FabSwingers.com forum: Hotel meets

By *appyfazer600 OP Man
over a year ago

Chippenham

I realise hotel meets aren't the first choice for a lot but are they a definite no no for most women if neither can accommodate for whatever reason?

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

As with everything some won't mind a hotel, others will insist on a hotel & some wouldn't go near a hotel

It's individual preference

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I prefer a hotel, it's relaxed, can have a drink, public incase anything goes wrong.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

I prefer hotels

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Doesn't bother me if a woman can accommodate or not, I won't be going to her place until we've met a few times and both feel comfortable with each other. Therefore hotel meets are the only option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like cars bus shelters bushes beaches fields trees abandonned buildings houses tents wendy houses sheds garages hotels caravans train toilets

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Which ever is preferred. I don't mind either.

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By *nto the LouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

A hotel is my first choice

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I only ever meet in hotels. I wouldn’t have anyone in my house ever.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

As long as its a nice hotel then can be of interest but still prefer a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance would I ever meet anyone in a hotel. I did it once about 9 years ago. I have never felt so cheap meeting a guy down stairs then going up to his room. Never again.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I love hotel meets. I feel really uncomfortable meeting in someone's home and feel much more relaxed in a hotel.

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By *ormorantMan
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I only meet in hotels and there’s always a woman there so they seem to think it’s ok.

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By *appyfazer600 OP Man
over a year ago

Chippenham

Interesting, the majority of responses seem in favour of hotels and for very valid reasons. Is it being a little seedy in the mind of the individual. No one at the hotel would probably realise you're not actually partners. I guess you may have to keep the noise down or turn up the TV!

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Hotels are good. Neutral ground

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By *lexa999Woman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

Hotel meets are my preference. I've never invited anyone into my home.

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By *wistedsaintMan
over a year ago

Hotel Near You

Spend allot of time working away and often in hotels

A favourite pastime is to sit and watch the interactions of others in the bar

Spot the first time meeters, see those that have escaped for a naughty night away, and sometimes spot those that are meeting for moresomes as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A hotel is my first choice "
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In Your home town ?

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I realise hotel meets aren't the first choice for a lot but are they a definite no no for most women if neither can accommodate for whatever reason? "

Actually when I have the budget for them they’re definitely my first choice op. Dinner and interesting conversation with an attractive and articulate man - then many hours of amazing sex, giggles, conversation and wine in a hotel room - with a few hours of sleep in between. Then sleepy morning sex, breakfast and snogs goodbye.

Pretty much the perfect weekend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotels are good, you don't have to wrry about the mess and you can order room service

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hotels are good. Neutral ground

And you can wipe your willy on someone else's curtains.

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By *eisty LadyWoman
over a year ago

Count Your Blessings Cottage, Gratitude Grove

Hotels are the best

I can be doing with someone’s pet hair on the bed or kiddy pics on the bedside cabinet staring at me

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

Hotels are our first choice! We wouldn’t have anyone back to ours ever and don’t think we’d go to someone else’s home….although never say never, depends on the situation and connection I guess. Clubs are fine too. But hotels are always our preference.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel meets only, unless it’s regular fun and have known the person a long time and class him has a friend otherwise hotel meets….My home isn’t a drive through for men to come and shoot their load, and don’t want my neighbours thinking it’s a knocking shop!

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

I spend a lot of time away so I like hotel meets. I’m always happy to accommodate and as I’m there anyway, always cover the cost. Some of the meets I’ve had we meet in the bar, have a chat and go from there, where others have come straight up to the room. I think a lot depends on how well you’re getting on with somebody in the chat

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Think I'm over it. These days I'd be too busy wondering if the room next door had kids in it that were trying to sleep and my nocturnal activities were causing a nuisance.

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

As a single dad with 2 small children it's hotels all the way for me!

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

We prefer clubs but we’re currently looking to arrange our first hotel meet, I have no intention of ever having people in to our home as that’s our personal space. A hotel is a safe mid ground.

C x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love the hotel lifestyle x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like cars bus shelters bushes beaches fields trees abandonned buildings houses tents wendy houses sheds garages hotels caravans train toilets "

Telephone boxes, boiler rooms, drive thru car wash, transit vans,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting, the majority of responses seem in favour of hotels and for very valid reasons. Is it being a little seedy in the mind of the individual. No one at the hotel would probably realise you're not actually partners. I guess you may have to keep the noise down or turn up the TV! "

If you book in as "Mr and Mrs Smith" Hotel staff will assume you're married.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always prefer hotels with a sexy guy x

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By *W ChapMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Hotel meets can be great, especially if they have a pool to use as well.....for swimming obvs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often find hotel meets are preferred as either married, kids are home, live with parents or just like the fact someone else be changing the sheets after.

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By *nto the LouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"A hotel is my first choice .

In Your home town ? "

I’ve stayed close to home, yes

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

As my husband doesn't swing, if a regular partner progressed beyond club meets I would prefer a hotel.

I wouldn't feel comfortable going to theirs and I'd never kick my husband out of the house for something he's not interested or involved in.

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By *un4all1977Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

If both parties agree then why not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A hotel is my first choice .

In Your home town ?

I’ve stayed close to home, yes"

Shall I get booking then

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

"Often find hotel meets are preferred as either married, kids are home, live with parents or just like the fact someone else be changing the sheets after."

The sheet changing is a good enough reason alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel meets are my ideal tbh

NBVN x

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

Oh well, looks like that's me on the back burner for most people on this thread despite having houses coming out of my ears to play and party in. Maybe I should have developed my large pub near Cardiff airport, into the five star country inn with micro brewery that I've planning consents for instead of demolishing the place to put a supermarket on the site. Maybe I need to acquire another hotel to pull more often on Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive done hotel meets but its my absolute last choice. Feels cheap and seedy. I didn't feel completely comfortable or relaxed the last few times i did it. Much prefer meeting "her place".

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Much prefer a hotel, it's a bit of a novelty. I don't have to spend half the day cleaning before hand so it's much more relaxed and a whole lot safer! No worry of being interrupted either.

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By *hateuroguyMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Home isn’t ‘neutral ground’ so either side could feel uncomfortable.

It can be quite distracting looking at other people’s home stuff!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I enjoyed hotel meets for the not having to throw the hoover around malarkey. But after awhile it can get a tad pricey and you have to faff around at reception with booking your car in for parking, which completely ruins the sexual allure one is trying to conjure up before tapping on a hotel room door.

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

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I would prefer a hotel, as long as it’s of a good standard with a nice bar so you can have a drink together first

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By *aucy tiggerWoman
over a year ago

Back where I belong

Definitely prefer hotels and I'm willing to share the cost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only if it's the Cecil Hotel

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By *olarbear73Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Hotel meets are my preference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly, it's neutral, has plenty of exits, easy parking and you don't even have to change the sheets.

Home is for home, not random people off the Internet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would prefer a hotel, as long as it’s of a good standard with a nice bar so you can have a drink together first

Spoke facts, only facts and nothing but facts

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By *cruffymooWoman
over a year ago

Skelmersdale

"Not a chance would I ever meet anyone in a hotel. I did it once about 9 years ago. I have never felt so cheap meeting a guy down stairs then going up to his room. Never again. "

Agreed.

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By *cruffymooWoman
over a year ago

Skelmersdale

"Not a chance would I ever meet anyone in a hotel. I did it once about 9 years ago. I have never felt so cheap meeting a guy down stairs then going up to his room. Never again. "

Agreed.

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