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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I can’t lie since I’ve come back on this website being the shade that I am I feel like it’s so difficult to find somebody on here without them expecting/wanting something from you. Not tryna make it a race thing but it’s so infuriating when you’re just a genuine person trying to meet somebody and just have one night of fun

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By *unnoisseurMan
over a year ago

Stratford

Do you think you’re not getting anywhere because you’re black!!!?

Have you not seen the amount of women and couples looking for BBC.

They’re not talking about the broadcasting corporation

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By *atnip make me purrWoman
over a year ago

Reading

What do you mean that they are expecting some of you?

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By *ora the explorerWoman
over a year ago

Paradise, Herts

Not trying to make it a race thing? But you did. Most of us don’t see a shade.

You don’t have an avatar or a profile text

It’s difficult for any man on here. Ask them!

The is it coz I’m this that or the other quite frankly puts me off, obviously I can’t speak for anyone else.

It’s all about effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What has race got to do with getting meets?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you think you’re not getting anywhere because you’re black!!!?

Have you not seen the amount of women and couples looking for BBC.

They’re not talking about the broadcasting corporation "

But what if you're black and don't have a BBC, maybe that's the expectation.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"Do you think you’re not getting anywhere because you’re black!!!?

Have you not seen the amount of women and couples looking for BBC.

They’re not talking about the broadcasting corporation

But what if you're black and don't have a BBC, maybe that's the expectation. "

Well one of his photos suggests he's fine. Another suggests he has really small hands....

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By *ever247Woman
over a year ago

Trowbridge

"...difficult to find somebody on here without them expecting/wanting something from you.."

What I want from you?

As a woman just new in the swingers scene, it's difficult to get anyone to want to meet me for a simple coffee/drink and chat to see if we get on/i feel attracted. I don't feel comfortable just meeting and jumping right into sex in a 1 to 1 or 2 to 1 situation as I don't feel safe.

However, if I meet people at a swingers club/party then a one nite of fun in the future is probably a for-sure thing becauseweve met and/or had sexy fun already! Lol.

I expect/want this.

Hope it helps.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Ok I Looked at your profile. The fact that your black has nothing to do with you not being successful

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fair enough tbh, I didn’t mean to upset anybody really I was just saying from the messages I get, like some of them are rude for no reason just thought there was somebody on here who has dealt with it and knows how to deal with it, didn’t mean to cause an uproar

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Every single guy on here has problems

For every single guy to get just one meet a year every woman would need to be meeting 3x a week, which lets face it won't happen

The numbers simply don't add up, skin colour may well be a factor, but so is height, facial hair, body type, location etc

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