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Safer sex, condoms

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

What would you say to a prospective playmate who didn’t want to use them… with you or with anyone else?

Or am I in the minority and most people aren’t using them?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I'd say that if you did want to use them and they were very much against them, you're not compatible. People make their own decisions and sometimes they don't align with how we perceive things. I'd probably avoid telling them about sexual health etc... I have a feeling most know (not that you're saying you would at all!).

I don't think you're in the minority when it comes to wanting a condom to be used - most I've interacted with are firmly in the wrap up camp.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'd just leave them to it but not meet them.

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

Hard no for me

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"What would you say to a prospective playmate who didn’t want to use them… with you or with anyone else?

Or am I in the minority and most people aren’t using them?"

I'd say "fuck off". If I am wearing one then so is anyone else with a cock.

C

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

If you want someone to wear one and they say no, tell them they'll be no meet

What's the saying 'no glove, no love'

There's plenty of others that insist on them for you and plenty of those that prefer not to use them for them

Neither should give in on their own preference just look for someone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What would you say to a prospective playmate who didn’t want to use them… with you or with anyone else?

Or am I in the minority and most people aren’t using them?"

It would be a hard pass from me! If they’re not prepared to use a condom then they need to find someone else to have fun with. Simple!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its a personal preference and down to the two at play. I prefer safe sex until both me and my new partner are tested and have been together a few times before going bareback....and thats if no other partners are involved. Other people can and will take risks if they wish

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how long id been shagging her or how active she has been

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

They wouldn't be a playmate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd say it was up to them but they wouldn't be a playmate of ours.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

If I was meeting I'd not meet them.

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By *akey8888Man
over a year ago

London

No from me, and I’m sure they could find a like minded person where both feel comfortable unprotected.

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By *aith Skynbyrd OP   Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere else

Thanks everyone. Safe sex is a must for me unless there is trust and agreement about fluid bonding. I was starting to be curious if I was the only one from what this guy said in his messages, like maybe that was the culture here. But I now think it was just that one dude.

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Wouldn't b playing with them x

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

Hard no from me.

MJ x

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset


"Thanks everyone. Safe sex is a must for me unless there is trust and agreement about fluid bonding. I was starting to be curious if I was the only one from what this guy said in his messages, like maybe that was the culture here. But I now think it was just that one dude."

That's just what they like you to think.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Unless a guy wants to risk having to pay child maintenance to me, he's gonna be gloving up. I haven't spoken to a single person on here that has had an issue with that

P

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