FabSwingers.com forum: Messages gone wrong

By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

You are messaging on fab he / she is hot and ticks all your boxes but then they say or do something to change your mind Any examples ? Being too keen ? Asking for more pictures? A comment you don’t like ? Interested to hear what has put people off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The list is endless.

Mmmm

Breed

Bull

Bareback

Pineapple on pizza

They wear jeans to lounge around the house.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Normally asking for more pictures when they don't have any

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

Talking about the time she was double fisted by her ex in the arse, true story

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Not so much in messages but when the very first words when meeting were " Are you nervous about meeting me?" told me all I needed to know

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Talking about the time she was double fisted by her ex in the arse, true story

Painful!

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

"Talking about the time she was double fisted by her ex in the arse, true story

You said you'd keep that a secret

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Not so much in messages but when the very first words when meeting were " Are you nervous about meeting me?" told me all I needed to know "

What did you do ?

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By *lex46TV/TS
over a year ago

Near Wells

"Normally asking for more pictures when they don't have any

Definitely this.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

It's hard to say. Could be any number of things. Sometimes chat just fizzles out, as we all have real lives outside of fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and using the wrong punctuation in a sentence can ruin everything

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Asking for more pics and trying to initiate sex chat x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Referring to me as 'she' or 'her' is 'does she?' or'do you let her?' followed by some sexual question.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Talking about the time she was double fisted by her ex in the arse, true story

Painful!"

She had to go to hospital and wear a bag for a year so I'd strongly suggest against one let alone 2

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"Talking about the time she was double fisted by her ex in the arse, true story

You said you'd keep that a secret

Sorry about that, I hope you just stick to traffic cones in the future

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Not so much in messages but when the very first words when meeting were " Are you nervous about meeting me?" told me all I needed to know

What did you do ?"

Cut all ties some time later but unfortunately not before becoming an extra in her soap opera.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking for more pics and trying to initiate sex chat x"

How’s the forums working out for you?

This whole site is filled with sex chat.

Or do you mean sexting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When you give someone your number to WhatsApp you and they reply "oh, I only use kik"

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Asking for more pics and trying to initiate sex chat x

How’s the forums working out for you?

This whole site is filled with sex chat.

Or do you mean sexting? "

The forums are all about cake

Yeah, I meant setting. Does nothing for me with a complete stranger x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Asking for more pics and trying to initiate sex chat x

How’s the forums working out for you?

This whole site is filled with sex chat.

Or do you mean sexting?

The forums are all about cake

Yeah, I meant setting. Does nothing for me with a complete stranger x"

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Send a dick pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send a dick pic"

Now? Unlock your filters then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Normally asking for more pictures when they don't have any

This bothers me I can't lie. Some have an empty profile and actually think it's fine to send a friend request and ask for more pics lol

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Send a dick pic"

How often do you have that pleasure ?

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

When they refer to themselves as "Professional"

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

"Send a dick pic

How often do you have that pleasure ?"

It's not a pleasure. That's the problem.

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Send a dick pic

How often do you have that pleasure ?

It's not a pleasure. That's the problem."

I was being sarcastic! I know it’s a big problem x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Send a dick pic

How often do you have that pleasure ?

It's not a pleasure. That's the problem.

I was being sarcastic! I know it’s a big problem x"

It’s all about size isn’t it?

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Send a dick pic

How often do you have that pleasure ?

It's not a pleasure. That's the problem.

I was being sarcastic! I know it’s a big problem x

It’s all about size isn’t it?

Lol wrong choice of words

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By *r SproutMan
over a year ago

the middle

It’s just so hard to get a reply!! I’ll comment again when it happens

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

Predictive text….Often embarrassing, ruins the flow and completely destroys the vibe….

Always, always proof read a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The minute they put ‘mmmmmmm’ in a message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The list is endless.

Mmmm

Breed

Bull

Bareback

Pineapple on pizza

They wear jeans to lounge around the house."

WTF pineapple made for pizza

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By *ames5169 OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

"The list is endless.

Mmmm

Breed

Bull

Bareback

Pineapple on pizza

They wear jeans to lounge around the house.

WTF pineapple made for pizza

Another thread I think!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The minute they put ‘mmmmmmm’ in a message

mmmmmmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The list is endless.

Mmmm

Breed

Bull

Bareback

Pineapple on pizza

They wear jeans to lounge around the house.

WTF pineapple made for pizza

In the same way that ketchup was made for a roast

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"The list is endless.

Mmmm

Breed

Bull

Bareback

Pineapple on pizza

They wear jeans to lounge around the house.

WTF pineapple made for pizza

Hell no, you need to think about life choices I think

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

Asking for more pics, trying to initiate sex chat; sending million messages per second (not literally); men asking if I could find another lady for MFF before even meeting me; asking if they could bring a friend (usually male) before even meeting me.

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

Her wanting to sit on my lap and then pee in her knickers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Her wanting to sit on my lap and then pee in her knickers.

hang on you to pee in her knickers?

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

He said he couldn't wait to poke my cervix with his cock

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"Her wanting to sit on my lap and then pee in her knickers.

hang on you to pee in her knickers?"

No, her to pee in her own knickers but so it would 'cascade' over me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm :

- straight into the sex talk *yawn*

about how they will please me and make my legs quiver -_-

- constantly asking if I like their pics

- continuous messages to supposedly check in

....once or twice in a few days sure but surely not 3 or 4 times a day

- going on about what they have ..one guy actually messaged me and said he had his own company and Santander confirmed he hit his first million .... 'I rode that pony into town to amuse myself ...how stupid do guys think ladies are ? if you're going to lie at least make it believable or creative' ( a jerk is a jerk with or without a million bucks)

- constantly telling you how awesome you look hoping that the 5th or 6th time will do the trick

- or the classic here is my picture I hope you don't run away ...

..like should I ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"He said he couldn't wait to poke my cervix with his cock"

And that didn't make you collapse with lust?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What you wearing? Send a pic.

Hehe

So, I know it's short notice but you free tonight/this weekend.

What you doing? Asked about 10 times a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What you wearing? Send a pic.

Hehe

So, I know it's short notice but you free tonight/this weekend.

What you doing? Asked about 10 times a day.

Oh, you haven't fabbed my pics. Can you fab the ones you like just so I know.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Asking to see friends pics on first msg and they have none themselves

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By *assie101Woman
over a year ago

Kent

"Asking for more pics and trying to initiate sex chat x"

This

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

To messages is definitely a turn off

Calling me babe or anything similar is another big no for me

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By *aizyWoman
over a year ago

west midlands

"He said he couldn't wait to poke my cervix with his cock

And that didn't make you collapse with lust?"

it did make me tightly cross my legs reading it!

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

"He said he couldn't wait to poke my cervix with his cock

And that didn't make you collapse with lust?

it did make me tightly cross my legs reading it!"

I can do that, make women cross their legs that is, not poke their cervix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything I say has this affect

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By *ade crossTV/TS
over a year ago

chiselhurst

Hate words like breed ram destroy your hole,

Just turn me off straight away

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Anything too suggestive immediately.

Telling me a list of things/or a copy and pasted story about what they're going to do.

When they tell me they've never been with a black/whatever heritage they guess I am woman before.

Oh actually. When they start mansplaining basic things to me.

Please no people.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

The being to keen! Spoke to a Newby this week! Gave my number reluctantly after him promising not ot barrage Me ! So we could have a face chat! Looks nice had a nice chat! But since has kept texting! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hate words like breed ram destroy your hole,

Just turn me off straight away"

Unless they are talking about types of dog, or you have a genuine need for some demolition work perhaps?

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

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By *anclad20500Man
over a year ago

Salford

"Referring to me as 'she' or 'her' is 'does she?' or'do you let her?' followed by some sexual question."

What is wrong with she / her or does she? If they don’t know your names what are they going to refer to you or as?

I agree with the do you let her part though unless profile stipulates a master or owned by etc…

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By *andy2Man
over a year ago

Ealing

I get many messages from guys who say they want to meet me, after chatting a while they mention I should bring a lady or my girlfriend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Using mmmmm is an instant no. First message or later use that - gone. Ick.

Had sone guy ask if I was “shy” cause I didn’t reply. No pics on his profile either. Twat. Guess he’s the shy one. Patronising me gets a block straight off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Her wanting to sit on my lap and then pee in her knickers.

hang on you to pee in her knickers?

No, her to pee in her own knickers but so it would 'cascade' over me "

Oh that gave me a tingle, either way lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ended a chat a while back when he called me "hun" and "babe". There's only so much I can take!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sending me action shots

Bleating on endlessly about past meets

Forum activity

Talking about fucking people they knew were married and cheating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying they want to ruin my pussy, instant turn off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they start with the whole 'I love an older woman' shizz. Just stop it

And trying to engage in sexting. Ugh, ick inducing.

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman
over a year ago

Naughty Lane

"Talking about the time she was double fisted by her ex in the arse, true story

Thats some woman

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By *omethingfun96Couple
over a year ago

greater london

"Asking for more pics and trying to initiate sex chat x"

This for us and pushing constantly for a meet when we haven’t even been chatting long oh and instantly trying to add as a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calling me beautiful

So what do you like?

Mmmmmmm

Free this weekend?

Heehee

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things turn me off that I can’t even explain.

But. Lack of enthusiasm stands out as one, as it just puts me on a downer, there’s only so much energy a person can generate on their own.

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By *ack688Man
over a year ago

abruzzo Italy (and UK)

I started chatting to someone with no pics on their profile and no verifications so I let it go on a bit as they sent a couple of pics, but once things started getting a bit hotter I asked for verification and not too surprisingly I never heard from them again!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Asking for more pics and trying to initiate sex chat x"

Admittedly I haven’t had to pick you up on that for a while xx so well done!!!

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

"Talking about the time she was double fisted by her ex in the arse, true story

Thats some woman

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she sounds more like a rucksack with tits

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By *odgerMooreMan
over a year ago

Carlisle

Being told by a woman she loved her pussy being rubbed - i turn up with my crayons and my paper do the rubbing and all of a sudden she gets arsey…. Some weirdos on here!!

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

Asking for more pictures.

If you've already decided you're interested based on what you see then is that not enough?

Face pics aside, if there's not enough visuals on a profile to enable you to make a decision as to whether there's interest and/or attraction then you're either

a.) Sending copy and paste messages to anyone and everyone

b.) Happy to shag anything without knowing what they look like bar an armpit, knee or ankle

c.) Blind

Asking for more pics just makes it appear you're knocking one out and the moment you've shot your load and wiped your cock on the curtains you'll lose interest.

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By *arriedcoupleNECouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

" Lack of enthusiasm stands out as one, as it just puts me on a downer, there’s only so much energy a person can generate on their own. "

This, especially if they've messaged first. It's like they've used all the good stuff in the first message and have nothing left to follow up with.

And anyone asking if we'll hold their hand to go to a club or similar. You can't walk through the door by yourself but you're going to perform once you're there, how's that going to work?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Lack of enthusiasm stands out as one, as it just puts me on a downer, there’s only so much energy a person can generate on their own.

This, especially if they've messaged first. It's like they've used all the good stuff in the first message and have nothing left to follow up with.

Yep this for me too or a lack of enthusiasm after I’ve agreed to a meet!

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Sending their phone number

Posting a photo of her weeing

Saying "I'd love to cum on her tits"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Lack of enthusiasm stands out as one, as it just puts me on a downer, there’s only so much energy a person can generate on their own.

This, especially if they've messaged first. It's like they've used all the good stuff in the first message and have nothing left to follow up with.

Yep this for me too or a lack of enthusiasm after I’ve agreed to a meet! "

Who the hell wouldn’t be enthusiastic if a woman they fancied said yes to meeting up with them? I’d be clicking my damn heels in the street.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I love bigger women"

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By *oodoodMan
over a year ago

Suffolk / Essex borders

Usually when I send a face pic

Very character forming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Lack of enthusiasm stands out as one, as it just puts me on a downer, there’s only so much energy a person can generate on their own.

This, especially if they've messaged first. It's like they've used all the good stuff in the first message and have nothing left to follow up with.

Yep this for me too or a lack of enthusiasm after I’ve agreed to a meet!

Who the hell wouldn’t be enthusiastic if a woman they fancied said yes to meeting up with them? I’d be clicking my damn heels in the street.

It happened really recently, I cancelled the meet because of it!

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By *utterfly1983Couple
over a year ago

Widnes

Not acknowledging the other half of the couple

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Too many to mention! Just the use of one word or sentence can put me off

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By *oly Fuck Sticks BatmanCouple
over a year ago

here & there

It’s normally us that puts our foot firmly in our mouth & not in a kinky way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Saying they hate cock pictures then asking for one

Getting to needy if you don’t instantly reply to a message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish there was a way of determining whether or not people do that thing where their sentences get higher in pitch as it goes on and everything sounds like a question...

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"Saying they hate cock pictures then asking for one

Getting to needy if you don’t instantly reply to a message.

To be fair I don’t like receiving random cock pics but I don’t mind if I’m planning to meet someone or been chatting for a while. I’ve never asked for one though.

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