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How many times a week do you loose hope on hear ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How many times a week do you guys say fuck this im out on here ?

Im getting more and more dispondent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost hope a long time ago now but it wasnt because of this place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m only here for me

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines

I didn't have any to start with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thought’s never crossed my mind.

I arrived here with zero expectations.

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

Been on here long enough not to be too bothered by fab’s up and downs. Frankly I get more entertainment from the forums than other parts of the site.

Chin up

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

3 weeks in and you feel like that already!

I suppose if your here and just wanting to meet and fuck someone that could happen pretty quick. Think it has alot to do with peoples expectations when joining the site and what they think/assume will or should happen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if I tick 'Looking for men'.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"3 weeks in and you feel like that already!

I suppose if your here and just wanting to meet and fuck someone that could happen pretty quick. Think it has alot to do with peoples expectations when joining the site and what they think/assume will or should happen. "

Feeling disbondant could happen quick I mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manage your expectations and you’ll be fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My hearing is terrible tbf at times

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

What is this word "hope"? What does it mean?

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

Everytime I see spelling and grammar mistakes

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"The thought’s never crossed my mind.

I arrived here with zero expectations. "

This ^^^

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By *entDomMan
over a year ago

Paddock Wood, Kent

It is what it is, we can't be a match for everyone we are attracted to.

But occasionally you find a diamond

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

You have been on a couple of weeks op! Maybe you need to have more realistic expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everytime I see spelling and grammar mistakes"

Well done you little mind reader x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Manage your expectations and you’ll be fine. "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A week.... more like how many times a minute

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By *ainbow_RoadWoman
over a year ago

Brighton

I arrive everywhere with expectation of doom, that way I can only be pleasantly surprised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"3 weeks in and you feel like that already!

I suppose if your here and just wanting to meet and fuck someone that could happen pretty quick. Think it has alot to do with peoples expectations when joining the site and what they think/assume will or should happen. "

I get where the OP is coming from. So many times on here I've fitted someone's choices - right age, right interests, right location - on to just get ignored (a no thanks every once and while be nice).

Now I'm fast approaching 59 I've the added not of being too old, even for women my age.

I come on for the forums mainly now. Sometimes there are brief conversations with someone off the forum but rarely. Not actively looking, I like the occasional pic and send the odd wink or two. Not used the browse section in months.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Never loose hope x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You joined three weeks ago.

Did you expect that bored and lonely housewives and their inadequate husbands would be flooding your inbox with desperate pleas to come and help them out?

You haven’t lost hope you’ve just arrived at reality.

Get ready to put some work in.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Best way is to treat this (and many other things in life) with no expectations. Being positive about yourself and life (I know it is challenging at the moment for many) and an upbeat profile definitely can help attract people.

Age, Height, photos etc... may superficially look like it is a good fit but sometimes we think there is a fit while the other person really does not see that.

The sexiest and most lovely people I have met... had a positive approach to life, communicated well and had a sense of humour. You quickly forget that they might not be exactly what you thought you were looking for .... but they are dead sexy because of their personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never, I'm just here to ogle lovely bums.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Never really, it's just a forum. Don't post for a while. I go through phases, post, lurk, active, inactive.

Just like any other hobby really

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Just wallow in despair. It's the hope that kills you after all.

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire


"How many times a week do you guys say fuck this im out on here ?

Im getting more and more dispondent "

Having read your blurb you've been here before so I find it strange that you haven't git the measure of fab and are now clearly expecting "more" from it.

Surely you learnt how to play the game!?

Participate in the forums

Attend the social networking events

And just go with the flow

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By *moking GunCouple
over a year ago

East Anglia


"Everytime I see spelling and grammar mistakes"

Mind reader x2

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"3 weeks in and you feel like that already!

I suppose if your here and just wanting to meet and fuck someone that could happen pretty quick. Think it has alot to do with peoples expectations when joining the site and what they think/assume will or should happen.

I get where the OP is coming from. So many times on here I've fitted someone's choices - right age, right interests, right location - on to just get ignored (a no thanks every once and while be nice).

Now I'm fast approaching 59 I've the added not of being too old, even for women my age.

I come on for the forums mainly now. Sometimes there are brief conversations with someone off the forum but rarely. Not actively looking, I like the occasional pic and send the odd wink or two. Not used the browse section in months. "

I hear what your saying, but at the same time though, just fitting someone's choices dosnt mean you're a match to them. Try not to take it personally especially when you feel your ignored. In the F&Q its quite clear that no reply just means no thanks. I personally dont reply to messages for lots of reasons, mainly i dont feel i need to explain myself every time. i dont have time to respond to all, and i dont want to either. When I do its rare thats the end of it but just opens up to the "why not" "but but but" or a shitty message because you said no. Plus who really wants to open a inbox full of "no thanks" messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I get where the OP is coming from. So many times on here I've fitted someone's choices - right age, right interests, right location - on to just get ignored (a no thanks every once and while be nice). "

But you’ve missed the most vital criteria off your list……whether they fancy you or not.

Would an inbox full of “sorry, I don’t fancy you” make you feel any better about being here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just here for the forums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never losse hope because never except anything been told to get lost loads of times lol

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"I'm just here for the forums "

Snap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no expectations about this site at all, i'm only here for the who's hot pictures

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

Like others have said, only 3 weeks on here and feeling despondent. It's not rent a shag. Maybe need to manage expectations, and put some effort in to get some reward. And even then you're up against it with the number of men on this site. Good luck.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

I’m just here for free cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Several times a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, several times a day.

I just log out, and go have a life, but some on here think its the the be all and end all!

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By *affeine DuskMan
over a year ago

Caerphilly

Hasn't happened once in all my years.

People are pretty alright, really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time ….. then a friendly messages appears and restores faith….

But you just got to be tel about this place… the vast number of guys is so much more than single women / couples…probably even combined…. So it’s a lottery style when it. Comes to chances…

Also , not everyone is everyone else’s cup of tea so that narrows your chances down too.

The forums tend to be friendly and interactive and you never know … messages might come from that….

Keep faith…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I’m just here for free cake "

When does that get served

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"Only if I tick 'Looking for men'."

You know I'm only here for you Miss Heels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everytime I see spelling and grammar mistakes"

Was this sentence finished?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Most days lol

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By *asty tatsyMan
over a year ago

london

Daily, I think to myself why am I even on now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never loose hope x"

Fan of this positivity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You joined three weeks ago.

Did you expect that bored and lonely housewives and their inadequate husbands would be flooding your inbox with desperate pleas to come and help them out?

You haven’t lost hope you’ve just arrived at reality.

Get ready to put some work in. "

I like this

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"

I’m just here for free cake

When does that get served "

Yeah I'm still waiting on mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most days lol"

Is this because of the number of mail you get?

With so many guys on here surely the expectation is that vast numbers would send you messages?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I’m just here for free cake

When does that get served

Yeah I'm still waiting on mine"

We want cake! We want cake! We want cake!

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"

I’m just here for free cake

When does that get served

Yeah I'm still waiting on mine

We want cake! We want cake! We want cake!"

Calm down

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I’m just here for free cake

When does that get served

Yeah I'm still waiting on mine

We want cake! We want cake! We want cake!

Calm down

Lol"

It’s a time for strikes !!! And protests!! No more bin collection till we get cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I lost hope in the male species a long time ago.

I'm just here for the cock pics now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lost hope in the male species a long time ago.

I'm just here for the cock pics now. "

Want some cock pics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I lost hope in the male species a long time ago.

I'm just here for the cock pics now.

Want some cock pics? "

I'm good thanks.

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

theres plenty of cocks to look at,,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"theres plenty of cocks to look at,,"

Plenty of huge fucking dicks aswell...

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By *avexxMan
over a year ago

cheshire

thats what i was waiting for x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"theres plenty of cocks to look at,,

Plenty of huge fucking dicks aswell..."

About 6ft?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"theres plenty of cocks to look at,,

Plenty of huge fucking dicks aswell...

About 6ft?"

They range in sizes.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

Lots of times I’ve given up subscribing now just got to get of these forums but it’s hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*lose

*here

yw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"*lose

*here

yw."

* Have a day off

Yw

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only if I tick 'Looking for men'.

You know I'm only here for you Miss Heels "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Correct spelling is not for everyone I guess.


"*lose

*here

yw.

* Have a day off

Yw"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Correct spelling is not for everyone I guess.

*lose

*here

yw.

* Have a day off

Yw"

On a site fuck off dicks and pussy? Not a priority really.

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By *mily36CWoman
over a year ago

. (or anywhere beginning with B..!?)


"

I’m just here for free cake "

Free? ... who said cake was ever free? ... now that's high expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*full

Come on, you're making this too easy.


"Correct spelling is not for everyone I guess.

*lose

*here

yw.

* Have a day off

Yw

On a site fuck off dicks and pussy? Not a priority really. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Correct spelling is not for everyone I guess.

*lose

*here

yw.

* Have a day off

Yw"

What does yw mean? Can you not spell the words?

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle


"Correct spelling is not for everyone I guess.

*lose

*here

yw.

* Have a day off

Yw

What does yw mean? Can you not spell the words? "

“Your weird “

You’re welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yw = you're welcome.

(you're welcome).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Correct spelling is not for everyone I guess.

*lose

*here

yw.

* Have a day off

Yw

What does yw mean? Can you not spell the words?

“Your weird “

You’re welcome "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

* you're weird


"Correct spelling is not for everyone I guess.

*lose

*here

yw.

* Have a day off

Yw

What does yw mean? Can you not spell the words?

“Your weird “

You’re welcome "

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By *just.meMan
over a year ago

hartlepool

Every time i log on

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"Most days lol

Is this because of the number of mail you get?

With so many guys on here surely the expectation is that vast numbers would send you messages?

"

No, I don't get that many messages. Certainly not inundated. It's more the content of the messages and the flakiness of those looking to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times a week do you guys say fuck this im out on here ?

Im getting more and more dispondent "

I lose hope on here when I see some of the appalling spelling.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

If Fab were my only 'hope' I'd be screwed.

To answer the OP - zero.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times a week do you guys say fuck this im out on here ?

Im getting more and more dispondent

I lose hope on here when I see some of the appalling spelling."

What is a wisnae?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Everytime I see spelling and grammar mistakes"

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

I don’t really have a lot of time to meet even if I got the offers so it doesn’t bother me much. I had some great meets in a past fab life here so I never feel despondent.

There are some horrendous people on fab but the vast majority are great! As a bloke this is more a social site than a fuck site. As in real life the ladies find it easier to get the fun they want than us blokes.

Once you accept that- fine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Correct spelling is not for everyone I guess.

*lose

*here

yw.

* Have a day off

Yw

What does yw mean? Can you not spell the words?

“Your weird “

You’re welcome "

Would it not be you’re weird?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most days lol

Is this because of the number of mail you get?

With so many guys on here surely the expectation is that vast numbers would send you messages?

No, I don't get that many messages. Certainly not inundated. It's more the content of the messages and the flakiness of those looking to meet."

Sorry to hear that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sum ppll jus can't slmell. Slell spell!

And some do it on purpose!

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

And just one word of wisdom: most ladies on here appreciate good spelling. Not all, but most!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Correct spelling is not for everyone I guess.

*lose

*here

yw.

* Have a day off

Yw

What does yw mean? Can you not spell the words?

“Your weird “

You’re welcome

"

Oh mine meant something else....ooops.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There shouldn’t be any expectations other than like everything individually you will have to work at it, don’t be relentless take some time out, I know I have had a lot of fun over the years on here but This time I’m back for the forums and hotlist and that’s it, it’s perve and swerve, keeps you sane

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sum ppll jus can't slmell. Slell spell!

And some do it on purpose!"

A game of guess they spelling ? Real or fake?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Correct spelling is not for everyone I guess.

*lose

*here

yw.

* Have a day off

Yw

What does yw mean? Can you not spell the words?

“Your weird “

You’re welcome

Oh mine meant something else....ooops. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

I get where the OP is coming from. So many times on here I've fitted someone's choices - right age, right interests, right location - on to just get ignored (a no thanks every once and while be nice).

But you’ve missed the most vital criteria off your list……whether they fancy you or not.

Would an inbox full of “sorry, I don’t fancy you” make you feel any better about being here? "

Buts it's not got to any stage where they would even know if they fancied me as never replied to intial message or wink. Certainly never exchanged pics.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley


"

I get where the OP is coming from. So many times on here I've fitted someone's choices - right age, right interests, right location - on to just get ignored (a no thanks every once and while be nice).

But you’ve missed the most vital criteria off your list……whether they fancy you or not.

Would an inbox full of “sorry, I don’t fancy you” make you feel any better about being here?

Buts it's not got to any stage where they would even know if they fancied me as never replied to intial message or wink. Certainly never exchanged pics. "

It's a hard fact of fab life. You may have been the 100th person that day who had the right interests, right location, right age. There should be no sense of entitlement on here. No one owes you a sorry not interested response. No reply means not interested for whatever reason. This neediness is not an attractive quality in my opinion. Just move on.

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By *ir SupremacyMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Never....I got really great friends on here .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everytime I see spelling and grammar mistakes"

Mine is when I see smug cunts that cruise the forums looking for spelling mistakes and poor grammar to try and make the OP feel shitty rather than actually post and interesting, original post of their own. Each to their own, I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP your profile says you’ve been on here before and met some truly amazing people. Confused. Is it just high expectations this time around?

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By *atfuckerbristolMan
over a year ago

Wells

Who is Hope? Should she be on my hotlist?

I was going to say something like ‘you get out what you put in’ - but that’s open season for smutty puns, so I won’t.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley


"Who is Hope? Should she be on my hotlist?

I was going to say something like ‘you get out what you put in’ - but that’s open season for smutty puns, so I won’t. "

Lol too late. Let the smuttiness begin!

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By *atfuckerbristolMan
over a year ago

Wells

…and if you can’t get out what you put in, it’s a trip to A&E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worry when my hoop is loose.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

chichester

I don’t think anything about fab / meets. It’s just entertainment and if csn grab a meet here and there is great. If it’s dead then no matter it’s just fab not real life as such.

Don’t put all your eggs in one basket that this site is 100% going to work. Plus be realistic with what you actually seek … for many guys that just want a quick fuck and blow with no effort . Be easier to book an escort tbh and then crack on with your day .

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Lower your expectations and it won't bother you as much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bump

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I use a calculator?

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

Never. I use this site for the perving and the forums, not with any expectation that women are going to be running over the hills and stampeding their way through my front door.

If you really want to immerse yourself in the lifestyle then make the effort to attend socials and clubs.

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By *ingdangTV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

I delete or hide my profile when I felt I lost hope. I did it many times. It’s demoralizing. However I have no control over other peoples action no matter how much it can hurt me

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Every time i log onto fab

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

We have zero expectations so no loosing hope, we've met some great friends and had some great meets.

Not everything is going happen instantly.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"

I get where the OP is coming from. So many times on here I've fitted someone's choices - right age, right interests, right location - on to just get ignored (a no thanks every once and while be nice).

But you’ve missed the most vital criteria off your list……whether they fancy you or not.

Would an inbox full of “sorry, I don’t fancy you” make you feel any better about being here?

Buts it's not got to any stage where they would even know if they fancied me as never replied to intial message or wink. Certainly never exchanged pics. "

Send a face pic with your first msg.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been on over a year and basically given up trying to meet anyone as my messages rarely get a reply and if i do it usually the odd 1 or 2 then they ignore me. Im never disrespectful or anything like that, dont expect sex straight off but im great at being ignored i had one message me a few times then just stopped, next day she put on that she had the worst meet ever and the guy should be avoided at all costs. Those are the types of guy im losing out to

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


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I get where the OP is coming from. So many times on here I've fitted someone's choices - right age, right interests, right location - on to just get ignored (a no thanks every once and while be nice).

But you’ve missed the most vital criteria off your list……whether they fancy you or not.

Would an inbox full of “sorry, I don’t fancy you” make you feel any better about being here?

Buts it's not got to any stage where they would even know if they fancied me as never replied to intial message or wink. Certainly never exchanged pics.

Send a face pic with your first msg."

Yeah quite alot of men do that. Its really helpful as for me face is equally important as the cock

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there

I'm a chunky, furry older gent who by all rights should have hung up his wishes a while ago at 45 but why the hell should I, planning on being here until I depart this mortal coil and I've been lucky enough to be lucky and meet some amazing couples and female friends along the way. Outlook on life being glass half full wins out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no expectations of fab any more, but the forums are entertaining and there are a small number of people I like to chat to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How many times a week do you guys say fuck this im out on here ?

Im getting more and more dispondent "

Everytime we speak to someone, they are either a Messer, a fantasist or a liar lol, hope lost totally

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

If it happens it happens. Just like life. we just need to carry on

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By *ear in the chairMan
over a year ago

yeah there


"How many times a week do you guys say fuck this im out on here ?

Im getting more and more dispondent

Everytime we speak to someone, they are either a Messer, a fantasist or a liar lol, hope lost totally "

Or way too far South

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