FabSwingers.com forum: so he just deleted his profile

By *ingdang OP TV/TS
over a year ago

Manchester

After weeks of daily chatting, planing for a meet, and talking about emotion and feeling of love, he just deleted his profile? No other way of contact, because I didn't want to exchange number till I meet someone.

Feeling quite crap at the moment. Anyone else had similar feeling? Yes I know its a sex site, but we are all human, ain't we?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't worry about it cause it's his loss , it happens on here more than you think , just time wasters.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You mean he had a wife and had a major trip of guilt! Better off without people like that in your life. Fantasists the lot of them!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

That's why you take everything said on here with a pinch of salt. Believe nothing until you've met that person face to face x

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

You need a thick skin for this site, things like this happen daily and I find the longer you talk before meeting the more likely something like this will happen

Don't take it to heart it happens to us all, brush yourself down and move on to the next one

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

"That's why you take everything said on here with a pinch of salt. Believe nothing until you've met that person face to face x"

100 percent this .As sad as it is for you he was probably a fantasist who has a family ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah sweetheart

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah that's crappy, I guess it's the non closure that makes it worse. But I bet the reason wasn't your fault.

He might be back.

I had one that kept deleting and reappearing, at first I liked him then it becomes draining. You're worth more x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"That's why you take everything said on here with a pinch of salt. Believe nothing until you've met that person face to face x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least he's shown you who he really is before you did meet OP. I imagine it would sting more if he ghosted you after meeting.

Try not to take it to heart. It happens often here. Go find someone to take your mind off it

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By *ayandsusieMan
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I sympathise because a dom bi guy led me on for ages, forbid me from ejaculating, obtained lots of private info and let me demean myself online and by phone as I tried to please him until we met.

Then the day of our meeting he blanked me.

What pleasure did he get?

A lot less than if we had met, surely?

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

"After weeks of daily chatting, planing for a meet, and talking about emotion and feeling of love, he just deleted his profile? No other way of contact, because I didn't want to exchange number till I meet someone.

Feeling quite crap at the moment. Anyone else had similar feeling? Yes I know its a sex site, but we are all human, ain't we?"

I've had this a few times. Never feels any easier.

There is someone out there who is real and with whom you will click. There's just a lot of frogs to get through first.

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

Hopefully you'll not invest so much of yourself in future

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Aww I'm sorry to read this ,

If he comes back like most do,don't let him string you along op .

Bug hug x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So, in a few weeks he will rejoin and no doubt seek you out with a load of excuses such as.....

Work has been hectic

Family member was sick

He caught covid

His feeling for you were so intense that he had to "take a step back" to avoid getting hurt

Be ready for it as it will 100% come.

Then hit the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or maybe he does have a valid reason and sometimes it's easier to think the worst. Give it a while and see how things go.

Plus , plenty more swingers in the jungle

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

“Feelings of love”. For someone you’ve never met?

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By *remiumbondMan
over a year ago

Morpeth

Too many people like that on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

His wife must have found out about his account.

Not your fault

Forget him and move on

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By *heNerdyFembyWoman
over a year ago

Eastbourne (she/they)

"“Feelings of love”. For someone you’ve never met? "

Yup you don't need physical proximity to have the chemical reaction we call love. It is all dopamine and norepinephrine being released during attraction, that can entirely happen through a screen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"“Feelings of love”. For someone you’ve never met? "

It does happen.

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