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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My profile doesn’t seem to be getting any attention I want to upgrade to a member

Shall I start fresh and make a new profile? Or carry on with this one? :/

Sorry boring I know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its the quickening

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Looks good to me x

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny


"My profile doesn’t seem to be getting any attention I want to upgrade to a member

Shall I start fresh and make a new profile? Or carry on with this one? :/

Sorry boring I know "

What do you think being a member will do?

What do you think making a new profile would do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do what feels right. You’ve a bunch of verifications that might take a while to replace if they are important to you (usually at least 1 is, and it’s often complained about that the first one is the hardest to get). Personally, I don’t see any benefit to a new account other than being unblocked by everyone by default. But if you weren’t for them before…what’s changed?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

You've had three meets this year. What exactly do you think is going wrong for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My profile doesn’t seem to be getting any attention I want to upgrade to a member

Shall I start fresh and make a new profile? Or carry on with this one? :/

Sorry boring I know

What do you think being a member will do?

What do you think making a new profile would do?"

This

What do you believe would be the benefit?

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By *annaBeStrongMan
over a year ago

wokingham

Without you asking for profile advice I can’t give it you directly

But the main point is, women out number men on here by 1000 to 1

To even stand out, you need to be in literally the top 0.1% of men.

Judging by your pics, I bet you don’t struggle pulling in a night out? I bet most women would absolutely say yes to you asking them out.

Fabs is about as hard as it can get for guys when it comes to sex. Don’t take it too personally.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess so thank you appreciate the advice!

I guess just feeling low and loss of confidence in my life just wanted to feel wanted :/

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By *host63Man
over a year ago

Bedfont Feltham

You are a bloke this is how it is nothing you put will change anything

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

You look to be doing pretty well for yourself. Don't feel down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I say you just take time reading profiles get to know people in the forums and build some connections, don’t put to much pressure on meeting things should just progress naturally, I’m certainly no expert though. Good luck what ever you do OP but I don’t think complaining about not getting attention is the right type of needed attention.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing a new profile won’t do you any favours, you’ll lose your verifications.

Site supported status doesn’t generally guarantee any success.

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By *plashThisSplashThatMan
over a year ago

London/portsmouth

Mate you’ve had three meets this year already I’ve had none and I’m pretty sure on a night out you won’t have a problem pulling a bird. On this site which I’m sure your aware of it’s a different ball game. The women out number men here to stand out you have too……. I’ll let you know when my stats are in

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

I don’t see how a new profile will help. For some reason (don’t know why!) some people have non site supporters blocked so I suppose that could help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t see why a new profile would help, yours looks good to me

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By *agic.MMan
over a year ago

Orpington


"I guess so thank you appreciate the advice!

I guess just feeling low and loss of confidence in my life just wanted to feel wanted :/"

My friend I actually relate to this so much...you are a good looking bloke, and you have amazing facial features ... but as some have mentioned fab is not easy for men, most get eclipsed by the thousands of dick pic profiles.

I would recommend becoming a member ...it allows you to upload videos, and they are a much more powerful tool to express your personality. Another advice I would give you (and this is just you personaly -as you have that look) is to get in touch with a professional photographer and get yourself some professional pictures ( everyone has a phone...everyone is taking selfies...and they can be quite boring sometimes) you need something to make you stand out in here, and you have that "model look" so why not take advantage of that?

Don't get discouraged my friend...you are an attractive individual, you just need to make yourself more noticeable

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you everyone appreciate it! Feel free to add

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess so thank you appreciate the advice!

I guess just feeling low and loss of confidence in my life just wanted to feel wanted :/

My friend I actually relate to this so much...you are a good looking bloke, and you have amazing facial features ... but as some have mentioned fab is not easy for men, most get eclipsed by the thousands of dick pic profiles.

I would recommend becoming a member ...it allows you to upload videos, and they are a much more powerful tool to express your personality. Another advice I would give you (and this is just you personaly -as you have that look) is to get in touch with a professional photographer and get yourself some professional pictures ( everyone has a phone...everyone is taking selfies...and they can be quite boring sometimes) you need something to make you stand out in here, and you have that "model look" so why not take advantage of that?

Don't get discouraged my friend...you are an attractive individual, you just need to make yourself more noticeable "

Wow thanks mate appreciate that!!

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"I guess so thank you appreciate the advice!

I guess just feeling low and loss of confidence in my life just wanted to feel wanted :/"

Fab really isn’t the place to feel wanted tbh but I would keep your profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I guess so thank you appreciate the advice!

I guess just feeling low and loss of confidence in my life just wanted to feel wanted :/

Fab really isn’t the place to feel wanted tbh but I would keep your profile "

I guess that’s true maybe I’m just thinking to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks ok to me

I would keep your profile

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Pics are good, but more would be better!

Maybe expand your bio so it's not personal about what you're looking for, likes, dislikes.

Always offer to have a social first.

Update your status regularly and get more involved in the forums.

Veris are positive, so don't lose them!

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By *iltomMan
over a year ago

swansea


"You've had three meets this year. What exactly do you think is going wrong for you? "

I know lots that haven’t had that in 10 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Does what feels right to you.im sure you don't need any advice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think making a new profile would do more harm than good as you’d lose your verifications and personally I don’t like talking to guys who don’t have any (even though I’ve only just got my first one myself - a walking contradiction I know!). but my advice is stick with this one. Sometimes girls are just inundated with messages so you may just get missed sometimes. Don’t let it get you down though you don’t need other people to know your own worth. Pick that crown back up… you a king

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

I think your profile looks really good and you are a very attractive guy.You do seem to have had a relative amount of success but it wouldn’t hurt to upgrade to site supporter and would open up other avenues of the site for you.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Just move up north problem solved !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The whole 'put a word in the subject header' thing might put some off. I generally leave those profiles alone

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Hi op

I wouldn't delete and restart as you'll lose your verifications.

Your profile looks ok to me ,I think it's just very tough on here at the min..

Maybe try some socials if you feel comfortable.

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