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Do I look like it? Do I? Reaaaaally?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do I look “dominant”? My curiousity peaked by getting asked on here (often enough) if I’m into submissive guys. Add to this slot of guys I meet IRL seems a bit sub around me and I start to wonder.

Serious answers and banters welcome.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

You do look a bit domme

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

You do look 'fornicatingly' formidable.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

We had a whip round..and got you a whip

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By *ndauntedMan
over a year ago

wilts

You look confident………… not sure what dominant looks like…….. but perhaps yes. It’s uncomfortable on this fence.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

If I had to guess based on your photos. I'd say you could possibly be a bit Dominant. But I can't say you particularly give D/s vibes in your photos.

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By *rhugesMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

I'm surprised as most Tv/TS are submissive if anything

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

Is there such a thing as hard or soft makeup?

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

Sorry what was the question I was distracted by legs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look like a sub

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

I don't think there is a look. Do I look like a sub . Anyway you look might good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don't think there is a look. Do I look like a sub . Anyway you look might good"

I need your T-shirt!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is there such a thing as hard or soft makeup? "

Imo I’d say yes. I’m so far as I tend to associate certain makeup looks with a dominant vibe. Entirely unscientific though. I just wear what suits olive skin and a lot of tan

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look like you would tie up and stomp on some balls and enjoy it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look like you would tie up and stomp on some balls and enjoy it. "

But I made it up to him afterwards does that count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You look like fun, but I wouldn’t say “dominate”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You look like you would tie up and stomp on some balls and enjoy it.

But I made it up to him afterwards does that count?"

You are a sweetheart.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You look like you would tie up and stomp on some balls and enjoy it.

But I made it up to him afterwards does that count?

You are a sweetheart. "

Shhhhhhh don’t want that getting out

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

I get it a lot too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your pics (which are lovely btw) show you in a confident way, some people may see confidence as assertiveness and therefore dominant.

I often get the same responses, apparently I even have a dominant mouth and jawline

NBVN x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"We had a whip round..and got you a whip "

Surely

"We had a whip round....it said it was terrified of you, as well"

?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think your pics (which are lovely btw) show you in a confident way, some people may see confidence as assertiveness and therefore dominant.

I often get the same responses, apparently I even have a dominant mouth and jawline

NBVN x"

Thank you x

I just can’t take it seriously when a guy built like a brick shit house is asking if I can dominate him

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We had a whip round..and got you a whip

Surely

"We had a whip round....it said it was terrified of you, as well"

?"

Was hoping for walnut.

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By *innocentMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

There are some insanely pretty people on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think your pics (which are lovely btw) show you in a confident way, some people may see confidence as assertiveness and therefore dominant.

I often get the same responses, apparently I even have a dominant mouth and jawline

NBVN x"

Btw I adore your new profile pic and I’m queer so it must be good

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By *indergirlWoman
over a year ago

somewhere, someplace

To me you just look happy and God damn confident in your pics, I guess for some they see that as dominant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think your pics (which are lovely btw) show you in a confident way, some people may see confidence as assertiveness and therefore dominant.

I often get the same responses, apparently I even have a dominant mouth and jawline

NBVN x

Btw I adore your new profile pic and I’m queer so it must be good "

Thank you Kat

NBVN x

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


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Was hoping for walnut. "

There's probably a "suck my balls" joke, but I can't get the tonality right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Was hoping for walnut.

There's probably a "suck my balls" joke, but I can't get the tonality right."

Always room for a walnut whip joke until I bite the nut off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only cause you look like you have a great personality and wit. On first impression I’m also guessing you may be a brat sub if you switched.

But this site has taught me not to judge much on first impressions anymore.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

The photos on the 22nd May, 3rd, 15th and 27th June have you wearing black which we all know is the Domme colour palette of choice

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By *heArrowsCouple
over a year ago

A fee years ago we were in a local bar and I was getting stared at by one of the women there. Really stared at. Then I got a message on fet from a sub who said she knew who I was. I put 2 and 2 together and we started chatting.

The woman wanted to see if I was really dominant by how I interacted in the bar. And she said she did feel that there was an air about me. (Maybe I was ordering pints with a particular directness idk). I don't like using the word Dominant when referring to myself. It carries too much baggage.

She was in a particular headspace at the time. She was in a bit of a frenzy. Looking to be topped.

The point I'm trying to make is that the hungry eye sees far.

Bottoms in frenzy will see what they need to see if that will help them scratch that itch.

Dominance doesn't have a look in my opinion. It's a personality. And yes that can be seen in how you interact with people but even then not really.

Although perhaps to certain viewers you give off what they want. I'm quite capable of being wrong on this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The photos on the 22nd May, 3rd, 15th and 27th June have you wearing black which we all know is the Domme colour palette of choice "

My wardrobe is basically black and pink. What I lack in imagination I compensate in propensity to buy err black and pink clothing

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Bliss

No. You look gorgeous and people want you to play a role for them x

The only way I can tell If you are dominant is if I looked you in the eye

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By *ymster10Man
over a year ago

Ellesmere Port

Assured and confident

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