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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito

So are you single? Is it complicated? Are you happily involved with someone?

Singles, what do you miss about relationships?

Throuple, couples, moresomes, what do you miss about single life?

I am almost 10 years single and miss that closeness of a long hug after a long day where your partner nuzzles into your neck breathing you in and holding you like it’s the last time they might get to.

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

Single and I'm not sure miss anything really.

Men in my life have never been the practical kind when it comes to round the house stuff and fixing things etc, so that would be something I'd miss if I had it to start with.

I tell ya what I do miss. Having hopes and dreams. The rest of it though ... all tainted.

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"Single and I'm not sure miss anything really.

Men in my life have never been the practical kind when it comes to round the house stuff and fixing things etc, so that would be something I'd miss if I had it to start with.

I tell ya what I do miss. Having hopes and dreams. The rest of it though ... all tainted. "

Lemme check the back of my sofa for you…might be some hopes and dreams there for you

p.s. I think you are great

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By *inister_SpinsterWoman
over a year ago

Manchester(ish).

I'm happier single.

I'm better alone, so I pour my skills and abilities into own growth and progress.

I've never met someone who reciprocated enough to make it worth staying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been single my entire life so don't really know what I'm missing, or if I am in fact missing anything

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We've been together over 40 years, I haven't been single since I was about 18. I don't miss anything about being single, I'm not good at living alone

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By *idlandiaMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Being single is both rubbish and great. I find it difficult to sleep with someone in my bed, bit I miss the intimacy

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

Single, I miss that closeness of a relationship that you don’t get with a friendship. Someone to cosy up with and have a genuine hug that makes you feel all nice and content. I miss someone sleeping next to me. I miss picking up the phone to share amazing news or to get reassurance if it’s a bad day, equally miss being that person for someone else. Lately it’s the lack of physical contact I’ve struggled with, not sex, just having someone to sit with or have a cuddle and kiss as you pass each other in the house.

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By *ilverjagMan
over a year ago

swansea

I can't afford lurve, it's too expensive, but lust, that's a different commodity all together and comes well within budgets.

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

I'm single, been single for 30 months. The only thing I miss is the company, especially as I struggle to make friends in a town where I dont really know anybody.

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By *essicagraceWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Open relationship. Don't really miss anything, being open means I have the flexibility to flirt and long distance means opportunity for space and alone time. Pretty content

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Kerry and Dublin

I'm solo-poly. I currently have a girlfriend who lives in Germany with her husband and potentially a girlfriend in the US (who was here on vacation) and one in Dublin.

I don't want to be someone's primary partner but I'm happy to be an emotional support for someone if they need it.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I've been single for just over 2 years after coming out of a 22 year relationship. My life has changed immeasurably- new home, new career, new figure- I'm finally learning about myself & loving my life, but there are moments when I miss having a partner to share the odd moment with.

Every time I think of joining a dating service I back out in a matter of days!!

I guess I'm not really ready to look for someone yet.

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By *utdooorsyguyMan
over a year ago

town

It's been a roller coaster of a 3 years, long term ENM relationship (18 years and living together) ended, entered into closed a poly Triad which was fantastic but it just faded out after 18 months.... I'm seeing some one at the moment, there's no "label" to it but it's amazing!

I miss having some one permanent at the moment, some one to come home to and share quiet moments watching a film etc etc,

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We're married, coming up for our 13th wedding anniversary soon and we've been together 18.5yrs overall, since I was 18 and Mr KC a touch younger...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuddles! But I am loving the single life

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito


"I'm solo-poly. I currently have a girlfriend who lives in Germany with her husband and potentially a girlfriend in the US (who was here on vacation) and one in Dublin.

I don't want to be someone's primary partner but I'm happy to be an emotional support for someone if they need it."

Wow! You spread your love internationally…wonderful!

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By *adyBugs OP   Woman
over a year ago

cognito

Isn’t it lovely how we are all different about relationships and love? And I love seeing such a mix of poly people to happily single to long term commitment to one person, it really warms my heart

Apologies for not replying individually to all of you, I appreciate all your responses including the couple of private ones I got.

Have a beautiful day!

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Married over 20 years known each other’s on & off over 33 years. Miss nothing about being single as hated not being around each other xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily in a couple and now (finally) divorced. I am much happier in a relationship, I'm a very affectionate and tactile person and need to share that with someone else. There are times I miss the simplicity of having my own flat to escape to but even there it was only a matter of a day or two until I would stay a night with her ladyship or she'd come over mine.

Mr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single and miss nothing about relationships.

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk

I'm complicated.

I miss everything and I also hate everything too.

I'm an unhappy introverted loner that likes his own company and that of others too, sometimes

#catch

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

Single lovely

With amazing friends who I have the "boyfriend" experience with on a part time basis x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Married, 13 years together 15. I like the company, the constant bustle but I miss the freedom of being single with no/little responsibility, but then I never did much with it, perhaps it would have helped if I had my own place, but I never could have afforded it.

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"So are you single? Is it complicated? Are you happily involved with someone?

Singles, what do you miss about relationships?

Throuple, couples, moresomes, what do you miss about single life?

I am almost 10 years single and miss that closeness of a long hug after a long day where your partner nuzzles into your neck breathing you in and holding you like it’s the last time they might get to."

I’m a single bird

Have been for forever

I won’t get into the boring long story why …. But my work at the minute is very spontaneous

Out of the country for long periods

Ladies want more commitments than I can offer right now

I miss kissing all the time

Bum grabs

Excitement

And a sidekick (companion)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single. Have been for so long now I think I’d struggle to adapt to a relationship again.

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By *it4ItMan
over a year ago

Wexford

Been single for years , but have had a couple of long relationships . I miss the intimacy .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, single. Miss the closeness and intimacy. I like being single and doing my own thing when I want, but just having that companion sometimes would be lovely.

I'm still on dating sites because u never know, but now I'm into this scene I don't think could date someone who isn't. But, never say never

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I recently came out of a difficult relationship. Next to no intimacy unless d*unk and constant arguing over minor things. I loved her to death but don't feel it's mutual. She had a young child (12) and didn't want to do anything in the bedroom when she was about

I think maybe I didn't understand her or maybe she clearly wasn't into me after 5 years.

I'd like to know but I never wil she couldn't communicate in a relationship if there were issues and had to be her way or no way

Wanted me to move in and felt it would cause more arguments so ended it

I clearly have made a mistake or it might be for the best

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By *r Black 85Man
over a year ago

nottingham

Single

I sometimes miss the company

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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago

Manchester (he/him)

In an open poly relationship.

We live apart and have our own lives so get our single space and our relationship time too

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By *lderflower_AppleWoman
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Single, I miss that closeness of a relationship that you don’t get with a friendship. Someone to cosy up with and have a genuine hug that makes you feel all nice and content. I miss someone sleeping next to me. I miss picking up the phone to share amazing news or to get reassurance if it’s a bad day, equally miss being that person for someone else. Lately it’s the lack of physical contact I’ve struggled with, not sex, just having someone to sit with or have a cuddle and kiss as you pass each other in the house. "

This... exactly this!

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

I'm terrible and have made mistakes.

Always was on the rebound and quick to fill my bed. Not always the best choices but hey ho, sex first then we can chuck'em out for another.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Single. I miss the social side. The obvious also!

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By *gent CoulsonMan
over a year ago

Secret hideaway in the pennines


"Single, I miss that closeness of a relationship that you don’t get with a friendship. Someone to cosy up with and have a genuine hug that makes you feel all nice and content. I miss someone sleeping next to me. I miss picking up the phone to share amazing news or to get reassurance if it’s a bad day, equally miss being that person for someone else. Lately it’s the lack of physical contact I’ve struggled with, not sex, just having someone to sit with or have a cuddle and kiss as you pass each other in the house.

This... exactly this! "
couldn't have put it better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single, been living alone for the first time in my life and there's lots about it I like, but there's lot's of what's mentioned above I miss. The main thing though, is someone to do nothing with. Just relaxing in each others company with no expectations or wants, talking, not talking, it doesn't matter. You just fit. If that makes sense

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