FabSwingers.com forum: Aversion to missionary

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Maybe it's just my experience but I seem to keep coming across guys who want to "bend you over". Yes, it can be fun as part of a whole situation, not just that.

Maybe I'm just butt ugly and they dont want my face to put them off?

I dont know? I just find it quite offensive.

Personally, I like eye contact. I like to see who I'm bumping uglies with. Missionary position is very under rated in my opinion.

Please feel free to open my eyes to what is going on.

Ladies, have you experienced this and what are your thoughts/experiences?

Guys, come on. What's the deal?

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I think missionary can be viewed as a bit vanilla and boring (not by me, I love it!), or maybe linked more to emotional sex?

Or maybe they just like bottoms

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Agree. Can’t stand doggy. I can live without it

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I like both for different reasons. Eye contact and kissing is must for me when fucking but sometimes you can slam harder and deeper from behind without having to wrestle limbs into strange challenging positions. It’s nice to alternate, best of both, 50/50.

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"I like both for different reasons. Eye contact and kissing is must for me when fucking but sometimes you can slam harder and deeper from behind without having to wrestle limbs into strange challenging positions. It’s nice to alternate, best of both, 50/50.

My cervix flinched when I read that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I want a guy to 'make love' to me then it has to be in the missionary position, eye contact, snogging but you cant beat doggy position for a good shagging.

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

I think there is a few elements at play, one being missionary not being "fashionable" as it were. But I also think there is the fact that different positions create different levels of penetration and feeling for the one with the penis.

Me I love staring in my partners eyes, but will prefer a modified cowgirl so you get the best of both worlds (sensation AND intimacy)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My cervix flinched when I read that!"

My cervix always struggles lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love missionary. I thought I was the odd one out lol

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

Depends on how your built inside as to what works best. Dildo time. But yeah I agree, it can get boring sometimes being endlessy pounded. So I get a book out or I give a hard squeeze inside to hurry them up.

Sometimes hurts my back being turned into a pretzel - see profile pic - but I do get your point.

Seems bit of a service fuck sometimes, I'm ok with it cause it's job done.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss

If we are out in the woods then doggy is easier, being bent over the chair facing the mirror watching him is also very hot.

On a bed though missionary is my favourite, happy to move to doggy mid way, but I want to memorise his face as he fucks me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't it depend what way the shaft bends when standing to attention whether or not doggy is uncomfortable or missionary manageable or vice versa?

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By *oriarty99Man
over a year ago

London

"Maybe it's just my experience but I seem to keep coming across guys who want to "bend you over". Yes, it can be fun as part of a whole situation, not just that.

Maybe I'm just butt ugly and they dont want my face to put them off?

I dont know? I just find it quite offensive.

Personally, I like eye contact. I like to see who I'm bumping uglies with. Missionary position is very under rated in my opinion.

Please feel free to open my eyes to what is going on.

Ladies, have you experienced this and what are your thoughts/experiences?

Guys, come on. What's the deal? "

I find it harder to cum in missionary. Anyone else?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loathe doggy. Quite frankly it's fucking shit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think doggy is more of a 'long lasting' position and doesn't make men feel that vulnerable so that's why they like it so much. I don't think it's anything to do with not finding the person attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they don't want that because its more intimate?

Maybe they get better stimulation another way?

Have you asked them?

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By *eldomVanillaMan
over a year ago

London

Personally love it for the same reasons most are giving

Also I find I can have much better self control over myself .. unless the partner gets frustrated and gives my bottom a smack to speed up then all self control is lost haha

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Missionary isn’t boring. I don’t think I’ve ever ever had sex in my whole life and thought well that was boring!

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

Missionary is a perfect position…eye contact, deep kissing, can whisper/growl in her ear!

Full body contact, can get balls deep, can feel her heels on my calves, her nails scratching my back. I can reach her bum, hair…

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By *P994Man
over a year ago

Travelling

Missionary is my favourite position, I think it depends though for most guys as you see porn the man tends to pound away in multiple positions so maybe people are scared of being too vanilla with missionary now. Doggy is great but missionary with intense passionate kissing is the best

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By *funladMan
over a year ago

huddersfield

Think its the feeling and theres no better sight then when bent over and you can see your dick dissapearing

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I want all the positions!!

Doggy is ok, but I won't be pressured into just that, or mostly that position.

Men seem to be capable of missionary with my fat stomach and dodgy legs.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

I do wonder if some men thunk about the woman's pleasure as well as their own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I actually find it quite uncomfortable sometimes.

Surely legs over shoulders creates a similar deep penetration?

I thought having sex with someone was about mutual pleasure?

Maybe I'm just slightly old fashioned? But glad I'm not the only one who likes a bit of old fashioned sex

Oh, by the way, I dont think its vanilla

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"Doesn't it depend what way the shaft bends when standing to attention whether or not doggy is uncomfortable or missionary manageable or vice versa? "

And the length. It's excruciatingly painful for me sometimes and I have to get them to stop.

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

And missionary is far from vanilla if you do it right.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love doggy... I feel so sexy with my ass pushed up and face pressed into the bed

I like the sensations at that angle too.

I like missionary but it's a little more tiring as I have to get my legs up around basically the back of their neck to get the best angle. Sometimes I put my feet up against their shoulders by then I'm conscious I look like a plucked turkey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy missionary however I adore doggy

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Eye contact and kissing is really important to me, so I love missionary.

There are so many positions and twists you can do from missionary, that if anyone thinks it's dull, then they obviously don't experiment much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missionary fans here.

Doggy doesn’t do much for me tbh

Each to their own though x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Doggy is my favourite, but I like a lot of positions, including missionary

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Missionary and doggy are not the only positions but most positions have their merits. I can remember in my first sexual relationship trying the more “position of the week” - some were fun some were just plain bonkers and not enjoyable for either of us at all!

With experience we get to know what works for us and what doesn’t plus it depends on who with etc eg an ex was vwe which is difficult for me and he was bad at controlling the depth so positions where I controlled that worked better for us

Different positions provide different stimulation both in terms of sexy parts and in terms of eye contact, being able to kiss or touch other parts of your partner eg I love my tits being sucked which can’t really happen during doggy but doggy can be good for other reasons

Very much depends on the people and the mood of the moment

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

My cervix flinched when I read that!"

Same

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

I love the intimacy of it , especially anal missionary

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"I loathe doggy. Quite frankly it's fucking shit. "

I reckon his aim is out.....

Winston

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

Another missionary lover here, I like kissing too much and prefer more skin on skin contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doggy is one of my least favourite positions. Fine in some circumstances, like outdoors etc and looks hot watching yourselves in a mirror but I very very rarely cum that way. Much prefer missionary.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

When I’m in the mood for fast and hard it’s always doggy style.I also love the intimacy that missionary brings ..

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I don't understand how anyone can ever totally write off missionary, there's so many ways to do it! My favourite is when the guy kneels in front of me and picks my hips up so my butt is on his knees and I put my legs either on his shoulders or my feet on his chest.

Doggy can be good if it's done right and they get the right depth and angle but pounding away hard and deep like that just hurts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, just to add, kind of a halfway house with the man being behind but both of you laying flat on your stomach - like doggy but collapsed - is also nice.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"I loathe doggy. Quite frankly it's fucking shit.

I reckon his aim is out.....

Winston "

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

"Maybe it's just my experience but I seem to keep coming across guys who want to "bend you over". Yes, it can be fun as part of a whole situation, not just that.

Maybe I'm just butt ugly and they dont want my face to put them off?

I dont know? I just find it quite offensive.

Personally, I like eye contact. I like to see who I'm bumping uglies with. Missionary position is very under rated in my opinion.

Please feel free to open my eyes to what is going on.

Ladies, have you experienced this and what are your thoughts/experiences?

Guys, come on. What's the deal? "

It's so much easier to balance your laptop on someone's back and watch sport/porn whilst shagging doggy than it is to balance it on their face.

Noses naturally cause it to wobble and lean at an angle and it makes viewing tricky.

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By *alcon43Woman
over a year ago

Paisley

I think missionary position is underrated but also associated with the old fashioned idea that women just lie there and do nothing. Maybe some are like a sack of potatoes!

There’s loads of leg and hip positions possible when on your back which adds variety. I do like eye contact and kissing and with a regular partner it can be intense and amazing.

Porn makes doggy popular unfortunately and doesn’t actually represent what works for good sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Out of the two I prefer missionary as it's more intimate but doggy has its place too.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

I love missionary. I’m not sure why it’s considered vanilla (by some)

I like to be face-to-face with who I’m being intimate with, but I must say the lady on top is just as pleasurable.

Doggy is fine for fucking, but I prefer good quality sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I loathe doggy. Quite frankly it's fucking shit.

I reckon his aim is out.....

Winston "

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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago

just somewhere around here

" I can reach her bum, hair…

Thank god for commas

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

As so many have said, missionary doesnt have to be boring.

I think it takes imagination. Its definitely not an excuse for someone to just lay there while the other does all the work. I like nothing more than using my body to pleasure my partner.

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By *weetCruellaWoman
over a year ago

somewhere sweet and sour

Love all positions.. but I cum harder when I'm on top. Love that I can control the speed and tease. Heaven. Spoons for anal is amazing. ... missionary is great when legs are wrapped round the partners back ans nails carassing or scratching their back..mmmm ok phew

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By *bi HaiveMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Cheeseville, Somerset

" I can reach her bum, hair…

Thank god for commas

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

" I can reach her bum, hair…

Thank god for commas

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a variety of positions, there are different variations on missionary that make it more exciting, but everyone is different and gets off on different things...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like bending over sometimes but I also like missionary and lots of other positions. None of them have to be boring

Pxx

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It depends on the moment but missionary is my go to position for intensity and immediacy. There's nothing better.

Other positions are available, all of which are equally enjoyable for different reasons.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like bending over sometimes but I also like missionary and lots of other positions. None of them have to be boring

Pxx"

Exactly

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

There will always be exceptions to any subject but I'd wager many guys on a swinging/casual sex basis don't want eye contact, intimacy, kissing etc that usually goes with missionary. They just want to shoot their load in a hole, end of. Brutal but fairly true. Maybe vanilla is for the missus at home & all the positions for the extra marital sex & or gets all to complicated?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

" I can reach her bum, hair…

Thank god for commas

Most important comma placement ever

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

"I loathe doggy. Quite frankly it's fucking shit.

I reckon his aim is out.....

Winston "

Don't you hate it when that happens

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

I read the above with interest as it displayed to me the different approaches and attitudes to sexual contacts and is illustrative of how various are our desires.

Personally I find the 'missionary' to be more intimate, more open to a varied approach.

'Bend over', more carnal, anonymous and yes, delightfully revealing of the woman's bum.

In a group of course it allows for the glories if spit-roasting.....

Hurrah for variety I say!

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field

"I love missionary. I thought I was the odd one out lol "

Nope! big fan of it here too.

You can have all sorts of fun with boobs and nipples, get up close and personal face to face, kissing and neck nibbling or whispers of filth and whats to come, get her legs tight together over your shoulders or grab her ankles and go nice and wide. You can thrust nice and deep or go for a little teasing with just the tip inside.

Missionary allows for some good old BDSM pleasure of holding the arms down, a little hair pulling or even a bit of breath play if thats your collective bag.

Tis an underrated position that really does provide a whole smorgasbord of kinkyfuckery fun all round

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"I love missionary. I thought I was the odd one out lol

Nope! big fan of it here too.

Missionary allows for some good old BDSM pleasure of holding the arms down, a little hair pulling or even a bit of breath play if thats your collective bag.

Tis an underrated position that really does provide a whole smorgasbord of kinkyfuckery fun all round

Smorgasbord is a very underused word!

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

" I can reach her bum, hair…

Thank god for commas

I love missionary it's probs my fav! But sometimes it is INTENSE! Like literally in your face, I get overstimulated some sensory issues kick in. If I'm having sex with someone for the first time and I'm into them lots I'll want to go missionary, but if it's super casual, busy, or rushed, I'm like "help yourselves round the back"!

One last note, as the penetrator some missionary variations are like a stress position and can take a lot of core muscle, it's harder to maintain (for the unfit!); whereas doggy is far less of a strain, can pick up a rhythm and keep plugging away for as long as needed with minimal effort so I can see why some may prefer it OP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missionary is my favourite position

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

I call myself 'enhanced vanilla'.

I enjoy missionary. Missionary is the boulevard of ultimate pleasure.

All the other positions are delightful offshoots and detours that frequently converge back to rejoin my boulevard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally its my number 1 it has it all face to face eyegasms loads of virsatility i prefer the deep stick version on the end of the bed perfect for cave jumping access to anus and ideal for a dildo dp session too

Also good to feel close and lift her up for some standing sex too

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Personally its my number 1 it has it all face to face eyegasms loads of virsatility i prefer the deep stick version on the end of the bed perfect for cave jumping access to anus and ideal for a dildo dp session too

Also good to feel close and lift her up for some standing sex too"

Cave jumping access to anus?

Your posts on sex make me laugh a lot.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I can kinda feel a bit claustrophobic when in missionary. But do love other positions where you have eye contact.

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

Missionary is great especially if you put a pillow under lower back, hits the spot, eye contact etc

Best feeling is missionary but rather than wrap my legs around the guy, I put my feet on his stomach, legs open, and my god does it feel good

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

I'm loving missionary right now with my latest FB probably something to do with her mesmerising blue eyes and the fact that I like to kiss as I fuck

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

"There will always be exceptions to any subject but I'd wager many guys on a swinging/casual sex basis don't want eye contact, intimacy, kissing etc that usually goes with missionary. They just want to shoot their load in a hole, end of. Brutal but fairly true. Maybe vanilla is for the missus at home & all the positions for the extra marital sex & or gets all to complicated?

Nah I don’t agree with that. Depends what guys you go for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also good to feel close and lift her up for some standing sex too

Cave jumping access to anus?

Your posts on sex make me laugh a lot."
this is my main purpose bring the giggles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I love missionary,with the right person it can be so intimate and sensual

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Eye contact can be good - especially if she looks at you with hate filled eyes

Missionary is also great for letting her struggle, and think she might have a chance to get away.

Doggy's great for just reminding her of her worth

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Eye contact can be good - especially if she looks at you with hate filled eyes

Missionary is also great for letting her struggle, and think she might have a chance to get away.

Doggy's great for just reminding her of her worth

Such a beautiful way with words you have

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Eye contact can be good - especially if she looks at you with hate filled eyes

Missionary is also great for letting her struggle, and think she might have a chance to get away.

Doggy's great for just reminding her of her worth

Such a beautiful way with words you have

I thought the same ...I almost shed a tear

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Eye contact can be good - especially if she looks at you with hate filled eyes

Missionary is also great for letting her struggle, and think she might have a chance to get away.

Doggy's great for just reminding her of her worth

Such a beautiful way with words you have

I thought the same ...I almost shed a tear

Could give Mills and Boon a run for their money

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Eye contact can be good - especially if she looks at you with hate filled eyes

Missionary is also great for letting her struggle, and think she might have a chance to get away.

Doggy's great for just reminding her of her worth

Such a beautiful way with words you have

I thought the same ...I almost shed a tear

Don’t get me started on tears

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Eye contact can be good - especially if she looks at you with hate filled eyes

Missionary is also great for letting her struggle, and think she might have a chance to get away.

Doggy's great for just reminding her of her worth

Such a beautiful way with words you have

I thought the same ...I almost shed a tear

Could give Mills and Boon a run for their money

Send me a fiver and I’ll do you some custom erotica

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Eye contact can be good - especially if she looks at you with hate filled eyes

Missionary is also great for letting her struggle, and think she might have a chance to get away.

Doggy's great for just reminding her of her worth

Such a beautiful way with words you have

I thought the same ...I almost shed a tear

Could give Mills and Boon a run for their money

Send me a fiver and I’ll do you some custom erotica

A fiver

bit rich that!

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"I think doggy is more of a 'long lasting' position and doesn't make men feel that vulnerable so that's why they like it so much. I don't think it's anything to do with not finding the person attractive.

I find they cum quicker from that.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Eye contact can be good - especially if she looks at you with hate filled eyes

Missionary is also great for letting her struggle, and think she might have a chance to get away.

Doggy's great for just reminding her of her worth

Such a beautiful way with words you have

I thought the same ...I almost shed a tear

Could give Mills and Boon a run for their money

Send me a fiver and I’ll do you some custom erotica

A fiver

bit rich that!

Waaa

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"[Removed by poster at 27/06/22 19:15:30]"

I've got 2.50...we could club together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as I enjoy missionary (the sensual intensity, kissing and eye contact can be next level), I also love doggy. For me it depends on my mood as to what my preference is in the moment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Missionary is great especially if you put a pillow under lower back, hits the spot, eye contact etc

Best feeling is missionary but rather than wrap my legs around the guy, I put my feet on his stomach, legs open, and my god does it feel good

"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find they cum quicker from that."

I'd second this

. Doggy is more primal, just tear into each other, missionary is far more sensual

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By *riving_Home_For_MimiWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

"Missionary is my favourite position "

And mine, I like the intimacy.

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By *hirleyMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I will second many here, missionary is definitely better than the boring vanilla reputation it has.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Eye contact can be good - especially if she looks at you with hate filled eyes

Missionary is also great for letting her struggle, and think she might have a chance to get away.

Doggy's great for just reminding her of her worth

Such a beautiful way with words you have

I thought the same ...I almost shed a tear

Could give Mills and Boon a run for their money

Send me a fiver and I’ll do you some custom erotica

A fiver

bit rich that!

Waaa

I’ll Chuck in some graphic drawings I’ve done on the inside of a sugar puffs box in crayon.

You know you want it

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By *iaisonseekerMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Missionary is great - I mean, the tits are literally within sucking distance

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"Eye contact can be good - especially if she looks at you with hate filled eyes

Missionary is also great for letting her struggle, and think she might have a chance to get away.

Doggy's great for just reminding her of her worth

Such a beautiful way with words you have

I thought the same ...I almost shed a tear

Could give Mills and Boon a run for their money

Send me a fiver and I’ll do you some custom erotica

A fiver

bit rich that!

Waaa

I’ll Chuck in some graphic drawings I’ve done on the inside of a sugar puffs box in crayon.

You know you want it

What woman could resist such an offer?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I’ll Chuck in some graphic drawings I’ve done on the inside of a sugar puffs box in crayon.

You know you want it

What woman could resist such an offer? "

No REAL woman could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missionary is my fav position, love the full contact, the access, the snogging and the eye contact... Just heaven

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"Missionary is great especially if you put a pillow under lower back, hits the spot, eye contact etc

Best feeling is missionary but rather than wrap my legs around the guy, I put my feet on his stomach, legs open, and my god does it feel good

hard

Yes - good hard fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Missionary is great especially if you put a pillow under lower back, hits the spot, eye contact etc

Best feeling is missionary but rather than wrap my legs around the guy, I put my feet on his stomach, legs open, and my god does it feel good

hard

Yes - good hard fuck

"
no im mean im now

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

"Eye contact can be good - especially if she looks at you with hate filled eyes

Missionary is also great for letting her struggle, and think she might have a chance to get away.

Doggy's great for just reminding her of her worth

Such a beautiful way with words you have

I thought the same ...I almost shed a tear

Could give Mills and Boon a run for their money

Send me a fiver and I’ll do you some custom erotica

A fiver

bit rich that!

Waaa

I’ll Chuck in some graphic drawings I’ve done on the inside of a sugar puffs box in crayon.

You know you want it

Gimme gimme gimme now+

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By *inkyInkedBiWoman
over a year ago

"Missionary is great especially if you put a pillow under lower back, hits the spot, eye contact etc

Best feeling is missionary but rather than wrap my legs around the guy, I put my feet on his stomach, legs open, and my god does it feel good

hard

Yes - good hard fuck

no im mean im now

I know

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

"I’ll Chuck in some graphic drawings I’ve done on the inside of a sugar puffs box in crayon.

You know you want it

What woman could resist such an offer?

No REAL woman could

Oh fuck, I'm not actually real, I've been rumbled!!!

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By *instonandLadyAstorCouple
over a year ago

Not where we seem to be...

"I loathe doggy. Quite frankly it's fucking shit.

I reckon his aim is out.....

Winston

Don't you hate it when that happens

One does not "oopsie" it up the bum.

Lady Astor

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"Eye contact can be good - especially if she looks at you with hate filled eyes

Missionary is also great for letting her struggle, and think she might have a chance to get away.

Doggy's great for just reminding her of her worth

Such a beautiful way with words you have

I thought the same ...I almost shed a tear

Could give Mills and Boon a run for their money

Send me a fiver and I’ll do you some custom erotica

A fiver

bit rich that!

Waaa

I’ll Chuck in some graphic drawings I’ve done on the inside of a sugar puffs box in crayon.

You know you want it

Gimme gimme gimme now+

Music to my ears

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

"I’ll Chuck in some graphic drawings I’ve done on the inside of a sugar puffs box in crayon.

You know you want it

What woman could resist such an offer?

No REAL woman could

Oh fuck, I'm not actually real, I've been rumbled!!!"

Well, you pay extra for a good rumbling in these parts !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love the intimacy of missionary but I also like it pretty hard so I like doggy just as much x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love missonary x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally like to see a woman’s face don’t just want to see her ass in air nothing more sexy than seeing in to woman’s eyes the reaction as my finger tips all over her body gently kissing her lips

My opinion only of coarse

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I really like missionary. Being able to kiss and look in the other person's eyes and see the look of pleasure on their face makes it sexy as far as I'm concerned.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missionary position is ok but not my favourite as I find it a bit uncomfortable and a bit vinilla.

As for eye contact if I am making eye contact then things are not going well as my eyes should be rolling or closed with passion.

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

I like missionary.....saying that all positions have advantages and disadvantages....I'm just greedy I like them all. But nothing wrong with mish

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By *ensman100Man
over a year ago

Hounslow

Not a huge fan of doggy.. much prefer to watch the face of the woman as she cums..

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Hove

"Personally like to see a woman’s face don’t just want to see her ass in air nothing more sexy than seeing in to woman’s eyes the reaction as my finger tips all over her body gently kissing her lips

My opinion only of coarse

This doesn't sound coarse at all, quite the opposite it sounds rather smooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Missionary is great especially if you put a pillow under lower back, hits the spot, eye contact etc

Best feeling is missionary but rather than wrap my legs around the guy, I put my feet on his stomach, legs open, and my god does it feel good

hard

Yes - good hard fuck

no im mean im now

I know

"
damn you for knowing my code damn you to heck now gag on my gearstick

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Maybe it's just my experience but I seem to keep coming across guys who want to "bend you over". Yes, it can be fun as part of a whole situation, not just that.

Maybe I'm just butt ugly and they dont want my face to put them off?

I dont know? I just find it quite offensive.

Personally, I like eye contact. I like to see who I'm bumping uglies with. Missionary position is very under rated in my opinion.

Please feel free to open my eyes to what is going on.

Ladies, have you experienced this and what are your thoughts/experiences?

Guys, come on. What's the deal? "

Yes, my favourite too for the reasons you mentioned... Mainly eye/lip contact.

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By *ob198XaMan
over a year ago

teleford

Let’s do it doggy style so we can both watch X files... or mish without the TV. I’m happy either way.

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By *orthmanMan
over a year ago

Kendal

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By *orthmanMan
over a year ago

Kendal

I'm a little late to this thread. I am just back from Africa where I had the pleasure of going right up the Zambezi with David Livingstone. Nothing wrong with the position of that missionary.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

Yes, I've found it's always from behind these days, whether standing or kneeling or being bent over something. I miss missionary

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By *orthmanMan
over a year ago

Kendal

"Let’s do it doggy style so we can both watch X files... or mish without the TV. I’m happy either way.

You and me, baby, ain't nothin' but mammals,

so let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe talk to the person your with so you can both enjoy yourselves

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yes, I've found it's always from behind these days, whether standing or kneeling or being bent over something. I miss missionary

Same.

Maybe we should start a campaign.

Doggy is the new vanilla position and missionary is for the non vanilla?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes, I've found it's always from behind these days, whether standing or kneeling or being bent over something. I miss missionary

"
i miss sex

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I’m very happy with missionary

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

I love ‘em all! At least 30 seconds per position & a quick change over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe it's just my experience but I seem to keep coming across guys who want to "bend you over". Yes, it can be fun as part of a whole situation, not just that.

Maybe I'm just butt ugly and they dont want my face to put them off?

I dont know? I just find it quite offensive.

Personally, I like eye contact. I like to see who I'm bumping uglies with. Missionary position is very under rated in my opinion.

Please feel free to open my eyes to what is going on.

Ladies, have you experienced this and what are your thoughts/experiences?

Guys, come on. What's the deal? "

I think it depends from person to person, obviously to some it doesn’t mean anything

But a guy I was seeing told me he could only fuck/cum from missionary if he was really into her. Otherwise it’d be doggy.

Definitely missionary feels more like making love to me, especially if it isn’t super raunchy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a guy not want to kiss or have eyecontact from here. So I don’t think it’s true,

It was passionate sex and obviously with some, it even went into cuddles

So u may be surprised …

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I love a bit if missionary, it's great for eye contact and feeling the body on top of you.

Definitely preferred to the bend over and fuck.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Missionary is my favourite position

And mine, I like the intimacy."

That’s good to know

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By *andyfloss2000Woman
over a year ago

ashford

Allways prefer doggy unless it's someone I'm in a relationship with x

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By *arriedcoupleNECouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Missionary is a solid yes from both of us, never disappoints, but we've plenty of time for others depending on mood.

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By *ll4givingMan
over a year ago

WsM

Reverse cow girl is an alternative option to doggy. Still get a great view of that ass working it

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

“One last note, as the penetrator some missionary variations are like a stress position and can take a lot of core muscle, it's harder to maintain (for the unfit!); whereas doggy is far less of a strain, can pick up a rhythm and keep plugging away for as long as needed with minimal effort so I can see why some may prefer it OP!”

That genuinely surprises me as I’d always thought doggy was the one required more strength, every day is an education

Question - is doggy better for physically stimulating cock? I agree with pp most guys seem to cum more quickly with doggy than other positions

“Maybe talk to the person your with so you can both enjoy yourselves”

I don’t think anyone saying not to do this or that they don’t but it’s interesting to discuss with others too

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By *utdooorsyguyMan
over a year ago

town

I love the intimacy that missionary gives, being able to see the pleasure you are giving, eye contact, more skin on skin contact, being able to passionately kiss at the same time, having legs wrapped around your body pulling you closer in ...

I think I need a cold shower...

But yes, I think it's underrated and there's so much you can do to spice it up if you need to, hand around throat or squeezing a nipple,

Far more versatile than people give it credit for!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As much as I like eye contact and missionary for closeness and intimacy of a certain kind,theres something about being bent over that gets places missionary doesn't.

When he's got hold of my hips and it's a dam hard fuck, or he's got my hair wrapped up in his hand and is pulling... Well produces moans of a different kind!

There's a time and a place for them all I think. Depends on the mood at the time doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm very curious as to some comments about intimacy.

Surely having sex with someone is the most intimate thing you can do? So why should the position matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm very curious as to some comments about intimacy.

Surely having sex with someone is the most intimate thing you can do? So why should the position matter? "
its not intimacy its into me i see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Until getting together both of us were quite adverse to missionary, but we absolutely love it. In fairness we love it in every position, but our love of missionary has come as a real surprise to us. It's just the fact you can have the most amazing kissing at the same time as really deep penetration that seems to be doing it for us. So I suppose it's the kissing that's made it so good. Can't do that with doggy

Mr.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Missionary would always be my first choice. Yea other positions are fun but with missionary you're looking each other in the face, there's kissing, lips, neck, breasts. There's the eye contact at the moment of penetration and the moment of orgasm.

With missionary you both have some control, either can speed things up or slow them down. Legs around the waist, over the shoulders, gripped by the ankles and spread wide.

Definitely not boring.

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum

"Agree. Can’t stand doggy. I can live without it "

Would you kneel for it then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is doggy more of a male dominance thing?

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By *utdooorsyguyMan
over a year ago

town

"I'm very curious as to some comments about intimacy.

Surely having sex with someone is the most intimate thing you can do? So why should the position matter? "

For me, I feel there's more connection when there's eye contact, kissing and more interaction with the other person. I'm not saying I dislike doggy style but if I'm wanting to be passionate and intimate then it's missionary. If it's just a hard fuck then it's from behind and other positions for any thing in-between

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I have no aversion to missionary, I actually enjoy it, especially for anal

This is why I prefer repeat meets with friends; you just can't do 'everything' on a one-off......

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By *ettaManMan
over a year ago

Kerry and Dublin

Missionary is my favourite position bcos it just feels the best. Next is cowgirl.Then her lying on her side, one knee bent towards the chest.

Doggy doesn't feel that good for me but my partners seem to enjoy it a lot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with everything you day apart from the part you are butt ugly

Eye contact is hot and sexy.

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