FabSwingers.com forum: Am I the only one that when someone deles deletes your message block them??

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I do it so I don't message them again, wouldnt of thought it would be personal..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not personal

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s not personal "
thank you x

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Seeing as this is the given answer to every single male thread whining about not getting replies, I'd say it's not just you.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I block if I’m not interested. Similar thing I suppose. It’s not personal. Just a tool

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I block if I’m not interested. Similar thing I suppose. It’s not personal. Just a tool "
best way nothing worse than someone constantly messaging

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I block if I’m not interested. Similar thing I suppose. It’s not personal. Just a tool best way nothing worse than someone constantly messaging "

I don’t know as they’re blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I block if I’m not interested. Similar thing I suppose. It’s not personal. Just a tool best way nothing worse than someone constantly messaging

I don’t know as they’re blocked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will say that I delete all my messages are very regular basis, it's nothing personal just the only way to keep on top of my message. Most of the time I don't even look to see who has message me. X

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I block tons of people, it's nothing personal, if they've messaged repeatedly, very local, just not interested it's a good tool to have.

Mrs

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By *ynda1978Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Liverpool

I block once I've said thanks but no thanks and if they've looked at my profile I wouldn't want them to contact me.

Judging a book by its cover but hey ho!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It’s not personal "

Sounds a bit Costa Nostra ish!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do the exact same for the exact reason.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block once I've said thanks but no thanks and if they've looked at my profile I wouldn't want them to contact me.

Judging a book by its cover but hey ho!! "

That’s a bit harsh?

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

I don't block but I do use the notes to remember important things

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I block once I've said thanks but no thanks and if they've looked at my profile I wouldn't want them to contact me.

Judging a book by its cover but hey ho!! "
If a woman is not interested she's not it's respect really

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don't block but I do use the notes to remember important things"

I do for forum people. Never blocked a forumite

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I do it so I don't message them again, wouldnt of thought it would be personal.."

Gosh, I know I have saved messages on my single's profile in the past for when it may be more convenient for me to chat and/or possibly meet. But I'd regularly have done deletes to tidy up the inbox.

If I was blocked after that, it would definitely rule anything out in the future.

Funny, I've never been one for the block button unless someone is really really vile and doesn't let up... and I use the notes system extensively...!!!

So just because a message may be unanswered, possibly deleted, doesn't mean "absolutely no interest at any stage" in my book...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only block if someone is either being rude or repeatedly messaging me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do it so I don't message them again, wouldnt of thought it would be personal..

Gosh, I know I have saved messages on my single's profile in the past for when it may be more convenient for me to chat and/or possibly meet. But I'd regularly have done deletes to tidy up the inbox.

If I was blocked after that, it would definitely rule anything out in the future.

Funny, I've never been one for the block button unless someone is really really vile and doesn't let up... and I use the notes system extensively...!!!

So just because a message may be unanswered, possibly deleted, doesn't mean "absolutely no interest at any stage" in my book...

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if it was deleted straight away

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"I don't block but I do use the notes to remember important things

I do for forum people. Never blocked a forumite "

Can you even block a forumite?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't block but I do use the notes to remember important things

I do for forum people. Never blocked a forumite

Can you even block a forumite?

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what's a forumite is it a profession forummer??

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don't block but I do use the notes to remember important things

I do for forum people. Never blocked a forumite

Can you even block a forumite?

Of course. Same as everyone else!

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don't block but I do use the notes to remember important things

I do for forum people. Never blocked a forumite

Can you even block a forumite?

what's a forumite is it a profession forummer??"

Someone who uses the forums

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

"I don't block but I do use the notes to remember important things

I do for forum people. Never blocked a forumite

Can you even block a forumite?

Of course. Same as everyone else! "

But it's it worth it, you still see their posts. Just not their profile

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't mind if someone wants to do that ,if I don't reply it's because I'm not interested,I'd prefer to be blocked than the same message be sent over and over tbh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they’ve deleted your message then their not interested so will be unlikely to view you again so won’t realise that you’re blocked them probably.

Find something worthwhile to worry about.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I don't mind if someone wants to do that ,if I don't reply it's because I'm not interested,I'd prefer to be blocked than the same message be sent over and over tbh."
exactly same here x

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I don't block but I do use the notes to remember important things

I do for forum people. Never blocked a forumite

Can you even block a forumite?

Of course. Same as everyone else!

But it's it worth it, you still see their posts. Just not their profile"

Yeah you still see their posts. Well I guess it is if you don’t want them messaging you or they annoy you. I dunno I don’t do it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When you message someone then go into messages a re read the message you sent last week too haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I block if I’m not interested. Similar thing I suppose. It’s not personal. Just a tool "

*tests Noras box......

Andddddd send.

Winston

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"I block if I’m not interested. Similar thing I suppose. It’s not personal. Just a tool

*tests Noras box......

Andddddd send.

Winston "

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By * la carteCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

"I do it so I don't message them again, wouldnt of thought it would be personal..

Gosh, I know I have saved messages on my single's profile in the past for when it may be more convenient for me to chat and/or possibly meet. But I'd regularly have done deletes to tidy up the inbox.

If I was blocked after that, it would definitely rule anything out in the future.

Funny, I've never been one for the block button unless someone is really really vile and doesn't let up... and I use the notes system extensively...!!!

So just because a message may be unanswered, possibly deleted, doesn't mean "absolutely no interest at any stage" in my book...

if it was deleted straight away "

Instant delete is no interest... though it's rare I wouldn't respond with a no thanks (men are blocked so it's not as if we're inundated

and I managed my single profile in a similar manner - I'm just too old school

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I do it so I don't message them again, wouldnt of thought it would be personal..

Gosh, I know I have saved messages on my single's profile in the past for when it may be more convenient for me to chat and/or possibly meet. But I'd regularly have done deletes to tidy up the inbox.

If I was blocked after that, it would definitely rule anything out in the future.

Funny, I've never been one for the block button unless someone is really really vile and doesn't let up... and I use the notes system extensively...!!!

So just because a message may be unanswered, possibly deleted, doesn't mean "absolutely no interest at any stage" in my book...

if it was deleted straight away

Instant delete is no interest... though it's rare I wouldn't respond with a no thanks (men are blocked so it's not as if we're inundated

and I managed my single profile in a similar manner - I'm just too old school

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just straight up nothing wrong with that

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I block only after few days after read and no reply helps to filter out but women do get loads of messages and at times unable to respond or keep up between here and away from the site.but it's creates my own platform

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

Do what works for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Do what works for you. "
best way

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

"I don't block but I do use the notes to remember important things"

This

and very tight filters help

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

If I send a message and I get a polite “no thanks” I block.

I don’t want to be troubling people in the future.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If I send a message and I get a polite “no thanks” I block.

I don’t want to be troubling people in the future. "
same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always personal it dont mean its wrong tho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s personal. It’s allllll personal. If some people don’t like you just means no one likes you a lot

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It’s personal. It’s allllll personal. If some people don’t like you just means no one likes you a lot "
boom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only have 1 person in my block list. I couldnt care less how many times people message me. Its nice to get any messages. Lol

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Sometimes it's strategic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of our best meets are from guys whose first message was lost in a mass delete when the inbox was taking a pounding. When they sent a respectful follow up 3 months later it lined up with when we were horny and a meet followed. Like wise we messaged a lady who deleted our first message from months pervious because at the time her inbox was going nuts. Again turned out to be a great meet.

If your a single guy or a couple for that matter who blocks every woman / couple who doesn't reply to you then your really are shooting yourself in the foot. Blocking them has no tangible benefits to you and complete removes any chance for you in the future if the stars align right.

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Never trouble the block button. Really can’t be arsed with it….

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