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By *uss49k OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter

When i was married we were watching telly n if two male actors kissing i would say Ewwww turn it off compounding my disgust at the image.

However when she'd go out to her job id get naked put on some gay porn n chat with other men online whilst wanking lol.

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By *tarflyLouWoman
over a year ago

Preston

No, I’ve never done that

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham

Seems like you need to be true to yourself a bit more.

Why did you shun it in front of your wife?

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By *inballs99Man
over a year ago

Blackheath

So you lived trapped in the closet ! I find hiding and lying is tiring!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it a little bit sad that you felt you couldn’t be yourself around your wife.

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

That's sad

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By *artwivahartTV/TS
over a year ago

Biggin Hill

Nope never been married ....lol done the gay porn stuff tho...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was she a bit of a homophobe that you needed to display disgust like that?

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Not something I have done.

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)

I feel so sad you felt you:

a) had to hide who you were

and

b) even if you were 100% straight felt you needed to 'voice disgust' at something that should be as normal as heterosexual couples kissing

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"I feel so sad you felt you:

a) had to hide who you were

and

b) even if you were 100% straight felt you needed to 'voice disgust' at something that should be as normal as heterosexual couples kissing"

Your point B is exactly what I was about to type. Thinking about it, I would imagine that kind of OTT reaction would arouse more suspicion than less...if that's what the OP was worried about.

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By *uss49k OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter

She wasn't against bi or gay people i had been struggling with my sexuality since early teens but locked it in a vault when i met her i did tell her i had experimented with other men.

We were happily married 17yrs until she had to borrow my phone n her gay brother sent me a text n picture of me n him naked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some years ago a former boss guessed I was gay. His response was to tell me - in front of about 70 colleagues - that I “should be gassed”.

It set me back.

So I can understand why you felt the need to behave that way.

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By *innocentMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton

Anymore in the closet, they'd be in Narnia

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By *uss49k OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter

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By *uss49k OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter


"Some years ago a former boss guessed I was gay. His response was to tell me - in front of about 70 colleagues - that I “should be gassed”.

It set me back.

So I can understand why you felt the need to behave that way. "

Omg how awful!!

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"

We were happily married 17yrs until she had to borrow my phone n her gay brother sent me a text n picture of me n him naked. "

That doesn't sound like "happily married" to me, but it seems you're in a better place now.

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By *uss49k OP   Man
over a year ago

Exeter


"

We were happily married 17yrs until she had to borrow my phone n her gay brother sent me a text n picture of me n him naked.

That doesn't sound like "happily married" to me, but it seems you're in a better place now. "

Actually we were until birth of our 2nd son she went right off sex & i went looking for someone to fulfil what id been missing apart from very vanilla sex.

Tbh i have more luck with males these days n considering to come out as gay

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