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What makes someone attractive to you?

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

On the scene in general, i have to say im shallow and go on looks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too!

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Nice eyes and a deviant smile please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Manners and a sense of humour come first for me. Sadly, it's degenerates into tits and arse once you've told your 3 jokes and said please and thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

manners,good sense of humour,has to be some attraction unless they have jaffa cakes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Make them laugh thats what seems to work for me haha!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks BUT if somebody has what I would consider an ugly personality then I wouldn't be interested. I also enjoy somebody who can have a joke too.

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Manners and a sense of humour come first for me. Sadly, it's degenerates into tits and arse once you've told your 3 jokes and said please and thank you."
Only 3?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks for the first glance, then sense of humour and intelligence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks for that initial interest then conversation and similar interests and clincher do they make me smile and laugh with them not at them

Ohhh and do they like magners and rose but not in the same glass lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

very clean and tidy, well mannered and polite.

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By *umsuckMan
over a year ago

Gateshead

For that first initial Wow factor then it has to be the eyes,but a sense of humour,politeness and ability to hold a conversation is what really makes someone attractive

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

Individuality

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By *emmefatale OP   Woman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville


"Individuality"
Not a big cock?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

looks come first for me

Face first then body, then followed by a good personality, no matter how good looking they are if we dont click mentally its not going to happem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice teeth and legs

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Just the person

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Big cock, loads of money, dicky heart and finds me drop dead gorgeous

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn


"IndividualityNot a big cock? "

even better if they come togther

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pulse! And a doctors note saying they have been a female since birth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First thing I notice about a woman is 'approachability'. A relaxed facial expression, a warm smile, friendly manner, open conversation manner. If a woman is stern, answers with bare minimum words and looks like you have no right to be talking to them then it doesn't matter how beautiful a face, full a cleavage, or curvy a bum they have I'll not find them attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has to be at least some attraction of course, but then I like manners and sense of humour. Good looks alone fade very very fast if the person is an ass, personality shines through more for me.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

chatty, interesting witty fellas do it for me

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By *Ryan-Man
over a year ago

In Your Bush


"chatty, interesting witty fellas do it for me "

3 things ! That's plain greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me ( Lucy) nice smile, good sense of humour, and an Aston martin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me (Lucy) nice smile, good sense of humour, and an Aston martin "
Bugger! Have to get a smile and a sense of humour.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sexually attractive? a nice figure and sexy face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy eyes and a nice smile are a big draw.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sense of humour comes first with me , there has to be chemistry or it just won't happen no matter how good looking they are, politeness and nice eyes.

I'm not going to say the next item cos you'll all rip me to bits lol ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me (Lucy) nice smile, good sense of humour, and an Aston martin Bugger! Have to get a smile and a sense of humour.....

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If you have the Aston? Your in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sense of humour comes first with me , there has to be chemistry or it just won't happen no matter how good looking they are, politeness and nice eyes.

I'm not going to say the next item cos you'll all rip me to bits lol ... "

I just don't get that as if you see someone and are not physically attracted to them how long do you hang round to see if they have a sense of humour. Then If they have one do you decide to have sex with them because of it and how do you get over the lack of physical attraction?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

polite and the ability to strike up a conversation with the first message.

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By *unky monkeyMan
over a year ago

in the night garden

A nice hat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My serial killer eyes.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

A relaxed personality, makes me laugh (not laugh at them lol), nice eyes.

Looks do come into it and have turned some people down based on those but they not the priority to me.

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By *awkeye and HotlipsCouple
over a year ago

Takeley

A twinkle in their eyes!

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By *umpkinMan
over a year ago

near the sounds of the wimborne quarter jack!


"Big cock, loads of money, dicky heart and finds me drop dead gorgeous"

I do well with the last two but fail miserably on the first two! Can you half fancy me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sense of humour comes first with me , there has to be chemistry or it just won't happen no matter how good looking they are, politeness and nice eyes.

I'm not going to say the next item cos you'll all rip me to bits lol ...

I just don't get that as if you see someone and are not physically attracted to them how long do you hang round to see if they have a sense of humour. Then If they have one do you decide to have sex with them because of it and how do you get over the lack of physical attraction?"

What's not to get? If I wasn't physically attracted I'd look elsewhere, attractions a combination of things , its just a list, I like someone to have a sense of humour and there needs to be a bit of chemistry , I wouldn't sleep with someone who was dull as dish water just because they were good looking !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's looks for me too. I just can't get excited about someone I can't fancy, no matter how nice her personality is.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Looks, followed by intelligence, then sense of humour.

Shallow? Moi?

Yup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour, eyes, smile, bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On the scene in general, i have to say im shallow and go on looks. "

Eyes, personality, looks low on the agenda, if I like the messaging I like the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks...slim body..good manners and somewhat stylish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go for looks and body type although i don't expect supermodels or pornstars,but i know within a couple of minutes of meeting someone if i am genuinly attracted to them or not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Awoman with a " brain " in her head.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

(Looks first) Attractive face and/or a nice body will grab my attention....then being approachable and having a nice personality will keep it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The arse of an angel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A balance of physical and mental attributes, also mannerisms, values and outlook in life.

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By *luespartanMan
over a year ago

crawley

I like get drawn in by eyes and personality

But then when the male instict kicks in boobs bum and legs

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