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By *r happy and fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I don't mind this site at all but I get a lot more attention on regular dating apps and a lot more fun and far more meets. Are single men that far down the food chain here! or is it the norm because men here are 10 to one or something . Keen to know stay safe all!.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I'm no expert but I do wonder if it's partly down to the attitude of people using the site. Could it be that people subtly alter their approach to each other on here?

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By *ighty_tightyMan
over a year ago

Norfolk/Suffolk


"I don't mind this site at all but I get a lot more attention on regular dating apps and a lot more fun and far more meets. Are single men that far down the food chain here! or is it the norm because men here are 10 to one or something . Keen to know stay safe all!. "

Think about it for a minute.

40 or 50,000 active members

Almost all of those are looking for a single lady.

How many unicorns do you think there is? A much smaller amount than there is single gents

Let's take tinder as and example, that's a 9/1 male female ratio. It's never going to be that good here ever

Dating apps will give you a better chance of a meet, statistically.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Is it that people here are looking for compatible swingers as opposed to just ONS or FWB?

Swinging means different things to different people, and its likely that people who use other sites don’t consider themselves swingers?

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"I don't mind this site at all but I get a lot more attention on regular dating apps and a lot more fun and far more meets. Are single men that far down the food chain here! or is it the norm because men here are 10 to one or something . Keen to know stay safe all!. "

I'm curious about how this question relates to the title you gave the thread. I thought you were going to ask what type of arrangement people are looking for.

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By *r happy and fun OP   Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Good reply!

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I'm no expert but I do wonder if it's partly down to the attitude of people using the site. Could it be that people subtly alter their approach to each other on here?"

I agree. Men on dating sites at least pretend to be interested in more than just my vagina .

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By *coobyBoobyDooWoman
over a year ago

M1 J22

I don’t tend to approach men on here, I find I get enough compatible men approaching me to fulfil my needs, however on dating sites I definitely went looking and did my fair share of swiping and messaging with first contact.

As others are alluding to in their responses, this is essentially a swinging site so most people here would expect to find other swingers and not ons / hookups / fwb / fb perhaps? Read the profiles, do the leg work and you’ll possibly get some great results I consider myself very lucky with the contacts I’ve made here and all have been through the men approaching me in the first instance iirc.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"I don't mind this site at all but I get a lot more attention on regular dating apps and a lot more fun and far more meets. Are single men that far down the food chain here! or is it the norm because men here are 10 to one or something . Keen to know stay safe all!. "

I think it's more like 100 to 1 possibly higher

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