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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

How do you feel about receiving compliments? I love to pay them when messaging but feel sometimes it might be perceived as being too keen too early.Is there a right time to pay a compliment and is too many considered a bit creepy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to be really freaked out receiving compliments, for a long time I didn’t believe in myself. I’m getting better at it lately.

I enjoy giving compliments, which I mean when I say them, rather than saying them for any gain.

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Must admit they go over my head on here. Different if I know someone or been speaking to them for a while but when you get countless “you’re stunning” “you’re beautiful” messages when you’re just showing a pair of legs it kinda doesn’t mean a lot

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Not at all creepy! I’m awkward with compliments - one is enough though. It’s hard to know what to say if someone pays more than one compliment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I appreciate genuine compliments. If it's because they want something or just wanna hang out the back of me, not so much. I also hate over complimenting, like I know I'm fantastic but jesus rain it in pedro.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a bit awkward receiving compliments online, can feel a bit copy/paste though I’m sure sincerely meant

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By *atfuckerbristolMan
over a year ago

Wells

I can dish them out but I can’t take them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate compliments specially from guys i dont know on here or have never spoke to, its quite cringey

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

On here, I think they're mostly an insincere lazy way of trying to ingratiate yourself to someone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, on here they mean fuck all.

You see guys saying the same stuff to multiple women on threads and it's just

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By *ames5169 OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"To be honest, on here they mean fuck all.

You see guys saying the same stuff to multiple women on threads and it's just "

So what’s the best approach? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest, on here they mean fuck all.

You see guys saying the same stuff to multiple women on threads and it's just

So what’s the best approach? X"

You're really asking the wrong person.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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Too many is quite intense regardless of how long you've known each other, so definitely don't do that when messaging someone on Fab.

I think if you're overthinking it too much, it won't come across as sincere and genuine. Say something nice if that's what you think in the moment, not because you want inside/around them and not because you want to get one back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As others have said, on here a compliment is generally not always genuine, if it’s sincere, or someone I know then yes, I’m getting better at accepting them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Compliments make me squirm.

Never grew up with them and consequently I never know how to react to them (I tend to deflect and rely on self depreciating humour) x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I love giving compliments and only give genuine ones I really mean. I feel really awkward receiving them about, especially if it's about how I look, not that it happens very often. Luke

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

We usually try and pick up something from profile to compliment on in initial messages. It shows you've read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind giving and receiving them, it is nice to say nice things if you mean them.

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

I love to give compliments to anyone

I'll comment if I like someone's clothes, hair etc

I don't get compliments often and they don't sit well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its nice to give and receive compliments, as long as they are sincere.

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By *ob Carpe DiemMan
over a year ago

Torquay

I'm sorry I read condiments, I'll find another thread

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