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"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so." Well...for us I don't see any difference really... ![]() | |||
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"Yes I think it does definitely. Very rare I’ll send a first message but I’ve only ever sent them to forum men. I like to hotlist and stalk for a while then think yeah he seems nice I’ll try my luck ![]() do you pick the ones in you like in certain posts Nora just asking for a friend ![]() | |||
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"Yes I think it does definitely. Very rare I’ll send a first message but I’ve only ever sent them to forum men. I like to hotlist and stalk for a while then think yeah he seems nice I’ll try my luck ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up " ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up ![]() ![]() i offered to bring the rope | |||
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"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up ![]() ![]() You did ![]() | |||
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"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up ![]() ![]() I don't let anyone do it, it's not just you I promise ![]() | |||
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"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up ![]() ![]() ![]() Haha. I know x | |||
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"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up ![]() ![]() ![]() its not considered a kink in glynneath they tie sheep up | |||
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"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up ![]() ![]() ![]() In Aberdeen they just put their back legs in wellies so they can’t run away | |||
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"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up ![]() ![]() ![]() It's a kink to me, I've only lived here 4 years ![]() | |||
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"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() still on the velcro gloves up the waterfalls walk lol | |||
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"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so." That's my working theory. | |||
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"I think it probably helps me put them off more, apart from Nora as she's always insisting on tieing me up ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Not quite, I've been up on waterfall walks though but only with company ![]() | |||
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"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so." It depends on what you post and if it resonates with people. But its also down to what people are looking for. We speak to a few people based off our forum contributions, but none of them are looking to meet us (bar a social) because our interests do not match. | |||
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"You get to chat on the forum but as for my inbox i doesn't make much of a difference " This, it is the same for me too ![]() | |||
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"We get lots of chats if we participate in forums but as not full membership don’t think we can start a forum topic xx " I could be wrong but I think you can. | |||
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"We get lots of chats if we participate in forums but as not full membership don’t think we can start a forum topic xx " I don’t have a membership and I post forums all the time | |||
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"We get lots of chats if we participate in forums but as not full membership don’t think we can start a forum topic xx I could be wrong but I think you can. " yeah i think your right... i just posted one in introductions. | |||
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"No, not really, it's very cliquey" not cliquey, just some people know each other and have met socially a few times | |||
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"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab. It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS. I mean, leave me the fuck alone." ![]() | |||
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"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab. It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS. I mean, leave me the fuck alone." That reminds me, I haven’t messaged you today ![]() | |||
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"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab. It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS. I mean, leave me the fuck alone." I wanted a recipe for cake ![]() | |||
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"I get more views but not more meets because I'm in Wales I also post in the welsh forums but no meets maybe one day it will change " i find the welsh forum is 99% about chams | |||
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"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab. It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS. I mean, leave me the fuck alone." You said you appreciated my daily coffee pictures ![]() | |||
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"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it. ![]() There's a gang??!! ![]() | |||
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"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it. ![]() ![]() Yes, they're the ones usually saying its not a sex site, then hijacking every other thread by talking about bloody cake as though it's original and funny. | |||
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"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it. ![]() ![]() Cake you say? | |||
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"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it. ![]() ![]() Not funny. | |||
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"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it. ![]() ![]() It does kind of sound like you do care… There’s nothing funny about cake though. That shit is serious | |||
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"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it. ![]() ![]() Strongly disagree | |||
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"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it. ![]() ![]() Seconded ![]() | |||
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"...leave me the fuck alone. That reminds me, I haven’t messaged you today ![]() • I know. Resist the temptation! ![]() | |||
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"Yeah I've met another forum user, after having a giggle on a thread. Think it can help make connections " had a few chats and laughs off the forum but nothing else over the years | |||
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"...leave me the fuck alone. You said you appreciated my daily coffee pictures ![]() • I was being pølite! ![]() | |||
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"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it. ![]() ![]() I’m not part of any gang, just unconditionally and irrevocably in love with cake | |||
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"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it. ![]() ![]() #cakegangoriginalmember | |||
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"...leave me the fuck alone. I wanted a recipe for cake ![]() • These aren't the Cåkes you're looking for. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so." Yes. Most of my messages, meets, and mores were either with forumists, or lurkers. | |||
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"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so." Not for me, but I like the entertainment factor. I get all of my meets just from private message. | |||
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"We get lots of chats if we participate in forums but as not full membership don’t think we can start a forum topic xx I could be wrong but I think you can. " You are wrong, and completely correct. Hope this helps ![]() | |||
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"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so." Depends how you come over in a forum. Some profiles look great but the forum posts can sometimes be a turn off. Best way to get noticed, get out more to clubs and socials. Staying behind a keyboard makes you look at bit sad and lacking in adventure, spirit and confidence. | |||
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"A few of the ladies know me,otherwise I'm invisible. I daren't send any P.Ms." See-invisible | |||
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"A few of the ladies know me,otherwise I'm invisible. I daren't send any P.Ms. See-invisible" You’re not invisible. You get involved in threads etc. I see you as quite a regular forumite x | |||
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"A few of the ladies know me,otherwise I'm invisible. I daren't send any P.Ms. See-invisible You’re not invisible. You get involved in threads etc. I see you as quite a regular forumite x" You're one of the ladies I was on about ![]() | |||
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"A few of the ladies know me,otherwise I'm invisible. I daren't send any P.Ms. See-invisible You’re not invisible. You get involved in threads etc. I see you as quite a regular forumite x You're one of the ladies I was on about ![]() Haha not sure about the “lady” bit ![]() | |||
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" Haha not sure about the “lady” bit ![]() More gender confusion? (Runs away, very far, very quickly) | |||
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"A few of the ladies know me,otherwise I'm invisible. I daren't send any P.Ms. See-invisible You’re not invisible. You get involved in threads etc. I see you as quite a regular forumite x You're one of the ladies I was on about ![]() ![]() It's a safe word ![]() | |||
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"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it. ![]() ![]() That’s cakeist | |||
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"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab. It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS. I mean, leave me the fuck alone." *Cries because not name checked* ![]() | |||
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"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it. ![]() ![]() ![]() FiFY ![]() | |||
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"It makes sod all difference " Here he is ![]() | |||
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"I'll post, but generally it'll either get ignored or kill the thread as I'm not one of the forum gang - and I care not one jot about it. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Thanks ![]() | |||
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"It makes sod all difference Here he is ![]() What can I say ...I've missed your jaffa cake loathing ![]() | |||
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"It makes sod all difference Here he is ![]() ![]() No you didn't | |||
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"It makes sod all difference Here he is ![]() ![]() Oh yes I have (in pantoesque voice mode) ![]() | |||
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"It makes sod all difference Here he is ![]() ![]() ![]() That just proves me right ![]() | |||
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"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab. It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS. I mean, leave me the fuck alone. *Cries because not name checked* ![]() • That's because I've blocked you, KC². I could no longer endure the phallus-malice from your endless quinny pics'. Seriously, my chalice fillith over. | |||
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"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so." Yes it does. There are some awesome people here. | |||
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"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab. It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS. I mean, leave me the fuck alone. *Cries because not name checked* ![]() My quinny runneth over too, but I think that might be caused by something I caught from you ![]() | |||
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"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab. It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS. I mean, leave me the fuck alone. *Cries because not name checked* ![]() ![]() ° That's the 'love bug' you're referring to. We need a (bug) emoji. | |||
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"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab. It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS. I mean, leave me the fuck alone. *Cries because not name checked* ![]() ![]() What about this one? ![]() | |||
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"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so." No not at all. Its good craic though. | |||
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"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab. It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS. I mean, leave me the fuck alone. *Cries because not name checked* ![]() ![]() ![]() • FFS ![]() | |||
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"I started participating in the 'fora' last Autumn. Life was blissfully sublime and magnificent until I became a "cause célèbre" and the "enfant terrible" of Fab. It went downhill after that. My InBox became inundated with messages from the usual suspects, to name a few: Realitybites, Nora, 'Kenobi, Mèlí, PisceanNightmare, Fool/Fiddle/Rightly, Sprouty, LimpJim....the list is endless...unrelenting FFS. I mean, leave me the fuck alone. *Cries because not name checked* ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() You love me really ![]() | |||
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"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so." It certainly has for us. Most of the people we have met we first came across on the forums. | |||
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"Do you think that posting in the forums, either original topics or responding toe others, make you more visible to others and lead to chats, meets and more? I had hoped so." I just post and don't really think about it, which is probably quite evident if you take any notice of the crap I post. PW | |||
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