charged, and get far more kinky. | |||
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"For us it's not about age, if we're attracted to someone and can hold a conversation that's what we want. Age wise there's very mature early 20's so young isn't an issue, and absolute wallapers come in every age bracket " Absolute wallpapers! I love that, I'm pinching it, you don't charge royalties do you? | |||
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"For us it's not about age, if we're attracted to someone and can hold a conversation that's what we want. Age wise there's very mature early 20's so young isn't an issue, and absolute wallapers come in every age bracket Absolute wallpapers! I love that, I'm pinching it, you don't charge royalties do you?" We don't charge royalties however we do ask for the credit | |||
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"For us it's not about age, if we're attracted to someone and can hold a conversation that's what we want. Age wise there's very mature early 20's so young isn't an issue, and absolute wallapers come in every age bracket Absolute wallpapers! I love that, I'm pinching it, you don't charge royalties do you? We don't charge royalties however we do ask for the credit " Ha ha I'll try to remember to mention it when I say it my friends then ???? | |||
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"From what I have seen, a huge amount of profiles have 45 as a top limit. I’m 46 in a few months time so will by default, be unable to contact any of these people, unless as they are all a year older, increase their upper age limit by a year every year. Fab will more or less be consigning me to sex death." Oh dear. | |||
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"For us it's not about age, if we're attracted to someone and can hold a conversation that's what we want. Age wise there's very mature early 20's so young isn't an issue, and absolute wallapers come in every age bracket Absolute wallpapers! I love that, I'm pinching it, you don't charge royalties do you? We don't charge royalties however we do ask for the credit Ha ha I'll try to remember to mention it when I say it my friends then ????" At least we've given you one of the more tame insults to throw around in every day life | |||
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"For us it's not about age, if we're attracted to someone and can hold a conversation that's what we want. Age wise there's very mature early 20's so young isn't an issue, and absolute wallapers come in every age bracket Absolute wallpapers! I love that, I'm pinching it, you don't charge royalties do you? We don't charge royalties however we do ask for the credit Ha ha I'll try to remember to mention it when I say it my friends then ???? At least we've given you one of the more tame insults to throw around in every day life " True! I'll mention you every time I say it but very, very fast like the terms and conditions on adverts | |||
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"For us it's not about age, if we're attracted to someone and can hold a conversation that's what we want. Age wise there's very mature early 20's so young isn't an issue, and absolute wallapers come in every age bracket Absolute wallpapers! I love that, I'm pinching it, you don't charge royalties do you? We don't charge royalties however we do ask for the credit Ha ha I'll try to remember to mention it when I say it my friends then ???? At least we've given you one of the more tame insults to throw around in every day life True! I'll mention you every time I say it but very, very fast like the terms and conditions on adverts " Super fast, or in very very small print | |||
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"When I first came on here I was a teen with a six pack and a "BBC" living with my parents couldn't keep up with the offers Now as a 35 year old I come in an its people who block single guys say get me to the top of fab list you are aging but we all age at the same pace Thier was a shift in the site its turned to Instagram with gangbangs " Tbf if you think about the numbers way more ganbangs and fucking going on on non sex sites I know i get nothing here but people wanna fuck me on pic and tinder This place can suck the life out of a single guy | |||
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"I don't think it changes that much for men. But I think some, not all men, forget that women in the same age bracket as them, may start experiencing peri menopause and menopause when they hit their 40's. So they may or may not meet less etc. So their normal pool shrinks a little making it more difficult to meet. My experience of menopausal women is that most go off sex, maybe just for a few years, but then it becomes difficult for them, and their partners, to restart. A few women get their libido turbo charged, and get far more kinky. " I've heard the same so I guess if you're a man in his mid 40's here, I can imagine it becomes a little more difficult for a bit. | |||
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"From what I have seen, a huge amount of profiles have 45 as a top limit. I’m 46 in a few months time so will by default, be unable to contact any of these people, unless as they are all a year older, increase their upper age limit by a year every year. Fab will more or less be consigning me to sex death." I'm 58, will be 59 end of the year. For most profiles I come across 55 seems to be the cut off. Sex death happened for me a couple of years ago feels like. | |||
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"Try being 62!I've made a few friends, had some horny chats with people and published some dirty stories but have come to the conclusion that any for of actual physical friendship with a couple is highly unlikely. I'll stick it out for a bit longer but it'd a shame as there are a lot of older couples on here but they seem to be spread out around the cout. I've always though having a forum section for the over 50s was a good idea. " Start a thread for over fifties, see how you get on | |||
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"About 20 years ago, I was at a wedding and a little 7 year old girl looked at me and said "You need anti-ageing cream". I've used it ever since!" You look 56! | |||
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"Age is an interesting aspect of being on fab. Do we think, for guys particularly, that we “age out” or does our “appeal” change? Interested in people’s thoughts and experiences " Without a doubt, I have seen my inbox become ever more quiet the older I’ve become. It was very noticeable when I turned 46, when I first fell over the cliff edge of the Fab preferred age limit of 45, then again, I felt the deafening roar of silence as I turned 50……. To be fair though; I have received messages, and met, women in their 30’s who look for the more mature gentleman, so all is not lost! | |||
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"A silver fox can be very appealing x" This may become my new username soon | |||
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"A silver fox can be very appealing x This may become my new username soon " Appealing? Sound pretty good to be honest. | |||
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"About 20 years ago, I was at a wedding and a little 7 year old girl looked at me and said "You need anti-ageing cream". I've used it ever since! You look 56! " Thank you. You weren't far out (58)! I don't look much older now, thanks to the cream, so not much point in finding a newer picture! | |||
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"When I first joined at about 22/23 I always said age is just a number. I got chatting to (and made friends with someone who had claimed he was around 43ish but turned out to be a lot closer to 50. He was honest and I thought I was ok with it but when we met for a social the age difference smacked me in the face. Unfortunately, from that point on I couldn't see past it. A real shame because he was such a gent too x" For some people I guess the age difference is the attraction of an older partner and they want someone who looks their age. What I take from your post is that you weren't worried about age as long as the person didn't look obviously twice as old as you. There's actually a lot of research at the moment into the difference between chronological age and biological age, which seems to suggest that you could find someone twice as old who doesn't look it. So it is possible to enjoy the advantages of maturity and experience without physical decrepitude! | |||
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"When I first joined at about 22/23 I always said age is just a number. I got chatting to (and made friends with someone who had claimed he was around 43ish but turned out to be a lot closer to 50. He was honest and I thought I was ok with it but when we met for a social the age difference smacked me in the face. Unfortunately, from that point on I couldn't see past it. A real shame because he was such a gent too x For some people I guess the age difference is the attraction of an older partner and they want someone who looks their age. What I take from your post is that you weren't worried about age as long as the person didn't look obviously twice as old as you. There's actually a lot of research at the moment into the difference between chronological age and biological age, which seems to suggest that you could find someone twice as old who doesn't look it. So it is possible to enjoy the advantages of maturity and experience without physical decrepitude!" It wasn't his appearance that swayed me, I'd seen pictures prior to meeting. It was the conversation. Which was odd as we had spoke for a couple of months online. Guess you don't properly know until you meet up. As I said a genuine shame as he was a real gent and very respectful. | |||
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"A silver fox can be very appealing x" Not when he’s stealing your chickens! | |||
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""Age is just a number" ... When it happens to be 69 it is also a good conversation starter! 69 is a good number" Just three years to go. | |||
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"Looks play a bigger part over age specifically. Some people age like wine, others age like milk." I like to think I am ageing like a good wine, just waiting for someone with a corkscrew to turn up. | |||
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"I see Bluebelle has reentered the top ten again. So I would choose her as my appointed Blade Runner...........Admin take note! " What’s a blade runner?? | |||
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"I see Bluebelle has reentered the top ten again. So I would choose her as my appointed Blade Runner...........Admin take note! What’s a blade runner?? " | |||
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"I see Bluebelle has reentered the top ten again. So I would choose her as my appointed Blade Runner...........Admin take note! What’s a blade runner?? " Google is a friend I Need! | |||
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"I see Bluebelle has reentered the top ten again. So I would choose her as my appointed Blade Runner...........Admin take note! What’s a blade runner?? Google is a friend I Need!" Similarly ignorant and never having any previous interest in finding out, I looked it up on Google. Now, I feel compelled to ask "Is Rick a replicant, then"? | |||
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"I see Bluebelle has reentered the top ten again. So I would choose her as my appointed Blade Runner...........Admin take note! What’s a blade runner?? Google is a friend I Need! Similarly ignorant and never having any previous interest in finding out, I looked it up on Google. Now, I feel compelled to ask "Is Rick a replicant, then"?" Maybe repellent? | |||
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"Age is an interesting aspect of being on fab. Do we think, for guys particularly, that we “age out” or does our “appeal” change? Interested in people’s thoughts and experiences " Whilst obviously people have age filters on here that may cause issues the key thing to ensure is that you have good visuals. I've seen photos of some guys in their 40's and 50's that put some 20/30something guys to shame and will attract plenty of female attention. If people are really worried about age/filter issues then just go to a club. Nobody wears age badges and in over a decade I've not once been asked my age in a club when chatting or playing. And if all else fails? Marry someone a decade younger and set up a couples profile and hey presto - all those age filter issues will vanish. A | |||
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"Age is an interesting aspect of being on fab. Do we think, for guys particularly, that we “age out” or does our “appeal” change? Interested in people’s thoughts and experiences Whilst obviously people have age filters on here that may cause issues the key thing to ensure is that you have good visuals. I've seen photos of some guys in their 40's and 50's that put some 20/30something guys to shame and will attract plenty of female attention. If people are really worried about age/filter issues then just go to a club. Nobody wears age badges and in over a decade I've not once been asked my age in a club when chatting or playing. And if all else fails? Marry someone a decade younger and set up a couples profile and hey presto - all those age filter issues will vanish. A" This and never ask a woman her age as they are all gorgeous | |||
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"When I first joined at about 22/23 I always said age is just a number. I got chatting to (and made friends with someone who had claimed he was around 43ish but turned out to be a lot closer to 50. He was honest and I thought I was ok with it but when we met for a social the age difference smacked me in the face. Unfortunately, from that point on I couldn't see past it. A real shame because he was such a gent too x For some people I guess the age difference is the attraction of an older partner and they want someone who looks their age. What I take from your post is that you weren't worried about age as long as the person didn't look obviously twice as old as you. There's actually a lot of research at the moment into the difference between chronological age and biological age, which seems to suggest that you could find someone twice as old who doesn't look it. So it is possible to enjoy the advantages of maturity and experience without physical decrepitude! It wasn't his appearance that swayed me, I'd seen pictures prior to meeting. It was the conversation. Which was odd as we had spoke for a couple of months online. Guess you don't properly know until you meet up. As I said a genuine shame as he was a real gent and very respectful. " I see what you mean. Of course, an age gap can manifest in other ways than in appearance so that was my own prejudices coming out there. It does seem slightly strange that it took meeting in the flesh for the lack of common ground to become evident but maybe these things can be camouflaged by electronic communications. | |||
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"Then you get me on the other end of the spectrum who to many is too young and not quite within their age bracket. But of course like other factors it’s one to be respected. " I know that feeling mate | |||
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"I see Bluebelle has reentered the top ten again. So I would choose her as my appointed Blade Runner...........Admin take note! What’s a blade runner?? Google is a friend I Need! Similarly ignorant and never having any previous interest in finding out, I looked it up on Google. Now, I feel compelled to ask "Is Rick a replicant, then"?" Or Repugnant? But then again I don’t root through bathroom cabinets! | |||
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"I see Bluebelle has reentered the top ten again. So I would choose her as my appointed Blade Runner...........Admin take note! What’s a blade runner?? Google is a friend I Need! Similarly ignorant and never having any previous interest in finding out, I looked it up on Google. Now, I feel compelled to ask "Is Rick a replicant, then"? Or Repugnant? But then again I don’t root through bathroom cabinets!" Maybe the door keys or car keys in the bowl cuts out age and you enjoy what you pick ? | |||
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"I'm gutted I'm now 41....seems the benchmark for a lot of women was 40! Goddammmmmit" It's when you see lots of profiles with a cut off that's a year older than you. Like this is your very last chance | |||
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"I'm gutted I'm now 41....seems the benchmark for a lot of women was 40! Goddammmmmit" Not me | |||
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"I'm gutted I'm now 41....seems the benchmark for a lot of women was 40! Goddammmmmit Not me " In the voice of Scorpion.....GET OVER HERE!!!! | |||
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"I'm gutted I'm now 41....seems the benchmark for a lot of women was 40! Goddammmmmit It's when you see lots of profiles with a cut off that's a year older than you. Like this is your very last chance " It actually makes me cry a little inside! | |||
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"I'm gutted I'm now 41....seems the benchmark for a lot of women was 40! Goddammmmmit" Nope, it’s 46. As soon as you leave 45 then that’s when blokes fall off most radars | |||
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"A silver fox can be very appealing x" Just washing out the Grecian 2000 as I type. | |||
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"I'm gutted I'm now 41....seems the benchmark for a lot of women was 40! Goddammmmmit Nope, it’s 46. As soon as you leave 45 then that’s when blokes fall off most radars " Exactly this! When you turn 45 lads, make the most of the remaining 364 days…….you have been warned! | |||
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