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By *heNerdyFemby OP   Woman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

... do you think scares away the most potential meets on this site?

I will start: I think it is a tie between a trans woman who hasn't had surgery and being a raging leftist

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

My height

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By *heNerdyFemby OP   Woman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"My height "

Oh no... I LOVE a tall woman!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

I'm not sure. I don't think anything really does. Maybe me having a partner?

Oh, got it. My waffling. Fuck knows how a person's libido survives that around me.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent

My fat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My fat. "

my cock

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

My husband

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By *heNerdyFemby OP   Woman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"My fat. "

I'd put that right after what I already listed!

(if it helps I think your curves are amazing!)

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By *eachPreacherMan
over a year ago

Kent/London

That thing I see in the mirror, like all of that

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By *heNerdyFemby OP   Woman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"My husband "

For clarification:

a) Your husband saying no to potential meets?

b) People not wanting to meet because you have a husband?

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By *aspar78Man
over a year ago

derbyshire

My Profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My husband "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

My preferences and how I do fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My everything.

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By *oo..Woman
over a year ago

Boo's World

My charming ways

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 27/06/22 17:09:20]

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

My insecurity probably!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The fact im not sure what i want and im too volatile with my moods and the way i struggle to let go of myself and im unable to let go of my past

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My preferences and how I do fab. "

my teeny weeny bit lol

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"My preferences and how I do fab.

my teeny weeny bit lol"

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton


"My husband

For clarification:

a) Your husband saying no to potential meets?

b) People not wanting to meet because you have a husband?"

C) my husband talking to people and scaring them off

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"The fact im not sure what i want and im too volatile with my moods and the way i struggle to let go of myself and im unable to let go of my past "

That was refreshingly honest and raw

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By *heNerdyFemby OP   Woman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"My husband

For clarification:

a) Your husband saying no to potential meets?

b) People not wanting to meet because you have a husband?

C) my husband talking to people and scaring them off"

LOL that is a challenge for sure!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My over the top sparkly personality.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

My humour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dick.. it's like they don't expect it or something.

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli

My sarcasm probably

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Don’t like my belly currently or hips , need to loose some weight x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My dick.. it's like they don't expect it or something."

pmsl lol

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

My profile.

Or my stupid sense of humour.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts


"My face lol"

Don’t be daft

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My contrary personality!

And my weight.

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath


"... do you think scares away the most potential meets on this site?

I will start: I think it is a tie between a trans woman who hasn't had surgery and being a raging leftist"

Mutton dressed as lamb.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not sure. I don't think anything really does. Maybe me having a partner?

Oh, got it. My waffling. Fuck knows how a person's libido survives that around me."

And there was me thi king it was your cheese addiction!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea but by the amount of contact/responses I receive I’d say all of me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wobbly bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a large lady

Serious lack of confidence

And lastly i'm abit shy

Combined they make for a rather shite swinger

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

The fact I'm not available at the drop of a hat or that I can be nervous about some things so want to ask questions before meeting rather than just saying yes.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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"I'm not sure. I don't think anything really does. Maybe me having a partner?

Oh, got it. My waffling. Fuck knows how a person's libido survives that around me.

And there was me thi king it was your cheese addiction!"

It gives me my generous curves, why would someone be put off by that?

P.S good to read you again!

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

I am a single man!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the fact my vag opens up like a demogorgon's face and bites their dick right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That i wont take any shit from anyone and tend to be blunt

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

They want to meet straight away and I don’t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a single man! "

This too

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By *ehindHerEyesCouple
over a year ago

SomewhereOnlyWeKnow

My weight and the fact I'm in a relationship.... hell the latter's stopped people talking full stop

Tg x

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Probably the fact my vag opens up like a demogorgon's face and bites their dick right off "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact im not sure what i want and im too volatile with my moods and the way i struggle to let go of myself and im unable to let go of my past

That was refreshingly honest and raw "

looking at you lots norks is really helping tho a few even make my winky hard and spitty so thats progress i suppose

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

My superfluous third nipple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That I don't dress fully or don't do anal

And some of my forum posts may put people off

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By *rC99Man
over a year ago

Liverpool

Probably the amount of tattoo's i have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People only willing to meet others that are severely left wing has put a few dents in the calendar, mrs is alternative but mr is in finance but surely unless you’re quoting economic policy over drinks or ruining a blowjob by trying to explain your union’s latest manifesto when your mouth should be full, what does it matter?

That and when we say we like anal, most couples say “my fella loves anal I hate it, can he just use yours” that’s not a couple enjoying anal. The number of pics “categorised” as Anal (m giving f receiving) on here is now mainly single guys (without published verifications so who knows who the other women out there) giving women anal, or mf with the female pegging the guy (very hot but the wrong category)

God that got ranty. Sorry, keen to hear thoughts

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito

My lardy arse, pot belly and beige/magnolia personality

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By *pYaMan
over a year ago

Ready…

Being male

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By *adyBugsWoman
over a year ago

cognito


"The fact im not sure what i want and im too volatile with my moods and the way i struggle to let go of myself and im unable to let go of my past "

That just makes me want you more *drooling emoticon* I love a challenge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All sounds lovely to us. Always looking to enjoy a large bum xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age..

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

My figure and my age.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My stubbornness

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield

My age and average size weiner

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

My fussiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmmm…probably everything lol but in particular me being non-binary and my mental illnesses. I make it pretty clear in my bio now about my mental illnesses so yeah. Also my reluctance to send photos

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston


"The fact im not sure what i want and im too volatile with my moods and the way i struggle to let go of myself and im unable to let go of my past

That was refreshingly honest and raw looking at you lots norks is really helping tho a few even make my winky hard and spitty so thats progress i suppose "

Oh well, yes, good effort

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact im not sure what i want and im too volatile with my moods and the way i struggle to let go of myself and im unable to let go of my past

That was refreshingly honest and raw looking at you lots norks is really helping tho a few even make my winky hard and spitty so thats progress i suppose

Oh well, yes, good effort "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The fact im not sure what i want and im too volatile with my moods and the way i struggle to let go of myself and im unable to let go of my past

That just makes me want you more *drooling emoticon* I love a challenge "

id give you a tissue but based on my recent pic adds iv probly run out

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

My mouth I can be mouthy little bitch and what I think. I'm not little and sweet like they think I would be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My Dad Bod

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

I'm stoic unless excited.


"I'm not sure. I don't think anything really does. Maybe me having a partner?

Oh, got it. My waffling. Fuck knows how a person's libido survives that around me."

Standard. I'm used to it plus I listen well.

C

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds


"People only willing to meet others that are severely left wing has put a few dents in the calendar, mrs is alternative but mr is in finance but surely unless you’re quoting economic policy over drinks or ruining a blowjob by trying to explain your union’s latest manifesto when your mouth should be full, what does it matter?

That and when we say we like anal, most couples say “my fella loves anal I hate it, can he just use yours” that’s not a couple enjoying anal. The number of pics “categorised” as Anal (m giving f receiving) on here is now mainly single guys (without published verifications so who knows who the other women out there) giving women anal, or mf with the female pegging the guy (very hot but the wrong category)

God that got ranty. Sorry, keen to hear thoughts"

Ah I am definitely going to message you. I love debate and bouncing thoughts off people.

C

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By *heVonMatterhornsCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

My legs and my awkwardness.

K

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London

Not wanting a conversation before agreeing to meet.

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By *awpleasureMan
over a year ago

Sutton Coldfield


"Not wanting a conversation before agreeing to meet."

You think by not wanting a conversation prior to a meet, puts guys off you???

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

The fact that I don't want sex very probably. Aside from my foul mouth and suspicion of bullshit of course.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know what scares them away from me, It’s their loss right?…..right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to get to know someone before I'll feel comfortable and especially before I'll have sex with them.

We don't have a lot of free time to socialise and meet people so have to plan stuff in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... do you think scares away the most potential meets on this site?

I will start: I think it is a tie between a trans woman who hasn't had surgery and being a raging leftist"

I see no problems there, just geographical ones!

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

My ugly Sloth (from the Goonies) face ....Hey you guyyysss

Don't laugh too hard I only have one face

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By *hinstrapMan
over a year ago

Barnsley

My face....

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk


"I don’t know what scares them away from me, It’s their loss right?…..right? "

I don't know what scared you off but your right their loss

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

My filters

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"... do you think scares away the most potential meets on this site?

I will start: I think it is a tie between a trans woman who hasn't had surgery and being a raging leftist"

Hi op. Definitely my gob in my case. I’m marmite - people either love me or hate me. To any chap looking for a shy, quiet demure woman I’m hell on earth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age

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By *not123Couple
over a year ago

sp1

My body shape

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a skinny sod

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By *rs D.Woman
over a year ago

Tyne And Wear

Insecure with my bodyshape, big tum and bum

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By *his_Kitty_ScratchesWoman
over a year ago

WSM

Either I talk too much or I make an assumption they won’t like me in person/I feel they are out of my league

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By *ad NannaWoman
over a year ago

East London


"Not wanting a conversation before agreeing to meet.

You think by not wanting a conversation prior to a meet, puts guys off you???"

No, they're put off me because I want the conversation and they don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite often distance is the issue for people wanting to meet with me or us.

NBVN x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

All of me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably the fact I'm not meeting. Who'd have thought that'd put people off??

When I was meeting.... probably my hair, for being either grey or short, or both. And because I'm socially inept.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I turn abit mumsy in clubs asking blokes life story and being abit of a therapist, its not a very sexy approach tbf

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By *ustauseerTV/TS
over a year ago

Sedgemoor

I got told that I’m a bad person for asking someone not to drink alcohol infront of me.

I refuse to be around alcohol, turn up sober or don’t turn up.

I also got told I don’t pass well by some upstart dickhead. Idc if I pass, shove your passing stereotypes in a bin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am fifty seven got bit stomach

Don’t feel attractive or sexy at all

Stems from my formative years I think

In children’s home from very very young

Left the home straight in to lodgings

Never felt loved

Can talk for Britain

Have good personality talk to much sometimes

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By *heNerdyFemby OP   Woman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)


"I got told that I’m a bad person for asking someone not to drink alcohol infront of me.

I refuse to be around alcohol, turn up sober or don’t turn up.

I also got told I don’t pass well by some upstart dickhead. Idc if I pass, shove your passing stereotypes in a bin. "

Passing is bullshit, if you don't fit their idea of X thats a them problem!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"... do you think scares away the most potential meets on this site?

I will start: I think it is a tie between a trans woman who hasn't had surgery and being a raging leftist"

Weirdly I think it’s because I’m a trans woman who has had surgery.

Seems like people who are interested in trans want the original equipment intact so to speak and a lot of others avoid me for not being a born woman . Feels like being between a rock and a hard place sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My husband "

Mr

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

My age and how picky I am

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"... do you think scares away the most potential meets on this site? "

My tiny cock

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By *ammo89Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"My fat.

my cock"

Don't think that's scaring anyone away man. I'm sure you get plenty of offers by being that size

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being outspoken. However, her ladyship is a useful lure to help catch people. Unfortunately she keeps catching bloody men

Mr

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Being outspoken. However, her ladyship is a useful lure to help catch people. Unfortunately she keeps catching bloody men

Mr"

She just watched me fall over and laughed at me

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By * U mineMan
over a year ago

Fun

My mind.

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

My zero tolerance for bs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being outspoken. However, her ladyship is a useful lure to help catch people. Unfortunately she keeps catching bloody men

Mr

She just watched me fall over and laughed at me "

She's like that. Nothing amuses her ladyship more than a slip, trip or a fall.

Mr

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth


"I got told that I’m a bad person for asking someone not to drink alcohol infront of me.

I refuse to be around alcohol, turn up sober or don’t turn up.

I also got told I don’t pass well by some upstart dickhead. Idc if I pass, shove your passing stereotypes in a bin. "

I don't allow alcohol on meets either

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By *iscean_dreamMan
over a year ago

Llanelli


"Being outspoken. However, her ladyship is a useful lure to help catch people. Unfortunately she keeps catching bloody men

Mr

She just watched me fall over and laughed at me

She's like that. Nothing amuses her ladyship more than a slip, trip or a fall.

Mr"

To be fair, me neither

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By *atfuckerbristolMan
over a year ago

Wells

It’s the belly, for sure!

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

Being a wheelie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My face"

Jinx lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've no idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My face

Jinx lol"

Hello

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"My fat. "
same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My face

Jinx lol

Hello"

Hi.....definitely not your face x

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By *eroLondonMan
over a year ago

Mayfair

My cultural background.

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By *carlet_woman_xxWoman
over a year ago

somewhere

Im strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don’t know what scares them away from me, It’s their loss right?…..right?

I don't know what scared you off but your right their loss "

Scared me off, from you? Nothing … we should fight to settle this small argument. Wearing nothing but our underwear. In a pool. Smothered in baby oil. First one to to get pinned to the floor with the other on top for 10mins is the winner

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

My existence

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"All of me x"
you may believe that but you would be wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liking anal. Puts women off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sacrasm I sprinkle it like glitter.

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport


"... do you think scares away the most potential meets on this site?

I will start: I think it is a tie between a trans woman who hasn't had surgery and being a raging leftist"

I suspect it enrages some people that I'm a left of centre, halfway intelligent, empathetic, peace wanting, non-op trans, decent human being who cares very much about the things wrong with the world, and hates the slimy douchebags that cause those problems for their own selfish ends.

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