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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

... Am I right?

Just kidding

Today's shower thought is: how did so many men get to be so self conscious of penis size? Is it something that gets drilled into you by your peers? Media? Porn? When did you first start noticing and thinking about what you're packing?

With women's insecurities, a lot of the stuff we get hung up on are around the things we show people every day: boobs, body fat, facial features etc. And I know that this is because of the ubiquitous messaging around "ideal" female appearances. But guys aren't (to my knowledge) walking around with their dicks out, so how did this get to be such a pinch point, and what did you compare it to?

I also want to add that - speaking for myself - dick size has literally always been the last thing I notice, if I even notice at all. I feel like women often get asked if size matters, but honestly I've never paid it any mind because it's just always felt... good?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Peers, porn, changing rooms at school.

The bigger the penis, the more masculine you are, the same with body shape/size and fat %.

A simple case of bigger is better, without actually talking to people.

Its only as you get older you realise its all just bullshit and you should just be happy in your own body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not fussy about my winky its the growing gut stresses me

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

I'm not, it's what I have and all I'm ever going to have so why stress over it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m pretty sure it’s tied up in notions of toxic masculinity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not something I've ever really thought about because it's not something I can do anything about even if I wanted to. I

've also not had any complaints about my size with partners (humble brag) so if they're happy, I really shouldn't have anything to worry about.

I think porn does have a lot to answer for but men are also aware the women talk so if one woman isn't happy about his size, everyone in their social group would know which could lead to ridicule and it also doesn't help that's used as an insult which leads to further insecurities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alsorts of places really. Same as it is for women being body conscious.

Im average at best. Never a complaint but had compliments.

When I'm with someone, I don't give a shit. When I'm not, that's when the doubt creeps in

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By *KG12Couple
over a year ago

Burnley

Mr average here, always been a believer that if you know how to use what you have, it's not an issue. Would I like an extra inch, of course. I'd also like to win the euro millions, but happy without that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mr average here, always been a believer that if you know how to use what you have, it's not an issue. Would I like an extra inch, of course. I'd also like to win the euro millions, but happy without that too"

Of course. Ain't about the size of the boat, it's about the motion in the ocean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just always disliked the size of mine. I'm a grower not a shower and I like to call my oral skills compensation for my own insecurities about the time they'll have with the D

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath


"... Am I right?

Just kidding

Today's shower thought is: how did so many men get to be so self conscious of penis size? Is it something that gets drilled into you by your peers? Media? Porn? When did you first start noticing and thinking about what you're packing?

With women's insecurities, a lot of the stuff we get hung up on are around the things we show people every day: boobs, body fat, facial features etc. And I know that this is because of the ubiquitous messaging around "ideal" female appearances. But guys aren't (to my knowledge) walking around with their dicks out, so how did this get to be such a pinch point, and what did you compare it to?

I also want to add that - speaking for myself - dick size has literally always been the last thing I notice, if I even notice at all. I feel like women often get asked if size matters, but honestly I've never paid it any mind because it's just always felt... good? "

This isn't one of those Australian psychology tests, is it?

Seem to be a lot on here lately!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Well as your asking, mine was on a school camp. It’s thing that’s a big deal when your going through puberty and then isn’t the slightest bit important once you grow up

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Not really no, it is what it is

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Porn and size Queens on fab

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"It's not something I've ever really thought about because it's not something I can do anything about even if I wanted to. I

've also not had any complaints about my size with partners (humble brag) so if they're happy, I really shouldn't have anything to worry about.

I think porn does have a lot to answer for but men are also aware the women talk so if one woman isn't happy about his size, everyone in their social group would know which could lead to ridicule and it also doesn't help that's used as an insult which leads to further insecurities."

I have never discussed a guy's penis size with my social group. Or anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cocks a cock

Vag is vag

Everybody’s got tounges and hands

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

[Removed by poster at 29/06/22 21:12:28]

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By *hagTonightMan
over a year ago

From the land of haribos.

I am not, for me it is more important to have and maintain the 6pack

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